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Author and advocate, Tiffany Mensah has written and released her first book titled, Forgotten: Living in the Shadows of Domestic Violence. It is estimated that globally one billion children are growing up in homes plagued by domestic violence, however to date, awareness of the childhood trauma caused by such sits around 15%.

Why when the numbers are so high, and with so many children at stake are there not more conversations?

Considering how they carry such an emotional burden alongside victims, it seems that these children are oft times forgotten and their stories of survival and resilience are buried deep into the walls of childhood homes and places of abandonment.

Today, proudly and wholly Tiffany’s book gives readers a firsthand account of what it’s like to be that child offering up her raw and uncut vantage point of pain forgotten, buried, resurrected, and healed, she minces no words in letting the reader know that you are more than the trauma you witnessed.

Through her honest transparent conversation like story-telling she empowers the reader to dig deep and look at their scars while forging forward to find the healing that only faith and honesty can foster. Tiffany gives hope and the knowledge that it is possible to live a life free from what you witnessed.

About Tiffany Mensah
Tiffany Mensah is a woman of faith, author, advocate, marketing maven, and entrepreneur. With ten-plus years in Corporate America, she currently works as a marketing project manager while owning and operating Mensah & Co., a creative consulting agency. Tiffany is most proud of the work she’s done personally and spiritually to address the childhood trauma and PTSD she experienced while growing up in a home plagued by domestic violence. This work has fueled her to launch D.O.V.E.S. Network (Daily Overcoming Violence & Embracing Safety), a 501(c)(3) dedicated to the prevention of domestic violence and childhood domestic violence exposure through awareness and outreach programs.

 

Source: BlackNews

Former Minister of State for Education, Olorogun Kenneth Gbagi, has urged the Federal Government to take steps to bring back Dr. Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala to serve the country.

Gbagi said Dr. Ngozi wealth of experience, as a consummate economist, can help pull the country out of doldrums and comatose.

Dr. Ngozi who was former minister of finance got recently appointed as a member of the South African Presidential Economic Advisory Council. She is known as a good thought leader in Finance.

Gbagi said, “Dr. Okonjo-Iweala is one Nigerian who has upheld the good image and integrity of the country on an international scale, bringing to bear her immense wealth of experience and expertise.

“There is no arrogance in getting someone to do what you do not know how to do. The reason the country is at a crossroads today, against the norm obtainable in other countries with tested technocrats without blemish, is due to the unbridled attitude of getting people who can hardly run a community of 30 people to run a government.

“This is the singular reason the nation is stagnant.

“We have qualified men and women and if we must get it right, they must be given the avenue to tender their best because no matter how much of a hue and cry we engage in, life and time are running out.

“The clock is ticking and no sensible human being will allow his God’s given gift to be wasted by jokers.

“Hence, if you allow a man, who has no investment in any form or shape, to take charge of a serious-minded venture such as governance and leadership, we would run into problems.”

Ghana’s second lady, Mrs Samira Bawumia in a recent radio submission revealed that she is the first graduate in her family. Married to the vice president of Ghana, Mahamudu Bawumia Mrs Samira is passionate about education and wants no one to underestimate the importance of it.

The 40 year old politician, narrates her determination whilst in school and having supportive parents who ensured she climbed the educational ladder to achieve her goals really helped her to become what she is today.

Samira Bawumia is a Ghanaian politician and the Second Lady of the Republic of Ghana. She is married to the Vice President of Ghana, Mahamudu Bawumia.
Samira Bawumia, source Facebook

While speaking on Asempa FM, she said; ”I am the first graduate in my family, both mother and father side but I had a dogged determination because the only way for me was forward because when I was going to school I had very supportive parents, not typical ones who will force you to marry early. I had the type of parents who helped me with my schooling.”

“By the grace of God I was able to go to school and today, it has been a blessing to my family. Now people in my family are pretty well educated now but at those times, I was breaking barriers because of the opportunity I had.”

“Education can change one’s destiny. This is because we see people who come from impoverished backgrounds and succeed through educating themselves to positively impact society,” she pointed.

 

Professor Francis Nneka Okeke is a physicist who made a mark in science at a time when such was not common with women – With a PhD in ionospheric geophysics, the outstanding academic contributed greatly to the understanding of climate change –

Among her many laudable accolades was the L’Oreal-UNESCO for Women and Science Award, a marker of great recognition to women in science Professor Francis Nneka Okeke is one of the few Nigerians who are making remarkable achievements in the academic world. She is a strong contributor to the understanding of climate change.

For the above contribution, she was given the L’Oreal-UNESCO for Women and Science Award. A known Nigerian physicist, she is also the first female head of the department at the University of Nigeria, Nsukka. Nneka had her BSc in Physics in 1980 before proceeding to PGD in education in 1983. In 1985, she got her MSc in education and another masters in applied earth geophysics in 1989. Six years after in 1995, she got her doctorate degree in ionospheric geophysics.

The professor also said she believes in setting an example with good leadership.

In her interview with the media, she said she had always wanted to be a physicist right from childhood, adding that she wondered how the firmaments were the way they were as a little girl. The professor also attributed her early interest in science to her father who was a mathematician. She became a brilliant physicist at a time when the field was very much male-dominated. Apart from the sought-after UNESCO award she got in 2013, she is a fellow of world-class academies like the World Academy Science, African Academy of Science, and Japanese Society for Promotion of Science, among several others. She has also published several papers and written 15 books.

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Kemi Afolabi has been honoured with an Islamic chieftaincy title the “Imole Adinni” by an Islamic group in Lagos State on Sunday, 8th of March.

The 41-year-old actress shared beautiful pictures of her self on Instagram dressed in white. She expressed her gratitude and acknowledged the new title.

She captioned the photos: “Yesterday Sunday 08/03/20 I was conferred with the title “IMOLE ADINNI” by HIZBULLAHI INT’L PRAYER OUTREACH MINISTRY. “IMOLE” means LIGHT and it is more than a honour to be recognized as a light and huge influence in this generation.

“I have been saddled with the responsibility of being a role model to many and I promise to carry out this responsibility with utmost commitment and dedication to Allah, Insha Allah. Alhaja Anotallah Kemi Afolabi,” she wrote.

 

Ivy Bartley is a Ghanian social entrepreneur and a profound tech-woman. The CEO and Co-founder of Developers in Vogue, an organization helping and motivating women to pursue careers in the tech industry.

She recently joined tech giants, Microsoft as a programmes manager. She has attained a remarkable feat after she recently joined Microsoft.

Ivy’s organization trains and equips thousands of women in Africa with digital skills. The young Ghanaian achiever will continue to direct affairs at her organisation alongside her new role as programmes manager at Microsoft. She noted in the post below that she remains optimistic about the new opportunity.

 

In a competition organized by billionaire businessman Strive Masiyiwa thBartley won a $10,000 prize as one of the 10 finalists of the Kwese #GoGettaz.

Her company, Developers in Vogue, is a social enterprise that is aimed in creating highly skilled female developers who are passionate about using technology to revolutionize Africa and the world.

Bartley provides, training, mentorship including job placement for African women in tech.

Great woman in tech!

Omowunmi Sadik is a professor, chemist and an inventor of microelectrode biosensors that can detect foreign materials, to spot drugs and explosives.

She was born in 1964 in Lagos, Nigeria. While growing up in Nigeria, she got introduced to science by her father, who was a pharmaceutical technician. Sadik was interested in physics, chemistry, and biology.

Omowunmi Sadik

Sadik is currently a professor at Binghamton University in Upstate, New York while formulating technology that will recycle metal ions from waste for industrial and environmental purposes.

Diagram of nano-particle and intra-cross linking…photo credit: Binghamton University

In 1985, she earned her Bachelor’s degree in chemistry from the University of Lagos. She btained a Master’s degree in chemistry in 1987.  In 1994, she earned her PhD from Wollongong University in Australia.

Sadik is the recipient of several fellowships to include the American Institute for Medical and Biological Engineering, the Royal Society of Chemistry, and the National Research Council to name a few.

She is also a collaborator with the Environmental Protection Agency, the National Science Foundation, UNESCO in Romania, Turkey, and Japan; and previously a panel member for the National Institution of Health on Instrumentation and Systems Development.

Sadik in conjunction with Barbara Karn formed the not-for-profit Sustainable Nanotechnology Organization in 2012.

Currently, Sadik is a professor at Binghamton University in Upstate, New York while formulating technology that will recycle metal ions from waste for industrial and environmental purposes.

Her contributions are greatly honoured as a woman.

Sheryl Swoop is the first player to be signed in the WNBA born March 25, 1971. She is an American former professional basketball player. A three-time WNBA MVP.

Swoop was named one of the league’s Top 15 Players of All Time at the 2011 WNBA All-Star Game. She has won three Olympic gold medals and is one of ten women’s basketball players to have won an Olympic gold medal, an NCAA Championship, and a WNBA title. She was inducted into the Women’s Basketball Hall of Fame.

From dunks, adrenaline rush and victory points in basketball Sheryl Denise Swoopes knows it all too well.

Swoopes developed an early passion for the game, playing pick-up games with her three older brothers. Soon after, she began competing at age seven in a local children’s league called Little Dribblers. She later played basketball at Brownfield High School. Although recruited by the University of Texas, Swoopes enrolled at South Plains College.

After playing at South Plains for two years, Swoopes transferred to Texas Tech, near her hometown, setting several basketball records before moving on to become a professional basketball player for the Houston Comets and later the Seattle Storm.

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Sheryl Swoopes

A few of Swoope’s noted accomplishments in her lifetime include; the NCAA Women’s Basketball Championship in 1993, 1993 Sports Woman of the year by Women’s Sports Foundation, three Olympic gold medals, 1993 Female Associated Press Athlete of the Year Award as well as the Honda Sports Award for basketball in 1993.

Others include being named one of the 20 Female Athletes of the decade (2000 to 2010) by Sports Illustrated and being inducted to the Naismith Memorial Basketball Hall of Fame in 2016. She was also later inducted into the Women’s Basketball Hall of Fame in 2017. Swoopes is also the first Women’s basketball player to have a Nike shoe named after her: The Air Swoopes.

“I have spent the last two months in and out of surgeries with my eldest daughter, and days ago watched her younger sister go under the knife for a hip surgery.

 

They know that I am writing this, because I respect their privacy and we discussed it together and they encouraged me to write. They understand that going through medical challenges and fighting to survive and heal is something to be proud of.

She wrote, “I have watched my daughters care for one another. My youngest daughter studied the nurses with her sister, and then assisted the next time. I saw how all my girls so easily stopped everything and put each other first, and felt the joy of being of service to those they love.”

She then praised her girls for their strength.
“I also watched them face their fears with a resolute bravery,” Jolie said, adding, “We all know that moment when no one else can help us, and all we can do is close our eyes and breathe.

Angelina also gave her three boys a special shout-out, writing that they have been “supportive and sweet”.

She concluded the essay with a message.
“My wish on this day is that we value girls. Care for them. And know that the stronger they grow, the healthier they will be and the more they will give back to their family and community,” Jolie wrote.

Jolie shares her six children with former husband Brad Pitt. The couple split after two years of marriage and 12 years of been together previously.

Our hair can be major detractor when it comes to swimming. While swim caps are an option for some, most do not accommodate Afro texture hair which is usually too thick for the cap and doesn’t protect it fully.

For 38-year-old Danielle Obe, living in London, she wanted to find a way to encourage her daughter to learn how to swim. Six-year-old Kayla began to dread going to the pool because of her hair; Obe had given up on swimming for over two decades because she did not want to risk damaging her fragile coils. She told Metro UK that she was tired of the time-consuming routine when it came to her hair.

“The chlorine dries out the hair, causing it to be frizzy, brittle and ‘thirsty,’ which is what causes breakage, hair thinning, and—in some cases for women with processed, delicate hair—it falls off if the hair is not thoroughly washed out, conditioned, and rehydrated,” said Obe. “Getting into any type of aquatic activity then was a huge no-no. I couldn’t go swimming in the evening after work. If I did, how would I turn up for client meetings the next morning? Kayla hates getting soap in and around her face, so when it came time to wash her hair after swimming, she would scream and scream.”

This constant problem led her to create, Nemes, waterproof headscarves specially designed for black women’s hair.

Afro texture hair is more fragile than other types of hair and is specifically more vulnerable to chemicals in the chlorine found in swimming pools that makes hair drier. The time it takes to replace that moisture after swimming and styling can be very off-putting for black women looking to swim on a frequent basis. Obe and her daughter decided to experiment with different swim caps and nothing worked. It was through trial and error that led Obe to create something of her own.

Obe invented her swim caps, based on ancient Egyptian designs, to protect all hair types in the water. Now her entire family uses them. She also created the Black Swimming Association in partnership with Swim England after a recent report from Sport England revealed that 95% of black adults and 80% of black children living in the United Kingdom do not go swimming.

“After I created the design, I began sharing it with people. My aim was to encourage more people to go swimming, but we have also found many people use them in the shower, or to re-hydrate their hair,” she said. “The Nemes can be used by everyone, not just BAME [black, Asian and minority ethnic] people, to swim, steam, spa or shower, and protect color-treated hair in chlorine water so hair color lasts longer, and most especially, designed for Afro-Caribbean hair and hairstyles.’

The headscarves are currently available for pre-order and will go on sale this spring.

 

Source: Black Enterprise