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The Duke of Sussex Prince Harry just proved that he is a doting son after he decided to open a health center after the name of his late mother Princess Diana. The 35-year-old arrived in South Africa with his wife Meghan Markle and their 4-month-old son Archie for the first day of their official 10-day tour.

According to the outlet, the Duke will also make the special visit on Friday to reopen it after it was named in her honor following a revamp. “This is all about wanting to fulfill his mother’s legacy,” a source close to the palace told the outlet, reported by Fox News.

“This tour will see the Duke and Duchess go back to basics, using their profile in the right way to highlight causes they are both passionate about.” “In a particularly significant and poignant journey, the Duke of Sussex will have the opportunity to return to Angola to see first-hand the legacy of his mother the late Diana,

Princess of Wales, whose visit to Huambo in 1997 helped raise awareness of the threat posed by land mines to communities and livelihoods,” added Harry’s private secretary Samantha Cohen.

This past Saturday, media mogul Oprah Winfrey surprised attendees at the 17th annual Maya Angelou Women Who Lead Luncheon with a major donation that will help minority students in the North Carolina area attend college. 

The event, which was held in Charlotte, North Carolina and put on by the United Negro College Fund (UNCF), honored women who are making a positive difference in the community and who are helping to keep the late Maya Angelou’s legacy alive. 

When Winfrey, who served as the keynote speaker for the luncheon, found out that UNCF had raised $1.15 million at the event for local deserving students to attend college, she announced that she would match the donation and help bring the total amount raised to $2.3 million. 

“I believe in the power of education,” The Charlotte Observer reports Winfrey telling the audience. “There is nothing better than to open the door for someone.”

In 2007, Winfrey opened her leadership academy for young girls in South Africa and told the crowd that three of her girls had graduated from Johnson C. Smith University in Charlotte. She continued by recalling a conversation she had with the late Angelou where she told her that she believed her academy in South Africa would be her greatest legacy. 

“You have no idea what your legacy is going to be because your legacy will be every life you touch,” Winfrey said Angelou told her. 

Winfrey then challenged the crowd to think about their own legacy by understanding that “your legacy is how you treat everybody.”

Next year, Winfrey will return to Charlotte to campaign for healthier living as part of her “Oprah’s 2020 Vision: Your Life in Focus” tour. The wellness event is scheduled to hit the Spectrum Center in Charlotte on January 18, 2020. 

 

Says “I believe women are more disadvantaged when it gets to career growth”

In 2017, Nigeria ranked 122th out of 144 countries in the Global Gender Gap report. Women are more adversely affected by economic and educational challenges compared to the average Nigerian. Despite the progress over the past few decades, gender equality in employment remains an elusive goal in Nigeria. Women still face disadvantage and discrimination in all areas of socioeconomic life. Yewande Jinadu is trying to bridge that Gap and solve the problem through her Careerlife Nigeria platform, an initiative aimed at reducing unemployment by providing people with the right career related information and coaching.

Yewande is a certified HR Professional and an Employability coach. She is passionate about People Development, Employability, Career Coaching and Human Resources. Through personal coaching, published articles and speaking engagements, she has helped hundreds of young professionals become more employable and gain employment. To further address the issue, She recently launched the Employability Fitness Program, an initiative aimed at helping young graduates (0-3 years’ experience) overcome interview Phobia and the barriers in Recruitment process through mentoring. It has had measurable impact in the lives of over 100 participants in few months.

She shares her inspiring story with me in this interview.

Childhood Influence

Let me start with the No part. I didn’t always know or plan or prepare for what I currently do right from when I was a child. I grew up with parents who were exposed and always supported their children in whatever they wanted to do. I grew up as a Mathematician and Analytical person. I was wired to think Maths was my only Super Power. It was later in life I realized, I had other superpowers.

YES because I grew up with a deflated self-esteem. Over time, I became better and began to appreciate and love myself more. This always made me want to give back to others. I remember starting Y-Trust Foundation immediately after NYSC with no job going for outreaches in secondary school and talking to students about the menace of low self-esteem. I was VERY passionate about giving back and helping people.

My ‘eureka’ moment was when I realized that I didn’t need to ‘have it all’ to make an impact. All I needed to do was start small and never stop fueling my passion.

Inspiration behind CareerLife Nigeria

CareerLife Nigeria was inspired by my personal struggle to get a job after NYSC. I did an internship in the HR department while in 400level and I was privileged to sit in a few interviews so I had learned a lot. After NYSC, I felt that exposure would make it easier for me to succeed with multiple offers but I struggled. I hated interviews because I always messed up. I knew I had a LOT to offer but felt so bad because I was always portraying the opposite. I overcame it after a while and moved from Chemical Engineering to HR.

This made me participate in numerous interviews and I saw other graduates struggle with making it past the rigorous recruitment process we have set just to get talents.

I realized it would take me a long time to be able to wield the power to change the face of recruitment in Nigeria so I decided to take baby steps.

I’ve always been interested in people’s Career Development. I had SO much information through the experience and exposure I got and the few people that have interacted with me in a short while always came back to thank me for the amount of impact I’ve had in their lives. I decided that rather than help just a few people, I would put the information out there for thousands of other people through writing and coaching.

My blog contains a LOT of information that would help the average young graduate who may not be able to afford Employability Training. The mission is to help young graduates and professionals attain measurable career growth, I’m fulfilling that mission daily through various platforms.


Employability fitness coaching

The Employability Fitness Program(EFP) was birthed to solve the personal issues people have with un-employment. The first edition was launched in July with a live mock interview with HR Professionals and Subject Matter Experts. Here, participants had the opportunity to get interviewed by professionals and given direct feedback that addresses their personal deficiency during interviews.

We want to help people overcome interview phobia (a problem a LOT of graduates have but is currently not being addressed). After the live mock session, it follows with a 3 months post-coaching which is aimed at handholding them till they finally get an offer. In the post-coaching group, we have HR professionals who have volunteered their time to coach and mentor the young graduates. We have weekly knowledge sharing session on topics the participants chose themselves.

We also post exclusive job openings that are seen through high-level referrals and we prepare participants for prospective interviews on the group. The group is FREE and open to fresh and young graduates.

Testimonies

Recently a lot of testimonies have come from the point of appreciating us for providing support when they needed it.Currently, we have recorded 11 testimonies from the coaching group when it started mid-July.

Others have recorded more interview invites because they have access to information that allows them review their CV’s themselves. Jobseekers now have the necessary support they need to thrive. A lot of graduates who have lost hope in getting a job now see the light at the end of the tunnel because of the support. We have 17 HR Professionals who have volunteered their time to support jobseekers 24/7 for the period of 3months.

The Monthly Twitter Mentoring Session has had impact in the lives of graduates as people reach out to us thanking us for saving them and help open their eyes from problems they have had.

 If I had the opportunity to speak with the President on lack Employment

I’ll tell him to provide a favourable economy for businesses to thrive, for startups to grow, for young entrepreneurs to thrive, for jobs to be created and for graduates to be trained. I believe that THERE ARE JOBS. The educational system hasn’t just prepared the graduates well enough to be able to occupy them. I would advise the government to boost our educational system by including Employability in their course curriculum and employ professional career coaches in each university to help prepare them for the world ahead. CareerLife Nigeria and other organizations are working hard to build that gap but we can’t do it alone without help from the government.

Challenges

Majorly Funds to run these programs and initiatives. SO far, I’ve received support and accolades but funds are required to make more impact. Because it’s not a registered company YET. Most funds are gotten from personal purse and few friends who are passionate about the same thing.

On giving up

YES! Numerous Times! I can’t count the times I’ve felt like quitting. What I do with CareerLife Nigeria and other initiatives is a personal CSR and a future social enterprise. I have a full time job that can be demanding. I also have to juggle with wifely and motherly responsibilities too.

I practically spend my personal funds to run some initiatives. For the Employability Fitness Program (EFP), after the publicity was out, I wanted to cancel it or postpone it. I didn’t have the funds to do major things and I didn’t know how to ask people. I felt people would naturally support but only very few supported financially.

A lot of times I help people get good jobs with a good pay but personally I have a lot of unmet needs in my career. Having to sacrifice my time and juggle a lot of things hasn’t been easy but PASSION keeps me going.

Whenever I want to give up and I see the problems waiting to be solved, I remind myself that the more I delay this, the more people that need this initiative remain jobless and depressed. Whenever people reach out to me to thank me for helping them when they have lost hope, I get motivated

My self-worth is no longer how much is in my bank account but how much impact I’m able to make in the lives of others. I feel fulfilled when I see others happy in their career and I know that with time, it will get better for me.

Being a Woman of Rubies

I’m a woman of ruby because I’m selfless. All I do is think of how I can help young graduates with their career struggles.

My purpose in life is centered on giving back to others. I genuinely find JOY (not happiness) in helping people.

 

I love to mentor people, I love to coach people, I love to see people succeed in their career. My mission is to change the face of recruitment in Nigeria and then, in the world.

 

Unemployment in Nigeria

A lot needs to be done. Unemployment is VERY HIGH. But in the midst of lack, a lot of experienced hands are changing jobs and fresh graduates are getting new ones.

To young women who are finding it hard to get a job

 

I believe women are more disadvantaged when it gets to career growth, unlike men. Things like Pregnancy, Child Birth and Marriage sometimes slows us down so we need to work even much harder than men to thrive.

My advice for women (especially young and fresh graduates) is to believe in themselves and not feel they are not good enough for a job just because they don’t have the wealth of experience.

I know it can be difficult to get the first job and find their feet in the labor market but they should go with an open mind and ensure they communicate their values clearly. Don’t take little experiences for granted because that may be your UNIQUE SELLING POINT (USP).

Package your CV well and put in the effort(Read www.CareerLife.com.ng to get more insight). Most times, laziness to read and follow instructions hinders chances. Make an effort to write a good cover letter for each job you apply for. Put in the effort to get a job through unconventional means like networking with stakeholders on LinkedIn. Leverage on LinkedIn to sell yourself.

Don’t allow any employer demand money or sex from you to give you a job. Use your soft skills and transferrable skills to get a job. While waiting, learn a trade. Be open to starting from the bottom (unpaid internship). Above all, pray to God and Never Give Up.

Why didn’t we all think of this?! According to Good Morning America (GMA), Eve Humphrey, a Florida Ph.D. student decided to have a maternity shoot to celebrate the birth of her new — dissertation.

That’s right! After 6 years of labor and delivery, Humphrey finally pushed out her dissertation and anyone who has ever completed a thesis or dissertation can attest to the fact that it’s that serious!

Humphrey would regularly refer to her dissertation as her baby. After 6 years in graduate school working through her doctorate program, she had all the symptoms of pregnancy. Lots of work, no sleep, weight gain from stress eating and back pain from being hunched over her computer all day. And if it acts like a baby and requires attention like a baby, its a baby, even if it is a dissertation. 

Once she completed her program and turned in the culmination of 6 years of hard work towards her Ph.D. in Biology, she wanted to do something to commemorate the moment. 

“I’m not super celebratory, but I wanted to do something that was fun,” Humphrey told GMA. “Science can be very straightforward and I wanted to do something to commemorate what I did and take a moment to be proud of myself.”

That’s when she decided to do a maternity shoot with her newborn baby, “Stress Response and Coloration as Mediators of Behavioral and Physiological Variation.” The Florida State University student called up her friend Korie Mitchell and the two made doctoral magic happen. The pictures showed Humphrey posing with her paper next to its milestones, in a highchair and with a beautiful picturesque background as she gazes down lovingly. It was typical maternity shoot wonder. 

Humphrey posted the pictures to Facebook with a caption that said, “Six years ago, I started on a journey and I didn’t know how hard it would be to finish. I gained weight, I experienced back pain, I cried a lot … was I pregnant? I had many restless nights and sacrificed time with family and friends to birth this crazy little baby of mine called a dissertation. So I would like to introduce you all to my creation, 6 years of pushing and it gave me a new name. Hi, I’m Dr. Eve Humphrey, PhD.”

Before she knew it, the post had been shared over 10,000 times. Humphrey said she was taken aback when the post went viral. 

“I was like, ‘What the heck? My husband told me it had a ton of ‘likes’ and then it started being shared by people I didn’t know,” she said. Humphrey said she understands how a lot of people can relate or find humor in it. “I guess I get it, though, because that’s something I would crack up at and share.”

Since the completion of her Ph.D and her new title as Doctor of Biology, Humphrey works at Syracuse University doing disciplined-based education research. She will be returning to Florida State in December to walk the stage at her graduation.

Congratulations Dr. Humphrey!

Ada Nduka Oyom didn’t set out to build a career in tech. While studying microbiology at the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, she attended the Google Student Ambassadors meet-ups and discovered that the ratio of boys to girls was really wide, in favour of the men.

She decided she wants to try out tech, to find out what it is about tech that has more guys than girls. She started attending events and learning everything about tech. It became interesting as she went on and she later led the Google developers group and Women techmakers chapter for two consecutive years until she graduated.

Today, she’s building an amazing career as a software developer and tech evangelist.

She’s the founder of She Code Africa, “an organisation created to celebrate and empower African women in technology.”

The platform empowers women in tech through the provision of online and offline technical training on web and mobile technologies while offering online mentorship to members looking to improve in various software development and design fields.”

Ada is also the co-founder of Open Source Community Africa, “a community of open source advocates and enthusiasts in Africa created with the aim of growing the number of credible contributions and development of open source technologies from African software developers and designers.”

She’s a co-convener of Google Developer Lagos, and currently works in Developer Relations at Interswitch.

We celebrating Ada for blazing the trail and also celebrating the women doing amazing things in tech, who were hitherto unrecognised.

She created the brand Yhebe. 3 years later, Beyonce wore one of her designs.

 

Esther Raphael is the founder of Green Bliss Smart Projects and Resources Limited, the 1st Online Innovative Company in Nigeria.With over 9 year work experience, Esther have served in different capacities in the corporate world.She has a sales career background of over 3 billion Naira sales deal portfolio mostly closed online.
Esther answers our #7questions below;
1. What is your biggest fear?
My biggest fear at the moment have been centered around my spirituality and aligning my thoughts to create certain desired outcomes in my life
2. In your darkest moments, what do you do?
Hmmmm, In my darkest moments, I cry. I cry indoor mostly. I just sit or lay down and cry and remind the Universe of all that my heart truly yearns for, to create solutions and wealth for the greater good of humanity.
Yes, so, I think majorly, I cry and begin to pen down my thoughts as I am able to think through how I got to that point, what I can do right and what I should leave to remain the way it is.
3. What is that one thing you would like to change about yourself?
Hahaha, maybe my big head and possibly certain religious orientation
4. Where do you see yourself five years from now?
 
Five years from now, I see myself and my strong supportive, loyal team managing over 46 premium short-let homes and creating more accessible online marketplace for start-ups
5. What keeps you going?
 
The voice inside of me. I am strongly motivated by the understanding that I was born to live, love and grow, that keeps me going.
 
In business, because we are open to strategic partnerships, our partners and the passion of our team members keeps me going.
6. What is your stand on feminism? Do you consider yourself a feminist?
You see, on the subject of feminism, I like to focus more on the advocacy of treating everyone with same level of respect, love and rights, irrespective of the sexual organs or identities. This also touches their various religious beliefs, sexual identity, color and tribe.
 
So, at all times, I’d like to be identified as someone who advocates not just for women but also for all.
7. What keeps you up at night?
 
Business, I stay up most times to analyse the activities around the company and come up with alternative ways of handling things.
 
Want to be featured on our #7Questions? Kindly send a mail to info@womenofrubies.com

When news broke in 2014, that terrorist sect Boko Haram had kidnapped 276 girls from their school in Chibok, Borno state, Lola Omolola was troubled. She felt the need to do something, to get women to speak up, stand up and tackle the issues they face.

Her first thought was to find women who were, like her, losing sleep over the same issues as well as get women together and form some sort of a resource.

A year later, shortly after the #BeingFemaleInNigeria hashtag trended, Lola decided to start a secret Facebook group called Female In Nigeria (FIN). It is a safe space for women which allows them express the complexities of their shared struggles.

In Nigeria for example, it is unusual and not expected for a woman to speak up about the struggles she’s facing. She’s encouraged to endure whatever she’s going through, and focus on being decent, building her family, or taking care of the men in her life, depending on the stage she is at life.

Lola started by sharing stories of the women had heard about, sometimes one liners or nothing more than a paragraph, and soon enough, members began sharing their stories. Steadily, a tribe was being formed, people were getting the love, support and encouragement they need and others were getting healing they needed.

Today, FIN is now Female IN, to reflect a broader group of women, as it now has over 1.7 million members who are not just from Nigeria or Africa.

Lola earned her Bachelors degree in Broadcast Journalism from Columbia College, Chicago and worked as a journalist in Nigeria before moving back to Chicago in 2011 and worked at Community Counselling Centres where she assisted people with mental health issues.

Lola later on, started her own website called spicebaby.com where she was providing recipes for Nigerian food. Then she created Female IN in 2015.

Lola is looking to bring FIN offline, by “creating resource centres around the world in strategic places where women know that they can walk in and have the experience that they have in our Facebook community, because there are women who don’t have access to the Internet”.

Lola has met with Facebook’s founder Mark Zuckerberg and was selected as one of the 100 beneficiaries of the Facebook Community Leadership program.

In 2018, Lola was named in ONE’s Women of the Year 2018.

We celebrate Lola for starting a movement that is saving lives and impacting millions of women around the world.

As a young muslim woman, Fatima Togbe, couldn’t find magazines with stories she’s interested in or the ones that give insight to the issues she’s dealing with.

She decided to do something about it. She wanted to create a platform for Muslimahs  “between the ages of 21 and 35, modern, educated, fashion forward and trendy with a sound foundation in their love and dedication to Islam.”

“I love fashion so much and love magazines like Harper’s Bazaar, Vogue and Glamour, but I can’t wear half the things in them, nor do the topics meet a lot of my own needs,” she told Guardian in 2017.

The magazines focused on muslim women were “boring.” “No one was really writing about issues that pertain to Muslim women and to a younger new generation of us,” she added.

She decided to start Hayati Magazine, in 2012, to meet this need. Today, it boasts of thousands of followers across social media and website.

Fatima built Hayati into a community where muslim women can talk and read about real issues without fear of judgments. It is a fashion and lifestyle platform for the young Muslimah.

In 2015, she launched Hayati Retail for Muslimahs to shop fashion pieces that appeal to their faith.

To celebrate its 5th anniversary in 2017, Hayati Magazine, hosted the inaugural edition of Hayati Fashion Week which held in Abuja for 3 days, with over 200 guests and 14 designers showcasing their work.

Fatima is a 2016 nominee for The Future Awards Africa (TFAA) Prize for New Media category. She was also listen in YNaija’s inaugural #WOKE100 list.

Fatima has worked with brands such as Vlisco, Golden Morn, and Maggi. She’s building a reputable media company for the young Muslim woman, and we are definitely rooting for her.

The Nigerian Oscars Selection Committee (NOSC) has selected Genevieve Nnaji’s ‘Lionheart’ as Nigeria’s submission to the International Feature Film category of the 2020 Oscars.

According to Channels News, the committee announced the selection on Wednesday, following a statutory vetting and subsequent voting of entries received from Nigerian filmmakers at home and abroad.

’Lionheart’ was produced by Chinny Onwugbenu, Chichi Nwoko, Genevieve Nnaji and directed by Genevieve Nnaji, premiered at the 2018 Toronto International Film Festival (TIFF) and got featured as the first Netflix original film produced in Nigeria.

The movie stars Pete Edochie, Genevieve Nnaji, Nkem Owoh, Onyeka Onwenu, Kanayo .O. Kanayo, Chika Okpala, Kalu Ikeagwu, Sanni Mu’azu, Yakubu Mohammed, Ngozi Ezeonu, Peter Okoye (P-Square) and Chibuzor Azubuike (Phyno).

‘Lionheart’, which is Nnaji’s directorial debut, tells the story of a young woman, Adaeze Obiagu (Genevieve Nnaji), who becomes saddled with the responsibility of running her sick father’s business under the suffocating supervision of an uncle, played by Nkem Owoh.

Adaeze’s competing business instincts and family obligations become a catalyst for drastic change not everyone is ready to embrace.

The 12-man Nigerian Oscars Selection Committee (NOSC), is chaired by Chineze Anyaene with Mahmood Ali-Balogun as vice chairman.