Nigeria’s representative in the  skeleton event  at the Pyeongchang 2018 Winter Olympics in South Korea, Simidele Adeagbo, finished last  in the women’s  individual skeleton runs 1 and 2 featuring 20 runners on Friday.

Although, she was not one of the top winners, her strength and determination is enviable and we know that this is just the start of something great for her career.

Simidele ran 54.19secs  in run 1 and 54.58secs in run 2.

2017 BB Naija housemate, Ese Eriata is coming out on top as she launches her own fashion line called ‘Fabbyese’.

The actress posted on her Instagram page her company logo and wrote, “Life ain’t perfect but your outfit should be
That’s why we are here to give you the very best we cannot wait to give u the best of our classy style. Fabbyese is here to stay”

Life is definitely treating her well as she celebrates another achievement in her life.

Read her post here.

Culled from konbini.com

Founder of GREENLANDS HAVEN FOUNDATION, Mrs Olubunmi Ajai Layode, has broken the jinx and shackles of tradition and olden doctrine, to walk her youngest sister down the aisle and gave her away in marriage. Mrs Olubunmi Layode and her three sisters are orphans who had stick together through it all and when it was time for the youngest sister to get married, she asked her eldest sister to give her away in marriage. Olubunmi had her moment of doubt but she eventually made up her mind to do the honor.

As expected, the Reverend of their church and the officiating Bishop from Methodist Church, both insisted that she could not walk her sister down the aisle as it is against culture. Brave Mrs Olubunmi stood her ground and after much deliberation and debate, she won and walked her sister down the aisle. This feat has made it possible for women in the Methodist Church of Nigeria to accompany their daughters down the aisle and give their daughters away in marriage.

In her words, she said;

A few months to my sister’s wedding, in our group Whatsapp chat of the remaining 5 daughters of D.I and J.P Ajai, my youngest sister, Dupeola asked me to give her away. Initially, I objected. I told her that I could not do it and that I would have to ask any uncle to do it. The other sisters said they had discussed it and decided that no one deserves that honour more than me. Since JOPA died, no one has looked out for us. We have been all we have had for each other.

I told them I would have to check the Bible and get back to them. This was the old Bunmi, the one who accepted the shackles of society on her, talking. She had not spoken in a while but the magnitude of what I was being asked to do made her make a rare appearance.

Then, the two Bunmis had a conversation in my head. No, I am not schizophrenic. And no, I am not disrespecting people who have schizophrenia, just clearing the air on the voices.

Old Bunmi : I can’t do it!

New Bunmi : because…?

O.B : … what if it breaks Biblical principles?

N.B : it does not. Church weddings are not a Biblical practice.

O.B : Apostle Paul would not like this.

N.B : Jesus would not stop you.

O.B : I don’t know that I can do this.

N.B : yes you can. And if you don’t do it just because you think a man MUST do it when it does not break any Biblical principles or the constitution of the Methodist church, then you, Olubunmi Ajai are not a daughter of JOPA. Remember how he, on his deathbed told you that you and your sisters are ‘omo Akin’ – children of valour and that you all are to fear no one but God after he, your father dies. Furthermore, if you don’t do this just because you think a man must do it, that makes you a fake Feminist/Humanist. Practice what you preach Bunmi.

So, I told my sisters that I accepted the honour. My sister told the Revd of our family church at Obun Eko that her sister would walk and give her away when he asked her on one of the pre-wedding counselling sessions. He opposed it vehemently, saying it had to be a man, any man… it could even be our 20 year old step brother… any man… but not a woman.

So, a 20 year old step brother could give a woman away but not her 48 year old full sister? I don’t think so!

On the wedding day, one of the Bishops of the Methodist Church of Nigeria officiated. While we waited for the bride who was running late to arrive, the Reverend of our family church approached me to ask me who was giving the bride away. I told him I was. He insisted that I could not. It was turning ugly. So, he said he would tell the Bishop. I said let’s go there. So, I asked my Uncle and Aunts to come with me.

We approached the Bishop and the Reverend jumped in while my aunt – a Deaconess, was introducing me to the Bishop. The Revd jumped in and told the Bishop I insisted on walking my sister and giving her away even though he had told me I could not. The bishop said he was right. I could not do it.

I started crying. Not because I was weak, but because I was livid at the injustice. My sister and I were neither breaking any Biblical rules nor any Methodist constitution but because I have a vagina and not a penis, I was not allowed to honour my sister.

I asked the Bishop why I could not do it. He told me it was not our culture. I told him that a few centuries ago, multiple births were a taboo in some areas, now, even in those areas, people pay good money to have multiple births. My Uncle told the Bishop that culture evolves. The Bishop insisted that I could not do it. It is simply against our culture in the Methodist Church. My Aunty told him that our parent church, the Methodist Church of England now has female Reverends where they did not have before. Why can’t we evolve? The Bishop said it was not our culture. I insisted that as Christians, our focus should be on Christ. And Christ did not say that a woman cannot give another woman away in marriage. We went back and forth and after a while, he agreed. I could walk my sister down the aisle and give her away in marriage.

And that is how the daughters of JOPA set a precedent in the Methodist Church of Nigeria. Because of us, because we refused to be bound by cultures and traditions that shackle us just because we don’t have a penis, future brides in the Methodist Church can say that they want their mothers or sisters to give them away in Marriage. They can quote the daughters of D.I and J.P Ajai as reference.

I had a meeting with the Bishop a few days ago and he admitted that the society is patriarchal and that the Methodist Church of Nigeria would now look at changing this culture of not allowing women to give another woman away in marriage.

YOU, yes, YOU, can make a change in society.

Credit: Mrs Olubunmi Ajai Layode

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