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Fola Adegoke is the founder and lead Career Coach at Winfinite Consulting. She is a trailblazer in the field of Cybersecurity & IT Audit training. With a passion for empowering professionals and a comprehensive understanding of career challenges and opportunities. With her expertise and passion, Fola has become a trusted guide and inspiration for professionals seeking success in cybersecurity. Her journey is a testament to the power of determination, knowledge, and the relentless pursuit of one’s dreams.

In this article, we will explore Fola’s remarkable journey, the inspiration behind Winfinite Consulting, and how her immigration to Canada four years ago transformed her life.

Fola Winfinite Consulting

Early Influences

Fola’s childhood laid the foundation for her current career. Growing up in a loving and supportive environment, she nurtured a thirst for learning and problem-solving. Her talkative nature and communication skills developed during lively conversations with family and friends, unknowingly shaping her future role as a Cybersecurity Career Coach. Fola’s dreams of becoming an Engineer instilled her with a passion for critical thinking and puzzle-solving—essential qualities in the cybersecurity industry.

The Birth of Winfinite Consulting

Her strong desire to promote diversity and equality in the industry led her to establish Winfinite Consulting. Witnessing the struggles faced by immigrants in finding rewarding jobs due to non-recognition of qualifications, she leveraged her expertise in Cybersecurity and IT Audit to guide and empower them. Fola’s guidance became highly sought after, driving her to create Winfinite Consulting as a platform to empower individuals from all backgrounds. The goal was to provide practical, hands-on training that would prepare aspiring professionals for the challenges they would face in the cybersecurity industry.

The Journey of Winfinite Consulting

Since its inception, Winfinite Consulting has experienced remarkable growth and success. Fola’s coaching approach, centered around individual aspirations and development, has empowered numerous professionals to transition into high-demand cybersecurity careers. The positive impact of Winfinite Consulting is evident in the success stories of individuals who have unlocked hidden potential and secured rewarding jobs. Fola’s expertise as a thought leader, trainer, and speaker has garnered recognition and earned her nominations for prestigious awards.

Challenges in the Cybersecurity Landscape

Fola encounters various challenges in her line of work. Keeping pace with the ever-evolving threat landscape requires constant upskilling and staying updated on industry trends and regulations. Bridging the skills gap and addressing the talent shortage in the cybersecurity industry is another significant challenge. Fola strives to attract and nurture diverse talent by providing practical training that prepares students for real-world challenges. Balancing security and usability is an ongoing endeavor that requires innovative approaches and a deep understanding of both security principles and practical usability.

Inspiring Women in Cybersecurity

Fola’s work has become a beacon of inspiration for women in the field. By breaking barriers and shattering stereotypes, she showcases that gender is not a limitation in pursuing a successful career in the male-dominated cybersecurity industry. Fola actively promotes the inclusion of women, sharing her knowledge and experiences to motivate them to embrace their skills and passions in this exciting domain. Her journey and positive impact serve as inspiration for other women to believe in themselves, overcome challenges, and make their mark in cybersecurity.

Other Projects and Activities

In addition to her work at Winfinite Consulting, Fola is currently focused on automating processes to enhance efficiency as the company continues to grow. For example, she is implementing a Learning Management System to streamline onboarding.

Fola Winfinite Consulting

Enjoying the Journey

Fola finds great joy in meeting new people, learning new things, and keeping up with evolving threats and risks. The combination of fulfillment and excitement that her work brings is a constant source of motivation. Guiding individuals with no prior experience to achieve their goals in cybersecurity, witnessing their transformation.

Empowering Change

As a Woman of Rubies, Fola embodies the qualities of strength, resilience, and compassion. She has overcome numerous obstacles throughout her career, displaying unwavering determination and tenacity in carving a successful path. Sarah’s commitment to driving positive change extends beyond her own achievements. As a Career Coach and trainer, she dedicates herself to empowering others, especially women, to succeed in the face of adversity. She firmly believes in the power of diversity and inclusivity, and she actively works towards creating opportunities for underrepresented individuals in the cybersecurity sector.

Inspiring the Next Generation

To young women aspiring to enter the cybersecurity sector, Fola has a powerful message: believe in yourself and embrace your unique strengths and perspectives. She emphasizes the importance of constant learning and challenging oneself in a dynamic industry like cybersecurity. She encourages aspiring professionals to seek mentors and supportive communities that can guide and inspire them on their journey. She firmly believes that every individual has the ability to make a positive impact and contribute to the cybersecurity landscape.

In the ever-changing landscape of education, there are exceptional individuals who go above and beyond to make a difference. Banke is one such individual—an exceptional educator, visionary leader, and relentless advocate for educational empowerment. With an unwavering passion for learning and a profound commitment to transforming the educational landscape, Banke is dedicated to bridging the gaps faced by today’s learners. Let’s delve into the inspiring journey and transformative initiatives of this remarkable education advocate.

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The Family Legacy

Banke’s roots in education run deep. Coming from a long line of educators, with her mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother all pursuing careers in education, Banke carries on the family legacy of inspiring and nurturing young minds. From an early age, she witnessed the transformative power of education and was inspired to follow in the footsteps of her predecessors.

Academic Excellence and Leadership

Banke’s pursuit of educational excellence led her to obtain a Masters in Education and International Development from the Institute of Education, University College London (UCL), and a distinction in Master of Public Administration from Queen Mary University of London. These achievements, combined with her exceptional leadership qualities, establish her as an authority in the field of education. Recognizing her potential and contributions, Banke was awarded a prestigious Ph.D. scholarship from Queen Mary, University of London, further cementing her dedication and expertise.

The Entrepreneurial Spirit

Banke’s journey as an educator began at a young age when she started tutoring at her mother’s school at the age of 16. This early experience ignited her passion for teaching and laid the foundation for her remarkable career in education. However, Banke’s entrepreneurial spirit didn’t stop at traditional teaching methods. She recognized the need for innovative solutions to bridge the gaps in the Nigerian education system.

My Tutor and I (MTI)

Recognizing the plight of exceptional Nigerian teachers who were unfairly compensated, Banke conceived the groundbreaking idea of My Tutor and I (MTI). This initiative aimed to revolutionize the education landscape in Nigeria, focusing on empowering Nigerian teachers. However, the COVID-19 pandemic presented unforeseen challenges that ignited Banke’s entrepreneurial spirit and propelled her dream to new heights.

Naijatutors Konnect

In response to the pandemic-induced learning challenges, Banke adapted her vision and founded Naijatutors Konnect—an innovative online platform harnessing the power of technology. Naijatutors Konnect connects the finest Nigerian tutors with students abroad, transcending geographical barriers and revolutionizing access to quality education. With this platform, Banke is not only empowering deserving educators but also ensuring that children everywhere receive the academic support they need, regardless of their physical location.

NaijaTutors Konnect

Empowering Students and Addressing Learning Gaps

Banke and Naijatutors Konnect are equally dedicated to bridging the learning gaps faced by migrating students. They understand the unique challenges these students and their families encounter when adapting to changing curricula. Banke’s personalized approach provides the necessary support to ensure a smooth transition and continuity in their education. By adapting quickly and thriving academically, these students can embrace change and reach their full potential.

A Transformative Force

Banke’s dedication, expertise, and unwavering passion continue to drive her forward as a transformative force in the field of education. She inspires others to join the movement and create positive change in the lives of students and their families. Through her innovative spirit, Banke is shaping the educational landscape and leaving an indelible mark on the lives of countless students and teachers alike.

Banke’s exceptional journey from educator to entrepreneur showcases the power of passion, determination, and innovation in transforming education. Her initiatives, such as My Tutor and I (MTI) and Naijatutors Konnect, are revolutionizing access to quality education, empowering educators, and bridging educational gaps. Banke’s unwavering commitment to educational empowerment serves as an inspiration for all those seeking to make a meaningful impact in the lives of learners worldwide.

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The recent Jamb saga involving Mmesoma Ejikeme has sparked a deep sense of empathy within me. It is crucial that we acknowledge the potential consequences this situation may have on her mental and emotional wellbeing, not only in the present but also in shaping her future. The power of public humiliation should not be underestimated, and it is our collective responsibility to ensure that Mmesoma receives the support she needs during this challenging time.

The Long-lasting Effects

As Mmesoma grows up, we must recognize the genuine concern that she might become detached from society, losing trust in others and struggling to form meaningful connections. The fear of seeking help, stemming from the fear of judgment and stigma, adds another layer of complexity to her situation. It is essential that we create an environment where she feels safe and supported.

The Role of Support and Therapy

In the wake of this saga, I sincerely hope that the organizations and individuals offering her scholarships also consider providing support for therapy. By prioritizing her psychological healing, we can help Mmesoma navigate the emotional aftermath and empower her to build a resilient future. Therapy can provide her with the tools to process and cope with the challenges she may face, fostering her emotional well-being.

Empathy and Fair Resolution

It is also crucial that, regardless of the outcome, Mmesoma is met with empathy to reduce the dehumanization and impact of this saga. Dear Professor Oloyede, as a key figure in this matter, we implore you to use your office to treat this situation with sensitivity and care. Let us remember that Mmesoma is a young girl who has been a high performer all her life. As you fulfill your responsibilities, please consider the profound impact your decisions may have on Mmesoma’s life and future. Together, we can work towards a fair resolution that upholds her dignity and recognizes her potential.

In times like these, it is crucial that we stand together to support individuals like Mmesoma, who have been thrust into the public eye due to unfortunate circumstances. Let us rally behind her, advocating for the prioritization of her mental wellbeing and fostering an environment of empathy and understanding. By doing so, we can help Mmesoma overcome the challenges she faces and empower her to embrace a future filled with possibilities.

We are thrilled to share some exciting news with our valued supporters and the community at large! Women of Rubies has been selected to participate in the highly anticipated Canada Vendors Brand Expo. This remarkable event will take place on July 15th at the Century Gardens Recreation Centre in Brampton, Canada. Join us as we showcase our work, connect with like-minded individuals, and make a lasting impact in the lives of women.

A Platform for Empowerment

At Women of Rubies, our mission is to uplift, inspire, and empower women from all walks of life. The Canada Vendors Brand Expo offers an invaluable platform for us to share our vision with a broader audience. We are incredibly honored to be chosen as one of the businesses highlighted at this prestigious event. This recognition further validates our commitment to making a difference in the lives of women.

Network and Discover

If you are attending the Canada Vendors Brand Expo, we encourage you to seek out our stand and take the opportunity to connect with us. Our dedicated team will be present to provide insights into our work and engage in meaningful conversations. Whether you have questions, ideas, or simply want to learn more about our initiatives, we are excited to connect with you.

Volunteer with Women of Rubies

We firmly believe that collaborative efforts are key to driving meaningful change. That’s why we are actively seeking passionate volunteers based in Canada to join our cause. If you know someone who would like to make a difference in the lives of women and contribute to our empowering projects, kindly have them reach out to us. They can contact us directly by on Whatsapp  at +16136047472. Together, we can create a transformative impact and empower women across our community.

The Canada Vendors Brand Expo is a momentous occasion for Women of Rubies. We are honored to be among the businesses selected to showcase our work and inspire change. We invite you to join us on July 15th at the Century Gardens Recreation Centre in Brampton, Canada, to learn more about our initiatives, engage in valuable discussions, and be part of a movement that empowers women. Let us come together, create lasting connections, and shape a future where every woman can thrive and succeed. We look forward to seeing you at the expo!

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In a remarkable act of generosity, Erelu Bisi-Adeleye Fayemi, the former First Lady of Ekiti State, has donated N1 million to Women of Rubies through her Wrapper Network Initiative of Above Whispers Foundation. This generous donation is aimed at providing support and relief to Nigerian women facing challenges, as well as commemorating the 60th birthday of Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi on June 11th. It is one of the many initiatives organized by The Wrapper Network.

The Wrapper Network, which was established in October 2019, was inspired by a thought-provoking question posed by Her Excellency during a women’s conference. Erelu Bisi Fayemi emphasized the symbolic value of wrappers, representing solidarity, unity, love, protection, and care. She urged women to extend their support and compassion by providing metaphorical “wrappers” to those in need.

Speaking on her motivation behind the Wrapper Network, Erelu Bisi Fayemi expressed, “A lot of women need help with modest contributions that could make all the difference. That is why I decided to start The Wrapper Network, for women who need a wrapper and for women who are prepared to give wrappers to other sisters. I hope that the sisters who will benefit can go on to bless other sisters with a wrapper when things are good for them.”

Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi: Championing Feminist Activism and Women’s Empowerment

In the realm of feminist activism and women’s empowerment, one name stands out as a true trailblazer: Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi. With a remarkable portfolio encompassing various fields, Erelu Bisi has made a significant impact as a Gender and Development Specialist, Feminist Activist, Policy Advocate, Social Sector expert, and Writer. Her work has not only transformed the lives of countless women but has also shaped the landscape of gender equality in Nigeria and beyond.

Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi
Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi | Image: Facebook Page

Erelu Bisi’s academic journey laid a strong foundation for her future endeavors. She obtained her Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in History from the University of Ife, Nigeria (now Obafemi Awolowo University). Furthering her education, she pursued a Master’s degree in Gender and Society from Middlesex University in the United Kingdom. Her dedication to knowledge led her to earn a prestigious Honorary Doctorate in Sociology from the Tai Solarin University of Education.

During her tenure as the Director of Akina Mama wa Afrika (AMwA), an international development organization for African women, Erelu Bisi showcased her visionary leadership. It was under her guidance that the African Women’s Leadership Institute (AWLI) was established. AWLI has since trained and connected over 6,000 young African women, empowering them to become leaders in their respective fields.

Erelu Bisi’s commitment to women’s rights and empowerment led her to co-found the African Women’s Development Fund (AWDF), the first Africa-wide grant-making foundation for women’s organizations. As the CEO of AWDF from 2001 to

Disbursement and Impact

The Women of Rubies team will disburse the funds via our Facebook page, ensuring that the donation reaches those who are most vulnerable and in need. This empowering initiative aims to provide a “Wrapper” of hope to women, offering support, encouragement, and assistance to those facing difficult circumstances.

Expressing Gratitude

We extend our heartfelt appreciation to Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi for her kind gesture and commitment to making a positive difference in the lives of women. Her generosity and dedication to uplifting others exemplify her role as a mentor, encourager, and advocate for women’s empowerment.

Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi
Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi | Founder, Above Whispers Foundation | Image: Facebook

A Celebration of a Remarkable Woman

As we celebrate Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi’s 60th birthday, we honor her as a woman of substance, purpose, and unwavering determination. She embodies the essence of Above Whispers, standing as an enigma of hope and inspiration to countless women. Through her Wrapper Network Initiative and continuous efforts, she continues to leave an indelible mark in the lives of women.

Her donation to the Women of Rubies through the Wrapper Network Initiative serves as a beacon of hope and a reminder of the power of women supporting women.

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In a world hungry for healing and transformation, Oluwatoyin Falaiye emerges as a dynamic force on a mission to make a difference. With an unwavering determination to heal her world, one person at a time, she brings a unique blend of experience and talents to her impactful work.

Oluwatoyin Falaiye

Drawing from her background as a trained lawyer specializing in corporate and commercial law, gender advocacy, and human rights, Oluwatoyin seamlessly intertwines her legal expertise with a deep passion for healing and wholeness. As a Healing & Wholeness Coach, speaker, and inspirational writer, she guides individuals towards discovering their purpose, experiencing personal growth, and finding meaning in their pain.

Jewels Hive Initiative: Empowering Survivors

At the heart of Oluwatoyin’s mission lies the Jewels Hive Initiative, a nonprofit organization she founded. This initiative provides a safe and empowering space for victims and survivors of sexual abuse and gender-based violence. Oluwatoyin offers essential support, empowerment, and healing resources, helping individuals reclaim their lives and find solace on their journey towards recovery.

The Vulnerable Inspiration Company: A Holistic Hub for Growth

As the CEO of The Vulnerable Inspiration Company, Oluwatoyin has created a holistic hub that encompasses coaching, mentoring, and storytelling. Through her books and blogs, she fearlessly shares her own experiences, using them as a catalyst to inspire, motivate, and encourage others to overcome trauma, embrace healing, and fulfill their purpose.

Supernatural Woman Network: Unleashing Divine Potential

Oluwatoyin’s impact extends beyond her professional endeavors. She is the visionary Convener of the Supernatural Woman Network, a powerful ministry uniting kingdom-minded women who are passionate about their relationship with God and hungry for supernatural encounters. Through this prophetic and intercessory platform, she empowers women to embrace their divine calling and unleash their God-given potential.

Oluwatoyin Falaiye

Vulnerability as Power: Sharing Stories of Triumph 

An accomplished author, Oluwatoyin has harnessed the power of vulnerability in her non-fiction works. Her book “Beyond the Abuse” sheds light on the gripping survivor stories of nine courageous women, offering hope and raising awareness about the devastating impact of sexual abuse. In her recently released memoir, “Diamond in the Rough,” Oluwatoyin fearlessly shares her personal journey through adversity, becoming a beacon of hope for others facing their own challenges.

Certified as a coach and speaker, Oluwatoyin’s expertise is backed by her invaluable education and training from prestigious institutions. Her commitment to fulfilling her purpose shines through every aspect of her work as she walks alongside God, leaving an indelible impact on the lives she touches.

For Oluwatoyin Falaiye, her ultimate desire is to pour out everything she has to offer, leaving behind a legacy of transformation and healing. With unwavering determination, she strives to fulfill her divine purpose, making a lasting difference in the world and inspiring others to embark on their own journeys of growth and healing.

Join Oluwatoyin on her remarkable journey of healing and empowerment as she invites you to discover your own potential and embrace a life of purpose and fulfillment. Together, we can heal and transform the world—one person at a time.

Stylist Piazza, a leading beauty and style platform, is thrilled to announce its media partnership with the incredible #GetTalkingwithEsther. This collaboration marks a transformative journey to redefine beauty and provide unparalleled beauty experiences to audiences worldwide.

As a company, Stylist Piazza is dedicated to empowering individuals to embrace their unique beauty and style. Through this exciting partnership with #GetTalkingwithEsther, Stylist Piazza aims to elevate its mission by combining expertise, passion, and innovation to create an extraordinary beauty journey, says Chima Obiaka, Founder & CEO of Stylist Piazza.

Esther Ijewere is renowned for her expertise, captivating storytelling, and unwavering commitment to helping individuals find their voice and promote positivity. Together, Stylist Piazza and #GetTalkingwithEsther will deliver inspiring content, educational resources, and exclusive beauty experiences to their audience.

This partnership will unlock the secrets of beauty, share empowering stories, and provide valuable tools and knowledge to enhance beauty routines and career paths within the beauty and personal care service industry. Esther Ijewere, the esteemed host of #GetTalkingwithEsther, expressed her excitement about the media partnership:
“I am absolutely thrilled to kick off the month with this incredible media partnership with Stylist Piazza for my #GettalkingwithEsther live show. This opportunity is a true testament to the power of consistency, and importance of creating valuable media contents. I am grateful for the chance to reach a wider audience and bring more engaging content to everyone through my social media platforms. Stay tuned for exciting episodes and updates!” – Esther Ijewere, Host of #GettalkingwithEsther.

Together, Stylist Piazza and #GetTalkingwithEsther will revolutionize beauty experiences, foster self-expression, and empower individuals worldwide to embrace their unique beauty and style.

About Stylist Piazza

Stylist Piazza is a leading beauty tool (beauty and personal care service booking app) providing on-demand beauty services for the African beauty industry. we are helping beauty and personal care service professionals manage client CRM, fair payment process, solving Value pricing and how services are being accessed with easier steps at the convenience of the client.
Think bolt, think stylist piazza app for the beauty industry. With stylist piazza customers come to you on the app and not a salon. Follow stylist piazza on Facebook, Instagram @stylistpiazza.

About #GetTalkingwithEsther

#GetTalkingwithEsther is an engaging live show hosted by Esther Ijewere, a passionate advocate for finding one’s voice and promoting positivity. Through insightful conversations and expert advice, #GetTalkingwithEsther empowers individuals to communicate effectively, elevate their confidence, and make a positive impact in their lives and communities. The show is syndicated on Youtube channel via @estherijewere4

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Gift David is rising from the ashes of adversity and inspiring others to do so through her story. Her dream is to be one of the most celebrated female barbers in Nigeria. The 24-year-old part-time mass communication student is on a journey to make her life better and prove that women can thrive and succeed in male-dominated fields. From balancing school with her job to having to convince male customers she is good at her job, Gift’s story is what determination is all about. The Akwa-Ibom state-born female barber shares her inspiring story with Esther Ijewere in this interview.

Growing up

Growing up was fun for me… It was always a full house with different kinds of drama every day, as a child acting would have been an option for me (trouble-making character lol). Never thought and wouldn’t have believed, if I was told, that I’ll be a barber.

Being  a Barber

I can’t say because it was not planned.. as at the time, I usually pass time in a barbershop, so I thought, it won’t be nice just sitting here without helping out. So I started helping out by washing a customer’s hair and applying aftershave. I started finding it interesting and wanted to do more, that was how it began.

Reception

The reception has been positive. I feel very proud of myself for not holding back and following my dream. I have been inspired through my work and talking to different people while I barb their hair. I will say the reception is 90 percent welcoming and encouraging.

Balancing school and work

Combining school and work is not easy, it can be extremely stressful and tiring but it’s worth it.. when I’m at work, it’s all about work but whenever it’s time for school and studying, it’s a very important time that I try to make sure every minute counts.. still pushing it.

Reward

 The satisfying expression I get from clients and these words “nice one” “good job” “thank you” and “am sorry for looking down on you, thinking you will spoil my hair”.. inspired me and keeps me going against all odds.

My Inspiration

Young ladies out there reaching out to me, saying they would love to be like me, they want to learn how to cut hair and be a barber is the greatest reward for me.. so I am now someone others want to emulate??? WOW!!! It’s truly a good feeling to be looked up to and admired for doing what you enjoy.

Projects

It will be my joy to empower and support young women like myself who are interested in learning barbing skills. I look forward to also speaking at events to encourage more women and let them know If I can do it, they can too.

The harsh reality of Being a female barber

The harsh reality is that, no matter how good you are, there are people who will not take you seriously because of your gender. I have had customers who won’t allow me to touch their hair because I’m a woman and have had others

On giving up

There hasn’t been a time I felt like giving up. Sometimes it gets to me when people feel I don’t have the qualification to be a barber but the next minute, I am up and good, making sure I prove them wrong.

Being a Woman of Rubies

I am a woman of Rubies because I am a lady who is thriving hard to succeed in a male-dominated profession and is doing very well at it. For your platform to even recognize me?? Am on the right track.

Advice to women who want to go into the “Barbing” business

It’s fun.. every business or profession has its ups and down, but if you can survive through the discouragement and gender discrimination, together we all will earn our place in this barbering profession.

Nkechi Sarah Ahanor-Wilson is an entrepreneur, public speaker, aesthetician, and business mogul with over 10 years of experience. She is the CEO of Shoreline Pacific International and House of Cacosa, an award-winning luxury hair-selling brand.

She has been able to employ creativity and use her analytical mind to seamlessly transition her brand of skincare and beauty products. Nkechi has carved a niche selling luxury and sleek hair that showcases the beauty of women from the inside out.

As a leading beauty care manufacturer who has leveraged consultative selling strategies that build relationships across all target markets, she has built a reputable brand with deep knowledge of marketing campaigns and implementation.

The award-winning Canada-based celebrity is also involved in humanitarian projects through “The Empowered Woman Summit”, a platform she uses to empower and educate women on how to use innovative technology and hands-on skill set training.

The amazing mom of three and wife is a lover of God and humanity and committed to making the world a better place. In this interview, Nkechi shares her inspiring story with Esther Ijewere

Childhood

Growing up as a child was tough because my parents separated, and my mum also passed on. I grew up overnight, I started preparing myself for life’s journey. It brought out and boosted the entrepreneurship spirit in me, even as a child. At a tender age, I ventured into business. I was actually in secondary school when I started doing business. I made pastries known as buns, Chin-Chin and the like. I started selling it as a student to my fellow schoolmates. Entrepreneurship is something that has been in me. Growing up I engaged in other things and realized that business pays.

The inspiration behind Cacosa Hair

The inspiration behind Cacosa hair is a painful one. I started it while I was in pain. I started losing my hair at some point, due to health reasons. I got depressed with my edges falling off. The only option I had was to start wearing a wig. While wearing wigs I got my confidence back. With my hair falling off, and people avoiding touching my hair, it began to get to me, but with the wigs, I began to feel more comfortable and confident. This inspired me to assist other women gain their confidence back. This is the major reason I introduced medical wigs for those suffering hair loss, people who have alopecia, when you are having chemotherapy, this causes them to lose their hair.

Nkechi Sarah Ahanor-Wilson

The Empowered Woman Summit and its impact since inception

I gave birth to this initiative when I went to business school. I realized back in business school that a lot of women have great business ideas but all they needed was funding. Taking this into consideration, I thought to myself if there was another woman who needed funding, that was how I created the platform.We started supporting people during Covid in 2020 and we have made some giant strideas and progress. Moving forward I intend to make it a proper foundation.

Lessons learned as an entrepreneur, mother, and humanitarian

I have learnt to keep my mind open as an entrepreneur. Once you are an entrepreneur, there should be room for losses, tears, and pain, you should just keep your mind open because as an entrepreneur, you must see and experience these things.

Furthermore, as an entrepreneur, you must have passion for your business. It’s not just because you want to make money but because you have passion for it. At times I just feel like packing up and closing down these businesses, but I get up every day and put in my best.

In addition, as a mother, I have come to realize that every mother should be another child’s mother. I look out for all the mothers. Other mothers might be looking for their children. Looking out for these mothers, you are looking for their children as well.

Humanitarian work has taught me the importance of intentional kindness, and the joy of touching lives and lighting the path of others. If it’s something you have passion for, you would do it without forcing it.

 3    women who inspire me and Why

  1.  Funmilayo Namabiri the owner of Funmi Hair UK. Where I am today is based on her support. She was the only one that gave me a listening ear when I started. One of her pieces of advice was the goal of growing my brand to a certain extent that I can now have purely Cacosa hair and no one is going to take that from me.

2. Ibukun Awosika -She is one woman whom I admire so much. As an entrepreneur, you want to be connected to people who can bring out the best in you. We studied one of her books at the Business School. There is no time when I listen to her speak that something positive does not come into my mind and thinking. My perspective changed. I just keep thinking about something good.

Michelle Obama
Michelle Obama

3. Michelle Obama– I have watched her life as the first lady of the United States of America, as a black woman I discovered that her strength was above and beyond. One thing I like about her is her humility. She is homely and doesn’t look down on people.

My work-life balance routine

I love work and so do not have anything to do except improve my business. I have a lot on my plate, so most of the time I am busy with work. I create bonding time with my family and spend my free time with a few people that I called close friends. I also love travelling, having fun, winning and dining.

One thing I wish to change In the beauty Industry

I think the drive for originality. I have come to realize that in the beauty industry, we have a lot of copycats. We have a lot of people trying to be like another person. We want their initiative but do not have an understanding of how they were able to develop their brand. Give people their money’s worth. Genuine products and quality should not be compromised.

People should see value in the cash they exchange for a product. For instance, if someone wants the original product, you should be able to buy and sell authentic products for the customer, this is where your passion comes into play because if you have passion for what you are doing you will understand that the beauty industry is more like a creative industry. That is why my hashtag is called beautifying queens. That zeal for originality is not what a lot of people have. Most people are in the beauty industry just to make money.

Challenges of being a business owner

I am a woman who has experienced losses in business, like lots of them. I lost my shipment in transit recently and lost a huge amount of money.  I had to refund the customers’ money. Some of them were impatient and others were patient. I had to appeal to them. What transpired could make a business fold up. One thing that keeps me grounded is my passion for my work.  I don’t let challenges weigh me down. I learn the lessons and keep moving.

Being a Woman of Rubies

What makes  me an outstanding and unique woman is taking care of other people’s children. I look out for other people’s kids. I am that woman to whom God has shown mercy, I have been fortunate, and I love to share love and spread light wherever I go, especially with children.

My brand, Cacosa means so much to me. Kindness and empathy are two techniques I have deployed to draw people’s attention to my business, and my circle. If I realize that someone does not have empathy we can’t be friends. I put a lot of emotions into my business because of my passion. The thing that distinguishes me from other brands is my approach to customers. I am intentional about building healthy relationships with my customers and I love to see the smile on their faces, it makes me happy.