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“I decided to keep my beard and step forward against society’s expectations of what a woman should look,” said 29year old Harnaan Kaur. She is a Motivational speaker, anti bullying activist and a model.

At age 12 she was diagnosed with polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS) condition. One of the symptoms of PCOS is hirsutism, an ability to grow excessive facial and body hair.

Harnaan suffered intense bully in school, and her parents tried helping by taking her to the beauty parlour for beard shaving and waxing. “I did that every other day because my hair grew so fast – and shaved in between. They waxed it until my skin burned, going over the same patch again because some hairs were hard to get out. Then they would thread the raw skin, then pluck it.”

All this did nothing to stop the bullying. “They called me everything under the sun, threatened me with knives and stabbed me with pens,” she says. By 15 she was skipping school, contemplating suicide, and self-harming. “I wanted to punish my body for looking this way. I wanted to hurt it.” One day, she emptied a bottle of pills into her hand. “It was my turning point,” she says simply. “I thought, ‘Fuck this shit!’ If the bullies are allowed to live, why shouldn’t I?”

In 2016, she was included in the world’s records as the youngest female with a full beard.

Despite it all, Kaur has decided to love her body the way it is. And that was a turning point.

In an interview with Rock N Roll Bride, Kaur reflects on her decision to keep her beard: “I decided to keep my beard and step forward against society’s expectations of what a woman should look like. Today I am not suicidal and I do not self harm. Today I am happy living as a young beautiful bearded woman. I have realised that this body is mine, I own it, I do not have any other body to live in so I may as well love it unconditionally.”

Kaur with her image in Rock n Roll Bride magazine
Kaur with her image in Rock n Roll Bride magazine. Photograph: Courtesy of Harnaam Kaur

Kaur uses her social media profiles to contribute to numerous body positive campaigns. She frequently posts content to promote awareness of body shaming, cyberbullying, and mental illness.

Six female Georgia lawmakers have taken historic action by filing a bill that requires all state and local law enforcement departments to create a ‘use of force’ database that is accessible by the public. The Use of Force Act (House Bill 636) was filed by State Representatives Renitta Shannon, Sandra Scott, Erica Thomas, Pam Stephenson, Park Cannon, and Bee Nguyen.

The Bill comes on the heels of a considerably large number of high profiled officer-involved shooting cases in Georgia. The names of the victims include Jimmy Atchison, Veltavious Griggs, JaMarion Robinson, Caine Rogers, DeAundre Phillips, Nicholas Thomas, Anthony Hill, Alexia Christian, Kevin Davis, and many others. The cases of Atchison and Griggs were both heavily featured on BET’s Copwatch America docuseries.

After the show premiered, former Atlanta police officer Sung Kim was forced to resign for the shooting of Jimmy Atchison. Witnesses say the father of two say was surrendering with his hands up when he was shot in the face. The FBI Task Force attempted to arrest Atchison for his alleged involvement in an armed robbery. The APD police report stated at the time of the Atchison’s murder that “a follow-up interview is needed with Brogan to check the discrepancies in the two stories.” A witness to the alleged armed robbery told police that Atchison didn’t rob anyone.

The proposed Georgia law would require law enforcement to take significant action in officer-involved incidents such as:

* Report every use of force incident in writing,

* Ensure that the incidents are entered and maintained in a database that can be accessed by the public,

* and detail any and all law enforcement officers that have been disciplined as a result of the use of force.

If the legislation passes, law enforcement agencies will be required to update the database with the information from the previous month.

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Culled from BLACKNEWS

Its the much acclaimed season of love again – Valentine!. No matter what your plans are going to be, getting your partner a gift is the really good way to spark your relationship up.

Hey ladies and mums especially, your man would love it, don’t wait, do this and he will know how you feel about him.

You lack ideas, well here are some really cool gifts to consider;

1. Wristwatch

No man is the same, but this is something 80% of them would love. They always need this, you only need to know his preferred collection, leather or not, and you’re good.

2. Wireless Earpods

This is quite out of the box, he will love your thoughtfulness. Men love it when a woman is updated. This is handy.

3. Shaving Set

This shows how caring you are to think this far. After all the kids get most of their needs like this met. And him, why not.

4. Sport or gym wear

This would always stick because even without your presence he will feel you close and when sweaty, the clothes will stick to his skin bringing your thoughts too.

5. Perfume

This brings gratitude, every man will appreciate any woman who wants them feeling great. Good perfume creates that aura. And they also have your memory with them wherever they go.

6. Socks

Yes, best bet he will love it. This is something simple and thoughtful.

7. Cufflinks

This is so relevant for his clothes like earrings are to us. He can never have too much of it.

7.Ties

This is a good idea for the cooperate husband. If he is into ties then he would be glad.

8. Video games

Not every man plays games though. But the passion and commitment most guys show to sports, video games will make them love you even more.

9. Shirts

This might be an obvious gift choice but all you have to do is buy the type he likes, and you’ll put a smile on his face.

10.Belts

Does he sag ? I guess not either he can’t have too many belts. Add to his collection.

11.Wallet

He uses this so much, so this is a great one. Not so many men change this often.

12.Books

If your man is a reader, then you’re doing the right thing for his thought pattern. Get one from the writer or genre he loves.

Have a deserving Valentine with the love of your life Queens!

In addition to Griffin Insurance, Abass and her team have another company called Lami that sells the same technology that Griffin Insurance uses so that other businesses can use it to create their own digital insurance products.

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10 year old Anaya Ellick was born without hands. But she wouldn’t allow her disability to determine her personality.

In 2018, she participated at the Zaner-Bloser National Handwriting Contest, under a special needs category and won the penmanship prize for her flawless cursive writing.

This company publishes research-based handwriting, reading, writing, spelling and vocabulary programs. Each year, they hosts a National Handwriting Contest” for youths across the U.S.

Before winning this Contest, Ellick who doesn’t use prosthetics had stunned the nation when at the age of seven as a first grader, won the Nicholas Maxim Special Award for Excellence in Manuscript Penmanship.

She has been inspiring to all as two national honors winner for her astonishingly extraordinary writing skills. Anaya is a role model to everyone,” Sara Cannaday, a third grade teacher said.

Ellick taught herself how to write by holding the pencil between her two lower arms and remaining at her desk area to get the ideal angle for her to write easily according to Steemit.

Her parents likewise uncovered that Ellick showed herself how to write, learned to tie her shoes, prepared herself for school and endeavored to do things herself even before requesting help.

“It wasn’t really hard,” she told WTKR. “I was happy and I thought my mom was joking when she said I won again.”

For winning the contest, the young princess gets $1,000 and a trophy, according to Zaner-Bloser’s website. Her school also won, as the company awarded it a gift certificate to be spent on print and digital resources for students and teachers.

Anaya is a role model to everyone,” Sara Cannaday, a third grade teacher said.

Her parents are feel really good, mother Bianca said, “I’m proud because it encourages her… For her to see that hard work does pay off,” Middleton said.

She’s really independent—from tying shoes, putting clothes, getting baths,” Gary Ellick, Anaya’s father said. “It was always like ‘I can do it’. So, that just carried on over the years.” Anaya might be considering venturing into sports she told WTKR.

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Tamairo Moutry, a real estate broker, a very successful one at that. She has real estate companies in four different states – Wisconsin, Georgia, Florida, and Illinois. All her businesses are managed virtually, with close to 25 realtors working on her team.

Tamairo is a native of Milwaukee, Wisconsin and has been in the real estate business since 2004. She passed the Illinois Managing Broker exam at the end of September 2019, and received her license three months later.

She is very excited about starting her recruitment efforts in Illinois for 2020 and beyond. Her current goals consist of helping more investors to purchase, improve and renovate affordable homes to revitalize lower income communities to promote homeownership for all, and is looking for more investors. And so is her future goal.

Tamairo also assists real estate investors with financing for the purchases and renovations, new construction homes and commercial projects in all 4 states as well, and is willing to help all clients with credit education to achieve higher credit scores.
She also is looking forward to help and assist with housing for the DNC Democratic Convention in Milwaukee, holding July 13-16.

She was in Port St. Lucie, in April 2019, Florida USA for a prestigious Women’s Real Estate Retreat, as a keynote speaker. She has continued with other speaking engagements, interviews, TV appearances, podcasts, and many live appearances in several Facebook groups including her own, Women In Real Estate.

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“My skin wants to cause me trouble and break out so I always have to be thinking about that.” -Alicia Keys

The Grammy award wining superstar, took time out to explain her skincare night routine on youtube. She has been makeup up free since 2016 and has a glowing complexion to show for it.

Alicia says drinking water is important.

Before she applies any products, Alicia fills up a large mason jar with water. “Water—it’s a secret, it sounds so simple,” she says. “It is important.” She sips her water, sometimes flavored with fresh fruit, through a metal straw as she creates a relaxing atmosphere with candles and palo santo incense. “I am a candle fanatic,” Alicia adds.

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She deep cleans her skin.

Alicia uses face wipes to “get the day off.” It doesn’t have to be an exact product. She says you can also use hot water and a washcloth. That’s for the start. Next, she uses the Osmosis Beauty Deep Clean Detox Cleanser, which she describes as “really strong.” She adds “boom” for emphasis.

Next, she applies toner.

Alicia sprays a therapeutic spray toner, Liv by Knutek Klar Toner, all over her face. “This one is more therapeutic,” she explains. It contains tea tree oil and honey, and antifungal and antimicrobial properties to help combat breakouts. Then she uses her fingers on her face, and always in an upward motion to apply products. “I think the contact is really important,” she says.

She spot treats blemishes with smelly lotion.

You know, Alicia struggles with acne, too. “My skin wants to cause me trouble and break out so I always have to be thinking about that,” she explains. “We all struggle with keeping skin clear, and I am very familiar with that struggle. My favorite trick is this crazy thing called The Advanced Blemish Lotion with Sulfur.”

The downside: “It smells like a fart,” she says. To use it, she dips a cotton swab into the bottle, swirls it around, and dots it over her active breakouts. “They’re dope, they have a lot of good products,” Alicia added.

Then, she piles on the moisturizers.

Alicia starts with Scottish Fine Soaps’ Au Lait Body Butter to mask the sulfur smell of her acne spot treatment. “It smells unbelievable,” she says, applying it on her arms and neck.

For her face, Alicia uses a moisturizer from Epicuren and Rosebud Salve lip balm. Both she says are longtime faves. “Anything with honey in it, fire amazing,” she says as she smells the moisturizer.

She wraps up with aromatherapy, essential oils, and tea.

Self-care is also important to her steps. Alicia’s She sprays a Sacred Rose Water aromatherapy into the air around her, and massages an essential oil blend on her forehead, wrists, and neck. “It’s really about bringing out your intuition, bringing out your inner voice,” she says. “I’m trying to be the most in-tune, in-touch individual. So I like little things that just remind me to think about that.”

Alicia’s final step? A cup of tea. Her favorite of the moment is Earl Grey with almond milk creamer. Alicia says, “I make a mean cup of tea.”

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Fab Maven, is a movement created to help empower and uplift women. Chaya Kennedy-Burnettis the founder, a passionate volunteer and professional of women’s issue and spiritual and life coaching. After facing her own share of life challenges, she recognized the need for women to have access to a “pick me up” when one may otherwise be unavailable. A grassroots movement was kick started that is now Fab Maven,which has managed to reach women across the world from all races, genders, religions, cultures, and political backgrounds.

Women face battles, immense hardships and trauma, either in the present or from their pasts, and yet commit their lives finding opportunities to heal and move forward. “Fab Maven helps women from all backgrounds including those facing hardships and trauma from chronic illness, major loss, abuse, assault, and depression do just that by connecting through shared experiences”, wrote blacknews

Fab Maven is focused on women’s fashion and markets unique apparel and accessories with Fab Maven’s unique logo. They are committed to keeping prices low, reaching women from all walks of life. The company’s signature logo is a symbol of optimism and hope, empowering women by helping them to find their individual and collective voices.

The Fab Maven apparel and accessories are available for purchase on Amazon.com

About Fab Maven

Fab Maven is on a mission to educate, uplift, and empower women who have endured traumatic experiences, yet are striving for complete healing. By providing a safe space and judgement-free zone, resources and workshops, Fab Maven equips women with tools that promote spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Learn more at FabMaven.com

 

Tyler Brown, a girl a who had her arm amputated due to a tumor, has returned back to swimming. Just one month after the amputation, she continued. The 14 year old did not let her circumstances stop her. She is from Atlanta Georgia.

One day, doctors found a cancerous tumor in her right arm. The tumor was initially removed but became malignant, they had no other choice but to amputate her arm to keep cancer from spreading.

Tyler a high school swimmer, was medically cleared to get back in the pool, and then she immediately competed in the swim meet in her high school, the Elite Scholars Academy in Clayton County.

“It didn’t affect me in any way,” she told Atlanta Journal-Constitution.

Her family supported her, and helped her back to school by organizing “one arm parties” with her friends and classmates.

She performed well in the competition, but admitted it wasn’t as it used to be.

“I do feel like I have to work harder than my two-arm counterparts, but it’s work I’m willing to do,” she said. “I am really competitive. I want people to count me out. Then I want to prove them wrong.”

Tyler is truly a resilient young woman who wouldn’t give up.

At the tender age of 7, Melissa A. Marshall’s dad was sentenced to prison. Now 35 years old Melissa has decided to become a mindset coach, to help and empower women who are fatherless..

Her best-selling book, Mind Over Matter, offers guidance for girls and teens who are growing without a father in their life.

“This book will show you how one decision – the decision to change your mind – has the unlocking power to not only free you, but to change your life. You heal better when you feel better!” says Melissa.

The pain of having a dad in prison can have hurting impact on their kids. The daughters feel a sense of fatherlessness which is harsh.

Young girls growing up without a father are four times more likely to be pregnant before turning 20.

Melissa’s book Mind Over Matter addresses this issue well. Women who have grown with their fathers serving time in prison and those who were raised without a father at all.

Although this book is for any who has been through painful periods in their life. The book tells readers how to break free and grab the key that lies within and unlock the doors to the future.

As a nurse by profession, she uses her knowledge and personal experience of growing up fatherless to empower women of all walks of life to live a purposeful life. She has helped women across the globe to deal with theri daddy issues as an empowerment and mindset coach.

Melissa Marshall’s new book, Mind Over Matter Book is available on Amazon.

For more information about Melissa, visit: http://www.iammelissamarshall.com/