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Nollywood actress and producer, Funke Akindele-Bello, has just hit 4million followers on Instagram. This makes her the first Nigerian actress to attain that in the movie industry.

She is also the first female celebrity in Nigeria to attain that number of Instagram followers beating the likes of tiwa savage, yemi alade,Genevieve Nnaji etc.

The actress took to her instagram page to appreciate fans. She wrote;

Wow!!!! 4M followers on Instagram!!! Thanks to all my followers. I really appreciate all my fans for their support and kind words. God bless you all. I will be giving out some lovely gifts to celebrate this. Watch this space…

She shared:

Hello WORriors, today is #WomanCrushWednesday and our Woman Crush is Nse Ikpe Etim!

Nse Ikpe-Etim (born 1974) is a Nigerian actress. She came into prominence in 2008 for her role in Reloaded. She was nominated for Best Actress in a Leading Role at the 5th and 8th Africa Movie Academy Awards for her role in Reloaded and Mr. and Mrs. respectively. In 2014, she won the Best Actress in a Drama award at the 2014 Africa Magic Viewers Choice Awards for playing “Nse” in Journey to Self.

Etim was born on the 21st of October 1974 in Lagos. She is the first of six children. She attended Awa Nursery School and Command Primary School in Kaduna State, from where she then furthered her studies at St Louis College, Jos and the Federal Government Colleges in Jos and Ilorin. She said that her family was often transferred to various regions of Nigeria due to her father’s career with the Central Bank of Nigeria. She got her first degree in Theater Arts from the University of Calabar.

In an interview with Toolz, she stated that she had Caucasian Godparents. She got married to her childhood friend, Clifford Sule, on February 14, 2013 at a Lagos registry. A traditional wedding ceremony followed in her hometown in Akwa Ibom State and Lagos State respectively, some months after the civil union. She currently resides in London with her husband, a Senior Lecturer at Middlesex University who frequents Nigeria for film engagements.

At 18, Etim started acting on stage at the university. Her first television appearance was in the family soap Inheritance. After her graduation from university she temporarily left the film industry to venture in other endeavors before making a comeback with Emem Isong’s Reloaded alongside Ramsey Nouah, Rita Dominic, Ini Edo, and Desmond Elliot.

Nse has featured in quite a number of movies. Some of them are, Emotional Crack, Memories of My Heart, Kiss and Tell, Phone Swap, Mr. and Mrs, The Meeting, Journey to Self, Black November, Broken, The Visit, Fifty, Stalker, American Driver, etc.

She has also been nominated and won many awards and recognition.

Women Of Rubies celebrates you, Nse Ipke Etim!

26-year-old Nigerian comedienne Wofai Ewa, popularly known as Wofai Fada, has shared her moving grass to grace story.

In a new Instagram post, Wofai who became popular for her many funny skits on Instagram, said before the fame, she used to hawk pure water, ice cream, sell mangoes, oranges, water leaves in her home state Cross river. She even sold second hand clothes aka okrika, did ushering jobs before running away from home to move to Lagos.

Read her post below:

Thank God
I don’t look like what I’ve been through ..just went through some of my old Facebook photos, the struggle got me all emotional 😩
Can’t believe
I’m now a testimony.
Most of you ,that knew me in community secondary school ,ugep must have bought my ice cream before 😁
They used to call I,and my sis @mimzewa “ice cream girls”😩 she couldn’t take it. She ran to America 😂

I never really concentrated in class , cos I always want to rush to the park with my cooler of ice cream and pure water for passengers coming back from Enugu to the park 😄
From selling of burns ,
hawking of mango, water leave , oranges
To buying and selling of okrika from Balogun market, to uncial ,
selling of drinks in different clubs ,catwalking for various designers ,without pay ,hosting weddings and all events ,
Ushering people in and out Different occasions,
Running away from home to Lagos
becoming who i am today
Is a miracle.
Thanks to @Obazi_kubor for letting me squat with you, when I first came . I won’t lie. Lagos has been good to me 😊
God promised to take care of me,and he hasn’t failed me ! He hasn’t even started ……. He did the final gbosa! For me recently. I can’t say it yet. Cos it still looks like a dream to me 😩
I’ve never typed a message this long before, but something told me to do this today.
Cos it might inspire someone.
NEVER EVER GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS !! God is seeing all your struggle .
Thanks to @makeupbyashabee for making me be part of your campaign .
Ps… I’m still available for all these services , call me if you need me 😁
Above all, my business @just_afang
Will be open soon. And the hustle continues.
Please help me clap for JESUS👏👏👏👏

She shared:

 

Lota Chukwu, best known for playing Kiki on “Jenifa’s Diary,” has announced a new show called “Lota Takes.”

The food and lifestyle show will kick off this November, taking viewers through Lota’s food experience.

“I love food and I love nature and because of that my team and I have decided to bring you guys on this journey with us called Lota Takes,” Lota said in an introduction video.

A food enthusiast, Lota Chukwu, who often shares her food experience on Instagram and Twitter, has decided to take it to the screen.

Lota Chukwu is a Nollywood actress, who has featured in movies such as “Dognapped,” “Fine Girl” and “The Arbitration.”

 

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The 21st edition of the Commonwealth Games will kick off on April 4, 2018 in the Gold Coast, Australia. Among the Nigerians getting warmed up to impress at various events will be the country’s first female university director of sports, Dr Cecilia Arinye, who has received an invitation to officiate at the games.

The Nation reports that Arinye is the only Nigerian invited in that capacity. As a blue badge international umpire, she’ll be officiating table tennis at the games.

This invitation is obviously an offshoot of her participation in the last edition of the games in 2014 where she became the first black woman to officiate at the table tennis event. She was also the first black woman to officiate at the Summer Paralympics during the Rio 2016 Paralympics Games.

Since she became an umpire in 2007, Arinye has officiated in numerous international events sanctioned by the International Table Tennis Federation (ITTF). Currently the Director of Sports at the University of Lagos, she helped the institution achieve their best NUGA Games performance in 2014 when UNILAG finished second.

Arinye with a UNILAG student-athlete (Photo: Titans Basket)

 

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I take codeine, other hard drugs. I couldn’t boast of N1m in 2016  says newly rebranded Nolywood actress Toyin Abraham 

 She has opened up on her past when she abused hard drugs like marijuana and codeine, and was involved in other vices. She made the disclosure at the 2017 edition of Success Story Africa, held in Lagos, on Sunday. .

“You need to stop bad habits. I was involved in a lot of vices and it became worse last year,” PremiumTimes quoted her as saying at the event. “I did drugs and I am not ashamed to say it because it’s now a thing of the past. .

They say codeine makes you high; I took a lot. I smoked a lot and I didn’t even know I looked horrible, because I was so skinny. If you came to my house last year, you would meet a lot of people and you wont want to leave because we smoked, gossiped about people and what have you.” .

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According to PremiumTimes, she also talked about the mistakes she has made in the entertainment industry and how she has not let the negativity shape her. “I made a lot of mistakes when I began acting and that was because I did not have plans. I just wanted to be known. .

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But, I now know that being popular isn’t the same thing as being successful. When I got into the industry and the fame became too much, I became irresponsible. I could not boast of N1 million in 2016. I was making money and I wanted to feel among. .

When one of our colleagues bought a car, it was trouble because we all strove to buy the same car or a bigger one. I had to change my circle for good and this change started in March 2017.”

In a move that is designated to set Nigeria back at least a couple of decades, the Nigerian military wants to end the admission of female cadets into the combatant course of the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA). In 2010, President, Goodluck Jonathan ordered the military to allow females interested in becoming combatant officers of the Nigerian armed forces to be admitted into the NDA for the first time ever. In 2011, a set of 20 women, nicknamed ‘Jonathan Queens’, were first admitted into the course.

First Female Cadets (aka Jonathan’s Queens) at the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA) (Photo: Sahara Reporters)

Ironically or unironically (depends on how you see it), the recommendation to end the programme was made by the Armed Forces Council inaugurated by President Muhammadu Buhari, just last week. The council also revised the National Defence Policy: Harmonised Terms and Conditions of Service Officers last week, and the changes were ratified by president Buhari, to include one new clause: Phase out the training of female regular combatant cadets.

There are many types of commissions in the Nigerian Armed Forces: Regular Combatant Commission, Short Service Combatant Commission, Direct Regular Commission, Direct Short Service and Executive Commission. According to a correspondent for Punch Nigeria, a serving general in the Nigerian Army said that the military allegedly took the decision due to complaints from some unnamed northern Muslim leaders:

“It is only the Regular Combatant Commission that can give an officer the opportunity to aspire to head any of the services or rise to become the Chief of Defence Staff, while the others have limited career path. If the military is able to scrap this programme, women will never be able to head any of the arms of the Nigerian military.

The northern Muslim leaders want to prevent a situation where one day, a woman will lead the army and give orders to men.”

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In 2013, of the first 20 female cadets, only one Muslim woman, Fatimah Saleh, enlisted. She had also stated that her “Arabic school teacher” had advised her against joining the army. The general said those pushing for the scrapping of the programme had convinced the president that women were not doing well in the programme. Because, what else can men do if they’re not oppressing women?

“When we started the training of female cadets in 2011, we never thought it would be successful. When the first set of women cadets graduated from the academy last year, women won three awards, including the best award in the navy category.

A female cadet, C. Lord-Mallam, won the Navy Gold award which is the highest in the navy category. The Army Silver award, which is the second highest in the army, went to a female cadet, K. O Dayo-Karim. The Air Force Silver award was also won by a female cadet, O. S Ijelu.

However, some northern conservatives were not happy about it because most of the female cadets are either Christians from the South and northern minority groups or Muslims from the South and Middle Belt. Dissatisfied with how things are turning out, the northern Muslim leaders lobbied the military authorities to stop the programme for women.”

Basically, this move is being made because some fragile men are quaking in their shoes about the success of women. The female cadets are outperforming their male colleagues, but the military hierarchy would rather suppress their achievements. These men are so sexist that they’re willing to overlook the general quality, superiority and ability of the women in the military to make sure women don’t get a chance to lead.

Two of these same female cadets even beat their male counterparts to win placement at the United States Military Academy in West Point and they are doing well. Presently, we have female armoured tank drivers, female para-troopers, jumpers, and so on. According to the general said, the women were trained just like the men were trained. They were not given any preferential treatment.

But looks like it will be a while before the Nigerian armed forces is without discrimination. They will allow women join the army, but on men’s terms: limiting women to non-combat duties, thereby limiting their career path regardless of their competence or skill. Masculinity so fragile…

 

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An Le, the photographer responsible for cropping out Lupita Nyong’o’s natural hair on the cover of Grazia, has apologised to Nyong’o and “everyone else that I did offend.”

In a statement released to HuffPost UK, Le began by admitting his part in the controversy.

“I’ve had some time to reflect on my part in the incident involving Grazia and Ms. Nyong’o” he stated.

 “I realise now what an incredibly monumental mistake I have made and I would like to take this time to apologise to Ms Nyong’o and everyone else that I did offend.

“Though it was not my intention to hurt anyone, I can see now that altering the image of her hair was an unbelievably damaging and hurtful act.”

Nyong’o had spoken out against erasing the uniqueness of women of color and was not exactly pleased with Le’s take on her – or Grazia for allowing it to go to print.

In an Instagram statement, she wrote:

“Being featured on the cover of a magazine fulfils me as it is an opportunity to show other dark, kinky-haired people, and particularly our children, that they are beautiful just the way they are.

“I am disappointed that Grazia UK invited me to be on their cover and then edited out and smoothed my hair to fit their notion of what beautiful hair looks like.”

 

The post garnered over 260,000 ‘likes’ in three days, indicating that Nyong’o’s honesty was needed and welcome.

The Vietnamese-born photographer seems to hold himself accountable.

“As an immigrant myself, it is my duty to be an advocate for the representation of diversity of beauty in this industry,” said Le.

“I will demonstrate this in my work even more going forward.”

The statement continued:

My altering of her image was not born out of any hate but instead out of my own ignorance and insensitivity to the constant slighting of women of color throughout the different media platforms. There is no excuse for my actions. I deeply regret the pain I’ve caused Ms. Nyong’o, a woman I’ve admired for quite some time now.

To many, this one action speaks volumes about the restrictive standard there still exists regarding beauty in 2017.

Le concluded his apology with a line that addresses the gravity of the situation.

“Again, I would like to say I’m deeply sorry to everyone I did offend,” he said.

“I want to thank Lupita for addressing this important issue.”

The editorial team at Grazia has also issued an apology.

“Grazia is committed to representing diversity throughout its pages and apologises unreservedly to Lupita Nyong’o,′ the statement read.

“Grazia magazine would like to make it clear that at no point did they make any editorial request to the photographer for Lupita Nyong’o’s hair to be altered on this week’s cover, nor did we alter it ourselves.

“But we apologise unreservedly for not upholding the highest of editorial standards in ensuring that we were aware of all alterations that had been made.”

 

Culled from HuffingtonPost

Phenomenal black woman
Phenomenal black woman
Your walk is the definition of elegance
And oh your sway beautiful but exuding so much strength
Your smile always accommodating and loving never showing the hurt you have been through

Phenomenal black woman
You kill yourself so your children don’t have to
And bear the pain so they are always happy
Your arms are always comforting and your lips never complaining

Phenomenal black woman your sacrifices are not in vain
And your daughters have risen to take up your cause
They call us angry, opinionated, sassy, troublemakers
But we watched you suffer in silence for so long
So every time we stand up for ourselves
We wipe away your silent tears
And with every success of ours
A fruit is harvested for your days of endless toiling
Phenomenal black woman we are forever grateful for you

 

By Chidinma Chukwuma


To see more of my work check out chidinmachukwuma.wordpreess.com

 

 

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Powede Lawrence is a Nigerian model, nurse and pilot who has proved to the world at large that she was more than just a queen but one with a difference. In a world where most people believe that a beautiful woman cannot achieve anything meaningful, this 26year old young lady has stunned the world.

She is not only a go getter, she is ambitious, beautiful and sophisticated  at that and we totally love her.

Fabwoman.ng has compiled list of 5 things everybody can learn from Powede.

1. It is possible to be beautiful but still have brains

Yes, Powede is  a beauty queen but her beauty goees beyond the physical. Hers is different- her mind is beautiful  and full of wondrous ideas. She shocked the world when she enrolled  to train as a pilot and got certified but this shows that she has got a brain on her. Worthy of note also is the fact that she is a registered nurse.

2. If given a platform, help others

Fashion icon Powede, uses her platform, “Powede Lawrence Foundation” to help the less privileged, her charity renovates school for the physically challenged students in Yenagoa, Bayelsa, and also offers scholarship to all the physically challenged students at her university annually. Once you have a means of assisting one or two people, do it!

3. Be determined

This beautiful lady is a testimony to what anyone can achieve if one has a strong determination. For her to have done so well with modelling and her career, it goes to show that she is a very hard working lady and determined to see her dreams come through.

Of course, there will be days you feel like quitting but in the end, you will have a whole lot of cause to smile.

 

4. Believe that you can have it all

Yes, the belief is what it takes for you to actualize your dreams. She believed in herself and see all what she has accomplished today. It does not matter if not everyone is cheering you, what matters is you persisting in chasing your dreams.

5. Do not live your life to please others

From everything about Powede, it is very obvious that she is not out to please anyone. She lives her life, constantly braking bounds and achieving. We are sure if she had listened to every advice or ill comments, she might not be where she is today.

Always remember to be YOU, self love is key and the moment you have that, you have almost all you need.

 

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