Oluwadamilola Comfort Odeyemi, popularly known as Damilola GlowVille or DamiGlow, is a certified marriage and relationship counselor, speaker, author, and content creator. She is the founder of The DamiGlow Brand, a platform rooted in faith and emotional intelligence, helping individuals and couples build intentional relationships and legacy-driven marriages.
In this interview withWomen of Rubies, Damilola opens up about her journey, tools for building strong connections, and how she’s using her voice to inspire healing and love.
Inspiration Behind the Journey into Counseling and Relationship Coaching
My journey into marriage counseling began with a passion to see people thrive in their relationships. I watched too many couples suffer in silence, good people, with good hearts, lacking the right tools. Over the years, my vision has evolved from just providing advice to building a platform; The DamiGlow Brand that equips singles and couples with timeless principles, emotional wisdom, and faith-based tools to not just survive marriage but to enjoy it deeply. My goal is legacy: marriages that last, love that grows, and homes that heal.
How to Make Marriage Fun and Fulfilling
The key is intentionality. Love doesn’t grow in autopilot mode. Even with demanding schedules, couples can reconnect through small but meaningful rituals like morning prayers, date nights, lunch check-ins, or simply dancing in the kitchen after a long day. Fun in marriage is less about grand gestures and more about shared laughter, deep conversations, and knowing you’re emotionally safe with someone.
Common Causes of Conflict in Marriage and Peaceful Resolutions
Most conflicts stem from unmet expectations, poor communication, and unresolved emotional wounds. Many couples fight not over what is said but how it is said. The path to peace is to prioritize understanding over winning. Listening actively, managing tone, and choosing the right timing are crucial tools. Also, prayer and emotional honesty can calm storms before they escalate.
My Book: Fight Like A Winner and Its Message for Couples
Fight Like A Winner: A Simple Guide to Conflict Resolution in Relationships and Marriages is not just a book—it’s a blueprint for navigating disagreements without losing yourself or your partner. In it, I teach that the goal of conflict should never be to win an argument, but to protect the relationship. Couples learn how to pause before reacting, communicate clearly, and stay solution-focused. The book offers practical tools like setting ground rules for tough conversations, taking emotional time-outs, and ending conflicts with love and unity. It’s about transforming fights into fuel for deeper connection. Grab your copy on Amazon and Selar
Steps to Manage Disagreements and Strengthen Connection
The heart of the book is this: don’t fight to win the argument, fight to protect the relationship. Couples must learn to pause before reacting, clarify intentions, and stay solution-focused. Conflict should be a doorway to deeper connection, not destruction. Practical tools include setting ground rules for disagreements, taking time-outs when emotions are high, and ending every conflict with a reaffirmation of love and unity.
Advice for Singles Preparing for Marriage
Slow down and build wisely. Marriage isn’t just about love, it’s about compatibility, shared values, emotional maturity, and faith. My advice is: heal before you commit, grow self-awareness, and choose a partner who values commitment as deeply as you do. The right preparation will save you from future frustration.
How Emotional Intimacy Impacts Long-Term Relationships
Emotional intimacy is the glue of lasting relationships. It’s about being seen, heard, and safe. Couples can improve this by practicing vulnerability, asking each other deep questions, showing empathy, and simply being present. A 10-minute heartfelt conversation can be more intimate than an expensive date night.
Success Story: Helping a Couple Rebuild Trust and Connection
I once worked with a couple on the verge of separation due to emotional distance and constant arguments. Through counseling, they learned how to express needs without blame and how to rebuild trust through accountability and grace. Today, they not only stayed together but mentor other couples. It reminds me why I do what I do.
Role of Effective Communication in Marriage
Communication is everything! It’s how love is expressed and how conflicts are resolved. I often recommend tools like using “I Statements”, For example, “I feel neglected when you…”, weekly check-ins, and emotional temperature charts. Most importantly, learn to listen with the intent to understand, not respond.
What Makes You a Woman of Rubies?
I am a Woman of Rubies because I contribute to building a better world by strengthening families, one relationship at a time. My work empowers men and women to create marriages that their children will admire, not fear. I am building a legacy where love is safe, communication is healthy, and marriage is joyful, not endured.
Women Who Inspire Damilola and Why
Modupe Dorcas Ogundele (My Mother) – Her unwavering faith and sacrificial love taught me the foundation of godly womanhood.
Debola Deji Kurunmi & Priscilla Shirer – For their boldness in faith and clarity in teaching.
Michelle Obama – For her strength, elegance, and her ability to balance influence with deep devotion to family
Follow Damilola GlowVille on Instagram, Facebook, Youtube, Twitter, Tiktok, for relationship tools, emotional wellness tips, and updates on her programs. For bookings, counseling inquiries, or to grab her book Fight Like A Winner, book a slot here or reach out on Whatsapp here
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