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Nigeria is the country with the 3rd highest absolute number of children who are stunted( a condition that affects a child’s cognitive; mental abilities).

41% of children under the age of five are stunted, 23% are underweight, and 14 % are wasted.

Dowlan Concepts has continued to be at the fore front of sensitizing parents on how to give proper nutrition to their children, our nutrition advocacy campaign has yielded beautiful results, but we are not satisfied. Each time we see malnourished children, our hearts bleed.

Dear parent, can u please join this worthwhile campaign of “good Nutrition” to end hunger, stunted growth, wastage for our children.

We are counting on you parents. Get our newest book on “children nutrition” today and save the lives of the children God has given you and the lovely kids around you.

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This is for our children…..
Dowlan Concepts, our children’s health, our goal

Sexuality is a rarely discussed topic in Nigeria. When it is discussed, it is in hushed tones or cloaked in shame and guilt, especially among young people. Making matters worse, many health-care practitioners bring their biases onboard when dealing with clients, which has led people to make poor choices with lifelong effects. Florida Uzoaru, a public health and policy graduate and the founder of MerDroits, is leveraging the power of the internet to address these issues.

MerDroits — an amalgamation of the French word merde, which means “sex” and droits, meaning “rights” — began officially in February 2016, when Uzoaru opened a Twitter account. Now, every Friday at 6 p.m., different hosts share their stories on sex and sexuality. Some write anonymously, while others reveal their identities.

Uzoaru hopes for a time when everyone can speak freely about sex. With the byline “Destigmatising all conversations about sex,” her Twitter account now has more than 1,000 followers and over 13,000 tweets. MerDroits sparks conversations on “taboo” subjects, such as anal sex, abortion, domestic violence, rape, child sexual abuse, sexual assault, consent, birth control, vaginal atrophy and more.

Through regular conversations on Twitter and Facebook, MerDroits creates safe, judgment-free spaces where young people can talk about their sexual and reproductive health. #MerDroits60 focuses on personal sex stories, and #WhatResearchSays debunks sexual myths with research. Uzoaru believes that technology is central to the key goal of disseminating information about sex rights, as it is affordable, accessible, and provides anonymity.

“Technology has made things easy, cheaper. Being online, you can reach far more people than you would have offline. What about safety? You are not thinking of the dangers associated with long-distance travel,” says Uzoaru.

She also points out that in a society with a weak medical infrastructure, access to sexual and reproductive health is a double burden.

“Many ‘traditional’ healthcare spaces are clogged with cultural bias that considers some subjects taboo, and this jeopardizes access to quality treatment,” she says, adding, “Breaking through the wall is hard because many Nigerians are still uncomfortable to talk about [their] sexual and reproductive health.”

Uzoaru is busy working on a strategy for MerDroits to have an impact offline as well. With three facets to the business — an online shop for contraceptives; access to qualified, unbiased sexual and reproductive health practitioners; and access to laboratories for tests — MerDroits hopes to improve the availability of quality sexual and reproductive health care without stigma.

Composed of six doctors and a pharmacist, the MerDroits online store has kicked off in Lagos, Abuja and Port Harcourt, and Uzoaru looks forward to further growth.

“In five years, I hope we can operate nationally. I hope we can have about 100 doctors, 100 pharmacists and many nurses. There are a lot of things they can do for us, particularly some contraceptives that medical personnel can insert for us,” she says. “Many say that they had always wanted to be part of a group like this. People are also now confident to ask almost any question without that fear of reproach.”

Beyond the internet, Uzoaru looks forward to eventually running a sex clinic where all of these needs can be met.

Source: http://www.radianthealthmag.com

 

 

The Head of Service of the Federation Winifred Oyo-Ita has promised to give a house to the couple who newly delivered quintuplets at the National Hospital Abuja.

Oyo-Ita made the promise while visiting the children on Saturday in Abuja.

She said that the house will be given under the Federal Integrated Staff Housing (FISH) Scheme.

She also promised Imudia Uduehi, father of the quintuplets who is a graduate from the University of Ilorin, Kwara state a job with the Federal Civil Service. Uduehi, at the moment is unemployed.

She described the children as great blessings given to the couple by God on a platter of gold. She said the job offer to Uduehi will enable him cater for the children.

“I am very happy for you and I am standing here this afternoon representing the entire civil service of Nigeria. Today is a day of joy for all of us. Indeed you are a couple that has been so blessed by God. You have been married for just two years and God has blessed you with five children at once. I want to tell you that the Federal Integrated Staff Housing programme will be made available to you, we will give you a house that can accommodate you your husband and your five children,” Oyo-Ita said.

Oyo-Ita also presented cash gifts and diapers to them, thanking the doctors for their efforts in ensuring the babies and mothers are alive.

She applauded the medical team for taking care of the mother through the period of pregnancy and delivery.

Oluwakemi Uduehi, mother of the children who spoke on behalf of her family thanked the Head Of Service for her kind gesture. She is a staff of the National Population Commission.

Dr Bunmi Ladipo who delivered the babies said they were delivered through caesarean section and there was no complication.

He added that the mother had some challenges before delivery but was managed very well by the hospital. Oluwakemi gave birth to the babies when the pregnancy was eight months.

Ladipo added that this was his first time of delivering a set of five children.

Also Dr Audu Lamidi, Head Neo- Natal Intensive Care Unit, National Hospital said that the babies are very tender and more time is being devoted to their care.

According to him, many hospitals in Nigeria do not have the capacity or facility to cater for such multiple births.

He also called on government to provide the hospital with more specialised facilities and equipments to care and monitor this kind of birth.

“These babies are seen as blessings from God and we need more specialised facilities to enable us monitor them effectively in the first few months of their life. We need equipments such as incubators, ventilators and so on to support them. Though we have the basic tools for now, we need the specialised ones as these multiple births require more attention, time and care.’’

Also Yemi Adelakun, Permanent Secretary Common Services at the Office of the Head of the Civil Service of the Federation said that the house would be immediately given to the couple as directed by the Head of Service.

He added that the urgency was necessary to help them settle down and take care of their babies adequately.

The five children, all girls were born on April 12, 2017.

Against The Odds With Peace Hyde”
Forbes Woman Africa, the continent’s first-ever women’s interest magazine from the highly successful FORBES stable, launches its very first television show through FORBES AFRICA TV, in partnership with Ecobank.

On Friday, April 28, Forbes Woman Africa’s Against the Odds with Peace Hyde will premieres on CNBC Africa, adding another thought-provoking and inspirational lifestyle show to their arsenal. The show will feature women who are trailblazers in their respective fields of business and who inspire younger women to be bold and break boundaries, contributing to the narrative of growing female power on the African continent.

FORBES WOMAN AFRICA has teamed up with leading Pan African bank, Ecobank to launch the 12-part series celebrating the achievement of exceptional women in business.

Award-winning presenter and journalist, Peace Hyde, joins Editor of FORBES WOMAN AFRICA, Methil Renuka, in the premiere episode to discuss the vision behind the series.

Commenting on the importance of having a strong platform like FORBES WOMAN AFRICA translated from a print to a television platform Renuka noted: “Why only talk about the glass ceiling when you have ceiling-crashers who have done it all and can show the way. They may be very few, but they have had significant successes and a discerning show like this will be lessons from those who made it, to those who would like to scale those same heights and more, very much in line with FORBES WOMAN AFRICA’s own rich content philosophy.”

“The essence of the show is to really celebrate exceptional women. It’s about women who have tapped into their courage and persistence, and chosen to keep going in spite of all the hurdles. I think that in order for you to do that you need to have a very strong understanding of your purpose,” explains Peace Hyde.

“Against the Odds with Peace Hyde” premieres on CNBC Africa, Canal Plus Channel 171, DStv Channel 410 and StarTimes Channel 309 later this year.

Blessing Timidi Digha is the Executive Director and also works as the Community Mobilization and Advocacy Officer at African Girl Child Development and Support Initiative, a non-governmental, not for profit organization that advocates and works towards the advancement and development of the Nigerian Girl Child through Advocacy, Research and Interventions.  Her Foray into activism began actively during her stint with pregnancy as a teenager where her eyes were opened to the plights girl children faced when it came to Sexuality Education, Teenage Pregnancy and Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights. Today, she has dedicated at least ten years of her life working on issues and interventions as it relates to the girl child particularly in the Nigerian and African context and with much bias to Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights, Feminism and Gender Equality. She shares her story in this inspiring interview.

Growing up

My childhood and teenage years prepared me a lot for what I do now, in fact I will say my experiences shaped me for all I do. My experiences growing up in my family, church, my personal experiences especially with sexual debut and experimentation as a teenager , getting pregnant as a teenager, seeking for love in the wrong places, quest for knowledge and a whole lot prepared and shaped me with mostly first hand experiences and witnessing the experiences of others.

30 and daring

My name is Blessing Timidi Digha, I clocked 30 on the 5th of March, I am a mother to three beautiful children (two girls and a boy) and I advocate on Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights (SRHR) especially as it affects young girls and women and also consult on advocacy and community Mobilization/engagement. I run African Girl Child Development and Support Initiative. I identify as a feminist because I believe and advocate for EQUAL opportunities politically, economically, socially, educationally etc for both Male’s and Females. I am an ambivert with my introvert side more domineering except of course while I am at work where I can be very chatty and in your face but I like my privacy and quiet a lot. I am a Women Deliver Young Leader, a ONE Champion, a #Choice4Life advocate which are a few of the platforms where I contribute towards the rights of girls and SRHR. I love colours and can paint, draw and do some calligraphy, I also play with simple graphic designs, I am a creative in my own right who has also learnt do different many things *thanks to my mom*. I have a strong support system in my Family and partner who supports all my work  when I have to be away and need someone to take care of my kids, someone to talk to at any time or advice me. I am a polyglot (I speak a couple of Nigerian languages and learning to speak some foreign ones at the moment). I cry a lot (whether I am happy, sad, depressed, confused, disappointed, tired, anything, crying is the outlet for me). I love travelling.

 

Going into Advocacy

I started advocacy when I got pregnant as a teenager. My eyes got opened to the issues that girls face  as a result of lack of inadequate sexuality education which leads /can lead to teenage pregnancy among other things. So I started with Sexuality education which was strictly abstinence based. Along the line while developing myself and interacting with young girls, I realised no one is thinking of the young girls that have already debuted sex and how they will wade off unintended pregnancies or unsafe abortions amongst others or just make informed choices.. Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights covers a whole of issues especially issues that we especially as Africans/Nigerians don’t like to talk about or don’t see as an issue such as Menstruation, Female Genital Mutilation, Family Planning, WASH (Water, Sanitation and Hygiene), Consent, Child /Early/Forced Marriage, Rape, Unsafe Abortions and a whole lot. I also work also with individuals and organisations on issues that surround the rights and SRHR of girls and women and policies.

What inspires me

Nature abhors vacuum and a lot of things and people fill the vacuum. A lot of things and people inspire me. I am inspired by positive events as they affect the lives of girls and women Eg policy changes, structures etc. I am inspired by people who are doing something worthwhile and impacting lives positively. I am inspired by children especially their tenacity and persistence. I am inspired by colours

Greatest reward

The greatest reward I have ever gotten for what I do is when I get feedback that what I have taught  helped girls and women  to make informed choices as it regards their SRHR.

Challenges

In the line of work I have faced and still face criticism from people, brick walls from girls and women whose rights especially their SRHR has been violated when I try to step in, opposition from men who feel they should have the final say in the health and life of women even when the acts are obviously endangering the girls and women involved, , opposition from many religious institutions and leaders who feel some of ‘these’ things should not be talked about by religious leaders or on religious platforms when we seek to include them in sensitization, challenges in  getting the police  to act swiftly while trying to educate them on existing laws or policies that cover the issues at hand which they tend to mostly see as domestic issues, challenges in interacting with cultures that refuse to see certain acts as issues that violate the rights and SRHR of girls and women and lastly insults from some family members from time to time who always still bring up my experience with teenage pregnancy to judge my work.

My projects

  1. A reusable pad sewing hub- teenagers, young mothers are taught how to make reusable pads from clothing materials which are still neat but are no longer used to allow for dignity in periods especially as the price of sanitary pads keep skyrocketing. This way every girl and woman can manage her menstruation hygienically. We also work on issues surrounding menstruation Eg the possibility of Menstrual Leave, engaging policy makers in issues of Menstruation (WASH, availability of menstrual management products etc)
  2. Girls Support Club under the umbrella of African Girl Child Development and Support Initiative where girls and recently we have had boys join us to learn and talk about issues that affect girls and boys while growing up and how they can avoid these issues. We run self defence classes against sexual assault, keep a toilet clean, One pack of pad One Girl, Counselling etc as activities under this club. Safe spaces!!!!! This is one project I really really love. As the name implies it is a safe space for women and girls fleeing any form of abuse and a need a space void of judgement and forced opinions to get themselves together or decide on what next to do. I have had to use a safe space myself for sometime to evaluate my options and the way forward. This was born out of the inadequate support people face in abuse especially women where they are expected to stay and pray it out, stay for the kids etc when even as little as small space would have gone a long way to rectifying a lot or saving the person’s life. Presently we use the spare room in my apartment but a place in a highly secured area is being set up for official safe spaces residence and a few friends have also offered their residences as support safe spaces. . Storytelling – recently trained by The Moth on Storytelling, I have began exploring Storytelling in Advocacy and how we can use stories to tell issues in advocacy and SRHR in a bid to reach stakeholders/gatekeepers, policy makers, organizations, individuals and the entire public.

I felt like giving up several times

A time? A time is too small to quantify when I have wanted to give up. I have felt like giving up MANY times, when my finances don’t add up, when all the things I hear on the field keep ringing in my head, when I feel I am not spending enough time with my kids, so many times I have thought of it but then the next day I am at it all over again, Infact most times in the midst of my thoughts, something will just come up and I am back to doing I love doing. I also get encouraged by people.

My view on feminism

Feminism in Nigeria has always been here since the days of our mothers who led and sought out equal opportunities in all areas. Women like Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti, Margaret Ekpo, Flora Nwapa, Queen Amina, Buchi Emecheta, were all feminists. Despite the misinterpretation and ignorance oof Feminism in Nigeria by many people and its portrayal as women being rebels and not wanting to cook or wanting to put the men under their feet by men and women alike, Feminism in Nigeria is here to stay and we will eventually get it right. Patriarchy and sadly religion has portrayed women as weaker vessels and Nigerians use religion to justify everything, good or bad but eventually we will get it right with adequate sensitization and education of concepts in demanding equal opportunities for females and males in all sectors.

Being a woman of rubies

My contribution to the society advocating for Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights of girls and women and talking about topics that won’t be discussed in my own little corner.

Final word

Women’s rights are human rights. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

 

Hundreds of people including South African President, Jacob Zuma and other high-profile mourners gathered in Hebron in the North West on Friday for the funeral service of motivational speaker, Ontlametse Phalatse.

The 18-year-old ‘small girl with big personality’ as she was fondly called, died last Tuesday at Dr George Mukhari Academic Hospital in Ga-Rankuwa, outside Pretoria after experiencing breathing problems.

Phalatse suffered from Progenia, a rare genetic disorder which causes rapid premature aging. She was one of the two South Africans living with the disorder. Her doctor predicted that she would only survive until her 14th birthday but on March 25 she turned 18 after finishing her matric.

Her ambition was to see her family living in a decent house and owning a car. During his 75th birthday celebration, President Zuma presented Phalatse’s family with a car. Last month, the President also fulfilled the young girl’s other wish which was to meet him on her 18th birthday.

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When something is beyond some people’s comprehension, they call it a lie. It’s called Grace…:-). Media Personality, Toke Makinwa who is currently in USA for her book tour lectured a group of graduate students in NYU on Wednesday, April 19th. She shared new photos from the lecture and addressed people who claimed she lied about it. She wrote;
Aww…thank you Prof L.
Getting feedback of my guest lecture at NYU warms my heart. This was my first attempt at teaching and it went really well. To share my knowledge on brand building even while I’m still learning can only be a blessing from God and I am available to be further used by him. Was I nervous? Hell yeah. But just the thought of a Nigerian girl sharing her success story to a room full ofI multinational students was enough to push me. Funny thing is while the lecture was going on God used the ignorance of many to further illustrate my point to the class. The students checked me out online and found out I was trending and it led to questions about dealing with negative feedback from customers and how to deal with the not so great comments and it was nice to use a practical example. You can’t take the good alone, try as much as possible to cater to every customer there will be some that are completely hard to please and that’s ok! Keep working on your product, keep evolving and pushing the envelope, don’t get distracted, keep at it till you perfect your craft and even after you think you have, there’s still some room to become some more.
 
I pray my life inspires someone out there to be BOLD in the face of storms, I hope you take a chance and live unapologetically. #onbecomingaglobalbrand#NYU #guestlecturer #TMtotheworld #ProfessorTM

Veteran actress, Taiwo Ajai-Lycett, was a guest on the first episode of Kemi Adetiba’s Kingwomen Series. Did we love every bit of it? Here are our top 5 quotes from the much inspiring interview.

On confidence

“If you’re good, you don’t need anybody’s approval. That’s the passport to wherever it is you want to go. People would want to know you because it’s your mind that attracts them.”

On ageing

“I’ve accepted every stage of my life the way it comes. Everything that life gives to you, you should use. You shouldn’t worry about your body. The responsibility you owe your body is for it to be fit.”

On charting her own course

“I don’t believe in luck. I believe you make your luck. You create your own path. When you spend your time waiting for somebody to do it for you, you’re wasting time. They have their own lives to lead and live.”

On the need for knowledge

“Knowledge is of the essence. Why do we think we can just get there, not by learning? The greatest evil we have in the world is ignorance.”

On authenticity

“You’ve got to be your authentic self. I am not ashamed of who I am.  The Lord God made us in perfection.  It’s not my job to make anything easy for anybody, but it’s my job to authentic.”

See full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFlsebU2RtY

Source: Leadingladies Africa

Mumpreneur Tour Diary
Day 1: The Jobmag Center, Yaba

The panel for the Kick off session had Mr. Femi Onakanren, a serial entrepreneur, Mrs Maureen Iyasele, Sme coach and Founder The jobmag Center, our hosts of the day and of course your mumpreneur, Mofolusade Sonaike. It turned out to be a great mix of the passionate cheerleaders and the cynic who kept us grounded. Guess who our cynic was? I am not telling. Lol

We kicked off at a few minutes past 10, I was challenged to meet the first mumpreneur already waiting at the Center. The women we met today mainly had challenges with figuring out how to kickstart their new ideas and transition from full time employment to entrepreneurship. As is the case with many of us, our heads run amock with ideas that are all over the place and we often cannot move forward unless we streamline. Here are a few highlights from today’s sessions.

1.      Defining exactly what it is you want to do is critical

As basic as this might sound, it can get complicated and more often than not it does. It requires some brain storming and analysis to be able to drill down to your specific business offering. What is it you are offering to the market? Is it a product or a service? What is this product or service? You also need to keep it as simple and make it as clear as possible.

2.      Build expertise

Before you jump into any business, you need to be informed about what the business entails and get knowledge on the subject matter. How? Get training for instance, get a mentor or volunteer/intern with someone who is already doing what you want to do. Nothing beats experience.

3.      Avoid the trap of over analyzing, get out there and do

By the end of the sessions today, we had named Maureen the “Do-er”, lol! But hey like she kept saying, the taste of the pudding is in the eating. You can build financial models, draw up business plans and put down the best strategy on paper, until you actually get out there and do something, you will never know anything. Running a pilot of your business helps you get clarity.

Mumpreneur Tour Diary
Day 2: Gmoty Fashion Hub, Amuwo Odofin, Mile 2

Today was different, Mr. Kehinde Olagbenjo made a guest appearance for one of the sessions, so mumpreneur was a “lonely Londoner” for the most part of today’s sessions.

Omotola Omesebi, our host and founder of the hub, did a great job of spreading the word in her community, she had seven women waiting back to back to go through the sessions, most of which were either her current students at the fashion training school or past students running their own outfits already. So we has a some women who just didn’t know exactly where or how to start and some others who were looking to expand their market reach or reposition.

Here’s a summary of the top take aways from today;

1.      Be specific and detailed about your target audience

Many times when you ask people who their target audience is, they generalize and say things like – Women, Children, low to medium income earners (whatever this means, lol) etc. I got a lot of that today and helped these mumpreneurs realize the need to drill further to a more specific audience.  When I think about it, it’s a bit of wishful thinking to want to target all the women in Nigeria for instance with limited resources as a startup in the fashion industry. Serving your immediate community is hard enough, and if you can do that and do it well, you are more likely to have a business as opposed to trying to reach a  market, you do not have the resources to cater to.

One quote that I saw recently put it this way, when you try to talk to everybody, you end up talking to nobody. When your message is clearly targeted at a specific audience, your marketing efforts will almost always hit the target. For instance, a fashion designer who targets strictly plus sized women, is more likely to stand out and attract her target audience than a fashion designer who does every and anybody. Point is, to drill down to specifics, so much so that your ideal customer or target is a person you can visualize.

2.      A strong online presence is important

One of the participants lamented that she has had challenges attracting premium customers that can pay for the quality she offers. To her mind, she had identified her location as the reason for this and was considering relocating her store front to the island. While location can influence the cadre of clients you attract, social media and online mareting have removed such limitations and given businesses access to new markets without breaking the bank.

To buttress this, I gave her examples of businesses doing very well operating strictly online. Your positioning online is important and can send a message of either a premium or an inexpensive brand. There has to be a deliberate and consistent effort which is evident in your visual elements, the type of pictures you post (pictures are everything! I tell you), the way you communicate, your affiliations and mentions amongst other things. There’s a lot more to this, but this is just a summary and I am keeping it simple.

3.      Get a handle of your finances

Many of the women I spoke to today listed finance as one of their top challenges. I asked them to assume I was an investor looking to invest in them and then asked them to tell me precisely how much they needed and what they needed this amount for, I spared them the complexity of telling me what that investment would yield if they got it (not that, it isn’t important).

Let’s just say, all of them left convinced that finance was the least of their problems, Lol! I will be getting a lot of assignments turned in next week and we will take it from there.

If you have a business idea, don’t be scared to put pen on paper or hands on keyboard as the case may be to create your road map, set targets and timelines. A business model canvas is a great tool to get you started.

I must sleep now, we have Gbagada to tackle tomorrow. Let’s see what that locations holds.

Pictures from Day 2

Mumpreneur Tour Diary
Day 3: Jenniez School Of African Interior Design, Gbagada

When I was setting dates for the tour, I totally forgot today would be good Friday, a holiday. It’s funny because when in my banking days, I knew every single holiday on the calendar through the year, because I always just couldn’t wait. Lol. Anyways, I was a bit apprehensive today, wondering if the women who signed up for this location would show. If there’s anyting I have learnt in my entrepreneurship journey however, it is the determination to get up, dress up and show up, consistently even when I don’t feel like it. That’s what I did and yaaay, they showed.

I must appreciate my Brand Manager and Camera crew, they have been even more committed to this than I have been. Always ready to go. You guys rock!

My first participant was someone who only heard about the tour in passing a few days ago. She did mention that she was going to come, but I wasn’t sure she would, afterall it was a holiday. Alas, just as I got to the location and we started setting up, she walked in. Talk about someone who really wants to change her game! Go mama!.

Here’s a summary of the top take aways from today;

1.      Yes you are multi talented, but it’s more effective to Streamline

I don’t know if this is just my observation, but when you ask a Nigerian woman what she does, they always start with a sigh… like hmm, where do I start? Lol. This is because most times, they do myriads of different things, sometimes even totally unrelated. One of the women I met with, has a catering side hustle and runs a fashion outfit.

While it is good that we are oh so gifted and can multitask, streamlining and focusing on doing one thing and perfecting it is a key to success. Running a business that is properly structured requires a lot of work, work that is attractive and a lot that is un-attractive. To get the best results, I always suggest building and setting up one business at a time.

2.      Be clear on your business offering and communicate this clearly

Don’t confuse your potential clients. If you can’t communicate what your business offering in a simple sentence, it’s probably too complicated and needs to be simplified. Your business must have a core purpose i.e. the problem it was set up to solve. You can then define the services that business will offer in a clear and concise way.

What problem are you set up to solve? Henry Ford wanted to democratize the automobile – make it available to everyone. Bill Gates wanted to put the PC inside every home in America. Steve jobs wanted to put the powerful computer inside a phone – make it very easy to use.

3.      Don’t Operate Blind – Document your plan

I am sure you might be looking at this and wondering, this goes without saying, but hey from what I have seen, a good number of us have that phobia for sitting down and documenting our plans before we launch. I have also observed that this is so because we have this grandiose ideas about what a business plan should look like. Maybe some high level 50 page document with financial projections and models. Lol!

A business plan simply put is just your road map, unless you are applying for a grant or a bank loan, it doesn’t need to be overly complicated. It is meant to make you think about how you want to get from point A to point B. How much do you want to make this year? How many clients do you need to get you to that target sum? What are the things you need to put in place to serve that number of clients effectively? How much will it cost you to acquire and serve those clients. It can be that simple. You can break this down into monthly goals and objectives or even weekly, whatever works for you.

I enjoyed chatting with all these different women this week. Special thanks to Maureen Iyasele of the Jobmag center, yaba, Omotola Omosebi of Gmoty Fashion hub, Amuwo Odofin and Jennifer Chukwujekwe of Jenniez School Of African Interior Design, Gbagada. Next week we tour Ikeja, Ikoyi and Lekki. You can still register if you haven’t .


 

Mumpreneur Tour Diary
Day 4: The Plectrum Hub, Ikeja

We took Monday off to join Bellafricana in celebrating African creatives. It was a successful event that pulled together veterans in the Nigerian entrepreneurship space as well as the new much younger businesses all doing innovative things.

The tour kicked off anniversary activities at the Plectrum Hub. The Hub was launched fully in April last year and is celebrating the one-year mark with different activities all week long. The sessions held in Ikeja were quite interesting and as usual I will share the highlights here.

1.      Don’t get fixated on a particular element of your plan, be flexible in your approach

I have been down this road before. When I started my first business, I had this big picture of a super ecommerce website that would do all sorts of things. I wasn’t ready to move on till I had it exactly the way I wanted it. Even the designer I engaged advised me to start off with Facebook pages first but I wasn’t having it. So there I was not moving forward because I felt stuck. We went from design to design. I kept putting everything off till after the website.

When my first participant started to mention a particular concept she had hinged on getting a shop in a particular location, I immediately remembered that. She kept saying I have this plan once I get the space, I will do that once I get the space. Now it is good to know what you want and go for it, by all means. It becomes a problem however when it holds you hostage and you put everything else on hold because of it.

Guess what, I got my website eventually, but I never sold one single thing through that website because while I was so fixated on the website and it’s look and feel, I totally left out the important part, selling! It was beautiful, just as I pictured, but it didn’t convert.

Have a plan by all means, but don’t be fixated on one particular path. There are many ways to kill a cat. Keep your mind open.

2.      Life is in stages, Understand your reality and work around it

This is specifically for mumpreneurs. Most of the women I have spoken to during the course of this tour struggle with juggling raising toddlers (especially between the ages of 1 and 6) and running their business. One of them who bakes cakes, said she has to ensure all cakes for the day are out of the oven by 3p.m at the latest so she can do school run. Of course once the children are back with her, all major work comes to a halt pretty much.

I know many other mumpreneurs can relate to this. My boys are a bit older now and so it is less crazy for me, but I passed through this phase when I felt my productivity was at its lowest because I had toddlers to nurture. My advise to most of them is summarized below.

This is your reality; accept it. Put yourself on a routine, planning around the children. If you are in business for the long haul, know that the business is not going anywhere, especially if you take the needed time to set up a structure and document your systems and processes, such that any other person can execute.
Your Children on the other hand will grow up and move on some day, so enjoy this period with them, and do your part to instill the right values in them. Secondly, don’t hesitate to ask for help. The second mumprener I spoke to said she gets help from her Mum and her sisters when she is overwhelmed. They mind the children temporarily when she needs to attend to other things.

All in all, it’s a phase that will pass. Plan and take one day at a time.

I realize that each time I speak to these mumpreneurs, the learning is both ways. I always come away with something myself. Tomorrow we go to Ikoyi.