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Stephanie Jester may be just as busy as her Grammy Award-winning rapper and philanthropist son Future. She runs multiple businesses and nonprofits, which include a real estate company for the last 10 years. She is also co-founder of her son’s The FreeWishes Foundation. Her entrepreneurship endeavors and business prowess earned her the 2019 Good Samaritan Pink Award as well as being honored at the Economic Empowerment Initiative.

In an interview with BLACK ENTERPRISE, Jester says her faith is at the center of all she does when it comes to managing her businesses, engaging in philanthropist efforts, or mentoring women.

Stephanie Jester

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Black Enterprise: What gets you up in the morning to carry out your duties as an entrepreneur?

Jester: My inner drive. I want to see more, serve more, and be a better me. I get up in the morning because I want to remove the generational curse of deficiency in the lives of my family and friends. According to scripture, “A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children.”

BE: How has your son’s success influenced your business dealings? 

Future is an established recording executive and businessman. His successful career has provided an opportunity for me to reach beyond real estate to a diverse audience, allowing me to reach millions of people and opening many doors far beyond my imagination. The FreeWishes Foundation, where I am the co-founder, and EmpowHER, where I am the CEO, are examples of this opportunity. Through the foundation, I am involved in nurturing lives and serving the community through various activations. The foundation’s mission is to deliver a message of hope, perseverance, and resilience to our community by lending support and making dreams a reality for youth and seniors. 

BE: How does your passion and faith help lead you to the decisions you make as an executive?

Before I make an important decision, I dedicate time to pray and meditate. Quiet time or prayer time is required for all major deals and negotiations. Oftentimes, passion and faith do not align, so I have the tendency to lean more toward faith because it activates my spirit. Oftentimes, passion will persuade you to make a decision based on your emotions. Thus far, faith has never failed me.

BE: You have a hand in many business decisions for the companies you are involved with. Which position is the most challenging and which one is the easiest to do in terms of making things run smoothly? 

InTouch Property, my real estate, and property management company run efficiently, like a well- oiled machine, because it has been established for over a decade. The most challenging business is Freebandz Touring, because as a woman and a minority, in a male-dominant industry… there have been plenty of obstacles. It is important to solidify your position and stay committed.

BE: Are there any future projects in the works that you’d like to talk about?

EmpowHer (although it’s not a new endeavor) it’s my primary initiative for 2020. It evolved from my innate ability to truly elevate, connect, and help women become their best selves emotionally, mentally and physically. Oftentimes, as women, we are pulled in many different directions, being wives, mothers, sisters, girlfriends, and successful businesswomen, that we neglect to take time to nurture our own well being. I wanted to create a space and outlet that significantly supported women in ways that made an impact on their overall self-development. It is important to thrive from within to live a healthy and balanced life. Creating this strong foundation and balance for women… is the goal of EmpowHer. This is my passion and I pray that it becomes an enormous platform for women wanting to live their best lives.

BE: What advice or suggestions would you give to someone who wants to become an entrepreneur?

First, you have to believe in yourself and be passionate about your endeavor. You have to understand that every great business involves sacrifice and be prepared to lose before you win. Next, understand that sometimes it will be more work than play. If you continue on the path and hold fast to faith and hope, your rewards will be plentiful. Sometimes, you will not see the return on your investment right away, but you have to understand when things look bleak, you must be disciplined, consistent, and self-motivated. The return on your investment will come. 

BE: If there is anything you could do over again when it comes to any business dealings, what would you change and why?

There is absolutely nothing I would change. I appreciate all the life lessons, late nights, quiet and prayer times, curveballs and everything else involved in building my business empire… a LEGACY for my family.

Tania shares why she never publicly spoke about her endometriosis, the struggles before she found out, the day she was diagnosed and everything in-between.

She says “I hope by sharing my story I encourage someone. Making this decision to share this wasn’t easy because I am opening up to my personal struggles but I believe its bigger than me and it is more important to encourage one another and share our battles”.

Watch the vlog below.

 

 

DEFINE what success looks like personally. Set goals and monitor how you are doing. Take concrete actions to achieve them daily, monthly and yearly.

REMEMBER that your values are the foundations of life. Use them as your compass. My values are integrity, compassion and empathy.

TAKE complete responsibility for your life. Jim Rohn reminds us that you have to do your push-ups yourself.

EXCELLENCE should always be your mantra. It is one way to eliminate biases.

INVEST in yourself. Most successful people are voracious readers. Curious minds, and live a life of learning everyday.

COURAGE is key. When women take risks, they are usually well thought out. Do it even if you are afraid.

SEEK help early and expand your network

A POSITIVE ATTITUDE is key. Enjoy life, Have fun and be passionate. Keep your perspective even when you feel that things are not working out as they should.

FAIL FORWARD In fact, I have learnt what people consider a failure is usually a ‘a course correction’ in order to catapult you to greater success.

PAY IT FORWARD There is so much to do to make the world a better place. Your generosity and contribution to society should be your legacy.

Aruna Oteh was the former Vice President and Treasurer World Bank, prior to joining the bank she was the Directir Deneral of the Security and Exchange Commission (SEC), in Nigeria from 2010-2015.

She has served in several governmental institutions, and is known for her ability to deliver excellently well. She was also recently named the 2018 Ai Global Instituional Investment Personality of the Year.

She is currently an academic scholar at St. Anthony’s College, Oxford University, and an executive-in-residence at Said Business School.

Truly, she is a woman of excellence with a quest for modern knowledge.

Despite being born into slavery and enduring over a century of discrimination, Mary Hardway Walker managed to accomplish an extraordinary feat. At 116 years old, she learned to read.

Walker was born in Union Springs, Alabama, in 1848 and lived in bondage until she was freed at the age of 15 following the passing of the Emancipation Proclamation in 1863. By age 20, she was married and had her first child. By age 68, she had worked several jobs, including cooking, cleaning, babysitting, and selling sandwiches to raise money for her church. Then in 1917, Walker and her family moved to Chattanooga, Tennessee. By 114, all three of her children and husband died. She, however, kept on living.

In 1963, she enrolled in the Chattanooga Area Literacy Movement (CALM) where she was taught by a volunteer teacher named Helen Kelly. She attended a one-hour class two nights a week for more than a year, where she learned to read, write, add, and subtract, reported WRCB-TV.

Walker’s perseverance and determination earned her a number of honors and accolades, including the key to the city of Chattanooga. She was also certified as the nation’s oldest student by the U.S. Department of Health, Education, and Welfare and named as Chattanooga’s Ambassador of Goodwill twice. Furthermore, she received recognition from two U.S. presidents, dignitaries from across the country and Canada, and even an airplane ride in 1966. Following her passing in 1969, the city of Chattanooga renamed her retirement home after her and erected a memorial to commemorate her life.

Walker’s remarkable story is detailed in a new children’s book titled The Oldest Student: How Mary Walker Learned to Read (Schwartz and Wade Books), written by Rita Lorraine Hubbard and illustrated by Oge Mora. Geared toward children between ages 4 and 8, the book highlights her inspirational life, which spanned from the Civil War to the civil rights movement.

The Oldest Student

(Courtesy of Random House Children’s Books)

“I learned about Mary Walker on a class field trip when I was in 4th or 5th grade, and I always wondered why she waited so long to learn to read,” Hubbard told BLACK ENTERPRISE in an email. Years later, Hubbard rediscovered Walker while researching for her first book, African Americans of Chattanooga (The History Press, 2008). “I began some in-depth research. I discovered some interesting tidbits,” she continued. “The more I learned about Mary, the more I felt that children and adults could benefit from reading about someone who believed ‘it’s never too late to pursue your dreams’.”

Hubbard, who has penned award-winning books for both children and adults, said that she wanted to tell Walker’s story in picture book form in order to engage young readers with history. However, she also aims to inspire people of all ages “who think it’s too late” to pursue a dream. “if Mary could do it at age 114 (and succeed at age 116), so can they,” she said.

According to her website, Hubbard originally wrote The Oldest Student in 2016 before it was acquired by Random House. The book is slated for publication Jan. 7, 2020.

 

Credit : Black Enterprise

A healthy skin is  always looking soft and it glows even visibly for all to see. Some of the simple skin routine to do are often been overlooked. As we already know, the harmattan strips moisture from the air. Therefore below are some simple easy tips that can help you manage this season comfortably:

Use Mild Wash Products

Harsh soaps containing lots of processed chemicals strip oils from our skin, you should do well to always look out for what your product  contains, for example the sodium lauryl sulfate SLS is the main forming ingredients for soap and shampoo. This takes out healthy oils your skin actually need for its protection.

Oil Bath

One of the ways to help your skin is to is to keep it hydrated as much as possible and oil and water is one of the key ways. If you cannot find a soap that contains oil as part part of its ingredients you can drip some olive oil or any oil of your choice into your bath water. Oils helps break down dirt from our skin without much pressure.

Dont Deep Cleanse

After a shower pat your skin lightly, do not pat dry, leave some water visibly on your skin, this would help your skin seal in moisture as you quickly apply your moisturising lotion.

Massage

Apply your oil or lotion and massage all over your body for about 2 minutes, this ensures the oil gets deeply absorbed into your skin and not at surface level. It would also encourage blood flows to the right places for a better complexion and not dull looking skin. However, this also combats dryness on through out the day.

These simple tips should not be overlooked because, they are the base of our skincare morning routine which would guarantee that hydrating glow. However drinking alot of water, staying out of the sun and applying a sunscreen are also not to be ignored.

Women Of Rubies

Philadelphia has hired Danielle Outlaw, making her the first black woman police commissioner hired to lead the city, according to ABC News.

Outlaw was previously the police chief of Portland, Oregon, where she was also the first black woman to hold that position. She had been Portland’s chief of police since 2017. She was appointed to the latest position this week by Philadelphia Mayor Jim Kenney.

In a press release, Mayor Kenney said, “I think constantly about what it takes to be a police officer. Our men and women in blue leave home each day knowing they are about to put their lives at risk to protect our community, and that even on a good day they are likely to encounter extremely challenging and disturbing situations. I know officers take on this sworn duty, first and foremost, to help Philadelphians. Their devotion to public service is never forgotten.”

“But make no mistake: while I have tremendous respect for our officers, the Philadelphia Police Department needs reform. I am appointing Danielle Outlaw because I am convinced she has the conviction, courage, and compassion needed to bring long-overdue reform to the Department. After meeting and speaking with her at length, I came away confident that Danielle Outlaw possesses the strength, integrity, and empathy vital to the tasks ahead.

Outlaw is taking over the department four months after former police commissioner Richard Ross resigned amidst allegations that his department had engaged in sexual harassment and racial and gender discrimination amongst its ranks.

“I am honored by the faith that Mayor Kenney is placing in me to lead the Philadelphia Police Department. While I am new to Philadelphia, I am not new to the challenges of big-city, 21st century policing,” Outlaw said. “I encountered and dealt with the issues of employee health and wellness, equity, contemporary training, crime, fair and just prosecution, community trust, homelessness, substance abuse, police accountability, and innovation and technology—just to name a few—as I worked various assignments and rose through the ranks in Oakland, California. And I directly addressed these issues while leading the police force in Portland, Oregon.

“Modern policing is data-driven, but the paramount factor is not so easily quantified: trust—the trust residents have that their police force will keep them safe and treat them with respect. I am convinced that trust can be restored, here and across the nation. I am convinced community-police relations can be rebuilt and fortified through dialogue, transparency, and accountability.

“It will be a privilege to serve as Philadelphia Police Commissioner and to serve all who live and work in this great city. I will work relentlessly to reduce crime in Philadelphia—particularly the insidious gun violence that plagues too many communities. And I will do so in a way that ensures all people are treated equitably regardless of their gender identity, race, ethnicity, or sexual orientation. I am convinced there can be humanity in authority; they are not mutually exclusive. That was true in Oakland and in Portland, and I know it is true here in Philadelphia.”

Outlaw is a member of the International Association of Chiefs of Police Human and Civil Rights Committee, as well as the National Organization of Black Law Enforcement Executives.

 

Culled from Black Enterprise

Some people use Kickstarter campaigns and loans to fund their business ventures. But 13-time National Elevator Pitch Champion and 2013 Black Enterprise Elevator Pitch Competition winner Precious Williams used her gift of gab to win more than $150,000 toward her business pursuits.

Precious Williams, bestselling-author and CEO of Perfect Pitches by Precious L.L.C., used her powerful presentation skills to take her business, Curvy Girlz Lingerie, around the world and empower women who wanted to feel sexy in their curvaceous bodies. She used data, stories, and creativity to attract large-scale companies who wanted to partner with her. Now, she’s earned the title of being a nationally recognized pitch master and has been a featured guest on large stages to share her pitching strategies with other business owners.

Recently, Williams sat on a panel at the QuickBooks Connect 2019 conference to share insights on how you can use your voice to attract investors who believe in your vision. Black Enterprise caught up with Williams to discuss the secret sauce for business owners who want to deliver a profitable presentation.

MASTER YOUR STORY

Williams shares that people want to know more about you than what you do. “You have to put together a clear and concise pitch that will knock their socks off,” says Williams. “Who you are is more important than what you do. Telling a story helps people get to know more about you and you become more than just a robot.”

During the QuickBooks panel discussion, Williams talked about how she used her story and statistics to attract investors to her business. “I talked about curvy women and people forgetting that they exist and they need love too. There are over 40 million women who are size 14 or larger in the United States. You have to think about how you dress up all these details into a sexy story that showcases why curvy women need sexy, stylish and fashion-forward lingerie.”

BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND

Before you design your elevator pitch, think about what your overall goal is and your purpose. Identify what you would like to achieve and then work backward to manifest that vision.

Williams recommends that you start by asking these questions:

  • Do I want to win a competition?
  • Do I want to get to the movers and shakers in the room who can invest at a higher level?
  • Do I want to get into various media outlets?
  • Do I want to obtain paid speaking engagements?
  • Do I want to get my name, brand, book, or product out there?

“Think about what your overall goal is because that will help you write the pitch,” she says. “If you know what your goal is, your strategy becomes clearer. You know what you are focused on and you can proceed accordingly.”

KNOW YOUR AUDIENCE

“Know and study your audience,” Williams says. “Find out who you are pitching in front of. For example, if you know you are speaking to finance professionals, you better be dropping statistics in your story.”

Williams also shares how important it is to understand what your audience needs. “Don’t just understand what your audience wants. A lot of people want to be told the same stuff over and over again. But a lot of other people want to learn something new, hot, and fresh. So, if you tell them what they need and want, you’ll knock their socks off.”

Once you have researched your audience, Williams recommends that you “set a scene in the audience’s mind of where you want them to go. It will make you stand out in ways you never dreamed of.”

Source: Black Enterprise

 

Barber had put up a Facebook Fundraiser on Friday, to help the New South Wales devastating fire, and by Sunday mid afternoon the tally has reached over $22 million about 48 hour after Barber launched the fundraiser. There were massive support from Australia and all over from as far the UK, US, France and Italy.

“Want to join me in supporting a good cause?” Barber wrote on the Facebook page.

“I’m raising money for The Trustee for NSW Rural Fire Service & Brigades Donations Fund and your contribution will make an impact, whether you donate a lot or a little.

“Anything helps. Thank you for your support.”

With about 6.4m followers on her Instagram page, she used her huge social media following to draw donations from helpers.In regular updates on Instagram, she has spoken about family members caught up in the crisis in Eden, including her parents-in-law.

“Our family has just been evacuated, so I’m slightly stressed at the moment,” she explained.

Barbers’s fundraiser has prompted several celebrities to offer help and even sharing the donation link.

On Saturday the American singer Pink pledged $500,000 to Australian fire services and also urged her followers to help by making a donation. “I am totally devastated watching what is happening in Australia right now with the horrific bushfires,” she tweeted. Nicole Kidman posted on Instagram that she was also donating $500,000 to the fires services.

Ashleigh Barty a World tennis player said she wanted to dig deep again for families who have been left devastated by bush-fires. On Sunday she pledged to all her Brisbane International prize money if she wins the competition which starts on Monday. The prize take home money is about $250,000 ($A360,000)

“Someone needed to do something and the people did something,” Barber said.She has been receiving significant amount of praise lot of people, sharing her page and posting the successful response she has received and even calling her a national treasure.

 

“#celestebarber raising over $15mill for Australian firefighters is a shining light and true example of how celebrities and influencers can and should be using their influence,” wrote one woman on Twitter.

“Make this woman PM, such a legend,” wrote another on Facebook.

DON’T GET IT TWISTED — THE KEYS TO BEING HEALTHY AND HAPPIER AREN’T JUST ABOUT STEPPING INSIDE A GYM. IT STARTS FROM WITHIN.
DON’T GET IT TWISTED — THE KEYS TO BEING HEALTHY AND HAPPIER AREN’T JUST ABOUT STEPPING INSIDE A GYM. IT STARTS FROM WITHIN.
Here’s How You Can Become A Healthier, Happier You In 2020

We’re only two days into the new year, and already thinking about all of the things we want to accomplish by next December. But as we create our vision boards, and start goal-setting for the year, it’s important to remember one thing — you.

While career, relationship and educational goals often come priority on our lists, it’s important to prioritize the essential things we need to focus on in our life: being happy and healthy. Not only will this help you in all aspects of life, but you’ll feel better overall.

But don’t get it twisted, most of the keys to being healthy and happier have nothing to do with stepping inside a gym. “In order to look good and feel good you’ve gotta start from within,” says Rumble Trainer and Degree Deodorant Fitness Expert Aliyah Sims.

And because she’s right about that, and more, we’ve enlisted Sims to share a few tips on becoming a healthier and happier version of yourself this year.

Set realistic goals.

“You don’t know where you are going, unless you know where you’ve been. And the best thing to do after you’ve taken inventory of that, is to create benchmarks for the future. “I think one of the best things to do for yourself and your self-esteem, is to set goals that you can actually achieve in a timely manner,” says Sims. “Think of a few things that you’ve always wanted to accomplish, write them down and most importantly remain accountable! Maybe start small for ex: finish that book you bought a while ago that’s collecting dust, or visit the gym x amount of times etc. You’ve got to make sure that you have a game plan because merely speaking things into existence, talking about it and taking no action will lead to disappointment.”

Move your body.

Moving your body gets your heart beating and your blood flowing. By increasing blood flow, exercise helps nourish skin cells and keep them vital. Because of that reason, Sims said this is one of the first things you should be doing. “I recently partnered with Degree and Blue Zones on their Made to Move grant program, which aims to encourage more natural, physical movement,” she says. “We have been moving our bodies since we were in the womb kickin’. The benefits of becoming more active are endless. Exercising regularly Decreases the risk of diseases, increased blood flow, and not to mention the reduction of anxiety/depression (something we can all use living in a stressful bustling city).”

Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate! 

The only time it’s good to be thirsty is when you’re getting the appropriate water intake. And though it can be harder to remember in the winter than during the summer months, you must ensure you’re doing it to keep your melanin glowing, and your insides happy.  “We all need a little reminder to drink more water,” says Sims. “I think if people drank as much water as they do coffee/matcha we’d be thriving. Water helps muscles and joints work better and Water helps cleanse your body — inside and out. Hold yourself accountable and drink more water.”

Incorporate more ME time. 

2020 should be all about you sis. And don’t let anyone tell you anything different! According to Sims, “This a goal I’ve started to exercise more in my personal life.”

She continues, “I am notorious for never saying “No” regardless of how tired I am or what I’m going through because I love making people happy, but what about me? What about you and your happiness? It is so important to take time away from work, friends and sometimes even significant others to make sure that YOU are good. When you’re good to yourself and have that time to TREAT YO SELF it will certainly trickle down into everything else in your life. Me time is not selfish, it is essential. So take a stroll by your lonesome, get a facial or mani/pedi and recharge.”

Eat clean.

“Everything is all about balance,” says Sims. “I think we all know subconsciously what is good for us and what we use less of. I think it’s best to eat to fuel your body but also what makes your soul happy (80/20 rule). One way you can incorporate this, is by packing more lunches so you’re not tempted to eat out at work and meal prepping! This not only saves you money but also encourages you to make better choices and will let you enjoy that well deserved treat guilt free.”

Culled from ESSENCE

Cicely Tyson is a long-standing African-American actress, with a career which has lasted seven decades in the American screen. Aside longevity, she is known for her portrayal as a strong black woman in movie roles which in turn has earned her love and respect in the hearts of many, an inspiration to many women both young and old.

Tyson spoke “I am a firm believer in Divine guidance” in an interview with OWN Oprah’s Master Class OWN Oprah’s Master Class.

Several years ago she made similar statements about how she landed her acting career without knowing all what there is but believed that it was part of a divine plan to an inspiring life purpose. And she proves it with her actions because she puts her whole heart at what she does beyond the fame or glitz.

Before she takes on a role she puts it to a test, an instinctual test.

“Either my skin tingles or my stomach turns,” says Tyson “If my skin tingles, I know it’s something that I must do. If my stomach turns, I know it is something that I cannot do. With this “skin-tingling” she accept roles to which she truly feels a connection as a dynamic Award winning actress that she is.

Her many feature credits also include  Diary of a Mad Black Woman,The Heart Is a Lonely HunterFried Green TomatoesBecause of Winn-DixieHoodlum,, Madea’s Family ReunionWhy Did I Get Married Too?The Help and Alex Cross and lots more.

Tyson won the Emmy for best lead actress in a drama as well as a special Actress of the year for CBS 1974 telepic The Autobiography of Miss Jane Pittman. she has also received an honorary Oscar at the Governor’s Awards, the latest in a lifetime’s worth of accolades that includes the Presidential Medal of Freedom, the NAACP’s Spingarn Award, a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame and countless NAACP Image Awards and honorary doctorates.

“I have learned from every single character that I’ve played,” she continues. “Something emotionally, spiritually and psychologically true.”

She therefore ensures to take roles that are transformational for herself, and the world. It is no wonder she stands out as a queen mother to lots of women as she carries herself with grace, confidence and worth.

“I’ve never done a job just for money,” she says. “I could not do anything that would not enhance humanity — especially women.”

She turns 96 this year.

Ladies!! what a Queen.

•Pamela Mbata