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Debt is bondage — emotional and financial bondage,” Tiffany Aliche
Award-winning finance expert and financial educator is the amazing Tiffany Aliche.
She has made it her mission to empower women in america and across, by providing them with access, tools and resources needed to create a better life for themselves and their families.
With her company, the Budgetnista, she has created a financial movement that has helped over 800, 000 women worldwide collectively to save more than $100 million, and pay off over $75 million in debt, purchase homes and transform the way they think about their finances.

Aliche says that she also bought two homes in cash last year, paid off her parent’s house, and paid off her student loans in one lump sum.

“I don’t have any debt now. My car is paid off and my credit card is paid each month in full,” she says. “It still feels a little strange going food shopping and not adding up my cart before I got to check out. Strange, but good

“It’s my greatest desire to see people live richer lives and I truly believe that one of the most effective ways to do so is to provide access to the tools and resources they need.”

“At its core, teaching is unlocking access. I was inspired to serve and teach by the many women in my life that I know struggle with money,” says Tiffany. “My motto, Live Richer, is really a play on words, it’s not just about the money, it’s about growth. It’s a movement forward.”

Aliche has created and teaches numerous free, financial classes both online and in person.

“I’m grateful for the work I do. It’s what wakes me up in the morning and give me purpose. I’m passionate about the people I serve and I can’t believe I get to make living transforming lives. If nothing else, I know I’ve tried my best to make the world a better place than how I entered it, and that’s all anyone is called to do.

Stella Damasus has announced the launch of her women magazine tittled “Adiva Magazine” which featured she and her two lovely daughters Angelica and Isabel Aboderin as the cover stars.

The nollywood actress is proving herself as ambitious, and has taken the opportunity to unveil her girls to the public

While doing this on her birthday, she wrote:

As I express my gratitude to God for the gift of celebrating another birthday, my joy today is three-fold. Yes, it is my birthday, but it is also the release of the maiden edition of ADIVA MAGAZINE. This passion project of mine has been in the pipeline for many years, and I am so thrilled to share ADIVA MAGAZINE with the world. Adiva magazine is for women, by women.Above all, I am super excited to be gracing the cover of this maiden edition with my daughters ISABEL @izzybelleimages and ANGELICA @angelicatooni. This is the very first time the world will see who my darling babies have grown into. They were gracious enough to be on the cover, and I cannot wait for you to grab copies and read their remarkable, jaw-dropping, and quite revealing interviews inside. This is the best birthday gift I could ever hope for.

I want to say a very big thank you to everyone who worked tirelessly to make this dream come true. To all the contributors, photographers, writers, etc., I say a massive THANK YOU from the depth of my heart.

Photo Credit@StellaDamasus

Former finance minister, Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala has been named by the World Health Organisation (WHO) as its Special Envoy for the newly inaugurated Access to COVID-19 Tools (ACT) Accelerator.

This would be her 4th international appointment in about 2 months.

She will rserve alongside British business executive, Sir Andrew Witty in the same capacity, to mobilise international commitment to the initiative, according to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN). The Director-General of WHO, Dr. Tedros Ghebreyesus, made the announcement during the launch of the ACT Accelerator  via webinar from Geneva.

“I would especially like to thank Sir Andrew Witty and Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala for agreeing to act as Special Envoys for the ACT Accelerator,” Ghebreyesus said in his remarks.

Dr. Okonjo-Iweala said on her Twitter handle @NOIweala yesterday that felt “Honoured and humble to serve with Sir Andrew on this challenging and vital global endeavour.”

This initiative will aid the development, production, and equitable distribution of COVID-19 drugs, tests kits, and vaccines around the world.

Congratulations to her

 

With the current pandemic sweeping the globe, you may be experiencing several tough times, physically, emotionally, or financially (or all the above).

As woman who needs to overcome there are certain traits to hold out on, to see how resilient you are, they are:

Not giving up easily

This is a common trait in a resilient woman. They bounce back from pain and failure. “Resilient people are like trees bending in the wind,” says a professor  at Yale University School of Medicine. “They bounce back.”

You accept

Been resilient means you accept what has happened, you understand that those perfect lives portrayed on Instagram aren’t reality. This isn’t about feeling defeated that you can’t change things. It’s about confronting emotions and trusting that we will bounce back.

You change perspectives

You need to learn how to look at things in different ways. Like I’ve been seeing this one way; let me change to a different way of thinking about it.” For example, if you’ve just lost your job, now may be the perfect time to consider a career change. If the relationship did not work out a better one is on the way, how do I prepare for it ? This helps you get better result from your past failures.

Focus on what you can change

Resilient people focus on what they can change and ignore what they can’t. Ask yourself, “What can I take responsibility for?” “can i change this” if you can you move to change it or otherwise focus on something better. Accepting circumstances that can’t be changed can help you focus on conditions that you can change.

Take advantage of opportunities

A resilient woman is open to opportunities, therefore they recognise one quickly. When you look for opportunities to empower yourself, you’re less likely to feel stuck and helpless.

Ask yourself questions

They ask themselves this question, “Is what I’m doing helping or or making things worse?”  This practice puts you in control of your decision making—turning you into a survivor rather than a victim.

As Dean Becker, the president and CEO of a company that develops and delivers programs about resilience training, puts it, “More than education, more than experience, more than training, a person’s level of resilience will determine who succeeds and who fails. That’s true in the cancer ward, it’s true in the Olympics, and it’s true in the boardroom.” By practicing and learning these habits of resilient people, you’ll be able to adapt to any life-changing situation and emerge stronger than before.

Living joyfully is so important if you want a truly productive life. And it takes with appreciating the little things – which are often overlooked.

Some ways to bring out the joy in your life can be;

1. Stop the worry habit

There a so many things to be concerned about now, but you can pause and understand that life goes on whether you worry on not. Breathe. Take your mind off the news, or any thing that is causing you anxiety and just live in the moment. watch little kids around you how they take life easy. Even if you lack money or food just stop and take your mind of the situations.

2. Appreciate the little things

Its the little things we have often overlooked. Look at the image below

Image by Kelly Marcelle Malka
Image by Kelly Marcelle Malka

Cutting an avocado and its perfect is something to appreciate. Stop taking things for granted. We may not be having everything portrayed in the image above,  but it just shows how special they are.

3. Surround yourself with people who are positive.

Negativity is contagious. Connect with people who are moving on with life positively. Some, have kept their life on hold with stress and worry over money, not been able to go out or just plain boredom. Keep in touch with people who are trying new things and learning how to be content with creating a better life after now.

4. Appreciate Nature

Nature is rich and beautiful and should be appreciated. Get to love and enjoy how it works, the evening cool air, chirping birds in the morning and the mountains. Well not every neighborhood has this, but there is something natural around you.

4. Self Care

This is a time Care for your self. Spend time with yourself, eat healthy, exercise, make some DIY’s for your skins and hair. If you are stressed it will reflect in so many things you do, and your relationship with others will be affected. But hen you are sound you can be able to think rightly, love rightly and do rightly .

5. Faith

As living beings we would have to believe in something. And what you believe is what controls the outcome of your life. If you believe strongly in God it will show by how you worry less because He is in charge. You allow so much joy inside of you to come out. Strengthen your believe in God and his word. With now worries you have a joyful living.

If you don’t believe in God, that would mean you depend on something else to help take your cares away.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Nilanshi Patel, 17 all the way from India has retained her crown as the teen with the world’s longest hair. According to Guinness World Records, she remains a cut above other contestants having smashed her previous record of 5ft 6in set in December 2018 with a new length of 6ft 2in.

Nilanshi from the small town of Modasa in Gujarat state, has not been visited a hairdresser for 11 years after an ordeal. She said: ‘At six, I had a very bad experience at a local salon. Since then I have been apprehensive about cutting my hair.

Her mom has been a major support with a her proud dad saying his only child’s locks had turned her from a local celebrity into an international one.

‘My parents accepted my wishes and now my locks have become my lucky charm.’

The teenager is nicknamed ‘Rapunzel’ by her friends and schoolmates.

Nilanshi has to wear high-heeled shoes if she does not want her hair to touch the ground.

Tonto Charity Dikeh, has issued a  warning to the public in a scary manner. As the Federal Government extends the period of lockdown, the number of infected cases has still been on rise. And it seems like some people still go against the order.

“Stay at home or book an appointment with the funeral home,” she said.

The Nollywood actress posted on her official Instagram page:

“Guess who is open to do your hair, nails and eyebrows? The funeral home! If you want an appointment, keep running around.”

Tonto is known as one who isn’t shy with her words as she voices it as it is. Probably the reason her friends aren

Twenty year old Eniola Moyinoluwa Bello is a graduate of Political Science from the prestigious University of Ekiti. She co-owns Moi Jewel O.F multiglobal company with her mom.

Eniola volunteers with Gender Mobile Initiative and Ruby Girls Ng. She is a strong believer of personal growth and positive thinking.

Eniola loves reading novels a lot but can also be found surfing the internet for long hours.

1. Let’s meet you. Who is Eniola?

I am Bello Eniola Moyinoluwa. I’m the first of four children. I hail from Ekiti State and I’m a “fresh” graduate of Political Science from Ekiti State University. I had my primary and secondary education in Lagos though, before moving down to Ekiti. I enjoy reading and surfing the net. I’m a positive thinker, I like to see the good in every situation.

2. What are your hobbies?

I enjoy reading, surfing the net and sometimes writing.

3. What is your biggest fear?

This may sound cliche but my biggest fear is losing everyone I love.

4. Best quote?

“You not recognizing that you’re precious and that every inch of you is beautiful is your blindness.” You are a gift.

5. You started writing at an early age. What do your writings border on and what inspired your early writing?

(Chuckles) I’m more of a reader. Well, I write about anything that catches my fancy. Erm, I guess the books I read inspired my early writing and I had my childhood friends ( Joy and Kofoworola). We often wrote stories to compare.

6. You started a business with your mom right from your undergraduate days named Moi Jewel O.F Multiglobal company. How was it like combining your academics with it and also partnering with your mom on a business?

My mom initially started the business way back and she’ll give me some to help sell in school. I’ll bring the proceeds to her and I got my own little “change” from it too. She suggested since the business was doing well in school and people were ordering more, I should join as well. It isn’t a bad idea making a little dough for one’s self. That’s how I started going to the market with mom and so yeah. It didn’t affect my academics in any way because during exams, I wouldn’t bring goods to school.

7. You are a volunteer with Gender Mobile Initiative. What are the things the organization seek to address? How far has the organization being able to achieve these objectives?

Gender Mobile is an NGO established in ending sexual and gender-based violence by leveraging and harnessing the power of technology. We endeavor to facilitate victims’ access to support services through accessible channels and platforms.

How far?

Sometimes this year, we did an online survey on sexual harassment of university students in Ekiti State University.

There’s the adolescent hub too where we visit different schools in different local government areas of the state to provide information and build the knowledge capacity of adolescents through multiple exposure to life building skills.

There’s the Gender Mobile food hub initiative as well. We’re trying to help during this pandemic by giving foodstuffs to vulnerable women and children in Ekiti State.

8. Mention three women who inspire you to be better and why

I) This sounds cliche too but my mama is my biggest inspiration.

ii) Tiffany Haddish after reading her book the last black unicorn. She went through a lot of shit but here she is now.

III) Ibukun Awosika, she inspires me at all times.

*9. If given the chance to be the President of Nigeria for a day, what will you change?*

I’ll most likely ensure free sanitary pads are provided for ladies. It’s heartbreaking when you see or hear of ladies using clothes or other unhygienic things during their menstrual cycle.

10. What keeps you up at night?

If I’m not reading, I’m probably surfing the net.

11. You are a team member of Ruby Girls Ng. How has volunteering for it affected you as a person and what are your thoughts about platforms for young females?

It’s wonderful what we do with @rubygirlsng. It’s given me an insight into lives of women who should be celebrated always. It’s inspiring too, after reading about them, you want to do and be more too.

12. Where do you see yourself in the next 5 years?

Well, I’m going to be learning and gaining practical experience. I hope to take a course on Development Study. I want to make impact too, touch lives.

13. If you were given the opportunity to address a group of girls five years younger than you, what will be your advice to them?

Never seek validation from anyone. Don’t sell yourself short, because at the end of the day it isn’t what they call you but what you answer to.

Microbiologist Elisa Granato, 32, is one of the first people to take part in the UK first human trials coronavirus vaccine. The other is Edward O’Neil a cancer researcher.

The two scientists who volunteered themselves to be the first participants have been injected with the coronavirus vaccine in the UK.

For Ms Granato, who took part in the trial on a special day, her 32nd birthday, said she was ‘excited’ to support the efforts by volunteering. She wanted to make herself ‘useful’ in the fight against the pandemic. She told the BBC: ‘Since I don’t study viruses, I felt a bit useless these days, so I felt like this is a very easy way for me to support the cause.’

They both admit they wanted to help in what could be a groundbreaking solution in the fight against the pandemic.

Mr O’Neill said: ‘It seems like the right thing to do to ensure that we can combat this disease and get over it a lot faster.’

The leading trial team, Professor Sarah Gilbert, said she is optimistic about the vaccine’s chances of success.

University of Oxford researchers administered the first dose on Thursday, while the other person, likely Edward, was given a meningitis vaccine to be used for comparison. The are  ‘very optimistic’ it will work –and hope to repeat the process with six more volunteers on Saturday, with more than 1,000 being tested from Monday

Two African American women who allege that management at a Pennsylvania golf course mistreated them when they called police because they were playing too slow have now filed a lawsuit claiming racial and gender discrimination, reports CNN.com.

Myneca Ojo and Karen Crosby, two of the five women involved in the 2018 incident, filed the lawsuit on Monday against Brew Vino LLC, which owns Grandview Golf Course, as well as several employees involved. The lawsuit alleges that an owner told a member of their group that they weren’t keeping pace and treated them differently than other players on the course, who the lawsuit says were Caucasian and male.

The lawsuit seeks a jury trial and requests compensatory and punitive damages but does not list a specific amount.

An investigation by the Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission found that the women had probable cause that they were “profiled, harassed, evicted and subjected to different terms and conditions of service because of their protected classes,” and granted them the right to sue, according to the lawsuit.

CNN has reached out to Brew Vino for comment but has not received a response.

According to the lawsuit, the plaintiffs had recently bought memberships to the golf course and decided to put them to use for the first time on April 21, 2018. Although their group was one person more than the Grandview’s usual limit, the person who checked them in allowed them to proceed. Frost had delayed play earlier in the day, the lawsuit says, so their tee time was pushed from 10 a.m. until sometime between 10:39 a.m. and 11:12 a.m.

Once they were two holes in the game, Steve Chronister, who identified himself as the owner of the course, told one member of the group that they were moving too slowly, the lawsuit alleges. The women contend in the lawsuit that they weren’t playing slowly, and say one of them told Chronister that he was treating them differently than the other players on the course.

At this point, Steve Chronister called 911 again, the lawsuit says. It is unclear if the women left on their own or were escorted by police.

Steve and Jordan Chronister, as well as the other defendants in the lawsuit, did not respond to a request for comment.

The lawsuit cites information from a PHRC hearing in which a golfer in the group immediately behind the women stated his group was not held up and that he felt the women were being targeted.

The lawsuit also claims that Steve Chronister defamed the women in public statements to the media, specifically in regard to a comment made to the York Daily Record in February of this year, after the PHRC ruling giving the women the right to sue.

“Throughout the hearings, the five accusers testified under oath and before this kangaroo court, asserting the false claims and ultimately committing perjury, which I can prove,” Steve Chronister was quoted as saying in a February 25 article.

Two years later

In a statement to CNN, the lawyers representing Ojo and Crosby said that the Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission made an objective determination that their clients were harassed, and therefore are continuing to federal court.

“The civil rights violations undertook by representatives of Grandview Golf Course against our clients in April of 2018 continue to shock the conscience of civil-minded Americans,” attorneys John L. Rollins and Mary H. Powell said.

Crosby told CNN Wednesday she is “relieved and happy” by the suit.

“Feels like we will have some sort of closure to this situation,” Crosby said. She also said since the incident they eventually stopped golfing because they “didn’t feel comfortable doing it.”

“This is a small area and there was a lot attention brought to it, we just didn’t feel comfortable doing it,” she said, adding that she occasionally would golf with her husband. “Hopefully this year we will be able to play again once this dies down. We’d like to.”

Sandra Harrison and Carolyn Dow filed a similar lawsuit against the golf course Tuesday, citing discrimination in a place of public accommodation and discrimination in performance of contract, according to court documents filed in the US District Court for the Middle District of Pennsylvania.

Ian Bryson, their attorney, told CNN on Thursday they are also asking for a declarative judgment that they were discriminated against instead of just a monetary judgment.

“It’s hard to put a value on someone’s civil rights. It’s not just about money,” he said, “but about vindication of civil rights.”

He also said Harrison and Dow “are interested in getting a resolution more than anything” when asked how they were feeling about the lawsuit.

Jordan Chronister, as well as the other defendants in the lawsuit, did not respond to CNN’s request Thursday for comment on the lawsuits.

Defendants Steve Chronister and Brian Polachek did not comment when reached, but instead pointed to an article in the York Daily Record that says “current and former state employees have told the York Daily Record/Sunday News that the Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission has not handled investigations properly,” referring to cases more generally as well as the Grandview case.

In response to the allegations, Chad Dion Lassiter, executive director of the PHRC, said that while he couldn’t comment directly on the case, he denied “any allegations of mishandling and bias.” He continued to say that while there is a backlog, it is important to take the time to consider every case.

“Since I became executive director two years ago, I’ve insisted on transparency in our processes and redundancy in our procedures,” Lassiter said in a statement. “What do I mean? The Pennsylvania Human Relations Commission has a backlog of cases. I’ve been transparent about that. Do I like it, absolutely not.

“In fact, one of the things that my staff is dedicated to working on during this pandemic is clearing the backlog. However, we aren’t manufacturing widgets. Each case is different and requires that we give the individual attention necessary to reach fair and equitable outcome, to that end we require that several sets of eyes review every case.”

Thompson told CNN that Steve Chronister and others are “recycling their opinion they’ve told reporters” and “I don’t really have a comment to their opinion.”

“They had an opportunity to come to the hearings and give testimony but they didn’t,” she said. “Nothing has been presented to challenge our testimony and that’s what PHRC went by.”

She also said the defendants fought subpoenas from the PHRC to attend hearings and didn’t show up to planned remediation.

Thompson, who is also an attorney, told CNN earlier Thursday she filed a writ of summons — a precursor to filing a complaint — in the York County Court of Common Pleas. Asked about filing a suit in the future, Thompson said, “Who knows, since they filed already, what may happen.”

She later told CNN the writ of summons is the “first step. It stops the statute of limitations and puts them on notice that a lawsuit is coming.”

“I do intend to file — it all depends on the timing,” Thompson said.

Culled from CNN