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Nilanshi Patel, 17 all the way from India has retained her crown as the teen with the world’s longest hair. According to Guinness World Records, she remains a cut above other contestants having smashed her previous record of 5ft 6in set in December 2018 with a new length of 6ft 2in.

Nilanshi from the small town of Modasa in Gujarat state, has not been visited a hairdresser for 11 years after an ordeal. She said: ‘At six, I had a very bad experience at a local salon. Since then I have been apprehensive about cutting my hair.

Her mom has been a major support with a her proud dad saying his only child’s locks had turned her from a local celebrity into an international one.

‘My parents accepted my wishes and now my locks have become my lucky charm.’

The teenager is nicknamed ‘Rapunzel’ by her friends and schoolmates.

Nilanshi has to wear high-heeled shoes if she does not want her hair to touch the ground.

Tonto Charity Dikeh, has issued a  warning to the public in a scary manner. As the Federal Government extends the period of lockdown, the number of infected cases has still been on rise. And it seems like some people still go against the order.

“Stay at home or book an appointment with the funeral home,” she said.

The Nollywood actress posted on her official Instagram page:

“Guess who is open to do your hair, nails and eyebrows? The funeral home! If you want an appointment, keep running around.”

Tonto is known as one who isn’t shy with her words as she voices it as it is. Probably the reason her friends aren

Twenty year old Eniola Moyinoluwa Bello is a graduate of Political Science from the prestigious University of Ekiti. She co-owns Moi Jewel O.F multiglobal company with her mom.

Eniola volunteers with Gender Mobile Initiative and Ruby Girls Ng. She is a strong believer of personal growth and positive thinking.

Eniola loves reading novels a lot but can also be found surfing the internet for long hours.

1. Let’s meet you. Who is Eniola?

I am Bello Eniola Moyinoluwa. I’m the first of four children. I hail from Ekiti State and I’m a “fresh” graduate of Political Science from Ekiti State University. I had my primary and secondary education in Lagos though, before moving down to Ekiti. I enjoy reading and surfing the net. I’m a positive thinker, I like to see the good in every situation.

2. What are your hobbies?

I enjoy reading, surfing the net and sometimes writing.

3. What is your biggest fear?

This may sound cliche but my biggest fear is losing everyone I love.

4. Best quote?

“You not recognizing that you’re precious and that every inch of you is beautiful is your blindness.” You are a gift.

5. You started writing at an early age. What do your writings border on and what inspired your early writing?

(Chuckles) I’m more of a reader. Well, I write about anything that catches my fancy. Erm, I guess the books I read inspired my early writing and I had my childhood friends ( Joy and Kofoworola). We often wrote stories to compare.

6. You started a business with your mom right from your undergraduate days named Moi Jewel O.F Multiglobal company. How was it like combining your academics with it and also partnering with your mom on a business?

My mom initially started the business way back and she’ll give me some to help sell in school. I’ll bring the proceeds to her and I got my own little “change” from it too. She suggested since the business was doing well in school and people were ordering more, I should join as well. It isn’t a bad idea making a little dough for one’s self. That’s how I started going to the market with mom and so yeah. It didn’t affect my academics in any way because during exams, I wouldn’t bring goods to school.

7. You are a volunteer with Gender Mobile Initiative. What are the things the organization seek to address? How far has the organization being able to achieve these objectives?

Gender Mobile is an NGO established in ending sexual and gender-based violence by leveraging and harnessing the power of technology. We endeavor to facilitate victims’ access to support services through accessible channels and platforms.

How far?

Sometimes this year, we did an online survey on sexual harassment of university students in Ekiti State University.

There’s the adolescent hub too where we visit different schools in different local government areas of the state to provide information and build the knowledge capacity of adolescents through multiple exposure to life building skills.

There’s the Gender Mobile food hub initiative as well. We’re trying to help during this pandemic by giving foodstuffs to vulnerable women and children in Ekiti State.

8. Mention three women who inspire you to be better and why

I) This sounds cliche too but my mama is my biggest inspiration.

ii) Tiffany Haddish after reading her book the last black unicorn. She went through a lot of shit but here she is now.

III) Ibukun Awosika, she inspires me at all times.

*9. If given the chance to be the President of Nigeria for a day, what will you change?*

I’ll most likely ensure free sanitary pads are provided for ladies. It’s heartbreaking when you see or hear of ladies using clothes or other unhygienic things during their menstrual cycle.

10. What keeps you up at night?

If I’m not reading, I’m probably surfing the net.

11. You are a team member of Ruby Girls Ng. How has volunteering for it affected you as a person and what are your thoughts about platforms for young females?

It’s wonderful what we do with @rubygirlsng. It’s given me an insight into lives of women who should be celebrated always. It’s inspiring too, after reading about them, you want to do and be more too.

12. Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?

Well, I’m going to be learning and gaining practical experience. I hope to take a course on Development Study. I want to make impact too, touch lives.

13. If you were given the opportunity to address a group of girls five years younger than you, what will be your advice to them?

Never seek validation from anyone. Don’t sell yourself short, because at the end of the day it isn’t what they call you but what you answer to.

Microbiologist Elisa Granato, 32, is one of the first people to take part in the UK first human trials coronavirus vaccine. The other is Edward O’Neil a cancer researcher.

The two scientists who volunteered themselves to be the first participants have been injected with the coronavirus vaccine in the UK.

For Ms Granato, who took part in the trial on a special day, her 32nd birthday, said she was ‘excited’ to support the efforts by volunteering. She wanted to make herself ‘useful’ in the fight against the pandemic. She told the BBC: ‘Since I don’t study viruses, I felt a bit useless these days, so I felt like this is a very easy way for me to support the cause.’

They both admit they wanted to help in what could be a groundbreaking solution in the fight against the pandemic.

Mr O’Neill said: ‘It seems like the right thing to do to ensure that we can combat this disease and get over it a lot faster.’

The leading trial team, Professor Sarah Gilbert, said she is optimistic about the vaccine’s chances of success.

University of Oxford researchers administered the first dose on Thursday, while the other person, likely Edward, was given a meningitis vaccine to be used for comparison. The are  ‘very optimistic’ it will work –and hope to repeat the process with six more volunteers on Saturday, with more than 1,000 being tested from Monday

Two African American women who allege that management at a Pennsylvania golf course mistreated them when they called police because they were playing too slow have now filed a lawsuit claiming racial and gender discrimination, reports CNN.com.

Myneca Ojo and Karen Crosby, two of the five women involved in the 2018 incident, filed the lawsuit on Monday against Brew Vino LLC, which owns Grandview Golf Course, as well as several employees involved. The lawsuit alleges that an owner told a member of their group that they weren’t keeping pace and treated them differently than other players on the course, who the lawsuit says were Caucasian and male.

The lawsuit seeks a jury trial and requests compensatory and punitive damages but does not list a specific amount.

An investigation by the Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission found that the women had probable cause that they were “profiled, harassed, evicted and subjected to different terms and conditions of service because of their protected classes,” and granted them the right to sue, according to the lawsuit.

CNN has reached out to Brew Vino for comment but has not received a response.

According to the lawsuit, the plaintiffs had recently bought memberships to the golf course and decided to put them to use for the first time on April 21, 2018. Although their group was one person more than the Grandview’s usual limit, the person who checked them in allowed them to proceed. Frost had delayed play earlier in the day, the lawsuit says, so their tee time was pushed from 10 a.m. until sometime between 10:39 a.m. and 11:12 a.m.

Once they were two holes in the game, Steve Chronister, who identified himself as the owner of the course, told one member of the group that they were moving too slowly, the lawsuit alleges. The women contend in the lawsuit that they weren’t playing slowly, and say one of them told Chronister that he was treating them differently than the other players on the course.

At this point, Steve Chronister called 911 again, the lawsuit says. It is unclear if the women left on their own or were escorted by police.

Steve and Jordan Chronister, as well as the other defendants in the lawsuit, did not respond to a request for comment.

The lawsuit cites information from a PHRC hearing in which a golfer in the group immediately behind the women stated his group was not held up and that he felt the women were being targeted.

The lawsuit also claims that Steve Chronister defamed the women in public statements to the media, specifically in regard to a comment made to the York Daily Record in February of this year, after the PHRC ruling giving the women the right to sue.

“Throughout the hearings, the five accusers testified under oath and before this kangaroo court, asserting the false claims and ultimately committing perjury, which I can prove,” Steve Chronister was quoted as saying in a February 25 article.

Two years later

In a statement to CNN, the lawyers representing Ojo and Crosby said that the Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission made an objective determination that their clients were harassed, and therefore are continuing to federal court.

“The civil rights violations undertook by representatives of Grandview Golf Course against our clients in April of 2018 continue to shock the conscience of civil-minded Americans,” attorneys John L. Rollins and Mary H. Powell said.

Crosby told CNN Wednesday she is “relieved and happy” by the suit.

“Feels like we will have some sort of closure to this situation,” Crosby said. She also said since the incident they eventually stopped golfing because they “didn’t feel comfortable doing it.”

“This is a small area and there was a lot attention brought to it, we just didn’t feel comfortable doing it,” she said, adding that she occasionally would golf with her husband. “Hopefully this year we will be able to play again once this dies down. We’d like to.”

Sandra Harrison and Carolyn Dow filed a similar lawsuit against the golf course Tuesday, citing discrimination in a place of public accommodation and discrimination in performance of contract, according to court documents filed in the US District Court for the Middle District of Pennsylvania.

Ian Bryson, their attorney, told CNN on Thursday they are also asking for a declarative judgment that they were discriminated against instead of just a monetary judgment.

“It’s hard to put a value on someone’s civil rights. It’s not just about money,” he said, “but about vindication of civil rights.”

He also said Harrison and Dow “are interested in getting a resolution more than anything” when asked how they were feeling about the lawsuit.

Jordan Chronister, as well as the other defendants in the lawsuit, did not respond to CNN’s request Thursday for comment on the lawsuits.

Defendants Steve Chronister and Brian Polachek did not comment when reached, but instead pointed to an article in the York Daily Record that says “current and former state employees have told the York Daily Record/Sunday News that the Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission has not handled investigations properly,” referring to cases more generally as well as the Grandview case.

In response to the allegations, Chad Dion Lassiter, executive director of the PHRC, said that while he couldn’t comment directly on the case, he denied “any allegations of mishandling and bias.” He continued to say that while there is a backlog, it is important to take the time to consider every case.

“Since I became executive director two years ago, I’ve insisted on transparency in our processes and redundancy in our procedures,” Lassiter said in a statement. “What do I mean? The Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission has a backlog of cases. I’ve been transparent about that. Do I like it, absolutely not.

“In fact, one of the things that my staff is dedicated to working on during this pandemic is clearing the backlog. However, we aren’t manufacturing widgets. Each case is different and requires that we give the individual attention necessary to reach fair and equitable outcome, to that end we require that several sets of eyes review every case.”

Thompson told CNN that Steve Chronister and others are “recycling their opinion they’ve told reporters” and “I don’t really have a comment to their opinion.”

“They had an opportunity to come to the hearings and give testimony but they didn’t,” she said. “Nothing has been presented to challenge our testimony and that’s what PHRC went by.”

She also said the defendants fought subpoenas from the PHRC to attend hearings and didn’t show up to planned remediation.

Thompson, who is also an attorney, told CNN earlier Thursday she filed a writ of summons — a precursor to filing a complaint — in the York County Court of Common Pleas. Asked about filing a suit in the future, Thompson said, “Who knows, since they filed already, what may happen.”

She later told CNN the writ of summons is the “first step. It stops the statute of limitations and puts them on notice that a lawsuit is coming.”

“I do intend to file — it all depends on the timing,” Thompson said.

Culled from CNN

The Nigeria Centre for Disease Control (NCDC) has reportedly  recorded 108 new cases of the coronavirus (COVID-19) in the country.

In a tweet on Thursday night, the NCDC said that the new cases had taken the total number of infections in the country to 981.

The centre said that 78 of the new infections were recorded in Lagos, 14 in FCT, 5 in Ogun, 4 in Gombe, 3 Borno, 2 in Akwa Ibom, and 1 each in Kwara and Plateau.

The NCDC added that as of 11:30 p.m. on April 23, there were 981 confirmed cases of the coronavirus reported in Nigeria.

According to the Nigeria’s agency, total deaths recorded in the country from the coronavirus (COVID-19) now stands at 31, while 197 infected persons had been treated and discharged.

It disclosed that Nigeria now has 753 Active Cases as of 11:30p.m. on April 23.

According to a report in South Africa, Africa has registered a 43 percent jump in reported COVID-19 cases in the last week, with officials highlighting a warning from the World Health Organization (WHO) that the continent of 1.3 billion could become the next epicenter of the global outbreak.

Africa also has a “very, very limited” and “very, very strained” testing capacity, John Nkengasong, director of the Africa Centers for Disease Control and Prevention said in his weekly briefing on Thursday.

 

According to the World Health Organization (WHO), coronaviruses are a family of viruses that cause illnesses ranging from the common cold to more severe diseases such as severe acute respiratory syndrome (SARS) and the Middle East respiratory syndrome (MERS).

These viruses were originally transmitted from animals to people, including SARS, which was transmitted from civet cats to humans.

It is been known that coronaviruses are circulating in animals that have not yet infected humans. Corona virus comes from the Latin word corona, meaning crown or halo. Under an electron microscope, the virus looks like it is surrounded by a solar corona.

Prevention as stated by WHO
Protect yourself and others around you by knowing the facts and taking appropriate precautions. Follow advice provided by your local public health agency.

To prevent the spread of COVID-19:
Clean your hands often. Use soap and water, or an alcohol-based hand rub.
Maintain a safe distance from anyone who is coughing or sneezing.
Don’t touch your eyes, nose or mouth.
Cover your nose and mouth with your bent elbow or a tissue when you cough or sneeze.
Stay home if you feel unwell.
If you have a fever, a cough, and difficulty breathing, seek medical attention. Call in advance.
Follow the directions of your local health authority.
Avoiding unneeded visits to medical facilities allows healthcare systems to operate more effectively, therefore protecting you and others.

As the pandemic has put a close on schools at the moment, studying should not be put on hold. Michelle Obama has partnered with PBS for a weekly reading series for children. The Public Broadcasting Service is an American public broadcaster and television program distributor.

PBSKids announced the “Mondays with Michelle Obama” partnership via Twitter saying, “In this weekly read-along series, she’ll read 4 of her favorite children’s books (one book every Monday)… [starting with ] “The Gruffalo.”

 

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Join us for “Mondays with @MichelleObama!” In this weekly read-along series, she’ll read 4 of her favorite children’s books (one book every Monday). It begins Mon. @ 12pm ET with “The Gruffalo” on @PBSKIDS & @PenguinRandomHouse Facebook pages!

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Busola makes it clear that  it was her way of telling people to be brave enough to deal with an unpleasant situation.

She wrote:

“So I wore my husband’s double breasted suit,Tie and shoes. My idea of saying, it is a Tough world out there, So Man Up.”

Photo Credit@busoladakolo

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Dear Alexandria,
I know that you are full of questions.
Would you ever get that full-funded scholarship to Canada?
Would you ever get a job that paid enough to let you stop stretching funds as far as they can go?
Would you eventually meet Mr. Tall, fair, rich, handsome and kind who wants you to make you his Mrs.?
Would you ever have kids?
Would you ever be slim and beautiful?
Would you ever have a house of your own and finally a bedroom with floor-to-ceiling curtains?
Would you ever write a fantastic piece?
Would you ever find solutions to your problems?
Would you ever find your way?
Would you ever get a break?
First of all, I want you to know that you questions are valid and getting answers to them would make life just fantastic. But have you ever considered that the “problem” might stem from your outlook on like generally. From the way these questions are structured, it is proof that you tend to see the dark side of things first or most of the time. Have you ever considered looking for the silver lining i.e see things from a more positive angle?
Worst case scenario, you are not destined to get a scholarship, would it be so bad if you had to continue your education in Nigeria?
If you want to be slim, then work towards it. Eat healthier and exercise. Staring at the mirror daily won’t help you. And who says you are not beautiful? You? Society? Never hold yourself to the standards of what society accepts as “beautiful”.
You don’t have a fantastic piece yet but with practice, who is to say you won’t?
You don’t get a break when you have not worked your shift. Are you putting in the work?
I think it is time that you accepted that the answers you seek would never be handed to you that easily. There is no fairy godmother for that. The answers would reveal themselves as you make your journey through life, sometimes after a detour or two along the way.
Maybe you need to be asking yourself some other questions.
Why you are afraid to take the next step in the dark?
Why are you hesitant to stumble along the way?
Is it so important to know the answers you seek before you embark on the journey?
Would it be so bad if you didn’t receive the answers you sought but were still gifted with equally good answers?
Why do you continue to live in fear?

We know that COVID-19 has brought on the end of the world as we know it, but were you assured that you are going to see the new world from the get go?
We all know that the world would end someday, that we would die someday yet we are enjoined to live till the very end.
What are you waiting for?
I know it is very hard to watch people around you have all these things on a platter but know that everyone struggles. Every single person, some more than others.
I know it is difficult to look at yourself and see who you really are but I want to assure you that you are worth so much more than you give yourself credit for.
You are a smart, strong, wonderful and beautiful person.
You do so much for everyone else. It is time to expend the same energy on you. You are so much stronger than you know. You just need to push a little bit harder and keep pushing.
Don’t give up and don’t give in.
You need to work on not getting angry so much.
Forgive everyone who has hurt you and release the pain you have carried for so long.
They say you are patient, a little more won’t harm anyone.
Don’t try so hard to be heard. Those who matter do.
Smile a little bit more.
I know life has not made it easy to trust anyone, but try.
Don’t worry about the ones you expect help from. Know that help will always come.
Your sister really admires how much you used to pray. Don’t lose that.
Don’t stop looking after your hair. And maybe you could start washing it every week.
And never stop being kind. It is the most important trait you can ever have.
I am so sorry that it took this long to say this but better late than never.
Remember that it is okay to stop along the way but never abandon the journey that is life.
And happiness is not a destination.
It is the entire journey.
With all my love,
You

 

About the Author

Halimah currently works as a lecturer at the Department of Library and Information
Technology,Federal University of Technology, Minna. She relaxes by reading and watching movies.
She is in love with cake and chocolate.

Halimah believes that a woman can achieve all that she aspires to be.