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In Career Gems January 15, 2024 By Women of Rubies

Five Self-Help Books To Boost Your Career And Your Confidence

Self-help books can be a great resource when it comes to self-improvement and boosting your career. From improving your communication skills and building relationships with colleagues to nurturing your confidence and self-esteem, books can give us the tools and strategies to find success at work.

From new releases to bestsellers, here are some of the best reads about cultivating a healthy, fulfilling career in the modern workplace.

1. Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? by Dr Julie Smith (2022)

It’s no secret that our workplaces are unhealthy. Excessive workloads, stagnant pay, job insecurity, discrimination and toxic cultures and environments have had a serious impact on our mental health. According to a survey of 30,000 people by AXA UK and Centre of Economic and Business Research, more than a fifth (21%) of UK adults are in emotional distress, defined by the study as ‘struggling’.

Although self-help books are no replacement for professional support and treatment, having a practical guide can help – something clinical psychologist Dr Julie Smith provides in her latest book. It’s an easy-to-understand therapy toolkit designed to help readers understand and manage various mental health challenges from anxiety and depression to low motivation.

Read: 14 Jobs women can do from anywhere without experience

2. If You Could Live Anywhere by Melody Warnick (2022)

Until fairly recently, your job dictated where you lived. If you wanted to work in publishing, you lived in London. Launching an app meant living in San Francisco. But now, with more people choosing to work from home either full-time or part-time, where we live is less dependent on our jobs.

Almost half of working adults were working from home at times during the COVID-19 pandemic. According to ONS data, 24% of people worked from home part-time in May 2022 – and more than eight in 10 workers said they planned to do hybrid work in the future. However, the place you call home still matters and finding the right place is essential for your happiness. Melody Warnick looks at how to find the right location for you while doing the job you love.

3. How To Make Affirmations Work For You By Esther Ijewere (2023)

How To Make Affirmations Work For You helps you disrupt negative thinking habits and build a new route in your brain for positive thoughts. Eventually, positive thought patterns appear, and your good thoughts affect your actions. It could help you learn new skills, succeed at work, or improve relationships.

This book will get you inspired by tapping into that awesome feeling of empowerment and self-belief that affirmations can create. And you start projecting the energy to the world, and the confidence to yourself, that you are ready to achieve these goals. It also helps your self-esteem to naturally boost. It helps to replace negative thoughts with positive ones. They harness the mind’s power by directing your intentions toward your best self and your happiest.

Esther’s book helps you focus on affirming your self-worth by reflecting on your core values and helping give you a broader view of yourself. It is available in E-book and paperback.

4. Be A Triangle by Lilly Singh (2022)

Research suggests self-esteem is linked to positive work outcomes, such as job satisfaction and higher income. However, a lack of self-esteem and confidence at work is something many of us struggle with. According to one 2019 study, 79% of women and 62% of men regularly feel a lack of confidence on the job. Imposter syndrome, doubting your abilities and feeling like a fraud, is common.

Comedian Lilly Singh, the New York Times bestselling author of How to Be a Bawse, suggests that triangles are the ideal model for building self-esteem in this short book. Triangles have got a strong foundation and they are difficult to knock over – an ethos we should apply to ourselves.1,

5. Presence by Amy Cuddy (2015)

Even the most confident of us get anxious from time to time, whether it’s in a job interview or before a big presentation. Frustratingly, these jitters can stop us showcasing our skills and abilities – and can set us back when it comes to career progression.

Harvard Business School professor and social psychologist Amy Cuddy examines how to overcome anxiety in stressful situations with some helpful, practical tips. She looks at how the mind and body are connected and how body language and posture can be used to overcome nerves.

In Career Gems January 15, 2024 By Women of Rubies

5 Essential Mindsets For Continuous Career Growth

I was a teacher, coach, and education administrator for 44 years – 10 years at the high school level and 34 at the collegiate level. I also organized and directed basketball camps and clinics throughout America and in four European countries.

I was privileged to work with a good number of people who excelled at work, which led them to successful careers.

Through the years, I observed 5 characteristics that I thought led all the successful people I encountered to excel in their work. Here are five mindsets to adopt to excel in work and your career.

1. Humility

The most successful people I worked with were humble from their first through their last day at work. I found that people who made it to the very top of their professions in business, education, law, or medicine were humble people. The willingness to admit that there is more to learn is the mark of an excellent leader.^[1]

Incongruously, people who were trying to excel in their work but had not reached the top were the arrogant, egotistical ones. This seemed to be a recurrent occurrence.

For its 75th anniversary, Fortune Magazine dedicated the entire publication to one concept – decision-making. They interviewed leaders from the business, military, education, and political worlds.

I thought the most insightful interview was with Jim Collins, author of Good to Great. His comment was that the most important decisions made in the last 25 years in American boardrooms, regardless of the business, all began with the leaders saying the same 3 words, “I don’t know.”

I have worked with leaders who knew. In fact, to say I worked “with” them is a misnomer. Nobody could work “with” them because they already had all the answers.

I also worked with leaders who, when tough decisions had to be made, called in their principal people. They were not afraid to say, “I don’t know how we should handle this issue, but let’s put our heads together and find the best solution.”

I found these humble leaders to be the most secure and strongest leaders I ever worked with.

John Wooden, the iconic UCLA basketball coach, summed up humility when he wrote:^[2]

Talent is God-given, be humble. Fame is man-given, be thankful. But conceit is self-given, be careful.

2. Caring

People who excel at work care about their fellow workers. Caring about people is one of the elements of Wellness-Centered Leadership, or leadership that is designed to empower and foster professional fulfillment.

3. Extra Mile

Successful people always do more than is expected of them.

When problems arise, people who excel at work do whatever it takes to resolve the issue. They do not have to be asked; they are always ready to go the extra mile.

My fellow coach and great friend, Jack Hermanski, worked with Special Education students. He was a “traveling” teacher who worked with students at ten schools in his district. Like many school districts, budgets were minimal in Jack’s district. Jack was committed to teaching his students and refused to let budgets impede his serving his kids.

Having to travel daily from school to school, Jack kept all his equipment in his truck. But there was something different about the equipment in Jack’s truck. He bought all of it!

Jack went the extra mile to provide his students with the best educational experience possible.

4. Listening

I am convinced the skill of listening can never be overemphasized. We have numerous classes in speaking in our college courses, but I believe a mandatory class in LISTENING within the general education requirements would be of more benefit to the students. Active listening imparts approachability, and it is a valued skill.^[4]

Rather than giving you my perspectives on listening, let me share the wisdom of some thought leaders on listening:

“One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say.” – Bryant H. McGill
“Listening is one of the loudest forms of kindness.” – Anonymous
“Most of the successful people I’ve known are the ones who do more listening than talking.” – Bernard Beruch
“Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.” – Winston Churchill
“God gave us a mouth that closes and ears that don’t. That must tell us something.” – Anonymous
“Most people don’t listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.” – Stephen Covey
“I remind myself every morning: Nothing I say this day will teach me anything. So, if I am going to learn, I must do it by listening.” – Larry King
“You cannot truly listen to anyone and do something else at the same time.” – Scott Peck
I never thought of this before. Have you? “The word listen has the same letters as silent.” – Alfred Brendel

People who excel at work have developed the skill of listening.

5. Consistency of Effort

I used to think that effort was the key to athletic success. I no longer believe this for athletics or any profession. I believe the difference between good and great in any endeavor is the consistency of effort.

No one has their “A” game every day, but the great ones develop the ability and the mindset to reach down and bring the best they have every day.

Good athletes can find their best effort periodically. Great athletes have mental toughness once they tie up their shoes for practice and walk onto the field or court to reach maximum effort immediately.

In his famous Pyramid of Success, John Wooden defines success in this way:

Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to become the best of which you are capable.

Bottom Line

It is critically important to accept that there are no shortcuts to success. When you can consistently bring the best you have each day, you will know how to excel in your career and how to have a success future.

To excel at work: Be humble. Be caring. Go the extra mile. Be a listener. Be a life-long learner. Bring consistency of effort.

Source: Pat Sullivan

In Career Gems January 13, 2024 By Women of Rubies

15 Inspiring Women-led Organizations Making Waves In Canada

In recent years, the landscape of business and entrepreneurship has witnessed a remarkable rise in women-led organizations, with women breaking barriers and making their mark in various industries. Canada, known for its commitment to diversity and equality, is home to numerous women-led organizations that are driving innovation, making a difference, and inspiring future generations. In this article, we celebrate the achievements and highlight the stories of thirteen exceptional women-led organizations in Canada

1. Canadian Women’s Foundation

As one of the largest women’s foundations in Canada, the Canadian Women’s Foundation works to address gender inequality and support women’s economic empowerment, ending gender-based violence, and promoting girls’ rights. They invest in community programs and initiatives that create lasting change.

2. Women of Influence

Women of Influence is a platform that celebrates and supports the advancement of women in leadership positions. Through their events, media, and community initiatives, they amplify the stories and achievements of influential women across various sectors.

3. Women of Rubies Inc.

Women of Rubies is not only a women’s platform dedicated to highlighting female business owners worldwide but also a boutique communications firm providing comprehensive public relations solutions in events, marketing, reputation management, media relations, and strategy. Established by Esther Ijewere, a highly acclaimed media personality and public relations strategist, this platform has successfully showcased and celebrated the achievements of more than 5000 women globally.

4. CIBWE

CIBWE, which stands for Canada International Black Women Excellence, is a distinguished Canadian organization dedicated to celebrating, empowering, and advancing the achievements of Black women across the country and beyond. Founded on the principles of equality, inclusivity, and empowerment, CIBWE strives to create a platform that not only recognizes the remarkable contributions of Black women but also provides them with the tools and resources they need to thrive.

This dynamic organization serves as a beacon of hope and inspiration for Black women, offering support in various aspects of their lives, from education and entrepreneurship to leadership and community engagement. CIBWE believes in the power of unity and collaboration, bringing together diverse voices and talents to foster positive change and break down barriers.

With a commitment to excellence and a focus on creating opportunities for personal and professional growth, CIBWE continues to be a driving force in promoting the success and well-being of Black women in Canada and making their voices heard on the global stage. Through its initiatives, events, and advocacy, CIBWE shines a spotlight on the outstanding achievements of Black women while paving the way for a more inclusive and equitable future.

5. Total Mom Inc

Total Mom Inc. Canada is an organization that focuses on supporting and empowering mothers in Canada. It is a platform that provides resources, community, and opportunities for personal and professional growth for moms.

Total Mom Inc. offers a wide range of services and programs to cater to the diverse needs of mothers. They provide educational resources, workshops, and events that cover various topics such as parenting, career development, self-care, and entrepreneurship. Through these offerings, they aim to equip moms with the knowledge, skills, and support they need to thrive in all aspects of their lives.

Additionally, Total Mom Inc. provides networking opportunities and a sense of community for mothers. They facilitate connections among moms, creating a space where they can share their experiences, offer support, and build meaningful relationships. The organization understands the importance of a strong support system and strives to create a community that celebrates and uplifts moms.

Total Mom Inc. also collaborates with businesses and brands to create opportunities for moms to pursue their passions and interests. They connect moms with brands that align with their values and provide platforms for them to showcase their talents and expertise.

6. The Canadian Association of Women Executives & Entrepreneurs (CAWEE)

CAWEE is a prominent organization that supports and advocates for women executives and entrepreneurs in Canada. They offer networking opportunities, educational programs, and resources to enhance the professional growth and success of women in business.

7. Women’s Entrepreneurship Knowledge Hub (WEKH)

WEKH is a national organization that promotes research, knowledge-sharing, and collaboration to advance women’s entrepreneurship in Canada. They work towards creating a supportive ecosystem for women entrepreneurs through partnerships and initiatives across the country.

8. Women in Communications and Technology (WCT)

WCT is a national organization focused on advancing women’s leadership and inclusion in the communications and technology sectors. They provide mentorship, professional development programs, and networking opportunities to empower women and promote diversity in these industries.

The range of services offered by Women of Rubies encompasses various areas, including product launches, influencer programs, PR strategy development, media training, event management, experiential marketing, and corporate communications support.

9. Black Mom Connection

Founded by award-winning event planner and creative storyteller Tanya Hayles, Black Moms Connection started with a group of 12 women in Toronto looking to create a safe space to ask culturally relevant questions and get culturally relevant answers. Since its inception, this once local grassroots organization has evolved into an online global village of more than 16,000 people with chapters in a variety of North American cities and in Asia. As a registered non-profit organization, Black Moms Connection offers culturally relevant tools and resources to empower and educate Black women. Workshops and sessions range from special needs education to financial literacy, encouraging mothers to increase the social, emotional, financial, and well-being of the Black family.

10. Afro Women and Youth Foundation

Afro Women and Youth Foundation Canada is an organization dedicated to empowering and uplifting Afro women and youth in Canada. The foundation focuses on addressing the unique challenges and barriers faced by Afro women and youth, and works towards creating opportunities for their personal and professional growth.

Through various programs and initiatives, the foundation aims to promote education, entrepreneurship, leadership development, and community engagement among Afro women and youth. They provide resources, mentorship, and support networks to help individuals enhance their skills, explore career pathways, and achieve their full potential.

11. Women’s Executive Network (WXN)

WXN is Canada’s leading organization dedicated to advancing and celebrating the achievements of women in business. They provide networking opportunities, leadership development programs, and recognition through prestigious awards to inspire and empower women professionals.

12. TechGirls Canada

TechGirls Canada is a national organization that advocates for diversity and gender equality in the tech industry. They work to create inclusive environments and provide resources, mentorship, and support for women and girls pursuing careers in technology.

13. Black Women In Motion

Founded by Monica Samuel, Black Women in Motion is a Toronto-based, youth-led organization that empowers and supports the advancement of Black women, gender-non-confirming, and non-binary survivors of gender-based violence. As an educator, community builder, social entrepreneur and DEI consultant, Monica has spent the past decade focusing on anti-oppression, equity, mental health, sex positivity, and consent. She’s known for her creation of culturally centred spaces for learning, unlearning, and self-expression.

Programs include the Black Youth Employment Assistance Program, Black Peer Education Network, Love Offering Community Emergency Relief Fund, and other wellness initiatives, internships, and workshops. The organization offers a number of ways for interested parties to get involved from monetary donations, corporate partnerships, non-monetary gifts, and volunteer opportunities. While this organization is Toronto-based, they’re bringing education and community to a much broader audience.

14. Native’s Women Association of Canada

The Native Women’s Association of Canada (NWAC) is a National Indigenous Organization representing the political voice of Indigenous women, girls, and gender diverse people in Canada, inclusive of First Nations Peoples on and off reserve, status and non-status, disenfranchised, Métis, and Inuit.

NWAC was founded to enhance, promote, and foster the social, economic, cultural, and political well-being of Indigenous women. An aggregate of Indigenous women’s organizations from across the country, NWAC engages in national and international advocacy aimed at legislative and policy reforms that promote equality for Indigenous women, girls, Two-Spirit and gender diverse people, including LGBTQIA+ people.

NWAC works on a variety of issues such as employment, labour and business, health, violence prevention and safety, justice and human rights, environment, early learning childcare, and international affairs.

15. The Period Purse

As most good stories do, this one started with one woman and her desire to help. Wondering how those experiencing homelessness would gain access to period products, Jana Girdauskas, a teacher and mom, filled one purse with menstrual supplies and other hygiene items, ready for someone in need. She put a request out on Facebook and within a month she received 350 purses filled with donated products. That was 2017. Today, The Period Purse is Canada’s first and only registered charity dealing with menstrual equity and has chapters across the country.

They’ve donated more than 2.5 million period products since their inception. With a focus on reducing the stigma surrounding periods through education and advocacy, The Period Purse provides a number of opportunities for those interested in volunteering their time, items or financial support to the cause. With the announcement in Ontario around making period products available for free to students in schools, period equity has certainly been top-of-mind.

The rise of women-led organizations in Canada is a testament to the incredible talent, resilience, and determination of women entrepreneurs and leaders.

The thirteen organizations highlighted in this article are just a snapshot of the diverse and impactful initiatives being spearheaded by women across the country.

Through their visionary leadership, these organizations are breaking barriers, inspiring change, and creating a more inclusive and equitable society. As we celebrate their achievements, let us continue to support and uplift women-led organizations, amplifying their voices and ensuring their continued success.

In Career Gems January 8, 2024 By Women of Rubies

12 Simple Self-Care Ideas For Women

Do you suffer from recurrent headaches, insomnia or inability to have a relaxing sleep, stomach upset, and lack of appetite, low energy, mental distress, emotional imbalance, and irritation?

You need some self-care ASAP.

If at any point in your life you are unable to create a balance, then you need self-care. For example, if you live with a bunch of crazies as roommates and are always unhappy or stressed, self-care is the answer.

Self-care is the act of deliberately indulging in activities that make us burst forth like a spring bloom. It means taking control of your emotional, physical, mental, financial, spiritual, and every other aspect of your life. Every step you take to cater to the well-being of yourself is self-care. After all, who would not want some minutes, hours, or days of self-love? There is the need to recharge, be refreshed, and be ready for the road ahead, and having a self-care routine will help you achieve these.

Before forging ahead, remember that self-care is different for everyone. It is not a one-size-fits-all thing. The best part about self-care is to do what is good for you.

Self-care refers to different things for different people. For some, a day in bed without disturbance or watching their favorite movies is self-care. However, it is crucial to note that everyone approaches this seemingly simple activity differently.

So, what are the benefits of self-care?

Self-Care Improves Your Physical Health – Self-care reminds you to critically look at yourself and improve on it. Simple activities like brushing, flossing, exercising, sleeping, or eating well are things we often forget to do as we pursue the good life, but they are beneficial to our personal well-being.
Self-Care Reduces Stress, Anxiety, and Depression – This idea is tied to the point above. Simple practices like running a bath, yoga, meditation, music, or indulging in a favorite hobby are self-care ideas. They also allow you to relax, calm your mood, and boost your mental health and consequently, your overall well-being.
Self-Care Prevents the Onset of Mental Health Issues – Simple changes to your routine like eating well, sleeping longer, taking a day off to relax are ways to help restore and maintain your sanity. While self-care is not a substitute for professional help, it is a reliable way to prevent and manage mental health issues, especially in women.
Self-Care Increases Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence – Self-care allows you to concentrate on the things that make you happy. For example, by taking a longer bath, you become more relaxed and sure that your skin is refreshed, which also boosts your self-worth and confidence.

You live in such a demanding and hectic world and sometimes, life can get so busy and overwhelming that you forget to care for yourself. These self-care ideas allow you to create a comfortable balance to the chaos around you.

Women all over the world are working themselves to death. Whether as a career women, a mom, a wife, a friend, a confidant, or whatever, they are always in a hurry to satisfy everyone but themselves.

An African proverb says, “no matter how much you solve people’s problems, it will never run out.”

However, you can run out if you do not slow down. So, go at your pace. Happiness starts with you.

Here are 12 self-care ideas and routines for women.

1. Go for a Medical Check

Go for a medical check—and I do not mean over-the-counter chatting with the friendly pharmacist, but in a real hospital. A medical check is not necessary because something is wrong but to ensure nothing is going wrong. Many women, especially those in their early 40s, 50s, or even late 30s, never get a medical routine until something goes wrong. Do not wait to be a victim of life’s unbalances—go for a medical check today.

2. Be Kind to Yourself

For some funny reason, women are never kind to themselves. They live in this mental bubble that everyone’s kindness is ours. Hold it and take a couple of steps back.
No, your happiness is just as important as the next person. Sacrifice is a woman’s thing, but self-neglect and denial are not a part of it. If you can be kind to others, be kind to yourself, too.

3. Take a Spa Day

You deserve it, and it is a relaxing way to knock aches and pains away with a deep massage, pedicure, manicure, and facial. You will come out of it looking sexier, more confident, and more relaxed.

4. Do Something You Love and Enjoy

This can be anything you love but have not done in a long time. It can be reading a book, having a lunch date with your girlfriends, or glancing through your favorite magazine. Remember, it must be something that you love doing.

5. Define a Morning Routine

How are your mornings like? If it is like the regular, change it. Add some warm lemon water as a detox start, plank for 30 seconds to boost your strength, and eat breakfast. The goal is to do something that triggers your happy hormones and makes your day as bright as the sun.

6. Start a Self-Care Journal

Journaling has become a viral habit since the pandemic. Not only does it remind you of where you are, but it is also a technique to unwind emotionally and mentally. If you haven’t started a journal, this is the time to do just that. Overall, journaling is a great way to reflect on each day and its impact on you.

7. Take Your Sleep Time Seriously

Women are the first to wake up and the last people to sleep every night. While it is a good habit to watch over those you love, you need to love yourself too, and sleep is a relaxing way to start. Create a sleep routine and stick to it.

For example, make it a priority to sleep by 9 pm and wake at 5 am. This gives you about eight hours of sleep, which is good. Never push your tiredness beyond the boundaries of your strength. Sleep.

8. Learn to Say No

Nobody ever died from saying or hearing the words “no,” so learn it. You cannot give what you do not possess and believe me, selfish love is never a good thing. If you cannot do a task, just say no.

9. Be Unapologetic About Your Actions

Aren’t you tired of explaining your life to everyone? Stop it! This is the time to quit being apologetic for begin you and just live life. If you know in your heart that your actions are healthy, beneficial, and productive, never apologize.

10. Forgive Your Past

If there is one thing that is holding you back from enjoying your present, it is your past. We all have pasts, some of them we overlook, and others we cannot move past it. The only reason is our inability to forgive. Settle down, go through it and forgive. You do not have to understand it, you just have to move on.

11. Bask in the Silence

The world is too noisy, and we are constantly in the middle of chaos. If you have never tried this as a self-care idea, include it in your next day off. There is the need for stillness to enable us to appreciate our surroundings. Acts of silence could be watching the sunset or drinking your morning coffee without any interruptions.

12. Practice Conscious Living

Conscious living is being aware of your every move, decision, and its effect on your life and others. Most times, we drift through life like a piece of log on an open ocean with no sense of direction. When you practice conscious living, you are aware of yourself and what your presence signifies in the world around you.

How to Create a Self-Care Routine

In addition, here are some tips and ideas on how to create a self-care routine:

Do the things you loved or love.
Go back to the simple things of life.
Be aware of your current situation (do not do more than what you can handle).
Remember that it is about yourself first.
Do not wait until the weekend. Use every free time you have.
Start small and be consistent.
Focus on activities that build you physically, emotionally, and mentally.
Repeat the ideas that work well and add something new.
Use sticky notes to remind yourself.
It is not about perfection.
Go at your own pace.

Final Thoughts

Now, these are self-care ideas that anyone can add to or take away from, but make sure you choose practices that work for you. Remember to include activities that boost your mental and emotional health, too.

Self-care is not just about physical health and outward appearances. It is a complete method of transforming yourself by caring about your needs.

In Career Gems January 8, 2024 By Women of Rubies

10 Essential Tips for Navigating Work-Life Balance as a Working Mom

For working mothers, the juggling act of managing a career while nurturing a family is a demanding yet deeply rewarding journey. As they strive to strike a harmonious balance between professional aspirations and maternal duties, working moms can benefit from practical strategies to navigate this intricate dance. Here are some invaluable tips to empower and support these multitasking marvels in their pursuit of both career success and fulfilling motherhood.

1. Embrace Time Management Strategies

Efficient time management is the linchpin for working mothers. Adopting strategies like prioritizing tasks, setting realistic goals, and leveraging productivity tools can help streamline responsibilities both at work and home.

2. Cultivate a Support System

Building a robust support network is crucial for working moms. Whether it’s a reliable babysitter, supportive family members, or understanding colleagues, having a strong support system ensures a safety net during challenging times.

3. Establish Boundaries

Define clear boundaries between work and personal life. Setting specific work hours and designating personal time fosters a healthier balance, allowing working moms to be fully present in both professional and familial spheres.

4. Embrace Flexibility

Flexibility is key in the life of a working mom. Seek flexible work arrangements, explore remote work options, or negotiate adaptable schedules to accommodate unexpected family commitments while fulfilling professional responsibilities.

5. Prioritize Self-Care

Amidst the demands of motherhood and career, self-care often takes a back seat. However, prioritizing personal well-being is crucial. Whether it’s allocating time for exercise, relaxation, or pursuing personal interests, self-care enhances overall resilience.

6. Efficient Meal Planning

Simplify meal planning to save time and ensure a balanced diet for the family. Batch cooking, meal prepping, and involving family members in cooking activities can make the dining experience enjoyable and stress-free.

7. Delegate Responsibilities

Delegating tasks, both at home and work, is a powerful strategy. Assigning age-appropriate responsibilities to children and collaborating with partners on household chores can lighten the load, promoting a more equitable distribution of responsibilities.

8. Nurture Open Communication

Open communication is vital for a harmonious family life. Discussing expectations, challenges, and successes with both family members and colleagues fosters understanding and support from all fronts.

9. Set Realistic Goals

While ambition is commendable, setting realistic goals is key. Recognize the limitations of time and energy, and establish achievable milestones both in your career and personal life.

10. Celebrate Achievements, Big and Small

Acknowledge and celebrate achievements, no matter how small. Working moms often wear multiple hats, and taking a moment to recognize accomplishments contributes to a positive mindset and reinforces the value of their efforts.

In the intricate dance of motherhood and career, working moms are resilient, resourceful, and remarkable. By embracing these tips and recognizing the unique balance they bring to the table, working mothers can navigate this challenging yet fulfilling journey with grace, confidence, and success.

In Career Gems January 8, 2024 By Women of Rubies

7 Healthy Living Habits For Busy Women: Striking Balance Amidst Hectic Schedules

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, maintaining a healthy lifestyle often takes a back seat, especially for busy women juggling multiple roles. However, prioritizing well-being is paramount for sustained energy and vitality. Here are seven practical and achievable healthy living habits tailored to fit the hectic schedules of today’s dynamic women.

1. Efficient Fitness Routines

With time being a precious commodity, efficient fitness routines become key. Incorporate short, high-intensity workouts or interval training that can be seamlessly integrated into a busy day. Aim for at least 30 minutes of physical activity most days, whether it’s a brisk walk, a quick home workout, or a dance session.

2. Nutrient-Rich Recipes

Fuel your body with nutrient-rich meals by planning and preparing simple, yet nourishing recipes. Opt for balanced meals that include a variety of colorful fruits and vegetables, lean proteins, whole grains, and healthy fats. Batch cooking on weekends can save time during the week and ensure you have wholesome options readily available.

3. Hydration is Non-Negotiable

In the midst of hectic schedules, staying hydrated often takes a back seat. However, adequate water intake is crucial for overall well-being. Keep a water bottle with you throughout the day and set reminders to ensure you’re consistently meeting your hydration goals.

4. Mindful Eating Practices

Practice mindful eating to cultivate a healthier relationship with food. Take the time to savor each bite, listen to your body’s hunger and fullness cues, and avoid distractions like screens during meals. This approach not only contributes to better digestion but also encourages healthier food choices.

5. Prioritize Stress Management

Stress is an inevitable part of a busy life, but effective stress management is key. Incorporate stress-relief practices such as deep breathing exercises, short meditation sessions, or even a brisk walk during breaks. Prioritizing mental health contributes significantly to overall well-being.

6. Quality Sleep Matters

In the midst of packed schedules, sleep is often sacrificed. However, quality sleep is foundational for physical and mental health. Establish a consistent sleep routine, create a conducive sleep environment, and aim for 7-9 hours of sleep each night to support optimal well-being.

7. Schedule ‘Me Time’

Amidst the demands of work and family, scheduling ‘me time’ is crucial. Dedicate moments in your week to activities that bring joy and relaxation, whether it’s reading a book, enjoying a hobby, or simply unwinding with a warm bath. Prioritizing self-care contributes to a more balanced and fulfilling life.

In conclusion, weaving these healthy living habits into the fabric of a busy life can lead to a more energized, focused, and resilient you. Embrace these habits gradually, tailoring them to your unique schedule and preferences, and witness the positive impact on your overall well-being. Remember, a healthier you is better equipped to conquer the demands of a busy life with grace and vitality.

In Career Gems January 3, 2024 By Women of Rubies

10 Pathways to Achieving Financial Prosperity In 2024

Amidst the dynamic landscape of personal finance, the commencement of a new year presents an opportune time to reassess and refine your financial objectives. Stepping into 2024, let’s delve into essential tactics for attaining financial well-being, and laying the groundwork for a stable and flourishing future. Here are 10 pathways to achieving financial prosperity in 2024.

1. Set Clear Financial Goals

Begin by defining your financial objectives for the year. Whether it’s saving for a home, investing in education, or building an emergency fund, setting clear and achievable goals provides a roadmap for your financial journey.

2. Create a Realistic Budget

Crafting a detailed budget is fundamental to financial success. Evaluate your income, track your expenses, and identify areas where you can save or cut back. A well-planned budget serves as a powerful tool to manage your money efficiently.

3. Diversify Your Investments

Explore diverse investment opportunities to maximize returns and minimize risks. Consider a mix of stocks, bonds, and real estate, aligning your investment portfolio with your risk tolerance and long-term financial objectives.

4. Leverage Technology for Financial Management

Embrace financial technology tools and apps that can streamline budgeting, expense tracking, and investment management. These tools provide real-time insights into your financial health and empower you to make informed decisions.

5. Prioritize Debt Repayment

Tackle high-interest debts strategically. Prioritize repayment of loans and credit card balances to reduce interest payments and free up resources for savings and investments.

6. Enhance Financial Literacy

Stay informed about financial trends, investment strategies, and economic indicators. Continuous learning empowers you to make informed financial decisions and adapt to evolving market conditions.

7. Emergency Fund Building

Aim to build a robust emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses. Having a financial safety net provides peace of mind and prevents the need to dip into long-term investments during unforeseen circumstances.

8. Explore Additional Income Streams

Diversify your income streams by exploring side hustles, freelance opportunities, or passive income sources. Supplementing your primary income enhances financial stability and accelerates wealth-building.

9. Review and Adjust

Regularly review your financial plan and make adjustments as needed. Life is dynamic, and so should be your financial strategy. Be flexible and ready to adapt to changes in your personal or economic circumstances.

10. Seek Professional Advice

Consider consulting with financial advisors or experts to receive personalized guidance based on your unique financial situation. Professional advice can provide valuable insights and strategies tailored to your goals.

Conclusion: A Prosperous Financial Future Awaits

As we step into 2024, implementing these financial strategies can pave the way for a year of financial prosperity. With careful planning, disciplined execution, and a commitment to financial well-being, you can unlock new opportunities and build a foundation for lasting success. Cheers to a financially thriving year ahead!

In Career Gems December 21, 2023 By Women of Rubies

How To Ignite The Power Of Self-Love: Building Confidence And Resilience

Embarking on a journey of self-discovery in a world that often demands perfection and relentless achievement, the transformative path of embracing self-love and building confidence becomes an empowering narrative for women seeking resilience and personal fulfillment. In this blog post, we delve into the art of self-love and confidence-building—essential components for navigating life’s challenges and thriving as a modern woman. How to Ignite the Power of Self-Love: Building Confidence and Resilience offers actionable insights that will guide you through this empowering journey, fostering a deeper connection with yourself and unlocking the true potential within.

Embracing the Journey

The journey to self-love is a personal and transformative one. Begin by acknowledging that imperfections are part of what makes you uniquely beautiful. Share personal stories and experiences that resonate with the struggles and triumphs of embracing oneself authentically.

Building Confidence Brick by Brick

Confidence is not an inherent trait; it’s a skill that can be developed over time. Provide actionable tips and strategies for building confidence, whether through setting and achieving small goals, celebrating accomplishments, or practicing positive affirmations. Share stories of women who have transformed self-doubt into unshakable confidence.

Nurturing Resilience in the Face of Challenges

Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and adversity. Discuss the importance of resilience in personal growth and provide practical advice on cultivating this trait. Highlight stories of women who have faced adversity head-on, showcasing their resilience and the valuable lessons gained from overcoming obstacles.

Self-Love Rituals and Practices

Explore various self-love rituals and practices that contribute to overall well-being. From mindfulness exercises and self-care routines to embracing self-compassion, offer actionable insights that readers can incorporate into their daily lives. Share personal anecdotes or success stories illustrating the positive impact of these practices.

Voices of Empowerment

Feature interviews or quotes from inspiring women who have embraced self-love, built confidence, and demonstrated resilience. Their voices can serve as a source of motivation and encouragement for readers navigating similar journeys. Include diverse perspectives to resonate with a broad audience.

Conclusion:

Embracing self-love, building confidence, and cultivating resilience are powerful tools that every woman can wield on her journey to personal fulfillment. By sharing stories, insights, and actionable tips, we hope to inspire and empower our readers to embark on their own transformative journeys, realizing the strength and beauty that lie within.

In a world where self-love is revolutionary, let’s celebrate the unique journey each woman takes toward embracing her authenticity, building unshakeable confidence, and cultivating resilience in the face of life’s ebbs and flows.

In Career Gems December 21, 2023 By Women of Rubies

How to Achieve Financial Independence And Grow Your Wealth

Building wealth and getting clarity around your finances doesn’t have to be daunting or stressful. In fact, with the right practices instilled, it can be liberating.

If you want to be one of them, then read on to educate yourself about debt, value-based spending, the best saving habits, financial freedom, and the key components that lead to financial success. It won’t be easy to implement these new habits, but you certainly won’t regret it.

ONE- Pay Off Your Debts.

Not all debts are bad. Debt with a plan can actually be really good for acquiring assets. These are ‘good debts’ as they are spent on investments and assets that are valuable and can be liquidated in the long run.
‘Bad debts’ are those debts you use on consumption.

When you have a million naira personal income and you have a debt of 500 thousand naira that is due or will be due, it is advisable you pay off your debts first before you calculate how much you really own.

If you have more than one debt, pay off the one with the highest interest rates or the one with the highest balance first.

TWO – Determine Your Priorities.

When you prioritize debt, think about high interest versus low interest. You can build emergency funds simultaneously while paying off your debts because if you do not have an emergency fund, you may slip back into that debt if real emergency happens.

Being in debt is stressful so you will feel more compelled to rid yourself of that burden. High-interest debt steals from your wealth; values-based spending helps you get in alignment with building wealth, and an emergency fund protects your wealth so that you don’t slide back into high-interest debt.

THREE- Practice Value-Based Spending.

The first step is awareness – know what you’re spending.
Look back at the last three to six months of your spending and analyze how much you’re spending on your lifestyle.

It is easy to often assume that you are just paying for rent and food but our brains want to rationalize that we’re on our best behavior, so it doesn’t allow us to think about all of the subscription boxes.

Value-based spending is a lot easier than budgeting. Setting a budget can feel restrictive, like being on a diet.

You spend within your budget for a week and then you see that dress on Instagram and you click.

But if you have values, you will see that that instant gratification won’t be gratifying for long because it’s not aligned with our values. Once you determine three values that really matter to you, you’ll find that they can function as a filter. An example would be equity, family, and leverage (when you’re willing to spend money on things that help make life easier). Buying the shoes doesn’t align with any of those pillars, so it needs to be a preplanned choice.

FOUR – Open a High-Yield Savings Account.

Saving is the inverse of spending. Parkinson’s law states that work expands to fill the time available for its completion. Basically, any one thing can shrink or contract to the size of its container. In relation to money in a bank account, the reason you end up spending what you should be saving is that it’s right there, visible, in your checking account.
Open a high-yield savings account and automate transfers on a monthly basis. That recurring act will give you accessibility to only what you should be spending.

Consider investments as well, but make your research so you are investing in what you are knowledgeable about.

FIVE – Understand the Definition of Financial Freedom.

Financial freedom is an equation: enough passive income to outpace your expenses. When you have financial freedom in your life, work becomes an option instead of an obligation.
Financial freedom allows you to enjoy your wealth because time is no longer a finite resource.
When you go to work, even as an entrepreneur, you are trading time for money. But, if you can buy assets to create additional income, then you are trading money for assets that bring you more money.

If you get on this train and educate yourself, you will find that you don’t always have to rely on yourself and your body to make money. It takes a lot of time, effort, and sacrifice to get up every morning and go to work.

SIX – Instill the Key Components That Lead to Financial Independence

Six qualities that every wealthy woman should try to encompass:

Planning: Determine your financial goals, write them down, and find an accountability partner. You can’t get what you want if you don’t plan for it. When it comes to money, you have to be goal-oriented.
Frugality or Intentionality: Commit to saving more, spending less, and sticking to a plan. This formula leads to an ability to have a passive income because if you spend all of your money then there will be nothing left to invest it.
Confidence: In order to gain financial confidence in managing your money and investing, you need financial education. We didn’t learn this in school. You have to go and find it, otherwise, you will stay in a state of stress. Inaction is terrible for your finances.
Responsibility: Accept your role in financial outcomes and take action to make financial changes in your life.
Focus: See your process through to completion one step at a time. Accountability is crucial.
Social indifference: Don’t succumb to buying the latest thing as a means of feeling good. If you practice this, it will change your life. Women are the targets of consumerism. But, if you appreciate how you look and how you are inherent, you will save yourself a lot of time, money, and energy.

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In Editor's Choice December 16, 2023 By Women of Rubies

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