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Renowned author, scholar, and advocate Tolulope Ola Adejumo has launched A Mother’s Journey, a heartfelt campaign encouraging women, particularly those who have faced significant challenges in their journeys, to share their stories.

This initiative seeks to create a safe and supportive space for individuals to express their experiences, build community, and inspire hope among families facing similar challenges.

As someone who has navigated emotional and financial struggles, Tolulope understands firsthand the complexities that can arise during hard times. Through A Mother’s Journey, she is not only amplifying voices but also offering direct support to those in dire need by providing soft funds to help alleviate their financial burdens.

“Every journey is unique, yet so many of us share the same fears, hopes, and triumphs,” says Tolulope Ola Adejumo. “Through this campaign, I want to give individuals a platform to be heard, to heal, and to remind them that they are not alone. By sharing our stories, we create a community of strength, love, and resilience.”

The campaign invites participants from all walks of life to submit their personal stories, whether it’s about overcoming medical challenges, finding emotional strength, or navigating difficult circumstances. Selected stories will be featured across various media platforms, shining a light on the courage and perseverance of individuals everywhere.

Tolu Adejumo Initiative
Tolulope Ola-Adejumo, NICU Advocate and Author, Tiny Heroes, Big heart

Tolulope’s commitment to advocacy extends beyond storytelling. She has actively supported those in need with financial assistance, ensuring that no one feels abandoned during one of the most challenging times in their life. In addition to her campaign, she continues to volunteer with the Red Cross and engage in community support initiatives.

For more information on how to participate in A Mother’s Journey or to contribute to the cause, visit her Instagram page here

About Tolulope Ola Adejumo
Tolulope Ola Adejumo is an accomplished scholar, author of Tiny Hero, Big Heart, and an advocate for families navigating the challenges of difficult journeys. Through her writing, public speaking, and community initiatives, she provides support, education, and financial assistance to those in need.

Tolulope Ola Adejumo is a dedicated scholar and passionate advocate, driven by a thirst for knowledge and an unwavering commitment to making a positive impact in the world. With two master’s degrees already under her belt and a PhD in progress, Tolulope balances her academic pursuits with the joys and challenges of being a devoted mother to two incredible children. However, her true calling lies in a cause very close to her heart—supporting families facing high-risk pregnancies, premature births, and the struggles of neonatal care.

A Journey Rooted in Resilience

Tolulope’s advocacy is not just a profession but a deeply personal mission shaped by her own life experiences. Her journey is one of resilience and hope, grounded in her struggles as a mother who has faced the unimaginable challenges of premature births. Through her powerful storytelling, she opens the door to emotional healing, creating a nurturing space for others who have walked similar paths. Tolulope’s work is about more than just telling her story—it’s about offering solace, understanding, and a sense of unity to those facing similar battles, reminding us of the enduring power of human connection.

Tolulope Ola Adejumo
Tolulope Adejumo, Author, “Tiny Hero, Big Heart”

Tiny Hero, Bug Heart

Her debut memoir, “Tiny Hero, Big heart,” is a heartfelt testament to her mission of spreading hope. The book recounts the moving story of her daughters’ premature births at just 22 weeks and five days, and 22 weeks and one day. Tolulope shares the emotional rollercoaster, the unexpected challenges, and the fierce determination that defined her journey as a mother. Through her honest reflections, she offers readers a sanctuary of support, filled with powerful affirmations and thought-provoking prompts. The memoir serves as a reminder that even in the darkest moments of adversity, there is room for growth and the enduring strength of the human heart.

A Life of Service and Compassion

Beyond her writing, Tolulope is deeply committed to volunteerism and community support. Her work with the Red Cross and other initiatives showcases her dedication to serving others, particularly those in need of compassion and care. Whether through her academic achievements, her advocacy, or her hands-on volunteer efforts, Tolulope’s life is a testament to the indomitable human spirit. Her journey of hope and healing continues to inspire families across the globe, as she shares the invaluable message that no one has to face their challenges alone.

In Tolulope, we find a beacon of hope, a tireless advocate for families, and a storyteller who brings the universal experience of resilience and love to life. Through her work and her words, she continues to uplift and empower, creating a legacy of compassion and strength for all who seek solace and understanding.

A Sacredmotherhood is thrilled to announce the successful conclusion of the “Mom On Mission: Your Light Has Come, M.O.M. 3.0” Conference, held on Saturday, May 11, 2024, from 10 am to 1 pm at C Banquets, located at 300 City Centre Dr, 12th floor, Mississauga, ON L5B 3C1. This inspiring event brought together mothers from all walks of life to honor and celebrate their exceptional contributions to nurturing families and communities.

M.O.M. 3.0 Conference

The conference featured insightful workshops, inspirational keynotes, and moments of reflection and worship, led by esteemed speakers Oyin Isaac, founder of A Sacredmotherhood; Tolulope Adejumo, Dere Akindoju, Dammy Aromiwura, Ally Yao, Elmien de Wet, and Adeola Abiodun. Attendees engaged in thought-provoking discussions received uplifting messages and found opportunities for spiritual growth and empowerment.

M.O.M. 3.0 Conference

A highlight of the event was the presentation of the prestigious Shining Star Award, supported by Women of Rubies, to recognize a mother who exemplifies resilience, compassion, and dedication. We are delighted to announce that the winner of this year’s Shining Star Award is Taiwo Awojoodu.

Taiwo Awojoodu’s recognition as the Shining Star Award recipient includes extensive publicity over a three-month period, a feature on Women of Rubies’ blogpost, pinned to the Inspiration segment for two weeks, a pinned post of the feature on their social media pages for one week, event/product promotion on their Facebook page monthly for three months, and a live interview session with Women of Rubies’ founder Esther Ijewere on Facebook.

M.O.M. 3.0 Conference

“This partnership with Women of Rubies underscores our shared commitment to uplifting and honoring mothers,” says Oyin Isaac, founder of A Sacredmotherhood. “We believe that every mother deserves recognition for her selfless love and devotion.”

Esther Ijewere, founder of Women of Rubies, adds, “We are excited to collaborate with A Sacredmotherhood to celebrate the strength and resilience of mothers. The Shining Star Award is our way of honoring their invaluable contributions to society.”

M.O.M. 3.0 Conference

The M.O.M. 3.0 Conference successfully brought together mothers for a day of empowerment, reflection, and celebration, reinforcing the divine essence of motherhood and honoring the shining stars among us.

For further information or inquiries, please contact Oyin Isaac at 647-704-6804 or via Instagram: @_sacredmotherhood.

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M.O.M. 3.0 Conference

M.O.M. 3.0 ConferenceM.O.M. 3.0 Conference

 

M.O.M. 3.0 Conference

Oyindamola (Oyin) Isaac Oyin wears many hats – she’s an award-winning author, a certified human resources professional, and the founder of A Sacred Motherhood Institute. Based in Ontario, Canada, her organization is dedicated to honoring and supporting mothers by nurturing, empowering, and uplifting women from all walks of life.

M.O.M Conference: Empowering Mothers

As part of her commitment to empowering women, especially mothers, Oyin hosts the annual M.O.M (Mom On Mission) conference. This heartwarming and empowering FREE Mother’s Day conference celebrates the profound impact mothers have on their families and communities. It’s a gathering filled with inspiration, support, and camaraderie, aimed at recognizing the invaluable role of mothers.

Oyindamola Isaac

African Canadian Weddings: Celebrating Diversity

In addition to her work with A Sacred Motherhood Institute, Oyin is the founder of African Canadian Weddings, a platform dedicated to promoting and highlighting African Canadian weddings and event vendors across Canada. With over 40,000 followers across Facebook (Meta) and Instagram, African Canadian Weddings provides free advertisement and publicity for vendors, showcasing their services to a wide audience.

Professional Achievements and Accolades

Oyin’s list of accomplishments is impressive, including recognition as one of the 100 Accomplished Black Canadian Women and Canada’s Top 100 Black Women to Watch. She’s also been nominated for the Women of Inspiration Award and received the Rising Leader Award in 2024. Additionally, Oyin is a certified payroll compliance practitioner and a certified human resources professional, demonstrating her commitment to excellence in her field.

Honors and Awards

Oyin has been recognized for her outstanding contributions and achievements, receiving accolades such as the 2024 Ontario Volunteer Service Award and the Women Empowerment Award Finalist in 2023. Her dedication to community engagement and her impact on the lives of mothers and women have earned her the admiration and respect of her peers.

A Devoted Mother and Wife

Beyond her professional endeavors, Oyin is a devoted mother to two wonderful children and happily married to her beloved husband, Ebenezer Isaac. They reside in Mississauga, Ontario, Canada, where Oyin continues to make a meaningful impact through her work and community involvement.

Oyindamola Isaac Oyin’s dedication to honoring and supporting mothers, promoting diversity, and empowering women is truly inspiring. Through her various initiatives and accomplishments, she’s making a positive difference in the lives of many, leaving a lasting legacy of love, empowerment, and celebration.

A woman took to Twitter to announce she’s in search of a surrogate mum and Nigerians have a lot to say about the requirements and the payment.

The Twitter user said the surrogate mum will be paid 1.2 million Naira for the embryo transfer, carrying the baby to term, and giving birth.

She specified that birth must be through CS.

To apply,  the woman must be above 160cm in height, must have been pregnant before and must be “good looking”. Other requirements include genotype and blood group.

 

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

 

Twitter users reacted saying the amount the surrogate mum will be paid is too small for what is required of her.

 

Some pointed out that the embryo transfer process is painful, tasking, and sometimes lengthy as they may have to try multiple times before success is recorded. They also pointed out the changes to the woman’s body for 9 months and how she will be unable to live a normal life during that period.

 

To make matters worse, she has to suffer the pain of the incision scars and may take too long to heal from the CS surgery.

 

See some reactions below

 

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

Nigerians react as woman announces search for a surrogate who will give birth via CS for N1.2 million

 

A mother’s genetics determines how clever her children are, according to researchers, and the father makes no difference.

Women are more likely to transmit intelligence genes to their children because they are carried on the X chromosome and women have two of these, while men only have one.

But in addition to this, scientists now believe genes for advanced cognitive functions which are inherited from the father may be automatically deactivated.

A category of genes known as “conditioned genes” are thought to work only if they come from the mother in some cases and the father in other cases. Intelligence is believed to be among the conditioned genes that have to come from the mother.

Laboratory studies using genetically modified mice found that those with an extra dose of maternal genes developed bigger heads and brains, but had little bodies. Those with an extra dose of paternal genes had small brains and larger bodies.

Researchers identified cells that contained only maternal or paternal genes in six different parts of the mouse brains which controlled different cognitive functions, from eating habits to memory.

Cells with paternal genes accumulated in parts of the limbic system, which is involved in functions such as sex, food and aggression. But researchers did not find any paternal cells in the cerebral cortex, which is where the most advanced cognitive functions take place, such as reasoning, thought, language and planning.

Concerned that people might not be like mice, researchers in Glasgow took a more human approach to exploring intelligence. They found the theories extrapolated from mice studies bear out in reality when they interviewed 12,686 young people between the ages of 14 and 22 every year from 1994. Despite taking into account several factors, from the participants education to their race and socio-economic status, the team still found the best predictor of intelligence was the IQ of the mother.

However, research also makes it clear that genetics are not the only determinant of intelligence – only 40 to 60 per cent of intelligence is estimated to be hereditary, leaving a similar chunk dependent on the environment.

But mothers have also been found to play an extremely significant role in this non-genetic part of intelligence, with some studies suggesting a secure bond between mother and child is intimately tied to intelligence.

Researchers at the University of Washington found that a secure emotional bond between a mother and child is crucial for the growth of some parts of the brain. After analysing the way a group of mothers related to their children for seven years, the researchers found children who were supported emotionally and had their intellectual needs fulfilled had a 10 per cent larger hippocampus at 13 on average than children whose mothers were emotionally distant. The hippocampus is an area of the brain associated with memory, learning and stress response.

A strong bond with the mother is thought to give a child a sense of security which allows them to explore the world, and the confidence to solve problems. In addition, devoted, attentive mothers tend to help children solve problems, further helping them to reach their potential.

Of course, there’s no reason why fathers can’t play as big a nurture role as mothers. And researchers point out that a whole array of other gene determined traits – like intuiton and emotions – which can be inherited from the father are also key to unlocking potential intelligence, so fathers – don’t despair.

Source: Independent UK

A mother will do anything for her children, no matter how old they get. A 98-year-old mom went viral. But why? She decided to move into the same nursing home her son was in so she could look after him.

 Ada Keating is the amazing woman who wanted nothing more than to be by her son’s side when she needed him the most. Even in her old age, this mom knows best, and it seems that both mom and son are thankful for the companionship in the picture below.

Tom Keating, Ada’s son, became a resident at Moss View care home in Huyton, Liverpool, back in 2016 since he needed more care than he could receive at home. The following year, his mother Ada decided she couldn’t bear being without him. Therefore, she moved into the same nursing home to be with him. Mom and son are so thankful they get to spend so much time together, and they enjoy watching TV and playing games to pass the time.

MEET THE KEATINGS

Ada and Tom were born in Wavertree, Liverpool, and have always been close. That’s because Tom has lived with his mother for all his adult life, never having been married. Ada said they have a routine in place so he knows what to expect. “I say goodnight to Tom in his room every night and I’ll go and say good morning to him,” she said. “I’ll tell him I’m coming down for breakfast.”

Ada says that they still have a deep bond even in their older age. “When I go out to the hairdressers he’ll look for me to see when I’m coming back,” she said. “When I get back he’ll come to me with his arms outstretched and give me a big hug. You never stop being a mum.” Tom added, “They’re very good here and I’m happy to see my mum more now she lives here. Sometimes she’ll say ‘behave yourself.’ She’s very good at looking after me.”

Tom is the oldest of four children; he had three sisters, Barbara, Margi, and Janet who passed away at 13. Tom worked as a painter and decorator before his retirement. Ada worked as a nurse at Mill Road Hospital before she retired. Their family members visit them often at home and are happy to see the two back together again. Some days, up to five generations of the Keating family come visiting!

Debi Higham, Ada’s granddaughter, comes to visit the two often. She said, “There’s no parting them. It’s reassuring for us that they’re both getting looked after 24/7.”

BELOVED BY THE NURSING HOME STAFF

The manager at the nursing home, Philip Daniels, said he’s happy the pair can be together at his facility.

“It’s very touching to see the close relationship both Tom and Ada share and we are so pleased we were able to accommodate both of their needs,” he revealed.

He added, “It’s very rare to see mothers and their children together in the same care home and we certainly want to make their time together as special as possible. They are inseparable.”

Isn’t this such a heartwarming story of a Mom and son’s unbreakable bond? If it touched your heart, please share with your friends and family!

Instagram has become a great place to get current news, latest celebrity updates and lifestyle hacks almost about anything. More people are willing to share about their personal lives daily.

As a mom, here are 8 amazing platforms on Instagram in no particular order, to get information about parenting, and to help you navigate the task of motherhood while seeking work life balance:

1.LagosMums

This an online community of moms, sharing parenting tips on how to raise your child. Yetty Williams a parenting coach, is the founder. They hold events and also have a review section for parents. They have broad contents  from parenting to capacity building, events and workshops and networking. You can follow them @lagosmums

2. AugustSecrets

This amazing platform shares colourful meal plans and nutrition for your kids. It is owned by Toyin Onigbanji an award winning entrepreneur. Foods high in nutrient density are displayed in ways to spark creativity in mothers. Nutrition tips are also shared. You can follow them @augustsecrets.ng

 

3. Mummyclinicc

This platform is managed by  child psychologist and certified child sleep expert and potty trainer; Temi Olajide,  who shares tips on how to effectively interact with your kids and teaching them proper ways to behave. It helps moms to understand how children behave while sharing parenting tips. You can follow them @mummyclinicc

 

3. Mamalette.

The reality of pregnancy, and everyday parenting is shared here, most times using quotes a mother can relate with. Little babies and toddlers are the focus in this platforms. It was created by Anike Lawal who has over 7 years experience in Business Development and Management. You can follow them @mamaletteng

5. Motherhood Nigeria

This community shares resources for getting pregnant, when pregnant and how to nurture your children. It  was founded by Abiodun Alabi a HR Pro and entrepreneur. Myths and facts are shared here and they are quite versatile. You can follow them @motherhoodnigeria

6.Pregnancy and Beyond

This is a fun, fact and tips sharing platform. They share personal experiences of other moms for motivation. It is filled with interesting contents on the journey of pregnancy and the beauty of motherhood. You can follow them @pregnnancybeyond

7. Lagos Housewives

This platform shares meal recipes, for moms to try, owned by Rayo Abe, a writer and a cook. There are also engaging contents displaying current happenings and activities.You can follow them @lagoshousewives

8.Imumzone

Real mom stories and baby issues are shared here. It was founded by Modupe Enyinla, a beauty entrepreneur. Pregnancy tips and all a mom needs for her motherhood journey are talked about. Products are also reviewed creating brand awareness. You can follow them @imumzone

 

 

 

 

It occurred to me that no one really prepared women for the changes in their bodies caused by pregnancy and childbearing. So we often struggled with it: from deflated breasts to big stomach club, to postpartum weight gain, to stretch marks, and so on. From the chat, I realized that it was such a serious issue that some women even stopped feeling attractive or desirable because of it and this affected the rhythm of things in their homes.

London Bridge has fallen? As in my no-bra days are over”?

Sonia’s question caused a ripple of laughter in the group.

“You haven’t even experienced it feeling like water sef” Ada opined. This caused further laughter, crying and lots of smileys on the group chat.

I was cradling my little one and couldn’t comment much at that particular time but I don’t think I had ever had that much fun reading the conversations in our young mom’s group. Apparently, Sonia, a first time mom who had just concluded her six months exclusive breastfeeding, was having a hard time processing and accepting the changes in the appearance of her boobs.

“But they used to be so perky” she insisted. Fellow young moms were laughing and typing all kinds of hilarious comments. The moms with older kids in the group were trying to convince her to take it in stride, move on, and buy “lovely bras”.

I realized that was exactly what I did with my own body changes. I “took it in stride”. It occurred to me that no one really prepared women for the changes in their bodies caused by pregnancy and childbearing. So we often struggled with it: from deflated breasts to big stomach club, to postpartum weight gain, to stretch marks, and so on. From the chat, I realized that it was such a serious issue that some women even stopped feeling attractive or desirable because of it and this affected the rhythm of things in their homes.

It then got me thinking, how best can we deal with the changes in our bodies as mothers?

Accept it for what it is

Living in denial about the bodily changes is always counterproductive. Not only that, it’ll affect your mood, attitude and inevitably, your happiness. To fix a problem, you have to first identify that it is there, then you make adequate plans to tackle it.

Deal with the things you can and forget about the rest

You could register at a local gym nearby and get to work; or if you’re pressed for time like me, you could start using a skipping rope in your spare time. No pressure. It took about 9 months for your stomach, for instance, to expand in order to accommodate your little one. So it’s only logical that it’ll take about that same time to return to normal.  You could download apps for dieting and all that, but essentially, take things easy. Join some new moms group on social media just to keep you afloat when you feel low, or talk with an OG like me, haha.

So you can’t fit into your old clothes and it’s making you feel less confident? It’s okay. Just make the decision to start doing something about it. Even if you don’t return to your previous size, you’ll feel good knowing you did something about it.

You’re beautiful and your scars are even more beautiful.

Rita Chidinma

Rita Chidinma is a Post graduate researcher at Federal University of Technology, Owerri with a passion for creative writing and fiction. She is a highly intuitive and deep thinker who uses writing as a means of self expression. In her free time she loves reading, writing and writing some more. She is a wife and mother to three kids. She can be reached on Instagram and Twitter (@theritzz_) or through email, chdinmaasogwa@gmail.com

Source: Bellanaija

No one expects to get a ton of sleep when they have a newborn at home, but most of us believe that we’ll get more sleep when the kids are older.

New research suggests that’s a myth that sets parents up for frustration because parents (particularly mothers) are still sleep deprived four to six years after bringing a baby home.

The study examined the sleep patterns of 4,659 German parents who had a child between 2008 and 2015 and found that parents’ sleep duration and satisfaction don’t recover to pre-pregnancy levels until the first child is in first grade.

Parents of older children often feel like they shouldn’t be as tired as they are since they no longer have a baby at home, but this study proves that sleep deprivation doesn’t end when your child starts sleeping in a big kid bed. It continues, and we can’t address the problem if we don’t acknowledge it.

“While having children is a major source of joy for most parents it is possible that increased demands and responsibilities associated with the role as a parent lead to shorter sleep and decreased sleep quality even up to 6 years after birth of the first child,” says Dr. Sakari Lemola, of the Department of Psychology at the University of Warwick.

And moms get less sleep than dads, a trend that starts right away and lasts until elementary school. Researchers found that in the first three months after a baby is born, mothers sleep on average one hour less than before pregnancy. In those first three months, dads lose out on about 15 minutes.

“Women tend to experience more sleep disruption than men after the birth of a child reflecting that mothers are still more often in the role of the primary caregiver than fathers,” says Dr. Lemola.

By the time the kids in the study were 4 to 6 years old the moms were still missing out on about 20 minutes of sleep, while dad’s sleep deficiency remained steady at 15 minutes below the pre-kids duration.

“We didn’t expect to find that, but we believe that there are certainly many changes in the responsibilities you have,” Dr. Lemola told The Guardian, explaining that kids may stop crying at night as they grow up, but they may wake up feeling sick or due to nightmares, and that stress related to parenting can also keep parents up at night.

First-time parents lose the most sleep compared to more experienced parents, the research notes, and in the first one and a half years of a child’s life, breastfeeding moms lost more sleep compared to bottle-feeding moms.

It may seem kind of bleak to think that you’ll still be losing sleep when your child is in kindergarten, but it’s important for parents to know this so we can set realistic expectations and give ourselves grace when we need it.

You can have a 4-year-old and be almost as tired as you were when they were 4 months old. It’s okay if you need to sneak in a nap today, or if you fall into bed tonight with your mascara on.

There’s nothing wrong with you, there’s nothing wrong with your kiddo. It’s just a part of parenting.

The good news is, parents don’t get more sleep deprived the more kids they have. Whether you have one under six or three under six, you’re still only going to lose 20 minutes.

If you are feeling really sleep deprived, don’t be afraid to ask your village for help. If your partner, co-parent, a grandparent or trusted babysitter can stand in for you overnight, let them help you and get the sleep you need.

One day your kids will sleep through the night, but it’s okay to ask for help until that day comes.

Source: Motherly