The 21st edition of the Commonwealth Games will kick off on April 4, 2018 in the Gold Coast, Australia. Among the Nigerians getting warmed up to impress at various events will be the country’s first female university director of sports, Dr Cecilia Arinye, who has received an invitation to officiate at the games.

(Photo: Cecilia Arinye via Facebook)

The Nation reports that Arinye is the only Nigerian invited in that capacity. As a blue badge international umpire, she’ll be officiating table tennis at the games.

This invitation is obviously an offshoot of her participation in the last edition of the games in 2014 where she became the first black woman to officiate at the table tennis event. She was also the first black woman to officiate at the Summer Paralympics during the Rio 2016 Paralympics Games.

Since she became an umpire in 2007, Arinye has officiated in numerous international events sanctioned by the International Table Tennis Federation (ITTF). Currently the Director of Sports at the University of Lagos, she helped the institution achieve their best NUGA Games performance in 2014 when UNILAG finished second.

Arinye with a UNILAG student-athlete (Photo: Titans Basket)

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In a move that is designated to set Nigeria back at least a couple of decades, the Nigerian military wants to end the admission of female cadets into the combatant course of the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA). In 2010, President, Goodluck Jonathan ordered the military to allow females interested in becoming combatant officers of the Nigerian armed forces to be admitted into the NDA for the first time ever. In 2011, a set of 20 women, nicknamed ‘Jonathan Queens’, were first admitted into the course.

First Female Cadets (aka Jonathan’s Queens) at the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA) (Photo: Sahara Reporters)

Ironically or unironically (depends on how you see it), the recommendation to end the programme was made by the Armed Forces Council inaugurated by President Muhammadu Buhari, just last week. The council also revised the National Defence Policy: Harmonised Terms and Conditions of Service Officers last week, and the changes were ratified by president Buhari, to include one new clause: Phase out the training of female regular combatant cadets.

There are many types of commissions in the Nigerian Armed Forces: Regular Combatant Commission, Short Service Combatant Commission, Direct Regular Commission, Direct Short Service and Executive Commission. According to a correspondent for Punch Nigeria, a serving general in the Nigerian Army said that the military allegedly took the decision due to complaints from some unnamed northern Muslim leaders:

“It is only the Regular Combatant Commission that can give an officer the opportunity to aspire to head any of the services or rise to become the Chief of Defence Staff, while the others have limited career path. If the military is able to scrap this programme, women will never be able to head any of the arms of the Nigerian military.

The northern Muslim leaders want to prevent a situation where one day, a woman will lead the army and give orders to men.”

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In 2013, of the first 20 female cadets, only one Muslim woman, Fatimah Saleh, enlisted. She had also stated that her “Arabic school teacher” had advised her against joining the army. The general said those pushing for the scrapping of the programme had convinced the president that women were not doing well in the programme. Because, what else can men do if they’re not oppressing women?

“When we started the training of female cadets in 2011, we never thought it would be successful. When the first set of women cadets graduated from the academy last year, women won three awards, including the best award in the navy category.

A female cadet, C. Lord-Mallam, won the Navy Gold award which is the highest in the navy category. The Army Silver award, which is the second highest in the army, went to a female cadet, K. O Dayo-Karim. The Air Force Silver award was also won by a female cadet, O. S Ijelu.

However, some northern conservatives were not happy about it because most of the female cadets are either Christians from the South and northern minority groups or Muslims from the South and Middle Belt. Dissatisfied with how things are turning out, the northern Muslim leaders lobbied the military authorities to stop the programme for women.”

Basically, this move is being made because some fragile men are quaking in their shoes about the success of women. The female cadets are outperforming their male colleagues, but the military hierarchy would rather suppress their achievements. These men are so sexist that they’re willing to overlook the general quality, superiority and ability of the women in the military to make sure women don’t get a chance to lead.

Two of these same female cadets even beat their male counterparts to win placement at the United States Military Academy in West Point and they are doing well. Presently, we have female armoured tank drivers, female para-troopers, jumpers, and so on. According to the general said, the women were trained just like the men were trained. They were not given any preferential treatment.

But looks like it will be a while before the Nigerian armed forces is without discrimination. They will allow women join the army, but on men’s terms: limiting women to non-combat duties, thereby limiting their career path regardless of their competence or skill. Masculinity so fragile…

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My altering of her image was not born out of any hate but instead out of my own ignorance and insensitivity to the constant slighting of women of color throughout the different media platforms. There is no excuse for my actions. I deeply regret the pain I’ve caused Ms. Nyong’o, a woman I’ve admired for quite some time now.

Culled from HuffingtonPost

Following months of speculation surrounding her pregnancy, Ghanaian actress Yvonne Nelson who welcomed her daughter on October 29th, 2017 in Ghana has finally released her pregnancy photos.

The beautiful actress who didn’t say anything amidst pregnancy rumors and delivery took to her page to share photos as she  turned a year older today, November 12.

She wrote on Instagram:

WOW! ITS MY BIRTHDAY 🎂🎊🎂 The BEST year of my life!
The best birthday GIFT ever!
Looking for a miracle?? Just look around you….it’s there. He’s present in everything

This is coming after it was reported that Yvonne Nelson got married to a secret lover, which she denied.

For her pregnancy photoshoot, Yvonne posed for WOW Magazine, and spoke about having a child out of wedlock, how her mother felt about the news, and what she feels about marriage in general.

Asked about how her mother felt about the pregnancy, she said:

“My mum, she used to be so big on marriage, she was very traditional: marriage then baby. Until I got pregnant. It’s like everything changed.

I guess your priority obviously changes to something else. She is now concerned about the baby. She doesn’t pressure me anymore with marriage. You know, it’s not like I am engaged or married or anything. It’s just that when it happens, it happens. As a woman, you cannot marry yourself.”

Asked if she thinks she is not the typical traditional girl, she said:

“I believe if I say that people might say I am not setting a good example, but I think society is just too hard on most of us. It is good to get married. It is the right thing to do.

But then again if you are a woman and you think you are getting to a certain age and you want to have kids and you meet a responsible guy who hasn’t yet proposed but wants to do the same thing, it depends on you and him.

You can go ahead and do it if you think the guy is right and responsible and he makes you happy. Why not? Marriage nowadays is just ceremony and a huge wedding.

The whole marriage thing, that name is just so scary.”

Here are the photos:

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Lupita Nyong’o is not happy with women magazine, Grazia for editing her photo without her permission on their cover.

The beautiful actress who took to her Instagram page on Friday, November 10, 2017, to speak on what she calls an unconscious prejudice against black women, feels she should have been consulted before taking off her natural hair from the cover.

” As I have made clear so often in the past with every fiber of my being, I embrace my natural heritage and despite having grown up thinking light skin and straight, silky hair were the standards of beauty, I now know that my dark skin and kinky, coily hair are beautiful too. Being featured on the cover of a magazine fulfills me as it is an opportunity to show other dark, kinky-haired people, and particularly our children, that they are beautiful just the way they are.

 

lupitanyongo Verified

culled from pulse.ng