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French-Senagalese director Mati Diop has become the first black female director to win an award in Cannes’ 72-year history. 

Diop took home the Grand Prix – the equivalent of a silver prize – for her film  Atlantics, a Senegalese drama about sexual politics among young migrants. 

The 36-year-old had previously said she was a “little sad” to make history as the first woman of African descent to even have a film screened at the festival.

“It’s pretty late and it’s incredible that it is still relevant,” she said at the time.

“My first feeling to be the first black female director was a little sadness that this only happened today in 2019.

”I knew it as I obviously don’t know any black women who came here before. I knew it but it’s always a reminder that so much work needs to be done still.”

She said she had had an “urgent need” to feel more represented on screen and see more people who look like her behind the camera, telling fresh stories.

“As a black woman I really missed black figures and black characters cruelly. And that’s also why I made this film: I needed to see black people on screen — huge, everywhere,” she laughed.

“It’s also something new. I can’t believe when I go to see a Jordan Peele movie… I can’t even believe what I’m feeling,” she said, referring to the Oscar-winning African-American film-maker behind “Get Out” and “Us”.

“I’m so excited, I’m looking at how many black people are in the room — I almost count them… it’s a little hysterical.”

Diop said Cannes as the world’s biggest film festival had the power to help transform the industry by knocking down barriers for previously excluded groups.

“Hopefully it will be more and more common that black people are in front of characters of the same colour. Inshallah (God willing),” she said.

David Byrd is known around the Tennessee capitol as “Coach.” It’s a throwback to the 24 years he spent coaching the Wayne County High School girls basketball team, before he was elected state representative in 2014. Byrd is such a beloved figure in his hometown of Waynesboro that the high school dedicated the basketball court in his name. He was re-elected for the second time with 78% of the vote last year — even after three women came forwardwith stories about how Byrd made sexual advances against them when they were teenagers and he was their coach in the 1980s.

One of the women, Christi Rice, revealed a recording she made of Byrd apologizing to her in a phone call. “I’ve punished myself so much for that,” Byrd said in the recording, though he doesn’t explain what he means by “that.” As the women came forward last March, Byrd did not explicitly deny the allegations against him. Instead, he issued a statement at the time noting that he hadn’t done anything wrong while in office, and said people should “question the motives of these three former students out of the hundreds of students I have coached.”

“Conduct over 30 years ago is difficult, at best, to recall, but as a Christian, I have said and I will repeat that if I hurt or emotionally upset any of my students I am truly sorry and apologize,” Byrd’s statement said. “I do not believe either of these ladies can show that they made a report to the authorities or received any subsequent mental health counseling for what they have alleged but, again, if my acts or omissions cause them distress I am truly sorry.” Byrd did not respond to requests for comment for this story.

Many public officials accused of sexual misconduct in the past two years either resigned or were voted out of office, events often celebrated as evidence of the power of victims coming forward. But for Byrd, a Republican from the most pro-Trump county in Tennessee, the situation has displayed a dramatically different scenario. Not only has Byrd stayed in office, he has enjoyed vocal defenses from multiple GOP colleagues. The American Conservative Union, the group best known for hosting the annual Conservative Political Action Conference, gave Byrd an award in February. (The group did not return Teen Vogue’s request for comment.) As a reporter waited in a hallway earlier this year to ask Byrd about the allegations, Kent Calfee, a GOP lawmaker, stopped to point out that Byrd “got re-elected by a huge number,” and asked, “Why don’t y’all get off of him?” Calfee did not return Teen Vogue’s request for comment.

Byrd was promoted to chair of an education subcommittee in January. When a group of female activists showed up at a committee hearing in February to protest Byrd’s promotion — each holding 8.5 by 11 inch pieces of paper in front of their chests with statements like “Resign Byrd” and “Survivor Against Byrd” — they were chastised by Jerry Sexton, a Republican state representative who also didn’t respond to a request for comment. “I think it’s a shame that you can pick certain individuals to pick out and demean,” Sexton said to them before state troopers escorted the women out of the hearing.

The activists, who were working with the Enough is Enough Voter Project, believe that a large reason why Byrd has not resigned is because of Glen Casada, who announced on Tuesday, May 21, that he plans to step down as Tennessee’s Speaker of the House in light of a controversies involving lewd and racistbehavior by one of his top aides and after a vote of no-confidence from his party. Casada ran ads through his political action committee last fall calling the accusations against Byrd “fake news.” He was captured on video in February downplaying the allegations against Byrd, and stated, “if I was raped, I would move.”

“Casada basically propped Byrd up,” Rice, one of Byrd’s accusers, told Teen Vogue. “I really feel like he would’ve resigned if not for him.” She has said that when she was 15, Byrd touched her inappropriately and kissed her multiple times, and told her he wanted to see her naked. Rice told her story to Tennessee Gov. Bill Lee in a private meeting in March, but he has refused to say what he thinks about Byrd.

The fact that Byrd remains in office without criticism from Republican leaders in Tennessee shows the limits of #MeToo in a conservative part of the South, especially in a small town where high school athletics reign supreme and even people who believe the women’s accusations are fearful of what would happen to them if they said so publicly.

“One person said to me that part of it is we’re a rural community,” Rice told Teen Vogue. “The only thing we really have is athletics and he was a successful basketball coach. That was our saving grace, what the community was known for, and for me to put a black mark on that was a horrible thing regardless of what happened.”

But the Enough is Enough activists won’t let that excuse stop them. They have vowed to keep the pressure on Tennessee lawmakers until Byrd is out of office, and in the past few months, they’ve shown what that looks like.

They stood outside the capitol in January dressed as characters from the “Handmaid’s Tale” with a banner reading “Casada Protects Men Who Abuse Women,” and a week later showed up at Bill Lee’s inauguration as governor holding large cut out letters spelling “Casada Protects Abusers.” In March, they read excerpts during breaks in committee hearings from a recording in which Byrd apologized to Rice for his actions when he coached her. A group of women sat outside of Lee’s office at the capitol in April until state troopers arrested five of them for refusing orders to leave. To make sure Lee knew what they wanted with their protest, they put up a billboard in the Nashville area demanding Lee call for Byrd’s resignation. At the end of April, they hounded lawmakers over their support for Byrd at events around the NFL draft, which was being held in the city. On Monday, May 20, the group purchased a new billboard ad calling for both Byrd and Casada to leave office.

Casada and the governor’s office did not respond to requests for comment by Teen Vogue. Neither did 16 other Republicans in the Tennessee legislature, who serve in leadership positions and on committees with Byrd, that were contacted for this story.

“It’s frustrating when you see a government that is just beating their chest on their religious and moral virtues and then they don’t want to address an issue on this magnitude,” Rice said. “It sets precedent, it sets a standard that other men can do this and get by with this. Political leaders should hold one another accountable — that’s the only way anyone is going to change this behavior.”

Rice explained to Teen Vogue that she decided to come forward after a couple of statements Byrd made. First, he expressed outrage over news in November 2017 that the University of Tennessee wanted to hire Greg Schiano as football coach. Schiano was accused offailing to report Jerry Sandusky’s molestation of children when they worked together at Penn State in the 1990s, though Schiano denies it.

Then in January 2018, the WSMV TV station ran a story revealing that Byrd was part owner of a juvenile detention facility where teens had alleged they were abused and received improper care. Byrd said “it is always important to look into allegations of misconduct, especially when it involves our children,” but the staff at the facility shouldn’t be “harassed by unsubstantiated claims.”

Rice felt like Byrd was being a hypocrite, so she decided to go public. She and two other women told their stories to WSMV that spring. Rice didn’t expect much to happen, but then Michele Dauber called her.

Dauber, a Stanford Law professor who led the successful effort to remove the judge who sentenced Brock Turner to sixmonths in jail (of which he served three months) for his sexual assault conviction, had launched the Enough is Enough Voter Action Project. She had gotten in touch with local activists and wanted to support an effort to make sure Byrd’s constituents knew about the sexual misconduct allegations. A group of local volunteers canvassed Byrd’s district with Enough is Enough organizers, going door-to-door to talk to people about Byrd.

“We weren’t asking people to vote Democrat, we were just asking people to leave that spot blank,” Kristina Richardson, a constituent of Byrd’s who canvassed in his district, told Teen Vogue. “We were telling them we’re bipartisan — it doesn’t matter if you’re Democrat or Republican or whatever, sexual abuse is unacceptable.”

Byrd was seemingly unfazed. After the allegations emerged, campaign contributions continued to roll in from private prison corporations, the Tennessee Bankers Association, housing and realty groups, and the Tennessee Education Association, according to public records. Casada, then the majority leader in the state house, helped out by running ads on social media claimingthat the women canvassing Byrd’s district were “socialist Democrats” who were bused in to “control our election,” which wasn’t true.

“Dude, I’m on a cattle farm next door — I’m not coming from anywhere like California,” Ashley Massey, another Enough is Enough activist from Byrd’s district, told Teen Vogue.

Still, it seemed like the attacks worked. According to Emily Tseffos, one of the Enough is Enough organizers, there were a couple people who stated “Oh, I know about you” and shut the door as soon as the canvassers mentioned Byrd’s name. Rice told Teen Vogue that people have privately admitted to her, “I’m rooting for you, but I can’t say anything in my position because I’ll lose all my business.”

The Enough is Enough activists said they weren’t entirely surprised that Byrd held onto his support and was re-elected. It’s such a heavily GOP district that Democrats usually don’t bother to run. Research has shown that liberals are more likely to condemn sexual harassment, while conservatives appear more likely to prioritize loyalty over social change. A majority of Republican men said in one national survey last October that they would vote for a candidate accused of sexual misconduct by multiple people.

Few lawmakers have called for Byrd’s resignation. One of these is is Gloria Johnson, a Democratic representative from Knoxville, Tennessee, and she said Casada found ways to get back at her for it. During debate in March over a controversial bill to ban abortions once a heartbeat is detected, Johnson stood with her hand up for 45 minutes in hopes of speaking and offering an amendment to add exceptions for rape and incest. Casada refused to call on her. She approached him afterward and asked why.

“It was because of my speaking out against Byrd,” Johnson told Teen Vogue. “He accused me of organizing a rally that took place when the women first went into the committee hearing.” Johnson had nothing to do with the organizing, but had sat near the activists during one of the hearings to offer her silent support, she said. “I had not nothing to do with organizing, but the speaker is incredibly retaliatory.”

Casada removed Byrd from his post as chair of the education administration subcommittee in late March, but continued to defend Byrd from the allegations. “I believe we have two sacred rights in this country,” Casada said at the time. “One, you are innocent until proven guilty, and two, the people make their will known at the voting box.”

“That is such a ridiculous argument to me — voters aren’t a jury,” Johnson told Teen Vogue. “There’s enough there to say this person should not be serving in the legislature, and they certainly shouldn’t have power over all the kids in the state.”

Casada decided to resign from his role as speaker in light of a separate controversy with his staff, but he has not announcedplans to vacate his legislative seat. In early May, local news outlets reported that Cade Cothren, who spent the past decade working for Casada in various roles, used cocaine in the legislature’s offices, exchanged vulgar texts about women with Casada, used the N-word and stated to friends in a text message that “black people are idiots.” Casada had previously defended Cothren, calling the texts between the two “locker room talk.”

By this point, Rice had tried for months to meet with Casada to talk about David Byrd. But in phone calls this month, recordings of which were obtained by Teen Vogue, Casada’s staff told Rice that she wouldn’t be allowed to bring a support person with her to a meeting with him.

“The only way the Speaker will meet with you is if it’s a one-on-one meeting, and we will have a female staff member present as well,” an aide for Casada told Rice in one call.

Casada’s office eventually relented and would allow Rice to bring someone, but according to the Enough is Enough organizers, they didn’t do so until it was too late.

With Casada stepping down from leadership, the activists hope they’re getting closer to pushing Byrd out of office.

“We’re glad Casada is being forced out,” Emily Tseffos said. “But three women say Byrd sexually molested them. He can’t stay in office. The GOP needs to finish the job and remove him.”

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American television host Tamron Hall is opening up about giving birth at 48 and some of the complications she face.

Tamron and her son Moses, whom she welcomed on April 24 with her husband Steven Greener, appears on the cover of this week’s PEOPLE magazine.

“I knew that the clock was not on my side,” Tamron Hall tells PEOPLE, saying Moses’ birth was worth every bit of time, effort and patience it took.

Before Moses’ birth, Tamron wasn’t so sure his arrival was even possible.

“I was high-risk, not just because of my age, but there were other medical factors too,” she said.

Tamron revealed she was pregnant in March when the pregnancy was 32 weeks.

“My doctor said, ‘This is your body, your health. You share of your journey what you want to share.’ I was terrified I would lose this baby and I would have to go back and tell everyone that now it was bad news, and after this pregnancy had gone so far,” she recalls

“I just wasn’t mentally prepared to deal with that,” she continues. “That’s why I waited. And trust me — if I could’ve gone the whole way to delivery, I would’ve.”

Tamron also opened up about trying fertility treatments in her 30s, which failed, and she tried again in her 40s.

“I knew that the clock was not on my side. When I tried in my 30s, I still felt like I had some time, and the fertility clinic felt like a bright room. In my 40s I saw all the gray: The faces looked gray, the walls were gray, nothing seemed shiny and optimistic.”

“Just like with my job search during that time, there were so many frustrations: I’m putting in the work, I’m taking care of my mind and my body and I’m being rejected,” she continues. “I’m thinking, ‘Wait a minute. What have I done wrong here?’ Somehow, like Rocky, I kept getting up.”

On the career front, Tamron is getting ready to host her own syndicated talk show, set to premiere on September 9. She had left her spot on NBC’s Todayshow in February 2017.

“When I left NBC, I said, ‘I look forward to the next chapter.’ People assumed that I meant work, and I did, but by the third month I knew that my life had to be about something bigger than work.

“My story is not one I could’ve ever expected. Two and a half years ago when I walked out of that NBC building, I was in a fog, not knowing that so many of us lose things we think are important, and we have no idea that something better is right there.

“I’m from the South, and there’s a saying: ‘It’s not a setback; it’s a setup for something else.’ That loss set me up for, yes, a dream job but also my baby, my husband, my family. I just couldn’t see it coming,” she says.

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At its 318th graduation ceremony, Yale University presented honorary degreesto 11 individuals who have achieved distinction in their fields. Among them is Nigerian author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, and Zimbabwean entrepreneur and philanthropist Strive Masiyiwa.

Chimamanda was conferred a Doctor of Letters degree from the university, while Strive received a Doctor of Humane Letters degree.

This is Chimamanda’s second degree from the university. In 2008, she received a Master of Arts degree in African studies from Yale.

The degree from Yale is coming days after Chimamanda got two Doctor of Humane Letters honorary degrees from American University and Georgetown University.

On Chimamanda, Yale wrote:

Your stories of war, migration, home, and heartbreak bring the great richness and multiplicity of human experience to life. With courage and clarity, you call us to “do better” for women and girls, for ourselves and future generations around the globe.

In appreciation for your superb talent and leadership in literature and the public sphere, we are honored to present your second Yale degree, Doctor of Letters.

On Strive, Yale wrote:

You see opportunities others miss and demonstrate the courage of your convictions at every turn. Brave visionary, bold business leader, and devoted humanitarian, your innovation and generosity have transformed a continent and improved countless lives.

For inspiring us to tackle great challenges, lead with honor, and serve others, Yale is privileged to confer on you this Doctor of Humane Letters degree.

See the full list of honorands here.

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Antonella Bundu is the woman who’s running to become Mayor of Florence in Italy, becoming the first black woman to do so.

Born to a Florentine mother and a Sierra Leonean father, Bundu was chosen by a coalition of anti-fascist leftist parties.

She shares why she’s running and the changes she hopes to make with Al Jazeera.

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In 2009, Nelly Tuikong was a nurse in America but there was something tugging at her heart about makeup for the African woman.

Her entrepreneurial instincts kicked in after looking around stores for makeup that suited her African skin and didn’t find any.

With no prior knowledge in manufacturing makeup, but armed with a passion, Nelly started her journey that birthed Pauline Cosmetics (named after her mother) after three years of learning, research, and trials.

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Pauline Cosmetics is a makeup brand that designs, develops and manufactures makeup products with the African woman in mind.

The brand has now grown to become an established makeup brand with a line of lipstick, lip-gloss, eye shadow, and mascara.

Enter Caroline Mutoko, a celebrated renowned media personality, a woman of her own caliber.

With more than 20 years of experience in the media, her name speaks for her in the Kenyan entertainment industry. Caroline Mutoko also has a YouTube channel where she takes the spotlight that is on her and shines it on you.

 In 2017, she was featuring Kenyan women who were making strides and shattering glass ceilings on her YouTube channel. One of these women happened to be Nelly Tuikong of Pauline Cosmetics.

In November 2018, Caroline Mutoko challenged Nelly to work with her to come up with a lipstick line for all the women who are ‘becoming, women in different spaces and phases of their lives and for every woman in you. This brought about the I AM limited edition lipstick.

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To add more synergy to this powerful collaboration, these two amazing women, Pauline, and Caroline Mutoko, didn’t just stop there.

They collaborated with Wandia Gichuru of Vivo Woman to distribute the limited edition lipstick in 8 of the Vivo Woman stores in Nairobi. Wandia Gichuru has rewritten the narrative of modern day fashion.

She founded Vivo active wear in 2011 to offer comfortable casual wear for the sporty woman and official clothing for the professional woman.

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Here are the 5 things I have learned from the partnership of these three glamorous women.

1. Collaborate instead of compete

An African proverb says “If you want to go fast if you want to go far, go together”.

Nothing is better than working with other women who get your perspective and challenges you face as a woman in business.  

2. Have a defined purpose and vision

When you have every partner pulling in different directions, there is bound to be no progress. To collaborate, you need to have a clear and shared vision and an agreed direction on how to achieve it.

3. Bring a unique value

Each partner should bring a differentiating factor into the equation. This helps to ensure that you do not view each other as competition.

4. Have mutual benefits

The partnership should be beneficial to all partners. This removes the perception that one person is bearing a bigger load than the other.

5. There is room for more than one queen

There is no winner takes all award in entrepreneurship. As women, we need to get over this attitude and view women as a community to help each other grow and not competition.

“My advice to girls is always this: Be supportive of each other. I can’t say this enough. We have to be our best friends, each other.  That means we cannot be catty, we cannot compete and see one person’s failure as our success.

We can all rise together, we can all win!

We’re sometimes taught in our societies that we have to compete and we have to hold each other back in order for one of us to succeed.

That is not true. We need each other.

And all over the world, we have to be a team of women and girls who love each other and value each other and cherish one another.

Because if we don’t cherish each other, no one else will,” – Michelle Obama




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A Nigerian woman, identified as Patience Ifediora has made history in Nottingham, United Kingdom.

Ifediora emerged as the first female of African heritage to become a Sheriff in the United Kingdom. She was a councilor of Aspley police station before she became the Sheriff of Nottingham.

Dr. Olusegun Oluwole shared her story on Twitter on Tuesday morning saying:

“History made today in #Nottingham, UK. As Patience Ifediora, Councillor of #Aspley emerges as the first female Sheriff of Nottingham of African heritage. Congrats Ma’am,” he said.

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The first woman to read the news on the British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC), has died at the age of 93.


The broadcaster, Nancy ‘Nan Winton’ Wigginton, was taken to the hospital on May 8 following a fall at her home in Bridport, Dorset. Her condition worsened and she passed away at Dorchester County Hospital on Saturday, May 11. 

An inquest into her death was opened and closed at the coroner’s court in Bournemouth on Thursday. 

Winton who started reading the 6pm news in 1960 also read the weekly news bulletins on a Sunday evening.   

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She also worked as a BBC TV continuity announcer and her other work included Panorama and Town and Around, a nightly magazine show.

After stepping down from reading the news, Winton remained a television and news reporter. She was also a regular panelist on the radio panel game show Treble Chance. 

According to Dailymail, on the day Winton was taken to hospital, aged 93, it was found she had fractured her femur. Surgery was carried out the next day.  She later suffered failure of the heart, respiratory system and kidneys. She was taken to critical care, but died in the ward.

A cause of death was given as congestive heart failure, hypertension and frailty of old age. 

A full inquest is scheduled to take place on January 29 next year.

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In a new episode of Red Table TalkJada Pinkett Smith opens up about her past addiction to porn, at a point in her life when she was trying to practice abstinence.

The 47-year-old actress explained:

I wasn’t in a relationship when I had a porn addiction, believe it or not, thank goodness…I actually feel like I was using ‘addiction’ a little lightly. And maybe I’ll say now that I had an unhealthy relationship to porn at one point in my life where I was trying to practice abstinence. It was actually like filling an emptiness, at least you think it is…It gives you false expectations as far as sexual interaction. I can definitely see with men: how a woman should always be willing and ready, he should be able to have sex however he wants anywhere and any position, anywhere, and you should enjoy it no matter what.

While talking to her daughter Willow and mother Adrienne, Jada also went on to discuss the detrimental effects of porn on a person’s career and personal relationships.

Watch below.

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Nigerian football player, Asisat Oshoala who plays for Barcelona FC, has scored a goal in the UEFA Women’s Champions League final on Saturday, becoming the first African ever to score in the final of the competition.

The 24-year-old came on in the 87th minute of the game, when her team was suffering a 4-0 loss to Lyon. She put a smile on the faces of the fans by scoring just two minutes after entering the pitch, delivering the only goal for her team.

Although her efforts weren’t enough to win her side the trophy, that goal made her the first Barcelona player to score in the Women’s Champions League final. Even without that goal, she had already made history as the first Nigerian to play in the final.