Before you get married, read this. The journey of marriage is that which requires careful planning, deliberations and considerations on both partners. Both parties should be knowledgeable enough about what they are getting into before tying the knot. Before considering who you marry, there has to be a clear understanding of your life, journey and the kind of family you want to have. This would determine the team players like you and prepare you for marriage.ur spouse.
So here are 5 things to consider;
1. Value
In marriage, values are important because they determine your actions and reactions and it is important to consider your spouse’s values before marriage. Values are principles that determine how you live your life, what you do, the people you walk with, who you connect with and who you get engaged with. It is better that you know what your values are so that you do not end up dating people who do not share in your values.
Examples of values that can really create a friction in marriage are Integrity, Spirituality, Family and Hard work. If you are dating someone who is dishonest, lies a lot and does not keep to promises or who does not care about people, when you get married, you will find out that you both will feel disconnected in many ways leading to unmet or failed expectations and disappointments.
2. Personality Types
Your personality determines how you behave, your strength, your behavior and view towards life. Knowing your personality helps to master those areas that can easily hunt you down and master those strengths that are way makers for you.
To be able to do this, you need to know your temperaments. Your temperament is the way God wired you from birth. It’s the part of you that precedes any environmental factors.
We have four major ones which are:
Choleric
Sanguine
Phlegmatic
Find out which of these you are, discover how they work for you and also take feedback from people on how well you can be better while on your journey to self-mastery. So that when you get married, you can know how to manage yourself and also manage your partner’s behavior and personality too. Learning about personality types will help you manage your relationship with your partner. It will help you understand why they act in some ways.
3. Purpose
Everyone is born with a unique purpose in life but not everyone is able to recognize the significance of this life’s substance or acknowledge the purpose which can make life meaningful and fulfilling even before they find that special person to complement them. A life without a purpose to serve as compass for direction during the years you are single may develop many complex issues in the years to come both in your personal and married life.
Your purpose can only be found in God. One of the things you want to do is build self-awareness, understand yourself in God, discover your strength, understand your talents, your gifting and build a close walk with God so that you can see how all of these things fit into the plan he has for you before you were born.
One of the biggest reasons of this is that, many people experience a reawakening moment in marriage and discover that the person they married is not willing to support them in their purpose. To avoid this, get a glimpse of your future and walk with someone who can help you fly with it.
4. Your Walk With God
I’ve noticed that Spirituality or Faith for many people is at the core of their lives and they really want people who can share the same thing with them. So before you get married, it’s really good that you build a relationship with God so that you can really understand your life and build a strong anchor for yourself. So that when you get married, you do not seek for happiness and joy from your spouse. But you know that you have a true source that is deeper than that.
Having a consistent relationship with God prepares and gives you an advantage in your life’s choices; because you would not be kept in the dark about the vital things that matter to your life and as such help you make healthy choices.
What are those patterns in terms of behavior, lifestyle, circumstances or delays that you have noticed?
How can you wage against it?
Do you want to develop yourself; do you want to pray about it?
Do you want to become accountable?
Do you want to build structures around your life so that you can be a different person who does not end up in a marriage that repeats itself?
So with these five things, you can be able to build self-awareness around it and one of the ways you can build self-awareness is to read more books, take part in programs, have a mentor, seek support from other friends who have the same like mind goal and always take feedback from life.
Journaling is a good way to track your life experiences and patterns.
These are some of the things you can build your life with so that you can get married and be at peace with yourself and who you have chosen.
In the wake of Rinret Gofwan Dare’s passing, we stand in solemn remembrance of a remarkable soul whose life was a beacon of transformative healing and unwavering resilience. It is with heavy heart that we extend our deepest condolences to her friends, family, and all those who were touched by her profound influence.
Rinret was a cherished member of the Women of Rubies community. She was a distinguished speaker at our Media Visibility BootCamp in December, she leaves behind a legacy that transcends time. As a licensed trauma therapist, certified emotional intelligence coach, and specialist in neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), her journey was an inspiring testament to the incredible power of personal and collective transformation.
A Personal Journey of Healing and Wholeness
Rinret’s story began as a survivor of trauma during her formative years, igniting a quest for healing and wholeness not just for herself but for others grappling with mental and emotional traumas. Her journey exemplifies the indomitable resilience of the human spirit and the ability to find light even in the darkest of times.
Expertise in Transformation
With extensive professional expertise, Rinret focused on advanced training for treating complex post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), addressing compassion fatigue, and assisting individuals in navigating the intersection of trauma and addiction. Her knowledge and skills played a pivotal role in helping numerous individuals reclaim control over their lives.
Diverse Educational Background
Rinret’s diverse educational background, including degrees in Communication, Psychology, Sociology, and a master’s degree in International Relations and Strategic Studies, provided her with a comprehensive understanding of the complexities of human behavior.
The Miriam Gofwan Women and Children Foundation
As the foundation director at the Miriam Gofwan Women and Children Foundation, Rinret spearheaded impactful projects, such as “Pad a Girl Africa,” addressing menstrual hygiene challenges in public schools. The foundation’s reach extended beyond Nigeria, offering support to women and girls in Kenya and Uganda.
The Healing Room Support Group
Initiating “The Healing Room Support Group,” Rinret created safe spaces in Abuja, Jos, Kaduna, and Lagos for women and men to heal from emotional and traumatic experiences.
Holistic Healing at PEKAAT Wellbeing Hub
As CEO of the PEKAAT Wellbeing Hub, Rinret collaborated with professionals to offer holistic healing therapies, including private therapy, group therapy, family therapy, dance therapy, art therapy, and more.
Legacy of Transformation
In conclusion, Rinret Gofwan’s journey stands as a profound testament to the transformative power of healing and resilience. Her tireless work, both professionally and through the Miriam Gofwan Women and Children Foundation, changed lives and instilled hope in those who have faced trauma.
In the silent moments of the night, grief visited me, bringing a heaviness that words struggle to express. I decided to take a break from my usual routine, uninstalling some apps in hopes of finding a quiet space to process the recent losses.
After a week of what seemed like a needed break, I reached out to Yemi, an old friend. Our chat started with everyday things, like his app called GrabHub, where people in Canada can get discounted groceries. Little did I know that our talk would take a turn towards grief. I asked how he dealt with losing a loved one and he said ‘I just had to accept they were never coming back and live with that.’
Biola, a friend, also shared her experience with grief, telling me about her mom’s passing few years ago. In her heartfelt words, I felt a connection and an understanding of the pain that grief brings. She encouraged me to take my time and honor my emotions.
However, amid these supportive moments, a jarring message arrived from someone who didn’t understand the need for me to take a break. It made me realize that people have different ways of dealing with grief, and sometimes, it’s okay to step back and be alone.
From this experience, a few lessons emerged—lessons that I carry with me.
Firstly, everyone responds to grief differently. It’s like a song, and each person’s tune is unique. Understanding and empathy are crucial during such times.
Secondly, I learned the importance of setting boundaries, especially when emotions are raw. The incident with the insensitive message made me realize the need to protect my space during vulnerable moments.
Thirdly, I discovered the power of intentional solitude. Choosing to be alone can be a way to heal and rediscover oneself. This journey is teaching me that silence can be a friend in times of grief.
Currently, I am immersing myself in the wisdom of ‘What A Time to Be Alone’ by Chidera Eggerue, finding comfort and insights in the pages of these sources.
In the days ahead, I plan to explore Yemi’s app, GrabHub, finding comfort in simple things like looking at African food photos. It’s my way of coping with the pain and grounding myself.
As I navigate this silent season, I hope these lessons resonate with others facing grief. May we all find our unique paths to healing and honor the memories of those we’ve lost.
I dedicate this article to the memory of my late dad; Emmanuel Ijewere and friends; Rinret Gofwan and Uche Ugo. They all added color and light to my life in different ways, and their memories remain cherished.
Late Emmanuel Ijewere, Rinret Gofwan and Uche UgoWith my late Dad, Emmanuel Ijewere, a few years ago
Barakat Mohammed stands as a testament to the seamless fusion of creativity and entrepreneurship. Armed with a degree in Mass Communication and Media Technology from Lead City University, she further fortified her skills with a certification in Cosmetology and Skin Care Formulation, reflecting her innate artistic flair.
Entrepreneurial Genesis with BMVillage
Barakat embarked on her entrepreneurial journey with the establishment of Gifted Hands, an art studio, and Aishla’s Beauty Store. This venture evolved into BMVillage, a flourishing skincare line that became a primary source of income. Her commitment to making a positive impact led her to actively participate in Paged Initiative, utilizing media for advocacy purposes.
Hospitality Industry Odyssey
Drawing inspiration from her love for the Hilton brand and a destiny-driven connection, Barakat’s journey in the hospitality industry began. Starting with an internship at Hilton Abudhabi, she later worked for esteemed establishments such as Hilton Abudhabi Corniche and Nisa Wellness Retreat. These experiences not only honed her communication and analytical skills but also enriched her understanding of diverse cultures.
Navigating Art and Entrepreneurship
Balancing entrepreneurship in the beauty industry with her passion for art proved challenging for Barakat. Despite the intense focus on her skincare line and hospitality ventures, she maintains an artistic touch in all aspects of her work, acknowledging the ongoing presence of art in her life.
Impactful Volunteering with Paged Initiative
Barakat’s involvement with Paged Initiative broadened her perspective on issues related to rape, abuse, gender-based violence, and challenges faced by women and children. This experience equipped her with valuable insights for effective advocacy and community impact.
Media Communication Skills in Action
Her background in mass communication played a pivotal role in navigating various industries. From photography to design and branding, Barakat applies the skills acquired during her degree to the real world, identifying the best communication mediums at specific times.
Elevating BMVillage with Cosmetology Certification
Barakat’s certification in Cosmetology and Skin Care Product Formulation deepened her understanding of skincare ingredients and their compatibility with different skin types. This knowledge, combined with her artistic abilities, contributes to the creation of effective and visually appealing skincare products under BMVillage.
Celebrating Influential Women
Barakat pays homage to three inspiring women who have shaped her journey. Her beloved mother, Mrs. Aisha Ojone Umar, provides unwavering encouragement. Queen Amina of Zauzau inspires strength and focus, while Mrs. Roslin Ora Oguche, her grandmother, embodies selflessness and leaves a legacy of charitable deeds.
Qualities That Define Barakat as a Woman of Rubies
Barakat’s journey, personal growth, and resilience against all odds define her as a Woman of Rubies. Her ability to thrive and push forward stands as a testament to her strength and determination.
Amidst the vibrant culinary landscape of Ontario, Canada, one name resonates – Beauty Obasuyi. Hailing from Nigeria, Beauty’s trajectory to acclaim as a Canadian Chef and accomplished real estate agent underscores the resilience, determination, and unwavering pursuit of her passions.
A Single Mother’s Odyssey
Beauty’s story begins as a single motherof two who decided to relocate to Canada in search of new opportunities. With limited resources, she faced the daunting challenge of survival. Undeterred, Beauty turned to what she knew best – cooking. She started offering her culinary creations from house to house, catering to busy families and single parents needing a convenient and delicious solution.
Venturing into Real Estate
As her culinary talents gained recognition, Beauty saved enough to transition into the world of real estate. For eight years, she served as a licensed real estate agent, helping clients find homes beyond bricks and mortar – homes that told stories and fulfilled aspirations. Her narrative of migration and triumph uniquely positioned her to connect with clients on a deeper level.
Naija Jollof: Culinary Excellence Takes Center Stage
Driven by her unwavering passion for cooking, Beauty combined her love for food with her entrepreneurial spirit. The result? The birth of “Naija Jollof,” a restaurant rapidly becoming Canada’s largest African restaurant chain. With five locations spread across Ontario – Waterloo, downtown Toronto, North York, Brampton, and Mississauga – Naija Jollof introduces vibrant African flavours to the Canadian palate.
Beyond the Kitchen: Philanthropy and Giving Back
Beauty’s journey isn’t confined to the realms of food and real estate. Through her foundation, Starlight Home Organization, she actively contributes to her community by providing meals to the underprivileged in Toronto. Her commitment to philanthropy is a testament to her belief in the transformative power of giving back.
A Beacon of Hope and Empowerment
Beauty Obasuyi’s remarkable journey from Nigeria to Canada, her culinary prowess, dedication to philanthropy, and success in real estate make her a beacon of hope and empowerment. Her story resonates as a personal triumph and an inspiration for those facing challenges in their journeys.
Guinness World Record Cooking Marathon: A Culinary Feat Unveiled
In an extraordinary stride toward culinary greatness, Beauty Obasuyi is set to embark on a Guinness World Record Cooking Marathon. From January 10th to 18th 2023, she will showcase her culinary expertise by cooking non-stop for 8 days, igniting taste buds and pushing the boundaries of what’s possible in gastronomy.
Connect with Beauty Obasuyi
Beauty invites you to experience culinary excellence, explore philanthropic opportunities, and seek expert real estate advice. Follow her journey and connect for a taste of the extraordinary via her social mediapages and website.
Being paid your worth in a career of your choice would make you realize that sometimes money can buy happiness. It can certainly make sad days a lot more comfortable!
Work is work, no matter who you are, so being influenced by salary when making a career decision is actually a pretty practical way to look at it. Some of the top careers out there are also the kind we dream of becoming when we’re little kids: who remembers wanting to be a vet when they were younger?
Here are some of the highest paying careers to pursue:
1. Anesthesiologists
The number one highest paying job in America is currently an anesthesiologist. The average annual wage of an anesthesiologist in 2018 was $267,020. This is an astounding amount for people who simply implement anesthetic procedures before surgery.
To become an anesthesiologist, you have to go to medical school for four years. Before this, you must pass the Medical College Admission Test (MCAT). This is the standard for being admitted to medical school. After this, you have to get a license, do a four-year residency, obtain a state license, and finally become board certified. Don’t worry: you do start earning a salary during these stages.
2. Airline pilots, co-pilots, and flight engineers
If you want to be a pilot,you don’t actually have to have a Bachelor’s degree, but it will certainly help your career path. You have to get a student pilot certificate and a medical certificate in order to fly a plane solo. After this, there are different kinds of licenses you need depending on the specific type of flying you wish to do. To fly for a major airline, for example, you need to earn your Airline Transport Pilot (ATP) certificate.
A pilot and co-pilot require the same qualifications. Most pilots will begin their careers as co-pilots and will work their way up. A flight engineer assists the pilot(s) and checks systems and instruments to ensure safety and effectiveness. All three earn an average salary of around $150,000 per year.
3. Petroleum Engineers
Petroleum engineers source materials for human energy consumption, and design and develop methods in order to make extraction as efficient and economical as possible. The average annual pay of a petroleum engineer is $129,990. As with most jobs, salaries depend on what state you live in and also depend heavily on experience.
In order to qualify as a petroleum engineer, you need to study for a Bachelor’s degree in either petroleum, mechanical, or chemical engineering. You may then need to gain experience as an apprentice or volunteer. You might also want to continue further study to make your CV more competitive, but this step isn’t actually necessary.
4. Oral and Maxillofacial Surgeons
Oral surgeons are pretty much-glorified dentists who focus on tasks like pulling out wisdom teeth, while maxillofacial surgeons do procedures that have something to do with the jaw. Anesthetic procedures are sometimes included in the work of maxillofacial surgeons. These surgeons earned an average of $242,370 in 2018.
To become an oral or maxillofacial surgeon, you can choose two routes. You can either go to dental school then apply for a surgical residency (four to six years). After this, you can take exams to be board certified. Alternatively, you can earn a dual degree as both a dentist and medical doctor. This degree usually takes about six years to complete, but at the end of it you come out with two degrees. Residency requirements are embedded into the course credits of this degree.
5. Financial Advisors
A financial advisor provides advice about how to spend, save and invest money. They will often provide tailored plans to their clients to achieve a long-term goal such as retirement or investment opportunities. To become a certified financial advisor, you have to earn a Bachelor’s degree, complete a course of study that is certified, and then pass a certification exam.
Your initial Bachelor’s degree can be in any subject, but you must complete certain topics at a college level to be fully qualified. These include insurance planning, income tax planning, and estate planning (to name a few). The median pay of a financial advisor is approximately $90,000.
6. Obstetricians and Gynecologists
Obstetricians and gynecologists both specialize in female reproductive health to some degree. Where gynecologists do things like cervical screening and general check-ups pertaining to reproductive health, obstetricians are more hands-on and are focused on the care of pregnant women. This will often include prenatal and postnatal care and also child delivery.
In 2018, obstetricians and gynecologists earned an average of $238,320 for the year. Many people in these careers are known as ‘ob/gyns’ because they can fulfill both roles. In order to become a qualified ob/gyn, you start by completing a Bachelor’s degree in any science subject. Biology is a good choice for this career. After this, you must attend medical school, complete a residency, and finally become certified.
7. Orthodontists
Orthodontists are a type of dentist who specialize in braces and other corrective measures. There are currently over 5,000 orthodontists in America, who earned an impressive $225,760 in 2018. The difference between oral surgeons and orthodontists is quite significant. This might be due to the fact that oral surgery generally involves complex surgical procedures.
It’s certainly interesting to see that specific roles within wider fields command different pay structures: one would think a dentist is a dentist, but these statistics show otherwise. The path to becoming an orthodontist is a long one: after completing a (generally) four year Bachelor’s degree, you have to go to dental school for four years and then do a residency of two to three years. After this, you have to complete certain tests in order to become board certified.
8. Psychiatrists
Psychiatry is an interesting addition to our list of highest-paying careers. Psychiatry is often considered one of the more artistic, or non-scientific, sciences. In other words, it’s often debated whether psychiatry is really a science or a humanities subject.as it involves the study of human behavior and psychosis.
However, in the United States, the training requirements to be a psychiatrist as the same as any medical doctor. So, in order to become a psychiatrist, you have to do a Bachelor’s degree, then attend medical school, and complete a residency to become board certified. In 2018, psychiatrists earned an average of $220,380 per annum.
9. Family and General Practitioners
A general practitioner is someone who went through medical school but only did the essential qualifications to become a doctor. A family practitioner, then, is really the same thing. They’re just called a family practitioner because they often have a lot of families who visit their clinic.
Doctors in fields like surgery and anesthesiology have to do more training in order to become qualified. A general practitioner is the doctor you go to at your local clinic when you have a mild illness such as flu, or afflictions such as a recurring headache or if you want to know why you feel tired all the time.
Family and general practitioners, despite their lack of specialty, still make a substantial salary. In 2018, the average salary for family and general practitioners was $211,780.
10. Computer and information systems managers/ IT Managers
An IT manager is a technical expert who oversees the installation, maintenance, and security protocols for IT systems. They also manage other team members to ensure a smooth operation. Software companies also hire IT managers to install the software they have designed into the systems of their clients.
To become an IT manager, you have to study a relevant Bachelor’s degree in a computer-related field. After this, you take on entry-level roles and gradually build up experience and expertise. The longer you work in the field, the more experienced you are. Eventually, you’ll be confident enough to apply for leadership and managerial roles. IT managers earn an average of $86,000 per year.
11. CEOs
Chief Executive Officers are at the very top of a business hierarchy. They often manage hundreds of staff, and the financial responsibilities fall largely at their feet. You can become the CEO of your own company by starting it yourself or work your way up to become someone else’s CEO. If you’re starting your own company, you don’t technically have to complete any college degree, but you will need a lot of industry experience. If you wish to work for someone else, they will be more likely to hire you if you have a university education.
Either way, there is no official step-by-step guide to becoming a CEO. It’s all about experience and networking. CEO salaries are potentially the highest of all, depending on who you work for. There are CEOs who earn millions every year, but the average salary of a CEO working for a small company is around $100,000.
12. Speech Language Pathologists
Also known as SLPs, speech language pathologists work with people of all ages to improve speech, communication, and sometimes swallowing problems. They are also known as speech therapists, and there is no difference between the two terms.
To become an SLP, you must complete a Bachelor’s in Communication Sciences and Disorders (CSD), then a board-accredited Masters. After this, you begin a post-graduate fellowship (which you need a temporary license for), take an additional exam, and then apply for your license. The salary of a SLP ranges from $60,200 on the lower end to $96,980 on the higher end.
13. Pharmacists
Pharmacists can work in a variety of places including grocery stores or hospitals. They dispense medication, ensure correct dosages and compliance with medical regulations, and often liaise with patients regarding their overall health. To become a qualified pharmacist, you should study a board-accredited Pharmacy program, which takes six years.
The program includes a mix of coursework and work experience. Most programs have two years of taking classes and passing coursework and general exams, and then up to four years in a work setting. Once you’ve completed these stages, you must pass the licensure exam at the end of this program in order to become fully certified. The average salary of a pharmacist is an impressive $121,500.
14. Lawyers
The final installment on our list is a highly competitive career. Lawyers represent clients in trials and advise them on the best options going forward. There are many different types of lawyers that specialize in different areas: family lawyers, divorce lawyers, and so on.
To become a lawyer, you first earn a Bachelor’s degree in law, then attend law school for three years. To get into law school you have to pass an admission test known as the LSAT. After these initial years of study, you gain experience wherever you can as a sort of apprentice lawyer while working towards passing your state bar examination.
The average lawyer’s salary is $115,820. The salary you make as a lawyer depends on many factors: your success rate, experience, the size and reputation of the firm, and your general demand. For example, a lawyer who gets their client a great deal in a high-profile case followed by media can potentially earn millions a year, whereas a new lawyer starting out in a non-profit organization will be at the low end of the earning scale. For example, personal injury lawyers in New York can earn around $80,000 in a year
Many of the highest paying careers involve many years of undergraduate and/or postgraduate study, while some require tons of experience. No matter what job you’re interested in, you will always have to climb the ladder to some degree. You can never start at the top, but you will get there eventually. Good luck in your search for your dream career!
Storytelling is the compelling thread that weaves through the fabric of today’s dynamic digital media landscape. It has become a game-changerfor individuals and brands seeking to enhance their visibility. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, professional, or influencer, mastering the art of storytelling can significantly elevate your presence in this ever-evolving media space. Here are five effective tips to help you leverage storytelling for increased media visibility.
Craft an Engaging Origin Story
Your journey is unique, and sharing the story of how you started can captivate your audience. Craft an engaging origin story that outlines your challenges, triumphs, and pivotal moments. An authentic and compelling origin story establishes a strong foundation for your brand and resonates with your audience.
Spotlight Success Stories and Achievements
Incorporate success stories and case studies into your narrative. Whether it’s showcasing client transformations, project successes, or personal achievements, these real-world examples add credibility to your story. Highlighting your accomplishments demonstrates the practical impact of your skills and expertise.
Integrate Storytelling Across Your Content Strategy
Infuse storytelling into your content strategy across various platforms. From blog posts to social media updates and video content, ensure that your narrative is consistent. A cohesive storytelling approach reinforces your brand identity and keeps your audience engaged across different mediums.
Humanize Your Brand with Personal Anecdotes
Humanize your brand by sharing personal anecdotes and experiences. Whether it’s overcoming challenges, moments of vulnerability, or lighthearted stories that showcase your personality, humanizing your brand creates a deeper connection with your audience. People relate to the human element in stories.
Create Compelling Visual Narratives
Enhance your storytelling with visually appealing elements. Incorporate graphics, share images, and leverage video content that complements your narrative. Engaging visual narratives not only capture attention but also make your stories more shareable, extending your reach across different media platforms.
Conclusion
As you navigate the dynamic landscape of media, storytelling emerges as a potent tool to increase visibility. By crafting an engaging origin story, spotlighting successes, integrating storytelling into your content strategy, humanizing your brand, and creating compelling visual narratives, you can effectively leverage storytelling to boost your media presence. Implement these five tips and watch as your narrative resonates, leaving a lasting impression on your audience.
A popular wealth creator once said: “When money realizes that it is in good hands, it wants to stay and multiply in those hands.” That’s what Vanessa Ideh Adekoya represents in her industry. She understands the power of merging financial Literacy with creativity. Vanessa has managed to turn YouTube into a lucrative business, and she is now teaching other women how to do it.
In April 2020 she joined Youtube and started creating content around trending topics, and in June 2021, the certified financial education instructor (CFEI) and former accountant decided to start from scratch and build a brand-new channel called, Launch To Wealth.
The platform has now evolved into a goldmine, making Vanessa one of the top black Youtubers in the world. In November 2021, she made $23,700 from her YouTube channel in just five months of launching it, and her subscribers increased significantly. The inspiring financial coach has turned her hobby into a career, and she is reaping the fruit of her labour, hard work and tenacity.
In this Interview with Esther Ijewere, she shares her passion for gender equity and how she is using her platform to teach women the importance of financial freedom.
Vanessa Ideh
Childhood Influence
Yes, My childhood influenced me in a way. I can look back on my childhood and find patterns of creativity and expression through words. At the same time, I have always been good with numbers so I knew that whatever I would do as an adult had to allow me to use those skills simultaneously.
Why I Pitched My Tent In the Financial Literacy Sector
Making a mark in the world of Financial Literacy as a digital creator is me coming full circle with myself. For as long as I have known myself, I have been a confident speaker and creative thinker but growing up in an African household, I thought there was no way for me to express my natural talents and be financially stable at the same time. You were either a broke artist or an educated professional. So, I decided to be an educated professional and it doesn’t get more professional than being an Accountant.
However, after landing a job at one of the Big 4 accounting firms, I quickly realized that I would never feel fulfilled if I did not have room to be creative and to speak often as part of my job. That was when the search for an alternative path began. I had coffee chats with people who worked in Marketing, PR and other communication-heavy fields but it wasn’t until I found a brand called Clever Girl Finance that I felt like someone had created exactly what I wanted to create. I did further research and found that she is a Certified Financial Education Instructor so I became one too. The rest is history.
The Journey So Far
It’s been Amazing. On many days, I feel like I am living in a dream because I recognize how much of a privilege it is to show up as your full self, work in a field that you were naturally designed to work in and make a difference in the lives of many. I see it as God’s goodness and I never want to take God’s goodness for granted.
Challenges I Encounter In My Line Of Work
It depends on what room I am in. In some spaces, the challenge is explaining what exactly I do for a living. In other spaces, the challenge is finding the right people to join my team so we can move the vision forward. However, regardless of the challenges I face, I still find joy in doing what I do.
The Society and Its Support For Content Creators
It is a relatively new field and so people don’t understand it enough to appreciate it. It is only a matter of time, though. I see that changing in the future.
Vanessa Ideh – Founder, Launch To Wealth
Other Projects and Activities
I am currently working on a project that would shed light on the creator economy. It is something I am so passionate about because it is the reason why I am able to do what I do in a sustainable way.
What I Enjoy Most About My Job
The level of impact that my work has. People literally pray for me every day because I expose them to opportunities that they otherwise would not be exposed to.
3 Women Who Inspire Me And Why
Bola Sokunbi, the CEO of Clever Girl Finance. I love the fact that she was bold enough to build a platform centered around women and money. Those are two subjects that get me fired up and as far as I’m concerned, she is a blueprint.
Tara Durotoye, the CEO of House of Tara. I love her love for life and for people. She wears many hats well and I think that is not easy for anyone to do.
Myleik Teele, the CEO of Curlbox. That’s a woman who believed she could and did. She built a social media community and then turned around to create an amazing company around the needs of the women in her community. That’s remarkable; in my humble opinion.
How I Use My Passion For Financial Literacy and Gender Equality To Create Room For Other Women in Our Industry
I actually have a closed community for black women in the financial literacy and media space. It’s one of my most recent projects and something I am very passionate about. I love to see women thrive and succeed.
One Thing I Wish To Change In The World
I would make room for more black women to thrive. We need more women at the table.
How To Empower Women In The Society
Teach them how money works. I don’t think women can be empowered if we aren’t financially empowered.
Being A Woman of Rubies
My audacity. I think it takes a lot of courage to break away from a traditional path, tell yourself the truth about who you are and then find or create a path that allows you to show up as your best self. Many more people would do this too if they had the audacity so I would say audacity makes me unique.
To Young Women Trying To Navigate Their Path In Life
I will probably say 2 things:
Who you are is enough. Find where people like you get paid and go there
Give yourself options. You never want to be in a situation where you feel stuck so ensure you make decisions that open you up to multiple opportunities
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Adeola Adefemi stands as a shining exampleof unwavering dedication and remarkable achievement. As a public school teacher, Adeola has not only carved a niche for herself but has also become a beacon for the advancement of quality education and the establishment of safe and inclusive learning environments.
A Journey Rooted in Commitment
Adeola commenced her educational journey in 2013, joining the Lagos StateMinistry of Education. Over the years, she has tirelessly worked towards the advancement of collaborative education and the establishment of safe and inclusive learning spaces. Currently serving as the Principal Education Officer at Keke Senior High School in Lagos, Adeola has become a trailblazer in the field.
Global Recognition and Advocacy
Beyond national borders, Adeola’s impact is globally recognized. As a Fulbright fellow, Global Teacher Prize Ambassador, Global Partner Exchange fellow, and Distinguished Judge for The Royal Commonwealth Essay Competition, she advocates for quality education on an international scale. Her initiatives, including the Girls Allowed Hub, Every Child Counts Club, and the Secure Your Future Campaign, exemplify her commitment to empowering students globally.
Mentorship and Triumph
Adeola’s mentorship has been a driving force behind the triumphs of numerous students, who have excelled in over 150 local and international competitions. Her dedication to education has earned her prestigious accolades, including the JCI Outstanding Young Person in Nigeria Award, Best Teacher in Lagos and Nigeria Awards, and the coveted title of Best Teacher in Africa (African Union Continental Teachers Award). In 2021, she proudly joined the ranks of the Top 50 Teachers in the World by winning the Global Teacher Prize.
Literary Pursuits and Academic Contributions
Adeola’s influence extends beyond the classroom into academic discourse. She has presented papers at renowned conferences and summits, showcasing her depth of knowledge and commitment to advancing the field of education. Her passion for literature is evident through her extensive literary pursuits, including scriptwriting and creating over 50 plays and poems, one of which was performed during the Lagos at 50 celebrations.
Continuous Professional Growth
Adeola’s thirst for knowledge is insatiable. With over a hundred international certifications, she exemplifies a commitment to continuous professional growth and expertise in her field. Her dedication to staying abreast of the latest developments underscores her role as a trailblazer in the dynamic landscape of teaching and learning.
In Adeola Adefemi, we find not only a teacher but a visionary leader who has dedicated her career to shaping the future through education. As the Global Teacher Prize winner, her impact on education is not only transformative but also a testament to the power of dedication, resilience, and an unyielding belief in the potential of every student.
Maryam Muritala is a foreign-trained lawyer whose expertise extends from Business and Technology to Copyright, Trademark Law, and Contract Management. As a seasoned Business Development Consultant, Maryam has successfully guided entrepreneurs across five continents, establishing herself as a driving force in the business world. In this exclusive interview with Esther Ijewere,Maryam shares her inspiring journey from Lagos, Nigeria, to becoming the founder of Canada Vendors and the visionary behind the renowned Brand Expo.
Childhood Influence
Born and raised in Lagos, Maryam’s entrepreneurial roots run deep, shaped by the influence of both her maternal and paternal grandparents. Inspired by her family’s commitment to service, Maryam’s journey into law was further fueled by her aunt’s encouragement. Her childhood laid the foundation for a life dedicated to building connections and providing opportunities.
Career Path
Called to the Nigerian Bar in 2008, Maryam initially delved into corporate law, working on diverse projects involving contract agreements. Her pivot to business development was a strategic move, opening doors to a realm where she could blend legal expertise with entrepreneurial vision.
Canada Vendors and Navigating Challenges
Witnessing the evolution of the digital marketingspace post-COVID-19, Maryam founded Canada Vendors to empower businesses with structured online visibility. The challenges faced, from business registration hurdles to integrating digital marketing, prompted the Canada Vendors Team to host virtual info-session events, offering crucial support during the pandemic.
Brand Expo and its Purpose
Brand Expo, an annual business networking event initiated by Maryam, serves as a platform for businesses to showcase products, services, and brand image. More than a networking opportunity, the expo facilitates workshops, exhibitions, presentations, and networking events, fostering brand awareness, visibility, and valuable business connections.
The Entrepreneurial Journey
Against the backdrop of the pandemic’s impact on small businesses, Maryam launched ‘The Entrepreneurial Journey,’ a YouTube mini-series spotlighting the Canadian small business community. Emphasizing the benefits of technology integration and digital marketing, the series aimed to empower businesses with the tools for growth in the digital landscape.
Being a Woman of Rubies
For Maryam, being a Woman of Rubies means creating opportunities wherever she goes, wearing her crown proudly and tall. Her unique ability to seize opportunities aligns with the essence of resilience and strength that defines a Woman of Rubies.
Inspirational Figures
Michelle Obama, Ibukun Awosika, and Ruth Bader Ginsburg stand as women who inspire Maryam on her journey, reflecting values of leadership, empowerment, and advocacy.
Maryam Muitala, Esther Ijewere and others with Hon. Abike Dabiri during her visit to the City of Brampton
Nigerian Community in Canada
Maryam acknowledges the significant contributions of the Nigerian community to Canada‘s vibrant multicultural society. From business and politics to healthcare and technology, Nigerian trailblazers continue to positively impact various sectors, embodying the spirit of excellence in diverse communities.
Maryam Muritala’s journey is a testament to the transformative power of combining legal expertise with a passion for entrepreneurship. Her commitment to empowering others, evident in initiatives like Canada Vendors and Brand Expo, showcases the potential for positive change within the business landscape. As a Woman of Rubies, Maryam stands as an inspiration, embodying resilience, vision, and a dedication to creating opportunities in every endeavour.
