As August rolls around, I find myself marking an incredible milestone – seven years since I made the courageous decision to walk away from a marriage that had turned into a battleground of pain and turmoil. This year, I celebrate the journey of healing, growth, and empowerment that I embarked upon after leaving a toxic relationship. My hope is that by sharing my story, I can inspire and encourage others who might be trapped in similar situations to take the step towards healing and liberation.
Looking back
I recognize how profoundly my marriage changed me. The trauma and betrayals altered my personality, eroded my self-trust, and cast a shadow of fear over my spirit. It felt like I lost myself in the process, and the wounds left me in a constant state of flight mode, always on guard against further pain.
But I refuse to be defined by those painful years. Instead, I chose to rise above my circumstances, embracing the strength that still resided within me. Over the course of these seven years, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery and healing that has led me to a place of empowerment and self-love.
Healing
Healing is not a linear process; it’s a journey with its own twists and turns. There were days when I felt like I was making leaps forward, and others when I stumbled. Through it all, I learned the importance of honoring my own path, no matter how long it takes.
Forgiveness
One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned is the significance of forgiveness. It wasn’t about excusing the pain I endured; it was about freeing myself from the weight of anger and resentment. Forgiving my ex-husband was my way of taking back control of my emotions and moving forward without the burdens of the past.
To all the women who might be going through something similar, please know that you are not alone. Your pain is valid, and you deserve happiness, love, and respect. Leaving an abusive relationship takes immense courage, and it’s a step towards reclaiming your life.
Gratitude
I am incredibly grateful for the individuals who stood by me from the beginning – those who supported me instead of judging, those who chose to embrace me even when they didn’t fully understand. Your unwavering support has been a guiding light on this journey, and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Remember, healing is not only about recovering from past wounds; it’s about reclaiming your power and embracing a future filled with possibilities. Healing allows us to shed the burdens of the past, rediscover our inner strength, and craft a life that aligns with our true selves.
7th Year of Liberation
On this anniversary, I stand as living proof that healing is a beautiful journey. It’s a journey that requires patience, self-compassion, and the unwavering belief that you are worthy of a life filled with joy and fulfillment.
Let’s stand together, supporting one another through our individual journeys of healing and empowerment. Let’s create a community where each person’s path is honored and celebrated, and where we can find strength in our shared experiences.
Margaret Ojochide Aligbe is a graduate of Kogi State University and Uppsala University, Sweden (MSc in Sustainable Development), currently pursuing a Ph.D. in Transdisciplinary Sustainability at Memorial University of Newfoundland, Canada. An enthusiastic foodie with a penchant for chronicling everyday tales, she’s a versatile reader spanning various genres and is now a recognized author. Her compositions grace platforms such as BusinessDay Nigeria, The Eco-Instigator, Bella Naija, and more.
Margaret boasts a diverse background in community development, social enterprise, project management, data analytics, communications, and content creation. Driven by a fervour for community growth and tangible sustainability, she’s a beacon of inspiration. Explore her work and musings on her website: https://www.skinfullybooked.com/
Her latest creation, “Candid Conversations: Life. Lessons. Growth,” draws from personal dialogues and life encounters that have profoundly influenced her journey. Delving into subjects like social media, navigating life as a Black international student in three distinct nations (Nigeria, Sweden, and Canada), securing a full scholarship for postgraduate studies overseas after turning 35 with family commitments, adapting to life as a Nigerian abroad with insights for personal growth, all while harmonizing motherhood, marriage, and defying odds to triumph.
This insightful book is now available on Amazon in both paperback and hardcover editions.
Childhood Influence
Yes, all my life I have always loved reading, writing and traveling. I am the type of person you could easily connect with just by talking about reading and books. So yes, somewhere in my childhood and adulthood, there is a bridge that connects the dreams I had and the goals I am pursuing now.
Leaving Nigeria for Studies Abroad
I left Nigeria to study abroad for the first time in 2019, even though I had gone on tourist trips, this was the first time I was going on something related to a long-term goal. The journey to Sweden was an answered prayer as I have always wanted to go back to school after my first degree in 2007/2008. But being a married woman with children and being over 35, a lot of opportunities are limited, so you have to dig deeper, and work extra smarter for spaces and opportunities that have room for women like me. Hence, in 2019.
I got the Swedish Institute Scholarship for Global Professionals (SISGP) to pursue my Master’s degree in Sustainable Development at Uppsala University Sweden. This was after my second attempt and since then I have gone on to win other scholarships and fellowships.
Academic Journey Across Different Countries
My background in community development work is intertwined with sustainability. This was the foundation of my work in Nigeria, Sweden and Canada. Anyone who does NGO work understands the importance of the Sustainable Development Goals (SDGs) and its practical application and measuring the impact. This includes being able to show the work you do and applying for grants and connecting with donors/partners. While back in Nigeria, a lot of these sustainability-related issues were more of theory than practical.
We continue to talk about the SDGs but there is still so much to do in practically bringing it to life, and seeing the sustained impact in the life of the people at the bottom of the social economic ladder. (This is a space where the knowledge I now have is useful, I am still looking for opportunities to apply my knowledge in Nigeria and people to partner with).
Hence, it became important for me to begin my graduate studies abroad in 2019 in the field of sustainability in Sweden; a country known for how advanced its systems are and how well they continue to score high on the yearly sustainable development index. The experience allowed me to better understand the challenges we face in Nigeria regarding issues of community development, and gain practical knowledge of sustainability because living in Sweden was me living it daily.
My Book “Candid Conversations” and Its Impact
One major conversation is the limited opportunities for women over 35 years and even more difficult for married women with children. Too many opportunities are pegged at 18-35. Many business competitions in Nigeria, mentorship competitions, job opportunities and the like. Once you are outside that age bracket, you have to either start on your own or continue to digger even deeper for very rare opportunities, but they exist. The experience became a catalyst to seek funded study opportunities abroad.
My Passion for Sharing My Experiences
I have written about my scholarship journey being a married woman of over 35 with children; climate change impact, Carbon footprints of wars, flooding, Nigeria’s sachet economy and life as an international student. I tend to write about topics that I have practical relevance and sometimes, on topics I have experienced because I don’t struggle with putting the words to paper and I can put them in a better context.
Integrating my Various Skills into My Current Pursuits and Projects
The field of community development and sustainability is a perfect space to bring these skills to action. It is a field that combines broad interdisciplinary collaboration in dealing with complex problems which different in each context. The skills I have allow me to be versatile across roles and partners, an essential requirement in bridging research, policy and practice. My present research in transdisciplinary sustainability is aimed at looking beyond a siloed approach to research and collaboration. Hence, all these skills combined are been vital for my Ph.D. journey and for thriving professionally in Canada.
The Motivation Behind my Website; “Skinfully Booked
After all the recent drama with social media, I decided that I would get a website where I can connect with people with or without social media because as a user, you basically cannot dictate anything. The owners can just wake up and add or remove a feature that could impact your engagement on the platform but there is little to nothing you can do other than rant. So, I designed and launched my website https://www.skinfullybooked.com/ myself in early 2023.
The decision has proven to be positive as I can now show my portfolio outside social media, building my subscriber community both online and offline. Also, I have just launched my store embedded on my website. The website has allowed me to better amplify the skilfully booked brand I am building.
My Journey as a Black international student across three countries
I would say racism and being the only Black person in some spaces; this is a fight in progress. Coming to terms with racism as a Nigerian who moved abroad, not for tourism as an adult was new for me. Defining racism based on your experience, like finding the right words for what you feel is a learning process, and it takes time to recognize what racism and othering people only because of their skin colour means. To read the signs, allow yourself to feel the trauma; to be better equipped to deal with it instead of being positively blinded by the japa rave; to feel like because you want a greener pasture then you can bear discrimination, no matter how much your rights are trampled upon. Because how much can you take? How long will you continue to suck up knowing that you become just an EDI statistic and when you hustle, there is already a system designed to cap your rise as a Black person.
The other challenge would be juggling children and academics. I have been blessed with the gift of extended family when I first moved abroad alone leaving my children and husband behind before my nuclear family came to join me. The experience was really difficult being separated but the end goal remained a motivation for all of us. My husband is also supportive which allows me to attend conferences, do some work and school. I can practically chase my dreams as a married woman, and I am blessed that my husband supports my dreams. I also had a baby during my MSc in Sweden but since it was not my first, I was able to manage the emotions of pregnancy, nursing a baby and still graduate in good time.
The Women Who Inspire Me
I have many women who inspire me, but I would mention these three below.
Myself: I am a self-starter and this has been one of my biggest blessings because self-inspiration as a life-long skill has been helpful while I was living in Nigeria with all the “over 35years woman” challenges, navigating opportunities abroad, finding scholarships, jobs and coping with failures.
Luvvie Ajayi Jones because of her style of writing awaken my inner genius to act on my dreams and deal with Imposter syndrome.
Viola Davis because she inspires me to genuine self-love in my Black skin, own my journey and be compassionate towards myself no matter how messed up it gets.
Work-life Balance
Once children are involved you have to wear your multitasking hat to be able to juggle successfully. I work with a schedule, and I am task oriented. So, knowing what I need to do at specific times with deadlines helps me to stay organized. I also, I am a very spontaneous person, it allows me to act on my goals without overthinking.
Plans for the Future
My goal is to finish my Ph.D. and make the Skinfully Booked brand more visible and profitable. I also would love to collaborate with people in Nigeria and other parts of the world in the field of community development and projects aimed at bringing the SDGs to life. I mean projects that are sustainability-inclined seeking real impact and real people.
Women of color are reaching great heights in the financial world. They are pathfinders for the younger generation to trend, especially black women. It resonates better when someone who looks like you smash similar goals that you desire to accomplish. Their financial achievement serves as encouragement that if they could meet their objective you sure can!
In a homogeneous industry and the so-called imposter syndrome that serves as a barrier, it is liberating to see female financial gurus break those barriers and stand as mentors for women majoring in finance.
On their social media handles, books, and communities these financial experts give inspiration, resources, and tips for improving money habits and gaining financial freedom.
Here are 11 female financial gurus you need to follow in 2023
Raya Reaves
At her site ‘CityGirlSavings’ a lot of information is shared with women attempting an economic reset on their way to fiscal success.
She learned through her experience of facing eviction the importance of budgeting. From paying off thousands in credit card debt in under a year she quickly got to a million dollars in retirement savings.
Raya Reaves founded her website to empower and educate working-class women to obtain financial independence through money management system, budgeting, expenditure accountability, and debt payoff processes.
From DIY money mastery to individual coaching, you’ll discover several ways to obtain financial liberty with Reaves. There are blog posts, recommended reads, pinned posts, kits, guides, and freebies for you if funds are restricted. If you want further one-on-one guide she’ll develop a budget for you.
Reaves helps women business owners and offers a community for working with other women on your journey to breaking financial challenges for free.
Raya Reaves
Lynnette Khalfani-Cox
Lynnette Khalfani-Cox is also known as ‘The Money Coach,’ who you might have seen in major media networks on television, or read her books like Zero Debt, New York Times bestsellers, The Ultimate Guide to Financial Freedom all over America.
She is a co-owner of the Money Coach LLC with her husband which was launched in 2003. Previously, Lynette, the ex-financial news journalist wrote for Associated Press, Wall Street Journal, Philadelphia Inquirer, and other media platforms.
Lynette with her co-founder provides courses and workshops on financial literacy subjects on their website ‘Ask the Money.’
Khalfani-Cox discusses her knowledge of numerous personal monetary topics on her blog and video-based program. The program covers improving credit, paying for college, lowering debt, saving, budgeting, entrepreneurship, securing mortgages, and wealth generation.
Lynnette Khalfani-Cox
3. Nimi Akinkugbe
She is the Chief Executive Officer and Founder of Bestman Games Ltd. She has 23 years of experience working with Stanbic IBTC Bank Plc.
Nimi is on a mission to empower people with financial security through her online platforms: Money Matters with Nimi, speaking engagements, Monopoly Board Games, her books, television, and radio appearances.
Her channels offers honest financial knowledge of understanding wealth management issues and personal finance that empower men and women to take responsibility for the money matters in their lives.
Nimi Akinkugbe
4. Tonya Rapley
As a millennial money guru, Tony Rapley commits to matching the common millennial paycheck-to-paycheck process. She is a co-founder of the FinTech app and offers workshops for clients all over America.
Tonya Rapley
5. Sola Adesakin
Sola Adesakin is an established Chartered Accountant with over 17 years of experience in SMEs and Personal finance. She is the CEO and Lead Coach of Smart Stewards.
Sola is a Conference/Seminar Speaker and Personal Finance Coach. Through the Smart Stewards Academy and her blog, she has assisted a lot of people to enjoy wealth and financial liberty.
6. Jamila Souffrant
Jamila Souffrant is a personal finance expert that urges her followers to enjoy the journey of pursuing financial liberty. She moved from being a guest on Good Morning America (GMA) to feature in the New York Times. She teaches her audience to comprehend how peer pressure, mental health, and even family traditions, impact our financial processes
Jamila Souffrant
7. Reni Odetoyinbo
Reni is a content creator, marketing consultant and finance enthusiast based in Toronto, Canada. She shares content centered around resources around career development, lifestyle and financial literacy on her Youtube channel. After buying her first house at the age of 23, she decided to share her knowledge with others with the goal of helping them become more financially literate and share tips to help them excel in their careers. From finance to career and lifestyle content, Reni’s aim is to make complex topics, simple.
Reni Odetoyinbo
8. Vanessa Ideh Adekoya
Vanessa has managed to turn YouTube into a lucrative business, and she is now teaching other women how to do it. In April 2020 she joined Youtube and started creating content around trending topics, and in June 2021, the certified financial education instructor (CFEI) and former accountant decided to start from scratch and build a brand-new channel called, Launch To Wealth.
The platform has now evolved into a goldmine, making Vanessa one of the top black Youtubers in the world. In November 2021, she made $23,700 from her YouTube channel in just five months of launching it, and her subscribers increased significantly. The inspiring financial coach has turned her hobby into a career, and she is reaping the fruit of her labour, hard work and tenacity. Vanessa
9. Jennifer Awirigwe
Jennifer Awirigwe is a financial guru who has leveraged the social media space to discover the right community to serve. She is the founder of FinTribe and is also known as Financial Jennifer.
Awirigwe is out to increase the population of financial gurus by providing people with easy-to-understand guides on an individual’s financial management.
Through her online platform – FinTribe, Jennifer established a network for financial literacy for people in Nigeria by enabling them to discover the right information expected to invest wisely.
Jennifer Awirigwe
10. Clarissa the Budget Queen
Clarissa is one of the financial gurus who believe that no matter the money you make you should properly manage it. She is popularly known by her fans as ‘The Money Coach,’ because she not only teaches but practices as she once paid off $43,000 in credit card debt in a year and 4 months.
Clarissa uses her Instagram account strategically to educate working-class women on how to manage, make, and multiply money so they can enjoy a good living.
Clarissa
11. Nicole Hatcher
Nicole Hatcher owns a community called the ‘Frugal Chic Life.’ She is on a mission to achieve financial liberty in over 10 years. She is sharing useful acquired knowledge with others along her journey.
Her mission is focused on debt elimination, spending wisely, investing, saving long-term, and still being ‘chic.’
Nicole offers free YouTube video trainings as well as courses and products on investing, one-on-one coaching, consultation sessions, side hustles, and budgeting. She is one of the amazing female financial gurus amking a difference.
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Women of Rubies, a pioneering platform dedicated to celebrating and empowering women’s accomplishments, is elated to announce the upcoming launch of its highly anticipated event – the Media Visibility BootCamp. This exclusive event is meticulously crafted to arm female business ownersand emerging influencers with the essential tools and strategies required to elevate their media presence and create a profound impact within their respective fields.
The Women of Rubies Media Visibility BootCamp transcends a traditional learning experience; it’s a transformative odyssey designed to equip participants with the skills necessary to amplify their voices, elevate their personal brand, and create an enduring impression. The program seamlessly integrates expert-led guidance, interactive exercises, and a nurturing community to ensure attendees achieve their maximum potential for growth.
“Excitement fills the air as we prepare to host the Women of Rubies Media Visibility BootCamp, an exceptional event aimed at empowering and uplifting women in the realm of business,” announced Esther Ijewere,the visionary Founder of Women of Rubies. “Our objective is to provide participants with knowledge and resources that will empower them to magnify their voices and attain their pinnacle potential. It’s time for women to shine brightly and leave their indelible mark on the media landscape!”
Scheduled to unfold virtually on August 11th and 12th, the BootCamp offers limited slots, urging participants to secure their place promptly at this transformative event by registering at womenofrubies.com/bootcamp. The agenda boasts a stellar lineup of six trailblazing thought leaders and experts hailing from the media, marketing, and business domains.
Concluding the BootCamp is a captivating fireside chat featuring luminous speakers: Ariyike Akinbobola,Maryam Muritala, Funmi Ayowole, and Nikki Porcher. For more details about this event and to discover the complete agenda, kindly visit womenofrubies.com.
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Nikki Porcher is a visionary leader. As the dedicated founder of the nonprofit entity Buy From A Black Woman,she has wholeheartedly embraced the role of advocate for Black Women Business Owners. Infused with an unyielding dedication to empowerment, education, and inspiration, Nikki spearheads a movement that’s reshaping the contours of entrepreneurship and bolstering consumer support.
Empowerment Beyond Words
Buy From A Black Woman is not just an organization; it’s a movement that amplifies the voicesand endeavors of Black Women in business. Nikki’s mission is clear: to bring attention to the need for tangible support and recognition for Black Women entrepreneurs. She understands that advocacy must extend beyond mere statements, and through her actions, she’s proving that Black Women deserve nothing less than meaningful empowerment.
Equipping for Success
Nikki and her organization are arming Black Women entrepreneurs with the essential tools and resources required to thrive in the world of business. With a focus on education, Buy From A Black Woman has played a pivotal role in driving over $2.7 million in revenue for Black Women Founders in the past year alone. This achievement highlights not only the potential within this community but also the transformation that can occur when support and opportunity intersect.
The organization offers a diverse array of resources, including educational programs, funding opportunities, and a comprehensive online directory that facilitates the discovery of Black Women-Owned Businesses. Moreover, Buy From A Black Woman boasts one of the largest and most dynamic communities of Black Women Business Owners both in the United States and across the globe.
A Journey Rooted in Service
Nikki Porcher’s journey to her current role is marked by her dedication to service. As a veteran and former public school teacher, she brings a unique blend of skills and experiences to her work. The challenges she navigated in these environments have shaped her approach to creating a more equitable world for Black Women. Her passion and commitment are evident in every facet of Buy From A Black Woman’s initiatives.
A Trailblazer and Inspiring Force
Nikki’s list of accomplishments is impressive and impactful. She has forged partnerships with major players such as H&M and Goldman Sachs, leveraging these collaborations to empower Black Women entrepreneurs on a larger scale. Over 600 founders have benefitted from her guidance in boosting their online visibility, positioning them for success in the digital era. Moreover, Nikki’s innovation shines through in her creation of one of the pioneering platforms dedicated to Black Woman-Owned Businesses – her groundbreaking online directory.
However, what sets Nikki apart is not just her impressive track record, but her unwavering spirit and ability to inspire others. Her dedication to her mission and her community has ignited a fire that fuels positive change and growth.
A Multifaceted Force for Change
Beyond her role as the founder of Buy From A Black Woman, Nikki Porcher wears many hats. She is a sought-after Business Consultant, DEI (Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion) Trainer, and Speaker. Her expertise extends beyond the organization, making her a valuable voice in various spheres where her insights are driving change and awareness.
Discover More
If Nikki Porcher’s story has captivated you, and if the mission of Buy From A Black Woman resonates with your values, you can learn more about Nikki and her journey at ablackwomanwebsite.com. To delve deeper into the impactful work of Buy From A Black Woman, visit buyfromablackwoman.org. By supporting this movement, you become part of a transformative force that’s reshaping the narrative of entrepreneurship and empowerment for Black Women across the world.
Funmi Fatona-Ayowole Is Providing Mental Health Support For CanadiansThrough ‘The Soul Clinic. Her personal mission is to be an ever-growing, trustworthy being expressing love and wisdom, contributing to healing the world, and leaving a legacy of impact, health, and wealth for the next generation.
Funmi is an emotional health and wellness coach, speaker, counsellor, project manager, execution specialist and team lead. Through her work of coaching, counselling and team building, Funmi deploys her relational gifts of natural empathy and disciplined connectedness to help unlock the potentials of people and visions.
Funmi’s personal mission is to be an ever-growing, trustworthy being expressing love and wisdom, contributing to healing the world and leaving a legacy of impact, health and wealth for the next generation.
She is the Founder at TheVirtualSoulClinic– a tech-driven non-profit organization democratising a listening ear by connecting trained volunteer coaches with people in the community who require mental health support via virtual, high quality safe spaces.
This non-profit provides mental health first aid – first with an evidence-based QuickScan to diagnose the client’s mental and emotional health status and then a 15-minute call with a support coach that listens non-judgementally, helps untangle mind webs and invites the client to take initial steps in the direction of the healing journey.
These services (diagnostic survey, results, support call and post-call recommendations) are all free of charge. Beneficiaries include but are not limited to new (and not so new) immigrants settling into Canada and young leaders that identify as people of color from all walks of life.
TheVirtualSoulClinic is on a quest to expand its network of support coaches, equip them via continuous training and mentoring, improve the platform’s user experience and increase its reach. Please learn about ways to support us atbit.ly/GiveTVSC
Funmi runs TheSoulClinic (a private coaching practice), delivering individual and group coaching programmes and content, helping clients build their soul strength – leading to increased mental and emotional independence, clarity, and resilience. She speaks and facilitates group healing sessions.
As a certified project management and marketing communication professional with over 15 years of experience providing client, event, brand, and project leadership in the marketplace, Funmi currently works with The Garden – a renowned Independent Agency in Toronto, as a Project Lead for a myriad of brands and clients.
She is married and is a supermom of 2, aiming to thrive with family first. Sundays are her best days, filled with fellowship, fun and food!
Chichi Uchendu is a dynamic Social Entrepreneur, Digital Marketing Consultant and passionate advocate for financial literacy. As the founder of “SixFigureMom,” she dedicates herself to empowering women with the essential principles of financial literacy, firmly believing that every woman deserves the knowledge and skills to take control of her financial future.
In her role as a Digital Marketing Consultant and Team Lead at Dynamics Virtual Assistant (Dvirtualassistant), Chichiassists businesses in harnessing the immense potential of online platforms. She firmly believes that a strong online presence is the key to effectively reaching and engaging target audiences. Through her business, she has successfully supported over 10,000 global businesses and trained more than 25,000 students on leveraging the Internet to grow and thrive financially.
Chichi’s impact extends even further as the Founder of LearnifyAfrica, an ed-tech company with a mission to empower women and youths through tech and digital marketing. With her diverse expertise, Chichi continues to drive positive change and uplift communities through education and financial empowerment. In this interview with Esther Ijewere, she shares her inspiring story and her passion for teaching mums financial literacy.
Childhood Influence
As a mum, reflecting on my childhood, I can see how it has significantly influenced and prepared me for the role I have now as a social entrepreneur. My childhood experiences taught me resilience and adaptability. I faced various challenges and setbacks along the way, but these experiences taught me to stay determined and find innovative solutions to overcome obstacles. They have equipped me with the tools, mindset, and determination to pursue my passions, support my family and create a positive impact in my community and beyond.
The inspiration behind SixFigureMom, Learnify Africa and Dynamics Virtual Assistant
The idea to start Dynamics Virtual Assistant agency originated from a confluence of two key factors: my existing skills and the need for an additional source of income. As you may know, I have always been passionate about technology, problem-solving and organizing tasks efficiently.
However, despite possessing these valuable skills, I found myself unsure of how to monetize them effectively. The traditional job market was limited in terms of flexible opportunities, and I craved a way to leverage my abilities while maintaining a work-life balance. I knew there had to be a way to use my skills to create value for others and, in turn, generate income for myself.
During my research, I stumbled upon the concept of virtual assistants and the growing demand for remote support services. The rest they say is history. I was inspired to start SixFigureMom during the COVID-19 pandemic to help women work and earn remotely. The SixFigureMom community empowers women to know that in this era you don’t have to choose between raising a family and your career; you can do both successfully.
Dynamics Virtual Assistant, the parent company of LearnifyAfrica, is a female-focused ed-tech platform that utilizes technology and community building to educate and empower women in digital skills, mainstream media and financial literacy.
Since our inception, we have empowered over 10,000 women across the globe through training, education and job-skill matching. We also assist organisations, digital creators and business owners with their digital marketing needs such as managing their social engagement and creating a profitable social footprint. Our mission is to increase access to employability and promote education and gender equality.
How the journey has been since she started her platforms
The journey has been rewarding and challenging at the same time. The testimonials I got from Sixfigurenation make me keep pushing, knowing that women can earn a decent living with the phones in their hands. The challenging aspect of it – building a client base from scratch, navigating the intricacies of running a business and managing a team of remote assistants – has presented its share of hurdles. However, witnessing the positive impact our services have had on our clients’ lives and businesses has been incredibly gratifying.
Challenges
I have encountered different challenges one of them being time zone differences and remote communication. Some clients prefer people from their countries but I had to build trust by ensuring we over-deliver on our promises thereby making us retain over 85 percent of clients.
How my work has inspired other women around me
My work has served as a source of inspiration for the women around me in several ways. Empowering Women to LeveraTheireir Skills: My journey has shown other women that they can leverage their skills and passions to create meaningful and profitable ventures.
Promoting Work-Life Balance: As a virtual assistant agency, we prioritize remote work and flexible hours. Encouraging Skill Development: Through ongoing training and upskilling programmes, I have emphasized the importance of continuous learning and personal growth.
Supporting Women-Owned Businesses: Beyond my agency, I have actively supported and collaborated with other women-owned businesses. This networking and partnership have fostered a sense of solidarity and collective growth among women entrepreneurs.
Providing Role Models: Representation matters. As a female founder in the technology and business domain, I have become a role model for aspiring women entrepreneurs and professionals. My achievements have shown them that they too can succeed and make a significant impact in their chosen fields.
Other projects and activities
As a mum, I am deeply committed to my role as a parent and ensuring the well-being and happiness of my children. Apart from running my agency and the Edtech Academy, I am involved in several other projects and activities that align with my passions and values such as community engagement and continuous learning.
Work-life balance routine
As a wife and mum of three, maintaining a healthy work-life balance is of utmost importance to me. Juggling the responsibilities of running a business and caring for my children requires careful planning, organization and setting clear boundaries. Here’s an overview of my work-life balance routine:
Outsourcing Non-Core Tasks: To lighten my workload, I delegate non-core tasks.
Structured Family Time: Family time is a non-negotiable part of my routine. I set aside specific hours during the day when I engage in activities with my children, such as helping with schoolwork, playing games or going on outings. Designated Work Hours: I establish specific work hours during the day when I can focus solely on business-related tasks.
Three women who inspire her and why
Oprah Winfrey’s journey from humble beginnings to global success serves as a reminder that no dream is too big to achieve with determination, hard work and resilience.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, through her books and speeches, challenges societal norms and promotes the idea of being unapologetically oneself. Chimamanda’s fearlessness in tackling difficult subjects inspires me to use my voice to advocate for change and to be unafraid of challenging prevailing narratives.
Lupit Nyong’o inspires me to embrace my unique strengths and advocate for causes that are close to my heart.
Advice to mums who still don’t know they can make money while working from home
Believe in yourself and your potential. Working from home offers incredible opportunities to balance your personal and professional life while earning income. Your skills, talents and experiences are valuable assets that can be monetized in various ways. Take the leap of faith, explore the possibilities and discover the vast array of remote work options available to you.
Women with a passion to earn money but lack support
Supporting women who have the motivation to earn more income but lack adequate support is crucial for empowering them to achieve their goals and improve their financial independence. We can offer assistance and create a supportive environment for such women through Financial Literacy and Skill Development by providing access to workshops, training programs or online resources that focus on financial literacy and skill development.
Being a Woman of Rubies
As a woman, I believe I embody the qualities that make me a “Woman of Rubies.” Here’s how I relate to those characteristics: Empowerment: Empowering women has always been a priority for me.
Advocacy: I use my platform to raise awareness about important issues and encourage others to take action for positive change. blindness: I believe in the power of kindness and compassion. Through my journey as an entrepreneur, a mum and a woman, I strive to be a “Woman of Rubies” by embodying these qualities and using my experiences and achievements to create positive change and empowerment for those around me.
One thing I wish to change in society
One thing I hope to change in society is to create more support for women’s entrepreneurship by providing more access to resources, funding and training for women entrepreneurs.
In today’s dynamic world, empowered womenare rewriting the script when it comes to relationships. They embrace their strength and independence, while also fostering healthy and meaningful connections with their partners. These empowered women possess a unique set of qualitiesthat set them apart in their relationships, creating a positive impact on both their personal growth and the dynamics of their partnerships.
Let’s explore seven empowering traits that make a significant difference in how these remarkable women navigate their romantic journeys.
1) They put self-care first
Empowered women are empowered because they know how to look after themselves.
Of course, they also pour love and care into their relationships, but one mistake they don’t make is sacrificing themselves in the process. Just as the common advice dished out on airlines states: “Put your own oxygen mask on before helping others”…These women know that to show up for the people in their lives, they need to be healthy themselves first.
2) They share the responsibilities equally
I’d consider myself an empowered woman. My mom, on the other hand, isn’t. She’s from another generation and culture – women voicing their wants and needs was unheard of.
So, in her marriage, she does all the domestic work as well as holds down a job. Over the years, her resentment towards my dad became obvious. It’s not that he won’t help her, it’s that she doesn’t have the confidence to ask.
In my relationship?
We both work, so we both split the responsibilities and chores equally!
This way neither of us feels resentment toward the other. We actually get things done quicker so we have more free time to enjoy life.
This was a requirement of mine when we moved in together and man, it’s been a game-changer!
3) They’re financially independent
Empowered women know that to be self-reliant and independent, they need to have their own source of income.
That’s not to look down on women who don’t work or stay-at-home moms.
Empowered women know when to take a break and lean on their partners too.
But ultimately, they know that having their own money means the freedom to do what they want, without having to ask someone else every time they want to do something!
4) They Praise their partner’s success
Another thing empowered women do differently in relationships is big up their partner’s successes.
They don’t feel resentful, jealous, or threatened.
In fact, they will do everything in their power to support and uplift the men in their lives!
So, when it comes to their partner taking on a new job or being promoted, they’re all for it!
5) They Make Decisions Together
I know of relationships where the woman calls all the shots. I also know of relationships where the man is totally in control.
Neither of these scenarios is healthy though, and empowered women know this!
That’s why they cultivate relationships where both feel heard and valued. Where both people can put their ideas forward in a safe space, free from ridicule or judgment.
And it’s not rocket science…
When both make decisions together, their bond and respect levels increase tenfold! It’s a sign of teamwork and partnership.
6) They continuously learn and grow
Ever heard the expression, “This is just the way I am. Like it or lump it.”
You’ll probably never hear an empowered woman utter this line.
Because they never stop working on themselves. Perfection isn’t a word in their dictionary.
These women value self-development and rather than accept their flaws and expect everyone around them to do the same, they actively work to be better people.
But here’s the catch:
They expect the same from their partners. They don’t want a man who stays stuck in his bad habits, they want someone they can grow with.
7) They maintain a strong support network
Have you noticed how some friends get into a relationship and seem to fall off the face of the earth?
Well, these friends aren’t the empowered women in your life, that’s for sure!
That’s because empowered women keep their social circles strong, no matter how loved up they are with their men.
Building a strong support system is crucial for anyone who has relocated to a new country, such as Canada. Moving to a foreign land can be an exciting yet daunting experience, and having a solid support network can significantly contribute to a successful transition. Whether you are a newcomer, an immigrant, or an international student, navigating the complexities of a new environment becomes easier when you have a robust support system.
This blog will explore five valuable tips for building a strong support system after relocating to Canada. These tips will help you establish meaningful connections, find a sense of belonging, and create a support network that will positively impact your journey in your new home.
Importance of Having a Strong Support System for a Successful Transition
Transitioning to a new country can be an exhilarating adventure but comes with its share of challenges. A strong support system becomes paramount to ensuring a successful transition during this adjustment period. A support system consists of individuals who provide emotional, practical, and social support, offering a sense of belonging and stability in unfamiliar surroundings.
The importance of having a strong support system cannot be overstated. It not only helps mitigate loneliness and isolation but also provides guidance, encouragement, and a sense of community that can help overcome obstacles, adapts to the Canadian culture, and build a fulfilling life.
From providing valuable advice and insights to offering a shoulder to lean on, a strong support system becomes a cornerstone of resilience and growth, allowing individuals to thrive in their new environment.
1. Tap into Community Resources
Building a strong support system is essential for a successful transition when relocating to Canada. One effective way to do this is by tapping into the wealth of community resources available. These resources are valuable as newcomers connect with others and access various programs and services. In their new lives in Canada, newcomers can find support, guidance, and a sense of belonging through these resources.
2. Join Social and Professional Networks
Another critical step in building a strong support system after relocating to Canada is to join social and professional networks. These networks provide valuable opportunities to meet like-minded individuals, make new friends, and establish professional connections. Professional networks can include associations, networking events, and online platforms, while social networks can include local community groups.
Participating in these networks, newcomers can expand their social circles, gain valuable insights, and potentially find employment opportunities. It’s a great way to connect with individuals with similar interests and experiences, fostering community and support during the transition.
3. Engage in Language and Cultural Programs
After relocating to Canada, engaging in language and cultural programs effectively builds a strong support system. Language programs like language courses or conversation groups provide opportunities to improve language skills and connect with fellow language learners. These programs often create a supportive and inclusive environment where newcomers can practice their language skills and develop friendships.
Additionally, cultural programs and events offer a chance to explore and celebrate the diverse cultures in Canada. Cultural associations, community centers, and local festivals organize various activities, workshops, and performances that showcase different traditions and customs. Participating in these programs allows newcomers to learn more about Canadian culture and provides opportunities to meet individuals with shared cultural backgrounds and experiences.
4. Attend Local Events and Activities
Attending local events and activities is a fantastic way to build a strong support system after relocating to Canada. Communities across the country host various events, such as festivals, concerts, art exhibits, sports games, and community gatherings. These events provide opportunities to immerse oneself in the local culture, meet new people, and form connections with fellow residents.
By actively participating in local events and activities, newcomers can discover common interests, engage in conversations, and develop friendships with individuals with similar hobbies or passions. It’s a chance to expand social networks, feel a sense of belonging, and create lasting connections within the community.
To learn about local events and activities, newcomers can check community bulletin boards, local newspapers, social media groups, or online event directories. By attending and actively participating in these events, newcomers can enrich their experience in Canada and foster a strong support system that can provide guidance, companionship, and a sense of belonging during the transition.
5. Seek Support from Newcomer Settlement Services
Seeking support from newcomer settlement services is crucial in building a strong support system after relocating to Canada. These services are specifically designed to assist newcomers in their transition and provide valuable resources, information, and support.
Newcomer settlement services offer various programs and support, including language classes, employment assistance, housing support, cultural orientation, and access to community resources. These services are often provided by dedicated organizations, settlement agencies, or government-funded programs that specialize in supporting newcomers.
By reaching out to newcomer settlement services, individuals can benefit from expert guidance, connect with newcomers facing similar challenges, and access resources tailored to their needs. These services can provide invaluable assistance in navigating the Canadian system, understanding local customs and culture, and overcoming any obstacles or barriers that may arise during the transition.
Newcomer settlement services can be found throughout Canada, including community centers, immigrant-serving organizations, and online platforms. Researching and reaching out to these services early in the relocation process is recommended to maximize available support and ensure a smoother transition into Canadian society.
Building a strong support system after relocating to Canada is crucial for a successful transition. By tapping into community resources, joining networks, engaging in language and cultural programs, attending local events, and seeking support from newcomer settlement services, newcomers can establish connections, gain insights, and navigate the challenges of adapting to a new country. A strong support system provides emotional support, practical guidance, and access to resources, facilitating a smoother transition and enhancing the overall experience in Canada.
Fii Stephen, a leading entrepreneur and visionary, is thrilled to announce the highly anticipated Growth Accelerator Conference, set to take place on the 19th of August 2023 at Pistis Hub, Maryland, Ikeja in Lagos State. This transformative conference aims to bring together industry pioneers, aspiring entrepreneurs, and business enthusiasts to unlock the secrets of exponential growthand foster innovation in the corporate landscape.
The Growth Accelerator Conference is curated to provide attendees with invaluable insights, actionable strategies, and unparalleled networking opportunities. Fii Stephen has curated a diverse lineup of influential speakers, accomplished entrepreneurs, and thought leaders, who will share their expertise and real-world experiences to empower the participants.
Key Highlights from the Growth Accelerator Conference;
Inspiring Keynote Speakers: The conference boasts an impressive lineup of dynamic keynote speakers, including Fii Stephen himself, who will share their extraordinary journeys, challenges, and successes, leaving attendees with practical strategies for business, career, and personal growth.
Expert-led Workshops: Attendees will have the unique opportunity to engage in interactive workshops led by industry experts. These sessions will delve deep into critical topics such as growth hacking, digital marketing, financial strategies, and disruptive innovation.
Networking Opportunities: The Growth Accelerator Conference provides a conducive environment for meaningful networking. Participants will have the chance to connect with like-minded individuals, potential investors, mentors, and partners, fostering collaboration and long-term business relationships.
Startup Showcase: As a proponent of entrepreneurship, Stephen Fii has dedicated a segment of the conference to spotlight promising startups and innovative ventures. This showcase will offer startups a platform to pitch their ideas to a discerning audience and potential investors.
Panel Discussions: Engaging panel discussions featuring industry experts will explore the latest trends, emerging technologies, and strategies for sustainable growth and scalability.
Stephen Fii is excited to welcome attendees from various industries, including technology, finance, healthcare, e-commerce, and more, for this immersive experience. Participants will gain the tools and knowledge needed to navigate the challenges of today’s business landscape successfully.
According to Stephen, Growth does not just happen. It takes access to a higher level of relevant information and a required level of consistent execution. This is what the Growth conference gives you access to.
