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Blessing Timidi Digha is the Executive Director and also works as the Community Mobilization and Advocacy Officer at African Girl Child Development and Support Initiative, a non-governmental, not for profit organization that advocates and works towards the advancement and development of the Nigerian Girl Child through Advocacy, Research and Interventions.  Her Foray into activism began actively during her stint with pregnancy as a teenager where her eyes were opened to the plights girl children faced when it came to Sexuality Education, Teenage Pregnancy and Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights. Today, she has dedicated at least ten years of her life working on issues and interventions as it relates to the girl child particularly in the Nigerian and African context and with much bias to Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights, Feminism and Gender Equality. She shares her story in this inspiring interview.

Growing up

My childhood and teenage years prepared me a lot for what I do now, in fact I will say my experiences shaped me for all I do. My experiences growing up in my family, church, my personal experiences especially with sexual debut and experimentation as a teenager , getting pregnant as a teenager, seeking for love in the wrong places, quest for knowledge and a whole lot prepared and shaped me with mostly first hand experiences and witnessing the experiences of others.

30 and daring

My name is Blessing Timidi Digha, I clocked 30 on the 5th of March, I am a mother to three beautiful children (two girls and a boy) and I advocate on Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights (SRHR) especially as it affects young girls and women and also consult on advocacy and community Mobilization/engagement. I run African Girl Child Development and Support Initiative. I identify as a feminist because I believe and advocate for EQUAL opportunities politically, economically, socially, educationally etc for both Male’s and Females. I am an ambivert with my introvert side more domineering except of course while I am at work where I can be very chatty and in your face but I like my privacy and quiet a lot. I am a Women Deliver Young Leader, a ONE Champion, a #Choice4Life advocate which are a few of the platforms where I contribute towards the rights of girls and SRHR. I love colours and can paint, draw and do some calligraphy, I also play with simple graphic designs, I am a creative in my own right who has also learnt do different many things *thanks to my mom*. I have a strong support system in my Family and partner who supports all my work  when I have to be away and need someone to take care of my kids, someone to talk to at any time or advice me. I am a polyglot (I speak a couple of Nigerian languages and learning to speak some foreign ones at the moment). I cry a lot (whether I am happy, sad, depressed, confused, disappointed, tired, anything, crying is the outlet for me). I love travelling.

 

Going into Advocacy

I started advocacy when I got pregnant as a teenager. My eyes got opened to the issues that girls face  as a result of lack of inadequate sexuality education which leads /can lead to teenage pregnancy among other things. So I started with Sexuality education which was strictly abstinence based. Along the line while developing myself and interacting with young girls, I realised no one is thinking of the young girls that have already debuted sex and how they will wade off unintended pregnancies or unsafe abortions amongst others or just make informed choices.. Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights covers a whole of issues especially issues that we especially as Africans/Nigerians don’t like to talk about or don’t see as an issue such as Menstruation, Female Genital Mutilation, Family Planning, WASH (Water, Sanitation and Hygiene), Consent, Child /Early/Forced Marriage, Rape, Unsafe Abortions and a whole lot. I also work also with individuals and organisations on issues that surround the rights and SRHR of girls and women and policies.

What inspires me

Nature abhors vacuum and a lot of things and people fill the vacuum. A lot of things and people inspire me. I am inspired by positive events as they affect the lives of girls and women Eg policy changes, structures etc. I am inspired by people who are doing something worthwhile and impacting lives positively. I am inspired by children especially their tenacity and persistence. I am inspired by colours

Greatest reward

The greatest reward I have ever gotten for what I do is when I get feedback that what I have taught  helped girls and women  to make informed choices as it regards their SRHR.

Challenges

In the line of work I have faced and still face criticism from people, brick walls from girls and women whose rights especially their SRHR has been violated when I try to step in, opposition from men who feel they should have the final say in the health and life of women even when the acts are obviously endangering the girls and women involved, , opposition from many religious institutions and leaders who feel some of ‘these’ things should not be talked about by religious leaders or on religious platforms when we seek to include them in sensitization, challenges in  getting the police  to act swiftly while trying to educate them on existing laws or policies that cover the issues at hand which they tend to mostly see as domestic issues, challenges in interacting with cultures that refuse to see certain acts as issues that violate the rights and SRHR of girls and women and lastly insults from some family members from time to time who always still bring up my experience with teenage pregnancy to judge my work.

My projects

  1. A reusable pad sewing hub- teenagers, young mothers are taught how to make reusable pads from clothing materials which are still neat but are no longer used to allow for dignity in periods especially as the price of sanitary pads keep skyrocketing. This way every girl and woman can manage her menstruation hygienically. We also work on issues surrounding menstruation Eg the possibility of Menstrual Leave, engaging policy makers in issues of Menstruation (WASH, availability of menstrual management products etc)
  2. Girls Support Club under the umbrella of African Girl Child Development and Support Initiative where girls and recently we have had boys join us to learn and talk about issues that affect girls and boys while growing up and how they can avoid these issues. We run self defence classes against sexual assault, keep a toilet clean, One pack of pad One Girl, Counselling etc as activities under this club. Safe spaces!!!!! This is one project I really really love. As the name implies it is a safe space for women and girls fleeing any form of abuse and a need a space void of judgement and forced opinions to get themselves together or decide on what next to do. I have had to use a safe space myself for sometime to evaluate my options and the way forward. This was born out of the inadequate support people face in abuse especially women where they are expected to stay and pray it out, stay for the kids etc when even as little as small space would have gone a long way to rectifying a lot or saving the person’s life. Presently we use the spare room in my apartment but a place in a highly secured area is being set up for official safe spaces residence and a few friends have also offered their residences as support safe spaces. . Storytelling – recently trained by The Moth on Storytelling, I have began exploring Storytelling in Advocacy and how we can use stories to tell issues in advocacy and SRHR in a bid to reach stakeholders/gatekeepers, policy makers, organizations, individuals and the entire public.

I felt like giving up several times

A time? A time is too small to quantify when I have wanted to give up. I have felt like giving up MANY times, when my finances don’t add up, when all the things I hear on the field keep ringing in my head, when I feel I am not spending enough time with my kids, so many times I have thought of it but then the next day I am at it all over again, Infact most times in the midst of my thoughts, something will just come up and I am back to doing I love doing. I also get encouraged by people.

My view on feminism

Feminism in Nigeria has always been here since the days of our mothers who led and sought out equal opportunities in all areas. Women like Funmilayo Ransome-Kuti, Margaret Ekpo, Flora Nwapa, Queen Amina, Buchi Emecheta, were all feminists. Despite the misinterpretation and ignorance oof Feminism in Nigeria by many people and its portrayal as women being rebels and not wanting to cook or wanting to put the men under their feet by men and women alike, Feminism in Nigeria is here to stay and we will eventually get it right. Patriarchy and sadly religion has portrayed women as weaker vessels and Nigerians use religion to justify everything, good or bad but eventually we will get it right with adequate sensitization and education of concepts in demanding equal opportunities for females and males in all sectors.

Being a woman of rubies

My contribution to the society advocating for Sexual Reproductive Health and Rights of girls and women and talking about topics that won’t be discussed in my own little corner.

Final word

Women’s rights are human rights. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

 

Hundreds of people including South African President, Jacob Zuma and other high-profile mourners gathered in Hebron in the North West on Friday for the funeral service of motivational speaker, Ontlametse Phalatse.

The 18-year-old ‘small girl with big personality’ as she was fondly called, died last Tuesday at Dr George Mukhari Academic Hospital in Ga-Rankuwa, outside Pretoria after experiencing breathing problems.

Phalatse suffered from Progenia, a rare genetic disorder which causes rapid premature aging. She was one of the two South Africans living with the disorder. Her doctor predicted that she would only survive until her 14th birthday but on March 25 she turned 18 after finishing her matric.

Her ambition was to see her family living in a decent house and owning a car. During his 75th birthday celebration, President Zuma presented Phalatse’s family with a car. Last month, the President also fulfilled the young girl’s other wish which was to meet him on her 18th birthday.

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When something is beyond some people’s comprehension, they call it a lie. It’s called Grace…:-). Media Personality, Toke Makinwa who is currently in USA for her book tour lectured a group of graduate students in NYU on Wednesday, April 19th. She shared new photos from the lecture and addressed people who claimed she lied about it. She wrote;
Aww…thank you Prof L.
Getting feedback of my guest lecture at NYU warms my heart. This was my first attempt at teaching and it went really well. To share my knowledge on brand building even while I’m still learning can only be a blessing from God and I am available to be further used by him. Was I nervous? Hell yeah. But just the thought of a Nigerian girl sharing her success story to a room full ofI multinational students was enough to push me. Funny thing is while the lecture was going on God used the ignorance of many to further illustrate my point to the class. The students checked me out online and found out I was trending and it led to questions about dealing with negative feedback from customers and how to deal with the not so great comments and it was nice to use a practical example. You can’t take the good alone, try as much as possible to cater to every customer there will be some that are completely hard to please and that’s ok! Keep working on your product, keep evolving and pushing the envelope, don’t get distracted, keep at it till you perfect your craft and even after you think you have, there’s still some room to become some more.
 
I pray my life inspires someone out there to be BOLD in the face of storms, I hope you take a chance and live unapologetically. #onbecomingaglobalbrand#NYU #guestlecturer #TMtotheworld #ProfessorTM

Veteran actress, Taiwo Ajai-Lycett, was a guest on the first episode of Kemi Adetiba’s Kingwomen Series. Did we love every bit of it? Here are our top 5 quotes from the much inspiring interview.

On confidence

“If you’re good, you don’t need anybody’s approval. That’s the passport to wherever it is you want to go. People would want to know you because it’s your mind that attracts them.”

On ageing

“I’ve accepted every stage of my life the way it comes. Everything that life gives to you, you should use. You shouldn’t worry about your body. The responsibility you owe your body is for it to be fit.”

On charting her own course

“I don’t believe in luck. I believe you make your luck. You create your own path. When you spend your time waiting for somebody to do it for you, you’re wasting time. They have their own lives to lead and live.”

On the need for knowledge

“Knowledge is of the essence. Why do we think we can just get there, not by learning? The greatest evil we have in the world is ignorance.”

On authenticity

“You’ve got to be your authentic self. I am not ashamed of who I am.  The Lord God made us in perfection.  It’s not my job to make anything easy for anybody, but it’s my job to authentic.”

See full video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFlsebU2RtY

Source: Leadingladies Africa

Mumpreneur Tour Diary
Day 1: The Jobmag Center, Yaba

The panel for the Kick off session had Mr. Femi Onakanren, a serial entrepreneur, Mrs Maureen Iyasele, Sme coach and Founder The jobmag Center, our hosts of the day and of course your mumpreneur, Mofolusade Sonaike. It turned out to be a great mix of the passionate cheerleaders and the cynic who kept us grounded. Guess who our cynic was? I am not telling. Lol

We kicked off at a few minutes past 10, I was challenged to meet the first mumpreneur already waiting at the Center. The women we met today mainly had challenges with figuring out how to kickstart their new ideas and transition from full time employment to entrepreneurship. As is the case with many of us, our heads run amock with ideas that are all over the place and we often cannot move forward unless we streamline. Here are a few highlights from today’s sessions.

1.      Defining exactly what it is you want to do is critical

As basic as this might sound, it can get complicated and more often than not it does. It requires some brain storming and analysis to be able to drill down to your specific business offering. What is it you are offering to the market? Is it a product or a service? What is this product or service? You also need to keep it as simple and make it as clear as possible.

2.      Build expertise

Before you jump into any business, you need to be informed about what the business entails and get knowledge on the subject matter. How? Get training for instance, get a mentor or volunteer/intern with someone who is already doing what you want to do. Nothing beats experience.

3.      Avoid the trap of over analyzing, get out there and do

By the end of the sessions today, we had named Maureen the “Do-er”, lol! But hey like she kept saying, the taste of the pudding is in the eating. You can build financial models, draw up business plans and put down the best strategy on paper, until you actually get out there and do something, you will never know anything. Running a pilot of your business helps you get clarity.

Mumpreneur Tour Diary
Day 2: Gmoty Fashion Hub, Amuwo Odofin, Mile 2

Today was different, Mr. Kehinde Olagbenjo made a guest appearance for one of the sessions, so mumpreneur was a “lonely Londoner” for the most part of today’s sessions.

Omotola Omesebi, our host and founder of the hub, did a great job of spreading the word in her community, she had seven women waiting back to back to go through the sessions, most of which were either her current students at the fashion training school or past students running their own outfits already. So we has a some women who just didn’t know exactly where or how to start and some others who were looking to expand their market reach or reposition.

Here’s a summary of the top take aways from today;

1.      Be specific and detailed about your target audience

Many times when you ask people who their target audience is, they generalize and say things like – Women, Children, low to medium income earners (whatever this means, lol) etc. I got a lot of that today and helped these mumpreneurs realize the need to drill further to a more specific audience.  When I think about it, it’s a bit of wishful thinking to want to target all the women in Nigeria for instance with limited resources as a startup in the fashion industry. Serving your immediate community is hard enough, and if you can do that and do it well, you are more likely to have a business as opposed to trying to reach a  market, you do not have the resources to cater to.

One quote that I saw recently put it this way, when you try to talk to everybody, you end up talking to nobody. When your message is clearly targeted at a specific audience, your marketing efforts will almost always hit the target. For instance, a fashion designer who targets strictly plus sized women, is more likely to stand out and attract her target audience than a fashion designer who does every and anybody. Point is, to drill down to specifics, so much so that your ideal customer or target is a person you can visualize.

2.      A strong online presence is important

One of the participants lamented that she has had challenges attracting premium customers that can pay for the quality she offers. To her mind, she had identified her location as the reason for this and was considering relocating her store front to the island. While location can influence the cadre of clients you attract, social media and online mareting have removed such limitations and given businesses access to new markets without breaking the bank.

To buttress this, I gave her examples of businesses doing very well operating strictly online. Your positioning online is important and can send a message of either a premium or an inexpensive brand. There has to be a deliberate and consistent effort which is evident in your visual elements, the type of pictures you post (pictures are everything! I tell you), the way you communicate, your affiliations and mentions amongst other things. There’s a lot more to this, but this is just a summary and I am keeping it simple.

3.      Get a handle of your finances

Many of the women I spoke to today listed finance as one of their top challenges. I asked them to assume I was an investor looking to invest in them and then asked them to tell me precisely how much they needed and what they needed this amount for, I spared them the complexity of telling me what that investment would yield if they got it (not that, it isn’t important).

Let’s just say, all of them left convinced that finance was the least of their problems, Lol! I will be getting a lot of assignments turned in next week and we will take it from there.

If you have a business idea, don’t be scared to put pen on paper or hands on keyboard as the case may be to create your road map, set targets and timelines. A business model canvas is a great tool to get you started.

I must sleep now, we have Gbagada to tackle tomorrow. Let’s see what that locations holds.

Pictures from Day 2

Mumpreneur Tour Diary
Day 3: Jenniez School Of African Interior Design, Gbagada

When I was setting dates for the tour, I totally forgot today would be good Friday, a holiday. It’s funny because when in my banking days, I knew every single holiday on the calendar through the year, because I always just couldn’t wait. Lol. Anyways, I was a bit apprehensive today, wondering if the women who signed up for this location would show. If there’s anyting I have learnt in my entrepreneurship journey however, it is the determination to get up, dress up and show up, consistently even when I don’t feel like it. That’s what I did and yaaay, they showed.

I must appreciate my Brand Manager and Camera crew, they have been even more committed to this than I have been. Always ready to go. You guys rock!

My first participant was someone who only heard about the tour in passing a few days ago. She did mention that she was going to come, but I wasn’t sure she would, afterall it was a holiday. Alas, just as I got to the location and we started setting up, she walked in. Talk about someone who really wants to change her game! Go mama!.

Here’s a summary of the top take aways from today;

1.      Yes you are multi talented, but it’s more effective to Streamline

I don’t know if this is just my observation, but when you ask a Nigerian woman what she does, they always start with a sigh… like hmm, where do I start? Lol. This is because most times, they do myriads of different things, sometimes even totally unrelated. One of the women I met with, has a catering side hustle and runs a fashion outfit.

While it is good that we are oh so gifted and can multitask, streamlining and focusing on doing one thing and perfecting it is a key to success. Running a business that is properly structured requires a lot of work, work that is attractive and a lot that is un-attractive. To get the best results, I always suggest building and setting up one business at a time.

2.      Be clear on your business offering and communicate this clearly

Don’t confuse your potential clients. If you can’t communicate what your business offering in a simple sentence, it’s probably too complicated and needs to be simplified. Your business must have a core purpose i.e. the problem it was set up to solve. You can then define the services that business will offer in a clear and concise way.

What problem are you set up to solve? Henry Ford wanted to democratize the automobile – make it available to everyone. Bill Gates wanted to put the PC inside every home in America. Steve jobs wanted to put the powerful computer inside a phone – make it very easy to use.

3.      Don’t Operate Blind – Document your plan

I am sure you might be looking at this and wondering, this goes without saying, but hey from what I have seen, a good number of us have that phobia for sitting down and documenting our plans before we launch. I have also observed that this is so because we have this grandiose ideas about what a business plan should look like. Maybe some high level 50 page document with financial projections and models. Lol!

A business plan simply put is just your road map, unless you are applying for a grant or a bank loan, it doesn’t need to be overly complicated. It is meant to make you think about how you want to get from point A to point B. How much do you want to make this year? How many clients do you need to get you to that target sum? What are the things you need to put in place to serve that number of clients effectively? How much will it cost you to acquire and serve those clients. It can be that simple. You can break this down into monthly goals and objectives or even weekly, whatever works for you.

I enjoyed chatting with all these different women this week. Special thanks to Maureen Iyasele of the Jobmag center, yaba, Omotola Omosebi of Gmoty Fashion hub, Amuwo Odofin and Jennifer Chukwujekwe of Jenniez School Of African Interior Design, Gbagada. Next week we tour Ikeja, Ikoyi and Lekki. You can still register if you haven’t .


 

Mumpreneur Tour Diary
Day 4: The Plectrum Hub, Ikeja

We took Monday off to join Bellafricana in celebrating African creatives. It was a successful event that pulled together veterans in the Nigerian entrepreneurship space as well as the new much younger businesses all doing innovative things.

The tour kicked off anniversary activities at the Plectrum Hub. The Hub was launched fully in April last year and is celebrating the one-year mark with different activities all week long. The sessions held in Ikeja were quite interesting and as usual I will share the highlights here.

1.      Don’t get fixated on a particular element of your plan, be flexible in your approach

I have been down this road before. When I started my first business, I had this big picture of a super ecommerce website that would do all sorts of things. I wasn’t ready to move on till I had it exactly the way I wanted it. Even the designer I engaged advised me to start off with Facebook pages first but I wasn’t having it. So there I was not moving forward because I felt stuck. We went from design to design. I kept putting everything off till after the website.

When my first participant started to mention a particular concept she had hinged on getting a shop in a particular location, I immediately remembered that. She kept saying I have this plan once I get the space, I will do that once I get the space. Now it is good to know what you want and go for it, by all means. It becomes a problem however when it holds you hostage and you put everything else on hold because of it.

Guess what, I got my website eventually, but I never sold one single thing through that website because while I was so fixated on the website and it’s look and feel, I totally left out the important part, selling! It was beautiful, just as I pictured, but it didn’t convert.

Have a plan by all means, but don’t be fixated on one particular path. There are many ways to kill a cat. Keep your mind open.

2.      Life is in stages, Understand your reality and work around it

This is specifically for mumpreneurs. Most of the women I have spoken to during the course of this tour struggle with juggling raising toddlers (especially between the ages of 1 and 6) and running their business. One of them who bakes cakes, said she has to ensure all cakes for the day are out of the oven by 3p.m at the latest so she can do school run. Of course once the children are back with her, all major work comes to a halt pretty much.

I know many other mumpreneurs can relate to this. My boys are a bit older now and so it is less crazy for me, but I passed through this phase when I felt my productivity was at its lowest because I had toddlers to nurture. My advise to most of them is summarized below.

This is your reality; accept it. Put yourself on a routine, planning around the children. If you are in business for the long haul, know that the business is not going anywhere, especially if you take the needed time to set up a structure and document your systems and processes, such that any other person can execute.
Your Children on the other hand will grow up and move on some day, so enjoy this period with them, and do your part to instill the right values in them. Secondly, don’t hesitate to ask for help. The second mumprener I spoke to said she gets help from her Mum and her sisters when she is overwhelmed. They mind the children temporarily when she needs to attend to other things.

All in all, it’s a phase that will pass. Plan and take one day at a time.

I realize that each time I speak to these mumpreneurs, the learning is both ways. I always come away with something myself. Tomorrow we go to Ikoyi.

It was a Saturday morning, Tara had just finished her chores and had gone to use the bathroom as is customary.

Saturday’s were for catching up on hygiene and general body image. Today was no exception. She was midway through her routine weekly pubic hair removal when her sister, Feyisara pushed her way into the bathroom.

The 3 Bedroom Flat they lived had just one bathroom and a toilet, meaning, everyone went about their ‘business’ with the consciousness that someone might be waiting.

Tara was taking too long and Feyisara had pushed the door open to get in. The nail behind the door that functioned as the lock gave way too quickly.

“Open your legs wider” Feyisara said with a very puzzled look on her face.

Feyisara is 5 years older than Tara and had just secured admission into the university. She was the big sister Tara looked up to though she had 4 others.

Frightened at the bewildered look on her sister’s face, Tara opened her legs wider before asking “What? Kini? I am using a shaving stick now, not blade. Is there a cut?”

“No, no cut. Just that your ‘thing’ looks funny’

Tara then spread her legs wider, bent down to inspect her pubic area, more critically for the first time.

“Hurry up, we need to show mummy”.
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“Oya, laaa, spread your legs, spread it wide”, Mrs Lawal commanded, adjusting her glasses which seemed to be permanently falling off her nose.

“Hmm, Okay, don’t worry. It’s okay”.

Tara stood up from their Mothers bed, pulling her pant and hastily adjusting her skirt as if the whole essence had not just gone through scrutiny.

She didn’t realize the weight of that inspection until Mrs Lawal stopped at the family Doctor’s office on their way from the market later in the day.

Two elderly doctors with gloves in hand, had gathered and were now looking into her, flipping her labia from side to side as if she was some specimen.
Some minutes of medical jargons passed and finally, they were ushered back to the Doctors office.
The family Doctor then asked Mrs Lawal if she wanted their practice to be reported to WHO.

WHO? That acronym sounds very familiar isn’t that World Health Organization? It definitely is.

“Mrs Lawal, cutting the labia means circumcising your daughter and in this day and age, Doctors get reported for doing that”.

Bam! Now she understands. It is all making sense now. The friction she thought her vagina sometimes made with her Jean trouser through her pants that caused slight discomfort is her longer-than-normal Labia Minora. Any attempt at shortening the length is generally referred to as genital mutilation since there was relatively no health implications.
The ‘reporting to WHO’ part may have been exaggerated but she just escaped CIRCUMCISION at 16 years old!
Wow, very close shave.

True Life Story As Shared By Tara Lawal (pseudo name)

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What is Female Genital Mutilation (FGM)?

The partial or complete removal of the external female genital organs for non-medical reasons.
Such organs include; clitoral hood and clitoral glans, inner labia, inner and outer labia, closure of vulva also known as infibulation (Type 3).

The practice, commonly found in Africa, Asia and the Middle East is an attempt to control female/women sexuality. Aside its deep roots in gender inequality, this practice also has numerous health effects; keloid scar formation, cysts formation and abscesses, hemorrhage and infections, fatal bleeding, urinary incontinence, painful sexual intercourse, hypersensitivity of the genital area, difficulty in childbirth and so on.

In Type 3 FGM, there are reported cases of complete vaginal obstruction resulting in the accumulation of menstrual blood in the vagina and uterus. It creates a physical barrier to sexual intercourse and childbirths. Some women have had to endure the psychological trauma and painful experience associated with having their vulvas surgically opened before they got intimate with partners.

Studies have shown that there is an increased risk of Caesarian section, episiotomy, post partum hemorrhage with women who have undergone Type 3  FGM.

Till date, there is no reported health benefit to FGM.

The Continents that are most notorious for this practice are now well informed about the issues and health effects. Most have outlawed it however, enforcing these laws is a major challenge in completely eradicating this process of ridiculing the women folk.

Kudos to every individual and organization tirelessly working to stop FGM.

#saynotofemalegenitalmutilation
#WHO
#UNFPA
#UNICEF
#forwarduk

While the brilliant Adenrele Sonariwo was an auditor at one of the world’s top accounting firms, PricewaterhouseCoopers (PwC), she discovered her love for art – a love she found while looking for an outlet for self-expression outside of work.

This passion for the arts led her to quit her enviable job and start the Rele Gallery: a cultural and contemporary art space that offers art for public consumption and at the same time, nurtures the creators of the art – bringing their work to the attention of a larger, global audience.

 

Since Rele’s launch over two years ago, Adenrele has organized various programs – from book readings to exhibitions – that have attracted talents like Victor Ehikhamenor and Kelechi Amadi-Obi.

Adenrele also has a passion for young artists which led her to create Young Contemporary. The annual project finds five artists working with various mediums, showcases their work and gets corporate brands to sponsor.

In 2011, Adenrele tried to start the first solely Arts university in Nigeria, The Modern Day School of the Arts, and although that didn’t work out, it’s still something she plans to do in the future – and we are definitely rooting for her.

You can keep up with the Rele gallery on Instagram and their website.

Source: Konbini.com

 

In a documentary released by the Presidency, some of the abducted school girls who were rescued by a team of soldiers last year, shared on their dreams and aspirations. The girls who looked better than before, said they have all started classes again. One of them said she loves Chemistry, Physics, Mathematics and English Language and that she hopes to become a doctor someday. Watch a clip from the documentary after the cut.

Idongesit Harrison Umoh is the owner and CEO of Idong Harrie Limited, a footwear and accessory manufacturing and retailing company based in Lagos that specializes in handmade shoes, slippers, sandals, wallets, handbags and all manner of small leather accessories. In this interview with TOBI AWODIPE, she reveals how she started out with pocket money, the challenges she faces in a male-dominated industry and how women are refusing to take advantage of business opportunities around them.

When did you decide to go into entrepreneurship and did you always think this is what you would do?
I would say I stumbled into this because growing up, I wanted to become a lawyer but I later changed my mind to become an economist. But then along the line, I found out that I could make shoes and turned out to be something I enjoyed doing. It started out as a hobby and I was just thrilled that I could create something with my own hands and I took it from there.

 Starting out?
I started this as a hobby in 2005, I was in my second year in the university then and I was sitting and thinking about my life. My eyes fell on a pair of slippers someone had given my mum, it was a beaded slippers and something in me, which I believe now to be the Holy Spirit, told me, ‘Idong you can create this slippers’. I took the slippers and checked how it was made then took it to Tejuosho market and to my surprise; all the materials were there. I immediately bought all the materials needed to make the upper part of the slippers and I took it home and started trying to re-create the original slippers. Amazingly, I got it and this gave me joy but there was a problem – I could create the upper part but not the bottom. As fate would have it, there was this cobbler that had a shop opposite my house and took the slippers to him asking if he could make the bottom part and he did. However the first day I wore the slippers, which also happened to be a rainy day, I hadn’t moved 10 steps from my house when the slippers cut and all the beads scattered. I had to walk with one slipper back home but from then on; I decided I was going to make my slippers myself, with special focus on the materials being used. I went back to ask him where he got his materials from and he said from Mushin market. When I got to the market, I stood out because bearing in mind that this was in 2005 and most women hadn’t really fully gotten into the footwear industry. However, I met a God-sent fellow shoe-maker who showed me some of his works, and which turned out to be things I wanted to make. Seeing my enthusiasm, he offered to train me on how to make the bottom part properly and on the use of leather. I under-studied him for a month and at the end, I became proficient and started selling footwear I made myself to my friends in school.

 Raising the needed capital?
Believe it or not, I started this business with N10, 000- pocket money given to me by my father that I had been saving. Out of this money, I used N7, 000 to buy a sewing machine (as at then, you could get a fairly-used Butterfly sewing machine for this amount) and the remaining N3, 000, I spent on materials. I won’t even call it a business then because I just knew I could make slippers for petty sales and didn’t take it too serious. After I finished my service year, I was opportuned to work with Nokia where they paid me N70, 000. I was blown away with this ‘big money’ and I grabbed the opportunity with both hands and pushed my shoe-making dreams to a corner. But I knew that I would always still go back to making footwear, which I eventually did.

Business Moments
There have been so many moments, in fact, I still faced one yesterday. But top of the list has to be getting negative feedbacks from customers. However, this happened mostly when I was starting out compared to now that I am an expert (laughing). Another problem I have is with my workers.

Challenges
Getting people to recognize and believe in my brand. When I started, I was mainly making men’s products and a lot of men didn’t believe in what I was doing and asked why I woke up one morning and decided to make men’s shoes. This was long before this ‘Buy Nigeria To Grow The Naira’, so it was like me introducing something new to them and trying to convince them to buy my products. Another great challenge is getting adequate raw materials. For example, I might make a pair of shoes with a particular shade of blue and it is on my website, but by the time a customer wants to order for it and I go to the market, I wouldn’t see that shade again and then I have to start apologizing and explaining to the customer, which doesn’t look too good.

Highpoints
One day I went for a meeting and I saw three people wearing my products in the room. The fact that people still order and buy my products daily, this means they believe in what I’m doing, in the brand. When customers refer others to me, it gives me immense joy. I have customers that have been buying from me steadily since 2013 and they’re still buying till now.

Achieving goals?
Well, if it is my set out goal in the last one year, I would say yes but I have long-term goals, which are yet to materialize but I would say I have achieved my short-term goals.

Women and Entrepreneeurship
I would say yes and no. Yes, because a lot of women are now business owners. I mean, look at make up artists, they’re now beating fashion designers clearly. No, because when it comes to business competitions, seminars, putting themselves out there and applying for proper help and loans to boost their businesses, men have this cornered hands down. Despite the myriad opportunities out there, women aren’t taking advantage at all. They come crying to me about their businesses and when I direct them to places that can help, they would refuse. I was a Tony Elumelu Foundation recipient and the percentage of women to men was about 21:79, not even up to a quarter and this is how it is for every single business opportunity.

Why do you think this is so?
I would say laziness and many of them don’t believe in themselves. Judges ask some women questions about their businesses, which should be at the tip of their fingers, and to answer becomes a problem. Basic questions like ‘who are your competitors, what is your unique selling point?’ most of them claim they don’t have time to answer these questions. Some of them refuse to participate in pitching competitions, claiming they are shy but they don’t know nobody can know your business better than you, the owner.

Government support for SMES
Yes and No. Yes, they are beginning to make small efforts. Look at what Lagos State is doing, creating schemes where small businesses can apply for grants, loans and trainings in their different industries. Lagos is offering small businesses loans at an extremely low interest rate. This is a major opportunity small businesses can benefit from. No also because they have refused to provide basic infrastructure that can help us grow such as electricity, water, and the likes.

Coping with Recession
For me, it’s been a mixture of bad and good. Bad, because most of our raw materials are imported. I went to Kano in January to see about buying leather in large quantities and though I partnered with a few sellers, I can tell you the difference in price between the local and imported is very marginal. Personally, I would rather buy the imported ones because it offers varieties and proximity. It has been good because it has enabled a lot of people look inwards, buying locally made shoes instead of importing because of the forex difference. It has really boosted sales for us, I must confess.

What keeps you going?
Customers that patronize me daily, no day passes that I don’t have several orders. My staff also: they’re dependent on me for their daily bread and they have families that are dependent on them as well. This makes me jump out of bed every morning. Also, I’m building something that is made in Nigeria and we are putting Nigeria on the global map.

Advice  to budding Entrepreneurs
Perseverance and persistency. Consistency is important. Entrepreneurship is not all sunshine and roses: you may be depressed, be left with nothing in your account and you would want to quit severally. Every entrepreneur goes through these phases, just keep improving and staying true to yourself. However, just start; there is no better time than the present. Your morning is when you wake up and it’s never too late to start working on your dream.

Source: Guardian