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BBNaija’s 2017 ex-housemate, Uriel, took to Instagram to pen down an emotional post to her mum, who is suffering from Dementia.

According to her, even though her mum’s disease wants to take her away, she’s got enough memories of her to last a life time.

She wrote;

 “Even though your sick and you most times you are confused and scared you always support me,You follow me to work interviews and shoots.

Even though you sometimes forget how to walk, I will always be your legs I will take you any where you want to go.. push you on your wheel chair fast or slow.
Even though you can’t remember how to cook, mummy no need I learnt from the best I’m all you need that’s the truth.
Even though you can’t dress or wash your self,mummy pls don’t worry every day is your spa day.. plus I love being your stylist.
Even though you forget how to pray Your Amen is enough you raised a prayerful daughter.
I love you sooooo much
Even though Dementia wants to take you from me.. just know I have memories to last a life time.
Happy sunday yaaay . Feeling blessed
IN ALL GIVE Thanks
My inspiration. Mrs Blessing Jerry Oputa” she wrote.

Scents by Geraldine is a Kenyan perfumery which creates and develops high-end beauty products with the aim to revolutionise how beauty and beauty products are received in Africa.

Founded by Geraldine Gitau, a 33-year-old mother of one, the brand sets out to carve a niche for good quality perfumes in Kenya.

(Photo: Instagram/Scents by Geraldine)

Even though the scents are mixed in Germany, the bottling and all of the rest of the finishing is done in Kenya, which the founder says qualifies it as a local luxury brand. Scents By Geraldine sets out to bridge an existing gap through providing quality perfumes, as opposed to some of the counterfeits and low quality brands that the Kenyan market is saturated with.

The debut scent collection Whole By Geraldine was launched recently. About the new perfume collection, Geraldine said:

“Whole by Geraldine is a unique fragrance celebrating the modern and independent woman.

It combines flowers, fruits, citrus and oriental notes to bring a warm and gentle fresh scent.

The soft fragrance creates a feminine spirit perfect for day, night and everyday life.”

With a large range of scents from vanilla to citrus, the perfumes come in 15ml, 30ml and 50ml bottles and 100ml to come for high end customers. In the near future, they aim to start a bespoke perfume line, tailored specifically to the scent the person prefers.

For more information you can check out their website, or follow Scents By Geraldine on Instagram and Facebook for updates!

(Photo: Instagram/Scents By Geraldine)

(Photo: Instagram/Scents By Geraldine)

 

 

culled from konbini.com

Abike Dabiri-Erewa, the Senior Special Assistant to President Buhari on Foreign Affairs and Diaspora Affairs has revealed that the office of Foreign Affairs issued warnings to Nigerians not to go to Libya.

This is following the global outrage over a CNN report that exposed an underground slave market where young Africans are sold.

Speaking on Politics Today, a Channels TV program, the presidential aide also wondered why Nigerians take a lot of risk to go abroad for greener pastures.

Dabiri-Erewa said;

“NEMA, my office, IOM told Nigerians that avoid Libya, it is deadly, it is dangerous, don’t go there. Also on the news, you have cases of Nigerians being brought back from Libya on a regular basis. So Nigeria has been bringing back its citizens from Libya.

“You can imagine the dangerous journey. Walking about 3,000kilometers that’s flying for about three hours if you are going to Europe. This might be attributed to poverty. Yes, the government must do the needful by creating enabling environment and jobs but it goes beyond that. What do you say of a mother who sells her land and pays off $4,000 for her daughter to go to Europe?”

“We should look at the family value and the systems. For every person who goes on that journey, a trafficker is being empowered, a trafficker is getting richer,” she added.

According to AFP, survivors of slave auctions in Libya have described as hell their experience in Libya’s underground slave camp.

Moussa Sanogo, a migrant who flew back to Ivory Coast after spending four months in Libya, revealed that they were beaten regularly, and forced to work in the fields.

“For the Arabs (Libyan jailers), black-skinned men are nothing but animals — animals were treated better,” Sanogo said.

Meanwhile, the Nigerian Senate on Wednesday, November 29, 2017, called on the Federal Government to summon Libyan Ambassador to answer questions concerning reports of slave trade.

source: pulsenews

Zonal PPRO, Dolapo Badmus, who hails from Ekiti State supervises the Public relations department of both Lagos and Ogun state police commands.She was appointed Lagos State Police PRO in January 2016 and was months back appointed zonal police PRO for Zone 2 to which her appointment took effect in March 10, 2017.

Dolapo and her husband got married yesterday, December 1st 2017. She shared this beaitiful pre-wedding photo they took and professed love to him.

Read what she wrote below:

‘Today I will love you like there is no tomorrow! And tomorrow, I will do it all over again! You are my today and all of my tomorrow. I Loved you then and I Love you still, and will always do! A decade of togetherness, tying the knot afresh ??is a confirmation that no one will be permitted to put asunder and ours shall be forever! Congratulations to us once again my sweetness ♥??? #DOLAK2017. Facebeat by @glambyesthy’

She shared:

See more pre wedding photos below;

Hollywood actress and award-winning singer, Selena Gomez is the cover star of Billboard Magazine’s ‘Woman Of The Year’ issue 2017.

In her interview, she gave some insight into her recent surgery where she had a Kidney transplant as a result of complications from Lupus. Selena shared how she had to get comfortable with her scars.

Despite her struggle with accepting her body, she revealed that now she looks at her body and feels better about everything she has been through.

Read excerpts from her interview below

On how comfortable she feels with her scar:

I do. I didn’t, but I do now. It was really hard in the beginning. I remember looking at myself in the mirror completely naked and thinking about all the things that I used to bitch about and just asking, “Why?” I had someone in my life for a very long time who pointed out all the things that I didn’t feel great about with myself. When I look at my body now, I just see life. There are a million things I can do — lasers and creams and all that stuff — but I’m OK with it. And by the way, there’s nothing wrong with [plastic surgery]. Cardi B has been my inspiration lately. She’s killing it, and she is proud of everything she has done. So there is absolutely zero judgment on my end. I just think for me, it could be my eyes, my round face, my ears, my legs, my scar. I don’t have perfect abs, but I feel like I’m wonderfully made.

On how she feels about the recent increase in women speaking up against their predators:

I feel all those things. I’ve cried. But I definitely feel hopeful. As people speak out, I hope that feels powerful to them, because they deserve to feel that. I’m fortunate enough not to have experienced some of the traumatic things that other women have had to go through. I’ve known people in my family who’ve gone through those things. I try to let people come to me and open up, to make a safe environment for them to do so.

On whether or not she is working on new music:

I am. I mean this in a very loving way, [but] my label has been itching for all the music that I’ve been creating, and there is such power in saying “no”. I like how we’ve presented the music this year, because it wasn’t in an aggressive way; it felt very genuine. I’ve canceled the past two tours I’ve done, so that’s something I’ve considered deeply too. How will I step on that stage and just completely own it and wear it proudly? In the past, I just kept reaching for something: “The costume is not glittery enough. What is going to pull them in? Everybody keeps looking at me like I’m this young girl.”

On what brought Justin Bieber back into her life:

I’m 25. I’m not 18, or 19, or 20. I cherish people who have really impacted my life. So maybe before, it could have been forcing something that wasn’t right. But that doesn’t mean caring for someone ever goes away. And [that goes for] people in general. I mean, I grew up with Demi [Lovato]. Nick and Joe [Jonas] and Miley [Cyrus] — we’ve gone through seasons in our lives. I don’t think it’s as serious as people make things out to be half the time. It’s just my life. I grew up with all of these people, and it’s so cool to see where everybody is. It comes back to the idea of me remaining full. I think a true representation of love is beyond just yourself. It’s me going to get coffee earlier this morning and talking with a woman who was celebrating her birthday and going to Disneyland for the first time. I told her about my favorite things there, and she got excited, and then I got excited because she was excited. The littlest things are impactful.

 

 

culled from fabwoman.ng

On Tuesday, October 28 2017, Jenny Durkan officially became Seattle’s 56th mayor and the first woman to hold the office in almost a hundred years.

The Emerald City welcomed Durkan, who is also its first openly lesbian mayor, with inauguration ceremonies held in five locations spread across Seattle. Durkan made her first stop at Seattle’s Ethiopian Community Center where she was officially sworn in to office by Judge Richard Jones.

Bertha Knight Landes, the last female to hold the mayoral seat in Seattle more than 90 years ago, served on Seattle’s City Council and was then elected as mayor in 1926.

 

Source: LIB

In recent years, many people have shifted from traditional careers to remote work and coworking spaces began springing up in cities around the world. However, many of these spaces have predominantly catered to men, home to ping pong tables and a bro culture, where women have felt socially isolated, been subjected to sexual harassment or otherwise experienced the impact of workplace sexism.

In response to this, Girly.ng, a female, millennial lifestyle brand, has launched a women-only coworking space with a mission to enable women of different backgrounds and professions to come together for mutual support, relationship-building, and wellness.

(Photo: Girly.ng)

Girly.ng comprises of an e-commerce marketplace for social media thrift sellers, an online community connecting women and now the first all-girl co-working space in Nigeria.

Girly.ng is trying to position itself as the affordable coworking space where entrepreneurial women can create and collaborate in a professional environment suited to meeting the unique needs of female entrepreneurs – by connecting them to other business experts, access to educational workshops, mentorship and visibility within the business community.

The space, located in Yaba, Lagos, is yet to go live with their rates, but signing up early with the community will get entrepreneurs on the waiting list to enjoy a 20% discount on offered services. The workspace will be fully open to the general (female) public in January.

When women create and design spaces for themselves, they are able to address the barriers and challenges that have hindered their progress in traditional office environments.

 

 

Culled from konbini.com

Featured image credit: shutterstock

With the way everything in the world has been going – especially politics and race relations, we may as well be back 1917, or 1817. To validate that point, a recent CNN report aired footage that showed African migrants being sold off as farmworkers at auctions in Libya, in 2017. Humans are actually being traded for as little as $400 (N144,000).

(Photo: CNN)

Libya is the last stopping point in Africa before migrants begin the dangerous journey through the Mediterranean to Europe, and hundreds of thousands of Africans have attempted to travel to Europe in recent years, resulting in thousands of drowning deaths and a countless number of them being sold into slavery. The International Organization for Migration estimates there are currently between 700,000 and a million migrants stuck in Libya.

Incredibly, Rwanda has offered refuge to around 30,000 of the migrants who are being exploited and living in slavelike conditions in Libya. The Rwandan foreign ministry released a statement last week:

“Rwanda, like the rest of the world, was horrified by the images of the tragedy currently unfolding in Libya, where African men, women and children who were on the road to exile, have been held and turned into slaves. Given Rwanda’s political philosophy and our own history, we cannot remain silent when human beings are being mistreated and auctioned off like cattle.

The Government and people of Rwanda stand in solidarity with our African brothers and sisters still held in captivity. Rwanda may not be able to welcome everyone but our door is wide open. We are ready to work closely with the African Union, the private sector, as well as other friends and partners to ensure that we can provide minimum comfort to those in need.”

(Photo: NYTimes)

In 1994, Rwanda went through a civil war that left 800,000 Rwandans dead and many more maimed, putting Rwanda at the center of one of the largest refugee crises of the 20th century, and 2 million Rwandans fled the nation to neighbouring countries during that time. So it is incredible that a more stable Rwanda is now standing up for these migrants.

Libyan officials have condemned the practice of slave trading but said that they required more support from the international community. Libya has opened an investigation into the slave markets, and the probe is being overseen by the government’s Anti-Illegal Immigration Agency.
The United Nations held an emergency session Wednesday, calling the practice a “crime against humanity,” and last week hundreds of protesters demonstrated near the Libyan Embassy in Paris.

(Photo: France24)

 

 

Culled from konbini.com

Depression

 

Depression is that persistent annoying voice in your head that tells you all that you are not 

It fills up all your thoughts and consumes you

It is the lies of the enemy 

Blinding you to all that you are and your potential 

It is the half truths that voice whispers to you 

Pointing towards all your failures

Distorting and concealing the true picture  

It is suffering in silence 

Your world surrounded in darkness 

 

Depression is sleeping in all day and staying awake all night 

With the demons in your head fighting for your attention 

It is alienating all your fiends sometimes 

And believing that no one cares about you 

It is holding on to resentment and heartbreak like a shield 

This supposedly protects you from further hurt 

But also stops you from healing and experiencing true love 

 

Depression takes different shapes and forms 

It could be laughing, dancing and having the best time with your friends but dying inside 

It could be achieving success and by society’s standard you should be happy 

But the emptiness inside is unexplainable 

Depression is a world filled with empty people barely making it through the day 

It is thinking there isn’t any point to life 

And failing to see the beauty in it 

 

But depression is not a weakness 

It is not something to be ashamed of 

Rather it is a disease of the mind 

A symptom of a much deeper rooted void in your life 

Depression is something only the one who created you can completely heal 

 

Author: Chidinma Chukwuma

Chidinma is a final year law student at the University of Sheffield. Check out more of her work at chidinmachukwuma.wordpress.com

 

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