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Esther Ijewere, Founder of Rubies Ink Initiative for Women and Children, has been recognised by Woman.ng list of 51 Influential Nigerian Women Writers Under 40, for her book Breaking the Silence, which she wrote in 2013 to inform about rape and its scourges.

Her Initiative, Rubies Ink Initiative, is an umbrella organization which covers several women  and girl child-related projects including Walk Against Raoe, Women Of Rubies, Project Capable, Rubies Ink Media and the College Acquaintance Rape Education Workshop.

 

 

 

While acknowledging the recogniton, she said:

”Thanks so much @woman.ng for this recognition. I truly appreciate it . I am humbled to be mentioned among great female writers in Nigeria. 

My book #Breakingthesilence still breaking records, three years after. Consistency pays, Keep doing that you are good at and you will stand before Kings. 

Grateful and thankful. 

#Lifeofawriter #Mediagirl #activist

Media personality and author, Toke Makinwa has taken to her Twitter page to talk about how people rarely take note of the emotional abuse that happens between parents and their children.

See her tweets below;

I had a chat on my show about emotional abuse yesterday and I have made up my mind to raise awareness on this topic… read next tweets

When people hear emotional abuse they are quick to think man/woman dynamic but do you know parents emotionally abuse their kids too

You hear how some parents talk down on their children, the harsh words used to correct them, magnifying their weakness and in some cases

Some mothers take the frustration of the fathers out on their kids, some fathers in a bid to get back at their wives do the same

You hear of a man divorcing his wife and out of bitterness inflicts the pain on his children, he doesn’t pay school fees….

The woman also out of bitterness of the father leaving takes her anger out on the children words like “you are useless like your father” …

Even in work places, a boss uses his position to talk down at everyone, emotional abuse is not restricted to love relationships alone

Sometimes the perpetrators don’t even know it. There’s a cycle of my parents raised me that way and I didn’t die therefore my kids won’t too

Some of us were raised in hostile homes, mummy and daddy’s mood determined the general mood in the house

When they fight you dare not come of your room or ask for anything, sometimes you blame yourself for why your parents hate each other

They won’t separate because of what the society would say but the children go thru hell and endure the result of the bad choices they made

That child now grows up and if help is not given goes on to be abusive in his own relationship too. It’s a Cycle we must break

Actress and business woman, Iyabo Ojo, recently opened an Amala joint, called ‘Abula Spot‘, and a lounge, called Fespris Lounge. In an interview with The Punch newspaper, she said;

“I am a local chic. I made a name for myself by acting in my local dialect which is the Yoruba language and in our culture; amala is the in-thing. I am proud to be selling amala because that is my culture. A Chinese man cannot be ashamed of owning a Chinese restaurant. What I did was that I brought something perceived to be local to the Island and I made it look posh. When something is local, it does not mean that it is dirty. People really long to eat amala and I am not ashamed to be selling it,” she told Punch.

“I did not collect a loan to open my business, I saved. I had been planning to open this place for a very long time, so I had been saving. When I wanted to get my new office building, I sold some of my property. I sold almost all my gold if not everything. During that time, I sold one batch and when I needed more money, I sold the rest. I told myself to forget about gold for now because I know that I can make the money back later. With the support of good people as well, I was able to get my office building. The first lady of Kwara State who came to inaugurate the building supported me. Some of my godparents also supported me because I told them that I wanted to sell amala.” 

Foodstock Farmers Market, a startup founded by Omolere Omotayo, in April 2016, is an online marketplace that connects farmers to consumers in Nigeria.

The platform basically serves as a more convenient means to access cheap food products directly from farmers. They claim to beat Mile 12 prices, and Mile 12 (in Oshodi) is Lagos’ biggest commercial market for food. Traders there sell food produce in large quantities at very cheap rates.

 

According to Omotayo, Foodstock, in a bid to foster deeper connections with the local farmers, does not just buy from them, the company also provides the farmers with whatever they need:

“We work with farmers, provide them with seeds etc. and sell their produce and more — actually everything food — to the final consumers.”

To get fresh groceries from Foodstock, a user can place an order via their website, phonecall, facebook, BBM, WhatsApp or email; a Foodstock representative then calls to confirm the order before delivery is made. They typically deliver in 1 – 3 days and there’s a minimum basket size of N5000, which is fair considering that they have to order directly from farmers and bulk is more profitable.

While they focus on fresh farm produce, the startup’s offering also expands to seafood, frozen food, household and industrial food ingredients and groceries.

 

culled from konbini.com

Indian actress, singer, winner of Miss World 2000 pageant, and one of Time Magazine’s 100 most influential people in the world, Priyanka Chopra, has taken to her Instagram page to celebrate her mother in commemoration of the International Day Of The Girl Child.

She wrote,

”As cliched as it may sound, my mother is my #GirlHero. She is a fiesty woman that came from a small town, who ran away from home to pursue her dream job… she was a doctor in the armed forces, has over 8 different medical certifications, is a certified pilot and she speaks 9 languages! She also used to drive around in an open top jeep (what a badass!), Whew! She’s also an amazing mother, daughter, sister, wife, business partner… She’s the one who taught me that I could be anything and everything I want to be… And that’s why she’s my #GirlHero… it’s so important to inculcate that sense of confidence in the girls around you and hopefully that’s what we do this International Day of the Girl Child.​ #DayoftheGirl@girlupcampaign @madhuchopra ”
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Dove has been under fire for a while now because of its latest ad campaign which is tagged as ‘racist’ by people. The ad campaign is believed to be a harsh, rude, downgrading of the black race and people have refused to keep quiet this time around as this is not the first time Dove misrepresented the black race.

(The controversial ad campaign)

 

However, Lola Ogunyemi, the black model at the centre of the campaign who also happens to be a Nigerian, has come out to address the issue.

While speaking with The Guardian, she said:

“There is definitely something to be said here about how advertisers need to look beyond the surface and consider the impact their images may have, specifically when it comes to marginalised groups of women.

It is important to examine whether your content shows that your consumer’s voice is not only heard, but also valued.”

“While I agree with Dove’s response to unequivocally apologise for any offense caused, they could have also defended their creative vision, and their choice to include me, an unequivocally dark-skinned black woman, as a face of their campaign.

I am not just some silent victim of a mistaken beauty campaign. I am strong, I am beautiful, and I will not be erased.”

 

The original ad campaign has since been deleted off the internet.

 

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When Matse Uwatse-Nnoli was sick and pregnant, she was fired from her job as a radio presenter. After battling depression, she decided to pick herself up and turn her passion for cooking into a legitimate career path.

Her first step was to launch a food blog, Matse Cooks, which she defines as “a Nigerian and African food blog with some western fusions”.

She created Matse Cooks to educate and start conversations around food and drinks from all around the continent. The positive reception her food blog received led her to launch her own spice range, Matse Cooks Spices.

 The spice range includes the suya seasoning, the pepper soup spice, the fried rice spice, the jollof rice spice and the ‘everything’ spice. Her brand also produces organic honey.

Speaking with Woman.ng about why she created this spice range, Matse said:

 “I wanted to help families enjoy mealtime by cooking with my passionately made [spices] that can take their cooking to the next level. 

I have gotten great feedback and this gives me happiness and fulfillment that I am making families out there happy in my own little way.”

 

 

News credit: Konbini.com

Photos credit: matsecooks.com

Youngest Nobel Prize Laureate and Pakistani activist for female education, Malala Yousafzai, was born in Mingora, Pakistan, to proud parents Ziauddin and Toor Pekai Yousafzai, Malala using the pen name “Gul Makai” to protect her identity, began blogging for the BBC about life under the Taliban rule.

Yousafzai, the youngest winner of the Nobel Peace Prize at 17 was accepted at Oxford University in August to study Politics, Philosophy and Economics, attended her first lecture today. Now 22, she has resumed lectures at Oxford university.

On the 9th of October 2012, while on her way from school in a school bus on Swat Valley in north-west Pakistan, a gunman boarded her school bus and shot her in the head, neck and shoulder. This happened because she had begun writing an anonymous diary about life under Taliban rule.

Malala was later flown to the United States for treatment and that was where she completed her secondary education after recovering.

Sharing a photo of some of her textbooks, a laptop and a pencil, Malala wrote on Twitter:

5 years ago, I was shot in an attempt to stop me from speaking out for girls’ education. Today, I attend my first lectures at Oxford.”

 

 

Malala’s post now has 213,000 retweets and 687,000 likes, and 5,891 comment 14 hours after posting (as at the time of this report).

 

 

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A young Nigerian lady, Adeola Olubamiji, whose story is that of the proverbial grass-to-grace has not only done herself proud by earning a PhD in Biomedical Engineering, her story is an encouragement that where there is a will, there is a way.
Read her moving tribute on her graduation day:

“As the fifth child of five, I always had to wait for my turn. I was the last, a girl child and raised by a mother who is a farmer and a father who has little.

“I hawked pepper on the streets of Ibadan as early as age 10 to help my mum. Went to public primary and secondary schools in Ibadan. Attended OOU and studied Physics.

“Because I had a 2.1, it opened the door for me to proceed to Finland for a Master’s Degree in Biomedical Engineering. During this Master’s degree, I worked part-time as a cleaner and did this after my Master’s as well.

“Out of determination, I applied to over 100 schools for my PhD and finally got a full three-year scholarship (later extended to four years) at the University of Saskatchewan, Canada, to pursue a PhD in Biomedical Engineering.

“While in that PhD programme, I worked part-time as a makeup artist, teaching assistant, braided hair and fixed weaves to make extra money.

“Today, I walked the stage as the first black person to bag a PhD in Biomedical Engineering from the University of Saskatchewan, Canada!

“I walked this stage for you Mama Africa and for my Motherland Nigeria! I walked the stage for all of you Black women disrespected and looked down on!

“I walked for all of you from my ghetto hood, Mokola, Ibadan. I walked for all OSU students and ex-students that got that look from people who think we are not brilliant!

“I walked for all of you Africans in Finland wondering what is next for you!!

“Specially, I walked for you my parents, siblings and extended family in fulfilment of your dreams!

“Specially, I walked the stage for you my late sister Omoleye Olubamiji; and my late mentor Ayodele Olatunbosun.

“Today, I walked for my future husband and my unborn children who patiently waited for me to fulfil my dreams so that he can have a wife he will be proud of and they can have a role model to look up to.

“I walked for all immigrants and all young adults who strived everyday chasing their dreams!

“I walked in celebration of the unfailing love of my first and one truly true love, Jesus Christ, (in you I walk, in you I live, and in you I have had and will continue to have my being)!

“Be bold, be innovative, be different, be you, be everything you want to be; but remember to put God first!

“Let no man, upbringing, money, circumstance, colourism, past mistakes, institution, company, partner, background, let nothing tell you ‘you can’t do it.’

“Go smart! Go hard!! Go for Gold!!! Go with God!!! Just Get Going!!!!! #Grad2017 #PhDConvocation #UofS

We are pleased to introduce to you The Heartminders Societal Advancement Initiative’s day of the girl  #IDG2017 Conference for your warm consideration and coverage .
Our Objective

The Heartminders project was conceived to create a better and healthier society.

Our Aim

To offer Nigerians girls, especially the young adults and teenagers through this project, hope for a better tomorrow, upholding their right to life.

On December 19, 2011, the United Nations General Assembly adopted Resolution 66/170 to declare 11 October as the International Day of the Girl Child, to recognize girls’ rights and the unique challenges girls face around the world. 

For its sixth observance, this year’s Day will focus on the theme; EmPOWER Girls: Before, during and after crises’ as announced by UN.

The fulfilment of girls’ right to education is first and foremost an obligation and moral imperative.

For this reason, Heartminders Societal Advancement Initiative and United Nations information Centre Lagos will commemorate the day of the girl on Wednesday, 1th October, 2017.

Theme: EmPOWER Girls: Before, during and after crises

Time: 9am

Venue: FM Event Center, 19, Joel Ogunnaike Street, GRA Ikeja, Lagos

Keynote Speakers:

Dr. Mrs. Princess Olufemi-Kayode

Nigerian Criminal Psychologist, founder and Executive Director of Media Concern Initiative

Proffesor Mrs. Abigail Ogwezzy- Ndisika

Head of the Department of Mass Communication, Faculty of Social Sciences, University of Lagos

Guest Speaker

Pharm. Uzamat Akinbile-Yusuph

Lagos state commissioner for youth and social development

Panel of Discussants

Donna Ogunnaike- Poet and Barr at Law

Tewa Onasanya – Publisher Exquisite Magazine

Esther Ijewere – Women of Rubies

Bisi Ogunwale- Junior Chamber international

Grace Ama – Actress and Movie producer

The annual Conference is aimed at raising awareness on issues facing girls in Nigeria from education, abuse, child marriage to legal and medical rights

It is our firm belief that this investment of our time and resources would be worth it and would surely get rewarded by the emergence of a children-friendly and fair society that we all yearn for.