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On the 10th of May, singer-turned-entrepreneur, Rihanna made history, becoming the first woman to launch an original brand at the LVMH luxury goods collective, which is home to brands such as Givenchy, Dior, Louis Vuitton, and now Fenty Maison.  

While the brand debuted in Paris on Friday, the online global launch is still to come. To prepare us for the latest episode of Rihanna’s world domination, Fenty has been releasing a steady flow of sartorial images, shot by the talented Nigerian photographer, Ruth Ossai

Speaking with The New York Times, who first aired the news of Rihanna’s latest business exploit, the LVMH chairman, Bernard Arnault said “to support Rihanna to start up the Fenty Maison, we have built a talented and multicultural team…” of which Ruth Ossai seems to be a member.

Ruth Ossai has an incredibly unique photography style, comprising of animated backdrops and textured mats for her distinctive sets, which have now appeared on Fenty’s Instagram story, as they tease their upcoming campaign. 

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Last week, Fenty aired behind the scenes footage of another campaign. Using a variety of different scenes for the set design, some of the landscapes behind the Fenty-clad models looked surprisingly familiar, with Lagos and potentially other parts of Nigeria being used for the backdrops.

Watch the Fenty teaser video below:

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MacKenzie Bezos has pledged to give away at least half of her $35 billion fortune to charity as part of a movement started by Warren Buffett and Bill and Melinda Gates.

MacKenzie Bezos became one of the world’s wealthiest individuals following her recent divorce from Amazon CEO, Jeff Bezos.

Bezos joins Mark Zuckerberg, Richard Branson, and Robert F. Smith on the list of donors to Bill Gates and Warren Buffett’s initiative.

In a letter published by Giving Pledge, Bezos writes of having “a disproportionate amount of money to share” and credits “an infinite series of influences and lucky breaks we can never fully understand” for her wealth.

Bezos’ signature, alongside hedge fund billionaires David Harding and Paul Tudor Jones, Brian Armstrong chief executive of cryptocurrency company Coinbase, and WhatsApp’s co-founder Brian Acton, brings the total signatories to more than 200 people.

The Giving Pledge began in August 2010 when 40 of America’s wealthiest individuals made a commitment to give more than half of their wealth away. The scheme is described as an “open invitation for billionaires … to publicly dedicate the majority of their wealth to philanthropy”.

Although MacKenzie Bezos doesn’t list any particular causes she writes,

“MY APPROACH TO PHILANTHROPY WILL CONTINUE TO BE THOUGHTFUL. IT WILL TAKE TIME AND EFFORT AND CARE. BUT I WON’T WAIT. AND I WILL KEEP AT IT UNTIL THE SAFE IS EMPTY.”

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Nigerian born, Yemi Adenuga has been elected to Meath County Council as a Fine Gael councilor for the Navan area in the local elections.

Adenuga has also made history as being the first black woman elected to Meath County Council.

She is famed for appearing as the matriarch on the  British television reality program, Gogglebox, along with her husband, Nollywood star Deji Adenuga and their two daughters.

This new feat was shared by her husband in a series of videos posted on Facebook.

Adenuga has been making waves in her community, being on the board of Cultúr – an organization in Navan that “works with migrants, asylum seekers and refugees promoting equal rights and opportunities to develop an intercultural County Meath”.

She also runs Sheroes Global,  which is “a women development and support organization with a mission to build women & youth to become positive change agents through changing orientation and to build a positive mindset.

In an interview with the Irish Examiner, the newly elected official said:

“I’M DELIGHTED TO BE DECLARED THE FIRST MIGRANT COUNCILLOR IN MEATH AND I’M REALLY LOOKING FORWARD TO WORKING WITH THE COUNCIL ON ISSUES THAT AFFECT THE PEOPLE IN THE TOWN AND COUNTY. THIS IS A VICTORY NOT JUST FOR ME BUT FOR ALL WOMEN AND ETHNIC MINORITIES.”

Yemi Adenuga enjoyed a long broadcasting career in her homeland but moved to Ireland “for pastures new” almost 20 years ago.

Her husband, Deji Adenuga, has starred in over 200 films the over the last 25 years and flies over and back from Nigeria. They married in 1992.

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The lady that reached out to me touched on an issue that I consider ‘crucial’ in the life of woman. A phenomenon that, if unchecked, has rendered countless women emotional wrecks and succeeded in making them a shadow of themselves.
Read our lady, first:

“When I came across a part of your article that says that most women are naturally prone to feeling insecure, especially in relationships, I said to myself, ‘I can relate to this.’

Please, this is me sharing my personal experience and what I consider my weakness with you.

I had a “live-in” child minder that’s almost at the tail end of her teenage years.

She has a habit of moisturising her body after her usual night bath. The funny thing is the fragrance of her body cream is easily perceived all over the house. One cheap cream that I bought for her o!

Do you know that ‘yours sincerely’ also began to use body spray –before going to bed? Something I never used to do…besides my regular perfume that I use, when going out.

My poor husband apparently didn’t care about what was going on. He felt that my latest effort was a signal for “romance mood.” Little did he know that a growing girl’s harmless beauty regimen has made me to start protecting my territory.

I laugh at myself now, but it wasn’t funny then. As the days went by, it would seem like my insecurity around the girl deepened. Especially, after a colleague said: “Is this beautiful girl your house girl?’’

I began to read meanings into every move she made. When she served my husband …I would begin to analyse the motive behind her gesture and scrutinise her body language or the tone of voice she used when interacting with my husband. Even her wears were a problem. Clothes sit well on her, thanks to her physique.

Then came the moment of realisation.

My aunt that brought her came to the house one day, asking if the girl has wronged me in any way. Apparently, the girl wanted my aunt to make me tell her what she has done wrong. So that she could apologise…since she couldn’t think of any.

That encounter opened my eyes to how far I drove a girl that was once like a daughter to me… no thanks to my insecurity. I remember the days I would not leave the house until my husband left first. And I would end up getting to work late.

Why? So they wouldn’t get an opportunity to interact. Is it the times I would deliberately close at a “non-closing hour” and then hang by the door…with my ears tightly pressed to it, in case ‘something’ was happening?

Yet, I should be the first to tell whoever cares to listen that my husband is one-of-a-kind…when it comes to such.

But when INSECURITY sets in…I tossed my convictions about the man that I have known since my teenage years into the garbage. I also remember the look of fright I saw on her face on the day that I raised my voice at her.

The issue at hand didn’t actually warrant that but only me knew that that aggression was brought on by how ‘unattractive’ her young, well-shaped body was making me feel.

I woke up one day and decided that, Blessing (that’s her name) wasn’t my problem. So, I sent her packing…with more than enough money to go enroll in a fashion design academy.

That has always been her passion.

I did apologise for the strange woman that I had become to her. She deserves better. I realised that any other woman out there would still pose a problem (threat) to me, if I didn’t work on myself. I am still a work in progress.

The important thing, however, is recognising that the problem is me, and not necessarily other women!”

FROM OBY…

Yeah, the times are DESPERATE! But sometimes, it’s not about the wiles of other women. Most of us are plagued with acute insecurity. And would still act up even in the most innocent of circumstances.

There are women to whom the only offence a fellow woman can ever commit is being younger, beautiful, famous (this one is a given!) or better dressed.

While to other women, the only thing that qualifies a fellow woman as a “husband snatcher” is her marital status…as a single lady, single mum, divorcee or a widow. Sisters, other women are not your problem!

I mean, with an insecure woman…ANYBODY is a threat! You see, the mind of an insecure person is a fertile ground for unwholesome thoughts. Even a harmless compliment can plant ideas in their head.

Yes, protect your territory but more importantly…attune your mindset.

It could all be in your mind…you know?

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Nigeria’s OluTimehin Adegbeye has emerged winner of the 2019 Gerald Kraak Prize.

Adegbeye was awarded the prize for her submission, a nonfiction piece titled Mothers and Men. 

The announcement was made on Thursday, May 23, at the Gerald Kraak Prize ceremony in Johannesburg.

Asegbeye’s submission was described by the judges as “a sensitive memoir casting new light on questions of rape, secondary victimisation and motherhood.”

OluTimehin Adegbeye is a Nigerian writer, speaker, and activist whose work focuses on gender, women’s rights, sex, sexuality and sexual violence, urban poverty, and sustainable development. Her TED Talk, “Who Belongs in a City?”, was chosen by TED Lead Curator Chris Anderson as one of the ten most notable talks of 2017.

Adegbeye is a Carrington Youth Fellow and a Women Deliver Young Leader. Her writing has appeared in Latterly Magazine, Premium Times, This Is Africa, StyleMANIA, Essays Magazine, Klassekampen, and Women’s Asia 21, among others. 

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French-Senagalese director Mati Diop has become the first black female director to win an award in Cannes’ 72-year history. 

Diop took home the Grand Prix – the equivalent of a silver prize – for her film  Atlantics, a Senegalese drama about sexual politics among young migrants. 

The 36-year-old had previously said she was a “little sad” to make history as the first woman of African descent to even have a film screened at the festival.

“It’s pretty late and it’s incredible that it is still relevant,” she said at the time.

“My first feeling to be the first black female director was a little sadness that this only happened today in 2019.

”I knew it as I obviously don’t know any black women who came here before. I knew it but it’s always a reminder that so much work needs to be done still.”

She said she had had an “urgent need” to feel more represented on screen and see more people who look like her behind the camera, telling fresh stories.

“As a black woman I really missed black figures and black characters cruelly. And that’s also why I made this film: I needed to see black people on screen — huge, everywhere,” she laughed.

“It’s also something new. I can’t believe when I go to see a Jordan Peele movie… I can’t even believe what I’m feeling,” she said, referring to the Oscar-winning African-American film-maker behind “Get Out” and “Us”.

“I’m so excited, I’m looking at how many black people are in the room — I almost count them… it’s a little hysterical.”

Diop said Cannes as the world’s biggest film festival had the power to help transform the industry by knocking down barriers for previously excluded groups.

“Hopefully it will be more and more common that black people are in front of characters of the same colour. Inshallah (God willing),” she said.

David Byrd is known around the Tennessee capitol as “Coach.” It’s a throwback to the 24 years he spent coaching the Wayne County High School girls basketball team, before he was elected state representative in 2014. Byrd is such a beloved figure in his hometown of Waynesboro that the high school dedicated the basketball court in his name. He was re-elected for the second time with 78% of the vote last year — even after three women came forwardwith stories about how Byrd made sexual advances against them when they were teenagers and he was their coach in the 1980s.

One of the women, Christi Rice, revealed a recording she made of Byrd apologizing to her in a phone call. “I’ve punished myself so much for that,” Byrd said in the recording, though he doesn’t explain what he means by “that.” As the women came forward last March, Byrd did not explicitly deny the allegations against him. Instead, he issued a statement at the time noting that he hadn’t done anything wrong while in office, and said people should “question the motives of these three former students out of the hundreds of students I have coached.”

“Conduct over 30 years ago is difficult, at best, to recall, but as a Christian, I have said and I will repeat that if I hurt or emotionally upset any of my students I am truly sorry and apologize,” Byrd’s statement said. “I do not believe either of these ladies can show that they made a report to the authorities or received any subsequent mental health counseling for what they have alleged but, again, if my acts or omissions cause them distress I am truly sorry.” Byrd did not respond to requests for comment for this story.

Many public officials accused of sexual misconduct in the past two years either resigned or were voted out of office, events often celebrated as evidence of the power of victims coming forward. But for Byrd, a Republican from the most pro-Trump county in Tennessee, the situation has displayed a dramatically different scenario. Not only has Byrd stayed in office, he has enjoyed vocal defenses from multiple GOP colleagues. The American Conservative Union, the group best known for hosting the annual Conservative Political Action Conference, gave Byrd an award in February. (The group did not return Teen Vogue’s request for comment.) As a reporter waited in a hallway earlier this year to ask Byrd about the allegations, Kent Calfee, a GOP lawmaker, stopped to point out that Byrd “got re-elected by a huge number,” and asked, “Why don’t y’all get off of him?” Calfee did not return Teen Vogue’s request for comment.

Byrd was promoted to chair of an education subcommittee in January. When a group of female activists showed up at a committee hearing in February to protest Byrd’s promotion — each holding 8.5 by 11 inch pieces of paper in front of their chests with statements like “Resign Byrd” and “Survivor Against Byrd” — they were chastised by Jerry Sexton, a Republican state representative who also didn’t respond to a request for comment. “I think it’s a shame that you can pick certain individuals to pick out and demean,” Sexton said to them before state troopers escorted the women out of the hearing.

The activists, who were working with the Enough is Enough Voter Project, believe that a large reason why Byrd has not resigned is because of Glen Casada, who announced on Tuesday, May 21, that he plans to step down as Tennessee’s Speaker of the House in light of a controversies involving lewd and racistbehavior by one of his top aides and after a vote of no-confidence from his party. Casada ran ads through his political action committee last fall calling the accusations against Byrd “fake news.” He was captured on video in February downplaying the allegations against Byrd, and stated, “if I was raped, I would move.”

“Casada basically propped Byrd up,” Rice, one of Byrd’s accusers, told Teen Vogue. “I really feel like he would’ve resigned if not for him.” She has said that when she was 15, Byrd touched her inappropriately and kissed her multiple times, and told her he wanted to see her naked. Rice told her story to Tennessee Gov. Bill Lee in a private meeting in March, but he has refused to say what he thinks about Byrd.

The fact that Byrd remains in office without criticism from Republican leaders in Tennessee shows the limits of #MeToo in a conservative part of the South, especially in a small town where high school athletics reign supreme and even people who believe the women’s accusations are fearful of what would happen to them if they said so publicly.

“One person said to me that part of it is we’re a rural community,” Rice told Teen Vogue. “The only thing we really have is athletics and he was a successful basketball coach. That was our saving grace, what the community was known for, and for me to put a black mark on that was a horrible thing regardless of what happened.”

But the Enough is Enough activists won’t let that excuse stop them. They have vowed to keep the pressure on Tennessee lawmakers until Byrd is out of office, and in the past few months, they’ve shown what that looks like.

They stood outside the capitol in January dressed as characters from the “Handmaid’s Tale” with a banner reading “Casada Protects Men Who Abuse Women,” and a week later showed up at Bill Lee’s inauguration as governor holding large cut out letters spelling “Casada Protects Abusers.” In March, they read excerpts during breaks in committee hearings from a recording in which Byrd apologized to Rice for his actions when he coached her. A group of women sat outside of Lee’s office at the capitol in April until state troopers arrested five of them for refusing orders to leave. To make sure Lee knew what they wanted with their protest, they put up a billboard in the Nashville area demanding Lee call for Byrd’s resignation. At the end of April, they hounded lawmakers over their support for Byrd at events around the NFL draft, which was being held in the city. On Monday, May 20, the group purchased a new billboard ad calling for both Byrd and Casada to leave office.

Casada and the governor’s office did not respond to requests for comment by Teen Vogue. Neither did 16 other Republicans in the Tennessee legislature, who serve in leadership positions and on committees with Byrd, that were contacted for this story.

“It’s frustrating when you see a government that is just beating their chest on their religious and moral virtues and then they don’t want to address an issue on this magnitude,” Rice said. “It sets precedent, it sets a standard that other men can do this and get by with this. Political leaders should hold one another accountable — that’s the only way anyone is going to change this behavior.”

Rice explained to Teen Vogue that she decided to come forward after a couple of statements Byrd made. First, he expressed outrage over news in November 2017 that the University of Tennessee wanted to hire Greg Schiano as football coach. Schiano was accused offailing to report Jerry Sandusky’s molestation of children when they worked together at Penn State in the 1990s, though Schiano denies it.

Then in January 2018, the WSMV TV station ran a story revealing that Byrd was part owner of a juvenile detention facility where teens had alleged they were abused and received improper care. Byrd said “it is always important to look into allegations of misconduct, especially when it involves our children,” but the staff at the facility shouldn’t be “harassed by unsubstantiated claims.”

Rice felt like Byrd was being a hypocrite, so she decided to go public. She and two other women told their stories to WSMV that spring. Rice didn’t expect much to happen, but then Michele Dauber called her.

Dauber, a Stanford Law professor who led the successful effort to remove the judge who sentenced Brock Turner to sixmonths in jail (of which he served three months) for his sexual assault conviction, had launched the Enough is Enough Voter Action Project. She had gotten in touch with local activists and wanted to support an effort to make sure Byrd’s constituents knew about the sexual misconduct allegations. A group of local volunteers canvassed Byrd’s district with Enough is Enough organizers, going door-to-door to talk to people about Byrd.

“We weren’t asking people to vote Democrat, we were just asking people to leave that spot blank,” Kristina Richardson, a constituent of Byrd’s who canvassed in his district, told Teen Vogue. “We were telling them we’re bipartisan — it doesn’t matter if you’re Democrat or Republican or whatever, sexual abuse is unacceptable.”

Byrd was seemingly unfazed. After the allegations emerged, campaign contributions continued to roll in from private prison corporations, the Tennessee Bankers Association, housing and realty groups, and the Tennessee Education Association, according to public records. Casada, then the majority leader in the state house, helped out by running ads on social media claimingthat the women canvassing Byrd’s district were “socialist Democrats” who were bused in to “control our election,” which wasn’t true.

“Dude, I’m on a cattle farm next door — I’m not coming from anywhere like California,” Ashley Massey, another Enough is Enough activist from Byrd’s district, told Teen Vogue.

Still, it seemed like the attacks worked. According to Emily Tseffos, one of the Enough is Enough organizers, there were a couple people who stated “Oh, I know about you” and shut the door as soon as the canvassers mentioned Byrd’s name. Rice told Teen Vogue that people have privately admitted to her, “I’m rooting for you, but I can’t say anything in my position because I’ll lose all my business.”

The Enough is Enough activists said they weren’t entirely surprised that Byrd held onto his support and was re-elected. It’s such a heavily GOP district that Democrats usually don’t bother to run. Research has shown that liberals are more likely to condemn sexual harassment, while conservatives appear more likely to prioritize loyalty over social change. A majority of Republican men said in one national survey last October that they would vote for a candidate accused of sexual misconduct by multiple people.

Few lawmakers have called for Byrd’s resignation. One of these is is Gloria Johnson, a Democratic representative from Knoxville, Tennessee, and she said Casada found ways to get back at her for it. During debate in March over a controversial bill to ban abortions once a heartbeat is detected, Johnson stood with her hand up for 45 minutes in hopes of speaking and offering an amendment to add exceptions for rape and incest. Casada refused to call on her. She approached him afterward and asked why.

“It was because of my speaking out against Byrd,” Johnson told Teen Vogue. “He accused me of organizing a rally that took place when the women first went into the committee hearing.” Johnson had nothing to do with the organizing, but had sat near the activists during one of the hearings to offer her silent support, she said. “I had not nothing to do with organizing, but the speaker is incredibly retaliatory.”

Casada removed Byrd from his post as chair of the education administration subcommittee in late March, but continued to defend Byrd from the allegations. “I believe we have two sacred rights in this country,” Casada said at the time. “One, you are innocent until proven guilty, and two, the people make their will known at the voting box.”

“That is such a ridiculous argument to me — voters aren’t a jury,” Johnson told Teen Vogue. “There’s enough there to say this person should not be serving in the legislature, and they certainly shouldn’t have power over all the kids in the state.”

Casada decided to resign from his role as speaker in light of a separate controversy with his staff, but he has not announcedplans to vacate his legislative seat. In early May, local news outlets reported that Cade Cothren, who spent the past decade working for Casada in various roles, used cocaine in the legislature’s offices, exchanged vulgar texts about women with Casada, used the N-word and stated to friends in a text message that “black people are idiots.” Casada had previously defended Cothren, calling the texts between the two “locker room talk.”

By this point, Rice had tried for months to meet with Casada to talk about David Byrd. But in phone calls this month, recordings of which were obtained by Teen Vogue, Casada’s staff told Rice that she wouldn’t be allowed to bring a support person with her to a meeting with him.

“The only way the Speaker will meet with you is if it’s a one-on-one meeting, and we will have a female staff member present as well,” an aide for Casada told Rice in one call.

Casada’s office eventually relented and would allow Rice to bring someone, but according to the Enough is Enough organizers, they didn’t do so until it was too late.

With Casada stepping down from leadership, the activists hope they’re getting closer to pushing Byrd out of office.

“We’re glad Casada is being forced out,” Emily Tseffos said. “But three women say Byrd sexually molested them. He can’t stay in office. The GOP needs to finish the job and remove him.”

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American television host Tamron Hall is opening up about giving birth at 48 and some of the complications she face.

Tamron and her son Moses, whom she welcomed on April 24 with her husband Steven Greener, appears on the cover of this week’s PEOPLE magazine.

“I knew that the clock was not on my side,” Tamron Hall tells PEOPLE, saying Moses’ birth was worth every bit of time, effort and patience it took.

Before Moses’ birth, Tamron wasn’t so sure his arrival was even possible.

“I was high-risk, not just because of my age, but there were other medical factors too,” she said.

Tamron revealed she was pregnant in March when the pregnancy was 32 weeks.

“My doctor said, ‘This is your body, your health. You share of your journey what you want to share.’ I was terrified I would lose this baby and I would have to go back and tell everyone that now it was bad news, and after this pregnancy had gone so far,” she recalls

“I just wasn’t mentally prepared to deal with that,” she continues. “That’s why I waited. And trust me — if I could’ve gone the whole way to delivery, I would’ve.”

Tamron also opened up about trying fertility treatments in her 30s, which failed, and she tried again in her 40s.

“I knew that the clock was not on my side. When I tried in my 30s, I still felt like I had some time, and the fertility clinic felt like a bright room. In my 40s I saw all the gray: The faces looked gray, the walls were gray, nothing seemed shiny and optimistic.”

“Just like with my job search during that time, there were so many frustrations: I’m putting in the work, I’m taking care of my mind and my body and I’m being rejected,” she continues. “I’m thinking, ‘Wait a minute. What have I done wrong here?’ Somehow, like Rocky, I kept getting up.”

On the career front, Tamron is getting ready to host her own syndicated talk show, set to premiere on September 9. She had left her spot on NBC’s Todayshow in February 2017.

“When I left NBC, I said, ‘I look forward to the next chapter.’ People assumed that I meant work, and I did, but by the third month I knew that my life had to be about something bigger than work.

“My story is not one I could’ve ever expected. Two and a half years ago when I walked out of that NBC building, I was in a fog, not knowing that so many of us lose things we think are important, and we have no idea that something better is right there.

“I’m from the South, and there’s a saying: ‘It’s not a setback; it’s a setup for something else.’ That loss set me up for, yes, a dream job but also my baby, my husband, my family. I just couldn’t see it coming,” she says.

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At its 318th graduation ceremony, Yale University presented honorary degreesto 11 individuals who have achieved distinction in their fields. Among them is Nigerian author Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, and Zimbabwean entrepreneur and philanthropist Strive Masiyiwa.

Chimamanda was conferred a Doctor of Letters degree from the university, while Strive received a Doctor of Humane Letters degree.

This is Chimamanda’s second degree from the university. In 2008, she received a Master of Arts degree in African studies from Yale.

The degree from Yale is coming days after Chimamanda got two Doctor of Humane Letters honorary degrees from American University and Georgetown University.

On Chimamanda, Yale wrote:

Your stories of war, migration, home, and heartbreak bring the great richness and multiplicity of human experience to life. With courage and clarity, you call us to “do better” for women and girls, for ourselves and future generations around the globe.

In appreciation for your superb talent and leadership in literature and the public sphere, we are honored to present your second Yale degree, Doctor of Letters.

On Strive, Yale wrote:

You see opportunities others miss and demonstrate the courage of your convictions at every turn. Brave visionary, bold business leader, and devoted humanitarian, your innovation and generosity have transformed a continent and improved countless lives.

For inspiring us to tackle great challenges, lead with honor, and serve others, Yale is privileged to confer on you this Doctor of Humane Letters degree.

See the full list of honorands here.

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Antonella Bundu is the woman who’s running to become Mayor of Florence in Italy, becoming the first black woman to do so.

Born to a Florentine mother and a Sierra Leonean father, Bundu was chosen by a coalition of anti-fascist leftist parties.

She shares why she’s running and the changes she hopes to make with Al Jazeera.

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