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Nollywood actress/producer Toyin Abraham on a new episode of Rubbin’ Minds revealed to Ebuka that she regrets ever going into a relationship with her ex, Seun Egbegbe.

The actress who was close to tears explained that it was a very emotional period for her and as such, she always empathizes with women going through similar emotional stress.

 

As Comedian/Motivational speaker, Alibaba, shared via Instagram this morning.

“People who have only sex to offer are the ones who get jealous, suspicious and quarrelsome. You know why? Because they know that you might go out one day and find someone who has more than sex to offer. So what does that leave them? So they start to put their spouse in the defensive.

Go take a critical look at most of those relationships where the guy or babe has only one thing to offer, they will keep talking of security. They want reassurances always. Tell me you love. Promise you will not leave me. Are you sure you are not playing with me? Am I the only one in your life? Do you really love me? Are you tired of this relationship? Do you still love me? …. blah blah blah! When all you have is a hammer everything is a nail. That is what sums up these kind of people. That explains why they get so angry when you are away from them for so long. Their only stake in the relationships needs to be activated regularly to remain relevant in the scheme of things and in their spouses thoughts.

“That also explains why many who marry because the sex is good, find out later that good sex doesn’t pay bills. Neither does it cook, run the home, guarantee respect, make your spouse a person you can rub minds with and not skin. You see you may not know it, but I will tell you, you may be extremely beautiful. That is good. But like sex, if that beauty is all there is to you, in the relationship, the day that beauty is discounted by someone else who has brain and beauty body and cooking skills, with a good dose of home management, last last na modeling agency go need you. So you are a guy, and all you have in your value proposition brief case is muscles. Hiaaaaam. No common sense. Nothing else. So Iet’s look at the sex sef… after a while, its bargaining value in the relationships could diminish. When that happens what will be your new bargaining chip? Same goes for cash. I know a top society lady who married a big time Lagos big boy, when she knew he was in bad times, she vamoosed! And went to kids for another man. How could she? She could, and she did. Some people too, if the marry you because of your Dad’s political office, when the term of office is running out, they run out too.”

Actress Regina Chukwu who lost her husband to the cold hands of death in June 2003, says she doesn’t like being referred to as a single mother. Speaking in an interview with The Nation, Regina said

“I don’t like being referred to as a single parent. The fact that I lost my husband does not make me a single parent. I just want to take God, for the way they have turned out to be. I am my daughter’s best friend”.

On why she hasn’t remarried, Regina says it is because of her kids.

“Actually, it is because of them that I decided not to remarry then. Like I said earlier, I won’t call myself a single parent, because I am Igbo. The fact that you have lost your husband does not mean that you are still not married to that family. So as it is traditionally I am still married to my husband family. I am still their wife and if they want to do any family function, I am considered and called upon. I still belong to the community wives meeting. When my husband passed away, I was called and asked if I wanted to remarry. The condition was for me to leave their children and go ahead. But I looked at my kids and they were still very young and I decided to stay. My children have been asking if I won’t remarry; they want a baby sister or brother. But I don’t know what God has in plan for me. I am open to whatever God is says will happen to me. If I decide to remarry now, it means whoever I want to get married to will pay my bride price and my parents will then go back to my late husband’s family to return the bride price they paid on me. It is tradition telling them this lady is no longer your wife. But when it is not done, I still remain their wife. I still paid my mother-in-law a visit last year”she said Regina says it hasn’t being easy being a widow “It hasn’t been easy. I started my career about 13 years ago and my kids were still very young at that time. But today, my daughter is 16 and my son is 14, I am grateful to God. But not that they are grown up, it gives me more time to be able to pursue my dream to the level I want to take it to. Not that I have attained that dream, because I am yet to receive some awards that I want my name on, but so far, it has been great. It is not that I don’t worry about their welfare, but I have my mom and my siblings to fall back on their wellbeing, wherever I am not around”.

The Ghana Women of the Year Honours by Glitz Africa Magazine happened last night, celebrating some of the most outstanding Ghanaian women in various industries.

Women like popular actress Joselyn Dumas, fashion stylist Karen Kane and others were in attendance. Some Honourees recognised for their talent and contribution to their industries were Film Producer and Director, Shirley Frimpong-Manso (Honouree: Excellence in Arts), Designer and Fashion School owner, Joyce Ababio (Honouree: Fashion) and other amazing women.

See photos from the 2016 edition of the event, here and first photos from last night below.

First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

Actress Joselyn Dumas in She by Bena

First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

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First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

Fashion Stylist Karen Kane

First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

Adina

First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

Victoria Michaels

First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

Honouree Fashion Force, Designer Joyce Ababio

First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

Host, Doreen Andoh

First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

Film Producer/Director Shirley Frimpong-Manso, Honouree Excellence in Arts

First Photos from the Ghana Women of the Year Honours

Film Producer/Director, Shirley Frimpong-Manso

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Nollywood actress , Omoni Oboli finally  opened up on how her father’s death affected her.

The renowned scriptwriter who lost her father last week in a car crash revealed that that she has tried in vain to make sense of the incident and has decided to leave it all in God’s hands insisting she will come back from it all stronger. She wrote:

It’s been a week since my dad’s very tragic and untimely passing. I have tried to make sense of it but I can’t so I have left everything in God’s hands. Weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning! Hallelujah ???????????????????????? His strength is made perfect in my weakness! I’m coming out stronger! I’m victorious! Nothing can bring me down! The king’s kid! CHILD OF GRACE! ???????????? #StrongWoman #ChildOfGrace#JesusLastBorn #RIPMyBiggestFan

 

She definitely has been around for a long time and has no plans of leaving anytime soon!

Veteran actress and talk show host Monalisa Chinda Coker talks candidly about her life, marriage and talk show on the cover of this week’s Vanguard Allure.

She sits down with Vanguard Allure’s Pamela Echemunor to a no holds barred conversation about how she has been able to remain on the top of her game.

The Magazine drops tomorrow, be sure to grab a copy!

Credit:
Creative Director: Nelly Mesik
Photography: Emmanuel Oyeleke
Styling: Moses Ebite for Moashy Styling
Hair: Zubby Definition
Makeup: Debrene Beauty
Location: House of Splendor Boutique hotel, Ikeja

Beautiful Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe has revealed more about  the violence she suffered in her marriage

In an interview with BroadwayTV, the mother of two explained that her husband was a chronic cheat and had been cheating on her with people close to her. According to her, his stories about her being a cheat are all lies.

She also explained that she had been in the marriage despite all she suffered because she wanted a home and had people that were looking up to her.

Her husband, however has been remanded in Kirikiri prisons till he meets his bail condition of N500,000 while their case was adjourned to July 12.

I’m Still Coughing blood

The Nollywood actress revealed that her husband broke her orbits which will necessitate a surgery for her to see properly. “I’m still coughing and sneezing blood even after three weeks”, she reveals how severe the injury inflicted upon her is.

Why she wants to leave now…

“It’s not like I wanted to walk away but I just feel like we need help. I spoke to my husband’s brother about it. I told him I was going to pack out for some time while my husband seeks therapy. I just wanted to feel safe, that is why I moved my things out. This last beating was brutal. I actually thought I was going to die”.

 

My Husband Was Sleeping With a Girl

Aigbe also revealed that the last incident started few days before when she discovered that her husband was sleeping with a lady. A lady she claimed to be her friend whom she was close to. This was a regular attitude from her husband; a man she claims has slept with a lot of people close to her, even her PAs.

He confronted him and it led to a huge argument which was turning violent before she had to keep quiet.

He Kept Beating Me

On the day of the incident, Mercy had informed her husband that she was attending a burial of her colleague. After his hesitance, she explained that it would not be fair on the lady since she had promised to be there and even invited him to come along.

Mercy revealed that it was her refusal to go and pick her husband up while she was still at her designer’s place that brought the fury of the man on her. He was said to have driven there and started to beat her in the presence of everybody.

“Immediately, I opened the door, he kept beating me. I was begging him and asking why he was beating me. He said he would destroy my face such that no make-up would fix it and destroy my career. He was acting like someone who was possessed. I told him “Lanre, mo ma bi mo fun e” (translated as “I have a child for you).

Mercy Aigbe on interview set

I agree that I am a fool

In the exclusive interview, the Nollywood star said she agrees that she was a fool for staying that long even with all the beating and humiliation. “I believed that a wise woman builds her home. That’s why I stayed that long”, she said.

About Cheating

“If he had shown a bit of remorse, maybe things would have been different. He went on saying that I cheated on him several times. I never cheated. That’s why I told him to come out with proof”, she said.

My Husband was in detention for over 7 months

“My husband was in detention for over seven months and I never left him or go anywhere. Why would I want to go now? He says all this is make-up. He is not showing any form of remorse and still sponsoring lies against me.

 

Singer, Peter Okoye has taken a public stand against domestic violence amidst the heartbreaking stories that have been emerging of women suffering abuse from their supposed loved ones.

“But seriously some men can fall hand. Next time if you want to beat or hit a woman, please try beating me Peter Okoye, Anthony Joshua or Floyd Mayweather, then you will be called a reeeeeeeeaal Man. Baboons! #StopDomesticViolence #RealMenDontBeatWomen #WomenAreNotPunchingBags #whereIsThelove,” he wrote on Instagram. Preach, Peter!

Nollywood actress and producer Dakore Egbuson Akande covers Genevieve Magazine‘s May 2017 issue in a plunging neckline fringe dress by Nigerian designer Fruché

Her chat with the magazine covers her life but centres on where she is right now. The actress talked feminism, and her role in the romantic comedy, “Isoken”; a movie on the “Before 30” conversation.

She told the magazine, “Marriage has made me more patient and accepting of mine and others flaws for sure.” And, “…becoming a wife and Mum, and having my own personal experiences deepened my appreciation for women’s rights and stories.”

 

Credits
Photography: Tope Adenola of Horpload Works| @Topehorpload
Make-up: Remi of Book Of Glam Stories| @bookofglamstories
Hair: Tonye of Vavavoom
Stylist: Tokyo James| @tokyojames
Venue: Renaissance Hotel GRA

Australia’s first black African member of federal parliament was sworn in on Tuesday in Canberra.

Lucy Gichuhi filled the South Australian seat in the Senate which was left vacant for over six months after the resignation of Bob Day from the Family First party.

Gichuhi, 54, who has spoken openly about her faith, was warmly welcomed by senators from all parties, with hugs and handshakes, after she took the oath.

“I am honoured and humbled to be sworn in today as the first-ever person of black African descent in the Australian Parliament.

“I thank God, my husband and daughters, my father and all other friends, family and supporters for your encouragement, and sharing the vision we hold to unite Australia as one,’’ Gichuhi said in a brief message on her Facebook page.

The Kenyan-born lawyer arrived in Australia with her husband and children in 1999 and became an Australian citizen in 2001.

Gichuhi was the second-ranked candidate on the Family First ticket, but will sit in the Senate as an independent after it merged with another party.

Day quit the Senate in 2016 after the collapse of his building empire.

Since then, the Australian High Court ruled him ineligible to stand for office because he had benefited personally from a government lease for his electorate office in Adelaide.