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A mother’s genetics determines how clever her children are, according to researchers, and the father makes no difference.

Women are more likely to transmit intelligence genes to their children because they are carried on the X chromosome and women have two of these, while men only have one.

But in addition to this, scientists now believe genes for advanced cognitive functions which are inherited from the father may be automatically deactivated.

A category of genes known as “conditioned genes” are thought to work only if they come from the mother in some cases and the father in other cases. Intelligence is believed to be among the conditioned genes that have to come from the mother.

Laboratory studies using genetically modified mice found that those with an extra dose of maternal genes developed bigger heads and brains, but had little bodies. Those with an extra dose of paternal genes had small brains and larger bodies.

Researchers identified cells that contained only maternal or paternal genes in six different parts of the mouse brains which controlled different cognitive functions, from eating habits to memory.

Cells with paternal genes accumulated in parts of the limbic system, which is involved in functions such as sex, food and aggression. But researchers did not find any paternal cells in the cerebral cortex, which is where the most advanced cognitive functions take place, such as reasoning, thought, language and planning.

Concerned that people might not be like mice, researchers in Glasgow took a more human approach to exploring intelligence. They found the theories extrapolated from mice studies bear out in reality when they interviewed 12,686 young people between the ages of 14 and 22 every year from 1994. Despite taking into account several factors, from the participants education to their race and socio-economic status, the team still found the best predictor of intelligence was the IQ of the mother.

However, research also makes it clear that genetics are not the only determinant of intelligence – only 40 to 60 per cent of intelligence is estimated to be hereditary, leaving a similar chunk dependent on the environment.

But mothers have also been found to play an extremely significant role in this non-genetic part of intelligence, with some studies suggesting a secure bond between mother and child is intimately tied to intelligence.

Researchers at the University of Washington found that a secure emotional bond between a mother and child is crucial for the growth of some parts of the brain. After analysing the way a group of mothers related to their children for seven years, the researchers found children who were supported emotionally and had their intellectual needs fulfilled had a 10 per cent larger hippocampus at 13 on average than children whose mothers were emotionally distant. The hippocampus is an area of the brain associated with memory, learning and stress response.

A strong bond with the mother is thought to give a child a sense of security which allows them to explore the world, and the confidence to solve problems. In addition, devoted, attentive mothers tend to help children solve problems, further helping them to reach their potential.

Of course, there’s no reason why fathers can’t play as big a nurture role as mothers. And researchers point out that a whole array of other gene determined traits – like intuiton and emotions – which can be inherited from the father are also key to unlocking potential intelligence, so fathers – don’t despair.

Source: Independent UK

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Tamairo Moutry, a real estate broker, a very successful one at that. She has real estate companies in four different states – Wisconsin, Georgia, Florida, and Illinois. All her businesses are managed virtually, with close to 25 realtors working on her team.

Tamairo is a native of Milwaukee, Wisconsin and has been in the real estate business since 2004. She passed the Illinois Managing Broker exam at the end of September 2019, and received her license three months later.

She is very excited about starting her recruitment efforts in Illinois for 2020 and beyond. Her current goals consist of helping more investors to purchase, improve and renovate affordable homes to revitalize lower income communities to promote homeownership for all, and is looking for more investors. And so is her future goal.

Tamairo also assists real estate investors with financing for the purchases and renovations, new construction homes and commercial projects in all 4 states as well, and is willing to help all clients with credit education to achieve higher credit scores.
She also is looking forward to help and assist with housing for the DNC Democratic Convention in Milwaukee, holding July 13-16.

She was in Port St. Lucie, in April 2019, Florida USA for a prestigious Women’s Real Estate Retreat, as a keynote speaker. She has continued with other speaking engagements, interviews, TV appearances, podcasts, and many live appearances in several Facebook groups including her own, Women In Real Estate.

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A mother will do anything for her children, no matter how old they get. A 98-year-old mom went viral. But why? She decided to move into the same nursing home her son was in so she could look after him.

 Ada Keating is the amazing woman who wanted nothing more than to be by her son’s side when she needed him the most. Even in her old age, this mom knows best, and it seems that both mom and son are thankful for the companionship in the picture below.

Tom Keating, Ada’s son, became a resident at Moss View care home in Huyton, Liverpool, back in 2016 since he needed more care than he could receive at home. The following year, his mother Ada decided she couldn’t bear being without him. Therefore, she moved into the same nursing home to be with him. Mom and son are so thankful they get to spend so much time together, and they enjoy watching TV and playing games to pass the time.

MEET THE KEATINGS

Ada and Tom were born in Wavertree, Liverpool, and have always been close. That’s because Tom has lived with his mother for all his adult life, never having been married. Ada said they have a routine in place so he knows what to expect. “I say goodnight to Tom in his room every night and I’ll go and say good morning to him,” she said. “I’ll tell him I’m coming down for breakfast.”

Ada says that they still have a deep bond even in their older age. “When I go out to the hairdressers he’ll look for me to see when I’m coming back,” she said. “When I get back he’ll come to me with his arms outstretched and give me a big hug. You never stop being a mum.” Tom added, “They’re very good here and I’m happy to see my mum more now she lives here. Sometimes she’ll say ‘behave yourself.’ She’s very good at looking after me.”

Tom is the oldest of four children; he had three sisters, Barbara, Margi, and Janet who passed away at 13. Tom worked as a painter and decorator before his retirement. Ada worked as a nurse at Mill Road Hospital before she retired. Their family members visit them often at home and are happy to see the two back together again. Some days, up to five generations of the Keating family come visiting!

Debi Higham, Ada’s granddaughter, comes to visit the two often. She said, “There’s no parting them. It’s reassuring for us that they’re both getting looked after 24/7.”

BELOVED BY THE NURSING HOME STAFF

The manager at the nursing home, Philip Daniels, said he’s happy the pair can be together at his facility.

“It’s very touching to see the close relationship both Tom and Ada share and we are so pleased we were able to accommodate both of their needs,” he revealed.

He added, “It’s very rare to see mothers and their children together in the same care home and we certainly want to make their time together as special as possible. They are inseparable.”

Isn’t this such a heartwarming story of a Mom and son’s unbreakable bond? If it touched your heart, please share with your friends and family!

Before depression medications like Xanax and Prozac were introduced and became the norm for depression treatment, people relied on phrases or mantras to help calm their system and relieve anxiety. The practice of repeating phrases until you feel better has been done for centuries among those who believe in various faith traditions. These phrases are like hymns and chants that implore spiritual and psychological healing, but you can still use these phrases to repeat under your breath as a remedy for when you’re feeling depressed.

HERE ARE 12 PHRASES TO REPEAT TO YOURSELF IF YOU’RE FEELING DEPRESSED

1. I AM STRONG.

It’s a misconception that only the weak and the needy suffer from depression. It’s also a myth that those who ask for help are actually the weakest because they depend on someone else. On the contrary, many depressed people who ask for help show self-awareness, and that’s a sign of strength. It shows that they want to change their situation.

2. I WILL GET BETTER.

Depression triggers hopelessness. Saying these words over and over promotes positive thoughts despite your emotionally stormy state. The reality is, eventually you will get better because the dark clouds hanging over you won’t be there forever.

3. I AM STILL BREATHING.

Vietnamese Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh believes in mindful breathing and shared a similar phrase in his book “You Are Here.” The practice of concentrating on the breaths you take, while chanting this phrase, helps the mind to unite with the body, thus bringing a sense of calmness.

4. LET IT GO.

There is a lot of wisdom in the famous words from Elsa, the animated Disney character from “Frozen.” If you find yourself in an obsessive state of anxiety, where you worry about things that haven’t happen or won’t likely happen or conflicts that might arise, then simply say these three words over and over.

5. BE NOT AFRAID.

This phrase, and its variation, “Fear not,” is repeated over a hundred times in the Scriptures. Many people, including the non-religious, find comfort in it. There seems to be a healing power in meditating on the words of a Higher Being and repeating the phrase could pacify anxieties. While the fear is still there, uttering the phrase gives you control over it.

6. THERE’S NO DANGER.

Depression can trigger thoughts and feelings that might make you feel your life is under a threat. Saying these words repeatedly should appease your thoughts and open your eyes to the reality that the danger is all in your mind. This phrase goes hand in hand with, “Be not afraid. “

7. I HAVE INNER PEACE.

“Om Shanti Om” means inner peace and it is the simplest mantra that Tibetan monks often chant. Invite inner peace into your mind and body to relieve depression and its physical symptoms. You will start feeling your tensed chest loosening up by repeating to yourself that you have inner peace.

8. MY THOUGHTS, WORDS, AND ACTIONS CONTRIBUTE TO MY HAPPINESS AND FREEDOM.

This phrase encourages a life of positivity, compassion, and empathy. It implores a person to live as a servant of life who is in harmony with other beings, including nature and the environment. It has its roots in the tenets of Jivamukti Yoga, which shows the path to enlightenment.

9. SOMEDAY THIS PAIN WILL MAKE SENSE.

People who haven’t experienced sadness or pain aren’t interesting because there’s no depth and growth in them. While it seems like life is full of misfortunes now and it’s causing a wave of depression in you, be assured that one day you’ll see the purpose in your pain. By repeating the phrase over and over, you will find your strength, resilience, and maturity.

10. I NEED TO BE KIND TO MYSELF IN MY SUFFERING.

Kristin Neff in her book “Self-Compassion” had a similar mantra for handling negative emotions. She said that it’s important to acknowledge your pain and suffering, so you can treat yourself with compassion in moments of difficulty. It follows the same advice as famed teacher Pema Chödrön in the book “When Things Fall Apart,” where she instructs followers to face their problems, not run away from them. Feeling depressed should help you see what’s vital to your life and it should trigger your drive to overcome it. After all, life is about surviving.

11. ONE STEP AT A TIME.

Depression may spike because you feel a loss of control over a situation that’s causing stress. This phrase helps to remind yourself to beat that depressed feeling slowly but surely. When life drags you down, your best choice is to take a moment to help lessen the weight of your burden. One day, nothing will hold you back.

FINAL THOUGHTS

Depression can be crippling but it’s an emotion you can help control with positive thinking. The choice is yours – you can either let either let this pain hold you back or let this feeling enlighten you. Hopefully, one of these suggested phrases will help you find peace.

12. TRUST IN THE PROCESS.

Obstacles are part of life, but depression sometimes leads you to ask questions like, “Why me?” or, “Why does this keep happening to me?” or, “Why is my life so challenging?” It’s hard to see the right path clearly during your most troubled times, but with this phrase, you can condition your mind to see obstacles as part of a learning opportunity. They’re not there to make a victim out of you. You have to trust in the process.

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Sarah Sanni is an inspiring young woman, a computer science graduate who quitted her job to chase her dreams.

“I wasn’t happy at my job, so I resigned thinking I needed a change of organization but in the process of applying to other companies and going for interviews- one day, I painted my room and my friend saw it and wanted something for her room. After designing hers, she posted it online and a couple of her friends saw it and requested wall paintings too. I did it and got paid even though it was peanut at the time but I felt overwhelming happiness and that was when I knew that this was what I wanted to do.”

She was born in the northern part of the country, grew partly in Ibadan before moving to Lagos much later. Her family are currently in support of her career,

My mom was in total support from day one. My dad got into it after one or two of his friends called him from abroad that they’ve seen his daughter’s works at one place or the other. Some other family members did not think it was a viable business but everyone just went along with the dream and now it’s all full time support from everyone”
Her inspiration came from the northern tattoo used to adorn brides called Laali. While growing up as a child, she admired these designs and draw them on paper.. The Laali is a temporary henna tattoo used to adorn brides in the Northern part of Nigeria, particularly popular in the Hausa and Fulani ethnic groups across West Africa.

She has worked with some notable brands and celebrity like, the Ice Cream, Molfix, Toke Makinwa and others.

Positive affirmations will set you on a more successful life. Our words and thoughts are powerful enough to control our lives. We need to constantly feel our minds with the right thoughts.

Doing so will enrich our lives, and enable us live to our full potentials that God has designed for us. We need to speak life into our present environment if we desire change.

Check these reaffirming and positive statements from Pinterest recite or write them down for yourself to improve your mental health and manifest your life below.

1.“I manifest everything I desire.”

Speak dream and goal with confidence. When you align your goals and dreams with your actions, you breakthrough will happen.

2. “I am worthy of my own love, admiration and undivided attention.”

You need to love yourself right. Self-love is the best love and without it, you can lose yourself. Continue to remind yourself that you are worthy of all the love that is given to you, but

2. “I love abundance and prosperity and I attract it naturally.”

Speaking your blessings into existence is important, but you need to have a welcoming mindset to receive. Doing so will open you up to a lot of opportunities and happiness.

3. “I am enough.”

Never compare yourself to someone else, they are not you, they don’t have what you have and that’s your super power.

4. “I choose to own my inner abundance and the wealth of who I am.” 

No one should define who you are. Take control of your life. Self-control is essential to been prosperous in life.

5. “I release anything that drains me because I do not accept toxicity in my life.” 

Toxicity and bad vibes drains your energy and creativity. Put them away by all means, and seek peace.

6. “I can and will. Watch me.”

You can do anything you put you mind to do. “I can’t” should never be in your language. Stay in the mindset of “I can”.

7. “I am constantly recreating myself, and that is okay.”

Yes, embrace change, be spontaneous. Its okay to seek new things and new, instead of being rigid and stuck. That the pathway to growth.

8. “I am a beautiful soul that radiates a vibrant and beautiful form. All is well in my body and mind.”

Your spirit lives inside your body, but it’s reflected as you interact with others. Continue to feed your body and souls with positivity so people can feel the king or queen that you are within.

9. “I attract success by being my authentic self.”

Be your self, you do not need validation to be you. Be real, and improve in becoming your best self.

11. “I am a magnet to positive energy. Good people, divine opportunities, and wild ideas gravitate towards me.”

You are what you attract. Let your light shine, good things are you portion.

Remember above all, changing your words can change your life. And you have the power to uplift your spirit.

 

I want to live in a place where a woman’s ability to succeed should be a basic Human Right, says Priyanka at the World Economic Forum. The summit held in Davis,Switzerland. She was amongst the selected speakers alongside Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala.

Priyanka Chopra Jonas is surely an impressive Bollywood and Hollywood actress, a philanthropist who uses her voice for world change.

The actor who is also a Global UNICEF goodwill ambassador for child rights cited about India her country, which had 60 percent of world’s polio cases 11 years ago. “Five years later, evacuated. And that was because of massive campaigns that the government and almost 200 million volunteers – top down, bottom up – got together to make the change,” she said.

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“I would love to get to a place where my children – when I have them – can grow up where the world leaders have listened to Greta’s generation and paid attention to that generation”, she said, ” where climate change is contained, if not averted.”

Amina Mohammed is a renowned female leader in the world today. She is the current Deputy Secretary-General, of the United Nations, and has previously being the special advisor to Ban ki-moon the previous leader.

She is a wife and a mother, with a passion for service to humanity. Last year she won the Global Citizens’ World Leader award for her work on the Sustainable Development Goals and was listed in Forbes 100most powerful women 2019.

Ms Amina J. Mohammed was Minister of Environment of the Federal Republic of Nigeria from November 2015 to December 2016, where she steered the country’s efforts on climate action, protecting the natural environment and conserving resources for sustainable development.

She posed with the new class of UN female officers.
She posses with the new class of UN female security
“I have no doubt that this class of new

female Security Officers will diligently & admiringly perform their duties to the highest standards. I look forward to their service & protection,” she said.

Ms Mohammed has worked for three  administrations in Nigeria, serving as Special Advisor on the Millennium Development Goals.