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Esther Ijewere, Founder of Rubies Ink Initiative for Women and Children, has been recognised by Woman.ng list of 51 Influential Nigerian Women Writers Under 40, for her book Breaking the Silence, which she wrote in 2013 to inform about rape and its scourges.

Her Initiative, Rubies Ink Initiative, is an umbrella organization which covers several women  and girl child-related projects including Walk Against Raoe, Women Of Rubies, Project Capable, Rubies Ink Media and the College Acquaintance Rape Education Workshop.

 

 

 

While acknowledging the recogniton, she said:

”Thanks so much @woman.ng for this recognition. I truly appreciate it . I am humbled to be mentioned among great female writers in Nigeria. 

My book #Breakingthesilence still breaking records, three years after. Consistency pays, Keep doing that you are good at and you will stand before Kings. 

Grateful and thankful. 

#Lifeofawriter #Mediagirl #activist

Media personality and author, Toke Makinwa has taken to her Twitter page to talk about how people rarely take note of the emotional abuse that happens between parents and their children.

See her tweets below;

I had a chat on my show about emotional abuse yesterday and I have made up my mind to raise awareness on this topic… read next tweets

When people hear emotional abuse they are quick to think man/woman dynamic but do you know parents emotionally abuse their kids too

You hear how some parents talk down on their children, the harsh words used to correct them, magnifying their weakness and in some cases

Some mothers take the frustration of the fathers out on their kids, some fathers in a bid to get back at their wives do the same

You hear of a man divorcing his wife and out of bitterness inflicts the pain on his children, he doesn’t pay school fees….

The woman also out of bitterness of the father leaving takes her anger out on the children words like “you are useless like your father” …

Even in work places, a boss uses his position to talk down at everyone, emotional abuse is not restricted to love relationships alone

Sometimes the perpetrators don’t even know it. There’s a cycle of my parents raised me that way and I didn’t die therefore my kids won’t too

Some of us were raised in hostile homes, mummy and daddy’s mood determined the general mood in the house

When they fight you dare not come of your room or ask for anything, sometimes you blame yourself for why your parents hate each other

They won’t separate because of what the society would say but the children go thru hell and endure the result of the bad choices they made

That child now grows up and if help is not given goes on to be abusive in his own relationship too. It’s a Cycle we must break

23 years old Musawenkosi Saurombe, is Africa’s youngest female PHD degree holder.  She was born in Zimbabwe but grew up in neighboring Botswana. She gained admission into the university at age 16 after skipping a grade in elementary school to pursue a Bachelor’s degree at North-West University. At 19, Saurombe completed her first degree, advancing immediately to her post-graduate studies and receiving a Master’s degree with distinction at the age of 21. She graduated with a Ph.D. in Industrial Psychology from South Africa’s North-West University (NWU). Her PhD thesis looked into the talent value propositions for academic staff members in higher education. And it was recently admitted by NWU, making her the youngest person to graduate with a PhD.

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Saurombe  presently works as a postdoctoral fellow at the university’s campus in Mahikeng, where she is responsible for the teaching and supervision of postgraduate students. Notwithstanding her busy schedule as a teacher and researcher, Saurombe finds time for community service, mentoring young people, especially girls, to set their sights on the future and believe that they can be absolutely anything they want to be.

She said,

 

”If I had listened to what people will say about my age, gender, or race, I would not have taken some of the steps that I took. My father had to sell his car just to get me through my third year of study and also the general social challenges, usually being the youngest in my class. I never thought I will be the youngest woman to have a Ph.D. in Africa. I never thought that at the age of 23, I will have a Ph.D. in Industrial Psychology. As young people, it is very important to accrue the right character traits. Don’t let anyone tell you that you are substandard, under par, or unworthy of having a dream, so be daring, be bold, and be aggressive in your pursuit of success. I am defined by my African name ‘Musawenkosi’, which means ‘God’s grace’, and indeed my life continues to be a story of God’s grace.”

Actress and business woman, Iyabo Ojo, recently opened an Amala joint, called ‘Abula Spot‘, and a lounge, called Fespris Lounge. In an interview with The Punch newspaper, she said;

“I am a local chic. I made a name for myself by acting in my local dialect which is the Yoruba language and in our culture; amala is the in-thing. I am proud to be selling amala because that is my culture. A Chinese man cannot be ashamed of owning a Chinese restaurant. What I did was that I brought something perceived to be local to the Island and I made it look posh. When something is local, it does not mean that it is dirty. People really long to eat amala and I am not ashamed to be selling it,” she told Punch.

“I did not collect a loan to open my business, I saved. I had been planning to open this place for a very long time, so I had been saving. When I wanted to get my new office building, I sold some of my property. I sold almost all my gold if not everything. During that time, I sold one batch and when I needed more money, I sold the rest. I told myself to forget about gold for now because I know that I can make the money back later. With the support of good people as well, I was able to get my office building. The first lady of Kwara State who came to inaugurate the building supported me. Some of my godparents also supported me because I told them that I wanted to sell amala.” 

Foodstock Farmers Market, a startup founded by Omolere Omotayo, in April 2016, is an online marketplace that connects farmers to consumers in Nigeria.

The platform basically serves as a more convenient means to access cheap food products directly from farmers. They claim to beat Mile 12 prices, and Mile 12 (in Oshodi) is Lagos’ biggest commercial market for food. Traders there sell food produce in large quantities at very cheap rates.

 

According to Omotayo, Foodstock, in a bid to foster deeper connections with the local farmers, does not just buy from them, the company also provides the farmers with whatever they need:

“We work with farmers, provide them with seeds etc. and sell their produce and more — actually everything food — to the final consumers.”

To get fresh groceries from Foodstock, a user can place an order via their website, phonecall, facebook, BBM, WhatsApp or email; a Foodstock representative then calls to confirm the order before delivery is made. They typically deliver in 1 – 3 days and there’s a minimum basket size of N5000, which is fair considering that they have to order directly from farmers and bulk is more profitable.

While they focus on fresh farm produce, the startup’s offering also expands to seafood, frozen food, household and industrial food ingredients and groceries.

 

culled from konbini.com

Indian actress, singer, winner of Miss World 2000 pageant, and one of Time Magazine’s 100 most influential people in the world, Priyanka Chopra, has taken to her Instagram page to celebrate her mother in commemoration of the International Day Of The Girl Child.

She wrote,

”As cliched as it may sound, my mother is my #GirlHero. She is a fiesty woman that came from a small town, who ran away from home to pursue her dream job… she was a doctor in the armed forces, has over 8 different medical certifications, is a certified pilot and she speaks 9 languages! She also used to drive around in an open top jeep (what a badass!), Whew! She’s also an amazing mother, daughter, sister, wife, business partner… She’s the one who taught me that I could be anything and everything I want to be… And that’s why she’s my #GirlHero… it’s so important to inculcate that sense of confidence in the girls around you and hopefully that’s what we do this International Day of the Girl Child.​ #DayoftheGirl@girlupcampaign @madhuchopra ”
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In commemoration of the International day of the girl child, Veteran actress and movie producer, Omotola Jalade took to her Instagram page to share an inspiring message.

She wrote,

On today’s girl child day I’ll do an unusual post true to me. As a child I lost my father age 12. Sponsored by a great community of Ondo men, the #Ekimogun club, so i could continue my education. At age 15, started struggling to help my widowed mother. I started working in the Entertainment Industry. While going to school, and working, faced many challenges as a female child… talks of being loose, perhaps being a prostitute,lack of freedom to mingle like male counterparts, rumours and fear of slander, sexual harassments… but one of my early dreams was to be great at whatever I chose and be side by side the best in the World. I’m Not totally there yet, … but.. That 12 years old iyanaipaja little girl did take care of her widowed mum till she died, took care of her younger brothers… they are in marriage stages now, taking care of herself and her own family, taking care of a few people she is privileged to be able to. She has worked, spoken on, been awarded on World stages , and has been compared to the people she admired when growing up , from other parts of the World… She’s still a work in progress but… Dont You dare Underestimate the possibilities of a girl Child. #Educationiskey #Educationbreedsconfidence #Ressilience #deligence #Girlchild #internationaldayofgirlchild #impossibleisNothing

Dove has been under fire for a while now because of its latest ad campaign which is tagged as ‘racist’ by people. The ad campaign is believed to be a harsh, rude, downgrading of the black race and people have refused to keep quiet this time around as this is not the first time Dove misrepresented the black race.

(The controversial ad campaign)

 

However, Lola Ogunyemi, the black model at the centre of the campaign who also happens to be a Nigerian, has come out to address the issue.

While speaking with The Guardian, she said:

“There is definitely something to be said here about how advertisers need to look beyond the surface and consider the impact their images may have, specifically when it comes to marginalised groups of women.

It is important to examine whether your content shows that your consumer’s voice is not only heard, but also valued.”

“While I agree with Dove’s response to unequivocally apologise for any offense caused, they could have also defended their creative vision, and their choice to include me, an unequivocally dark-skinned black woman, as a face of their campaign.

I am not just some silent victim of a mistaken beauty campaign. I am strong, I am beautiful, and I will not be erased.”

 

The original ad campaign has since been deleted off the internet.

 

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When Matse Uwatse-Nnoli was sick and pregnant, she was fired from her job as a radio presenter. After battling depression, she decided to pick herself up and turn her passion for cooking into a legitimate career path.

Her first step was to launch a food blog, Matse Cooks, which she defines as “a Nigerian and African food blog with some western fusions”.

She created Matse Cooks to educate and start conversations around food and drinks from all around the continent. The positive reception her food blog received led her to launch her own spice range, Matse Cooks Spices.

 The spice range includes the suya seasoning, the pepper soup spice, the fried rice spice, the jollof rice spice and the ‘everything’ spice. Her brand also produces organic honey.

Speaking with Woman.ng about why she created this spice range, Matse said:

 “I wanted to help families enjoy mealtime by cooking with my passionately made [spices] that can take their cooking to the next level. 

I have gotten great feedback and this gives me happiness and fulfillment that I am making families out there happy in my own little way.”

 

 

News credit: Konbini.com

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