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DJ Cuppy was a guest at the Pulse studio on Tuesday, November 8, 2017, where she spoke about being successful in a male-dominated industry, relationships with other female artist and sexual harassment in the Nigeria entertainment industry.

When asked about the new revelations of sexual harassment scandals rocking the Hollywood industry and if there are incidents like that in the Nigeria entertainment industry, DJ Cuppy gave her own account which she feels was a very horrible experience.

“This is such a sensitive thing over here, it’s more like a taboo, even outside the entertainment industry there is so much domestic abuse going out there and people don’t confront it. I  definitely can imagine if that goes on for entertainment, it must be really horrible to go through I can’t imagine how painful it is to go through that”

“Imagine feeling trapped like they aren’t going to play my music anymore or I’m not going to get bookings or shows anymore just because I’m exposing that person, that must be horrible. Its tough but I feel like things are changing, we are really modernizing slowly as a society and I feel like anyone going through this might get more support than they think”

Speaking of how she is able to succeed in a male dominated industry, DJ Cuppy said

Not to put down all the men watching on Pulse, I feel like men just have too much ego and I feel like realizing this just helps you. I have deejayed for gigs and have had male DJs perform before me or after me, I let them do their thing, I’m not trying to be the biggest person there. It a bit like dating someone, you just kinda pretend to make them feel more important or more valued.

“It’s really difficult being a woman because a lot of times we have to work twice hard to achieve half. I have seen this happen every day, all my managers are females, my interns are females, we have to kick down doors to make things happen so, I have learned to kind of accept and I think like Tiwa Savage said something along the line about how it is.”

She also explained

“I met people as a strong confident, young female DJ, it really put people off as a young and black, it was really scaring people. So, I have learned to make people feel comfortable because most times its like people don’t like confident women, it’s almost like it scares them,” she explained.

DJ Cuppy shed more light on the relationship Nigeria female artists have between themselves which she explained isn’t so cordial but that she is working hard to bring everybody together.

“I do have female fans and I call them cupcakes and a lot of them are very young and they look at me like someone, I went through my education, I haven’t had any scandals and I’m still following my dreams, I’m still in entertainment but I’m living a balanced lifestyle. Having moved back to Nigeria, I’m really seeing the issues between a lot of female artists that’s why I really really really want to be the one to bring back together. I’m friends and cordial with a lot of the female artist even with the female DJs, I’m cool with Nana and super cool with Lambo. I feel like I really don’t know what the issue is, maybe I am different, she revealed.

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Popular Nigerian actress, Dakore Egbuson-Akande, has said she is willing to donate her cornea to the blind when she dies.

The mother of two announced this yesterday via her Instagram page.

She wrote:

“I pledged my cornea to Eye bank of Nigeria, and what that means is when I leave this earth I willingly donate my cornea to help give the gift of sight especially as I would no longer be needing it…”
Then she proceeded to ask fans about their opinions. “What are your views on this and becoming a donor in general?
“I would really appreciate your kind feedback so we can start the conversation…will you be willing to do it for a loved one or a stranger?
“How do you SEE it? Factors that prevent most people from doing this is fear but of what exactly?” she asked.

See her IG post below:

 

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My Awesome #Dakorefam 🤗✨ hope you’re having an awesome Tuesday so far? My #tbt is fairly recent…I was officially unveiled as the Ambassador for the Eye bank of Nigeria with the aim of sensitizing the public about the need for Cornea donors to help those with reversible blindness. 😇👁I pledged my cornea that day and what that means is when I leave this earth I willingly donate my cornea to help give the gift of sight especially as I would no longer be needing it….what are your views on this and becoming a donor in general? I would really appreciate your kind feedback so we can start the conversation…will you be willing to do it for a loved one or a stranger? How do you SEE it? Factors that prevent most people from doing this is fear but of what exactly? Do share your comments…♥️✨🙏🏾 #Iamacorneadonor #NowISEEcampaign #Doyou? #slayforacause

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Nigerian singer, Chidinma Ekile, just made her movie debut with “The Bridge”, and it is a movie directed by award-winning director by Kunle Afolayan and Produced by Lasun Ray.

‘The Bridge’ follows Obadare, who is Yoruba prince and Stella, a young lady from a distinguished Igbo family whose relationship is threatened by tribal prejudice and parental plans for each’s life.

When the couple secretly weds against their parents’ wishes, the consequence shakes the very foundation and sustenance of both families.

Chidinma will be featuring in this film alongside Demola Adedoyin, Ayo Mogaji, Zack Orji, Kunle Afolayan, Tina Mba, Adebayo Salami, Lere Paimo and more.

Here is the photo:

 

 

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Fathia Williams, veteran Nollywood actress has spoken on her crashed marriage with Fellow actor, Saidi Balogun and ways in which the separation affected her.

It would be recalled that duo who are top stakeholders in the entertainment industry parted ways in 2006 over allegations of infidelity from both sides.

Fathia in an exclusive interview with BroadwayTV has shared that her biggest down in life which threw her off her faith was the crash of her marriage.

We have excerpts from her interview

 On what went wrong in the marriage

Well everything in life is about luck. When I was growing up, the first thing that would come to my mind was to have a very glamorous wedding, my husband, with everything, have two kids and everything.

You have plans for the future, but when you go into the first one and it didn’t work and you went into the second one it didn’t work, that means marriage luck is not on your side. So I think I am one of those ones that marriage luck is not by their side.

On who owns the blame in the disruption of the marriage

I don’t want to fault anybody, because I have my own fault and they have their own fault. But I think for my own fault, I adjusted myself, I adjusted my lifestyle. I adjusted everything around me. So I want to say maybe some other time I will be lucky.

On if they are officially divorced

Well, we are not officially divorced because the case is still in court. So since we are not divorced by the court, we are not officially divorced.

On the rumours that she and her ex are back together

We are friends. I have two kids for him, so obviously once in a while we say hello or say something. We are just friends…good friends.

On the possibility of reuniting with Saidi Balogun

I don’t know, I just want keep that *. I don’t know.

 

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This year’s Miss Peru 2018 pageant was noticeably different than those in prior years, with contestants sharing stories of gender abuse in place of sexist requests for their bodily measurements. More than 20 women opted to give facts about human trafficking, harassment and abuse instead of answering questions regarding their waist and bust sizes. 

Contestant Camila Canicoba of Lima, for example, explained,

“my measurements are: 2,202 cases of femicide reported in the last nine years in my country.” 

Contestant Juana Acevedo further added,

“my measurements are: more than 70 percent of women in our country are victims of street harassment.”

The winner of the event, 20-year-old Romina Lozano of Callaomy said her measurements were the “3,114 women victims of trafficking up until 2014.”

While the act of protest came as a surprise for viewers, the script change was actually organized ahead of the event in solidarity with the contestants. To drive the efforts home, images of newspaper stories illustrating violence against women were even projected behind the contestants.

Miss Peru 2018 organizer Jessica Newton expressed to Buzzfeed News further expressed sentiments of solidarity with women in combatting gender violence, explaining:

“Everyone who does not denounce and everyone who does not do something to stop this is an accomplice.

Adding to the conversation revolving victim-blaming and slut-shaming, Newtown explained, “Women can walk out naked if they want to. Naked. It’s a personal decision. If I walk out in a bathing suit I am just as decent as a woman who walks out in an evening dress.”

The bold move on part of the contestants and pageant organizers is part of a broader movement taking shape across Latin American countries. Using the phrase Ni una menos, meaning “not one [woman] less,” women are rallying together to combat gender-based violence and change the daunting statistics the contestants expressed.

 

Source: konbini.com

 

Jessica Geneva Florence, a 24 year old lady has shared her story about how she was diagnosed with cancer and how she has managed to live with it.

24-year-old Jessica Geneva Florence on Instagram revealed how she conquered breast cancer after being diagnosed at age 22 .

According to her, after she was diagnosed, she thought she would never be the same again or live happily because she had lost the very core of her feminity.

Here is what she wrote on Instagram

“FIRST OF ALL … My name is Jessica Geneva Florence. I am now 24 years old, and I survived , better yet SLAYED breast cancer! Death to this silent monster!!! I am finally putting you to rest. Today I had my last treatment and it feels so amazing to reach the finish line !!

When I was diagnosed at the age of 22, I never thought I would ever feel like the same woman I was before I lost the only thing I knew, made me a woman. To the freedom and liberation I feel is like no other .You constantly battle that feeling of being pretty and hideous as if you’re the monster who killed the only you you knew.

Big shouts to @ihartericka because it is most definitely a lonely personal battle..she inspires me to not be afraid to get out there and love again , and most importantly to love who I am , what I’ve endured, and who I will be come. October has come to an end yet we feel this is the only time to bring awareness and support breast cancer.

We will honor ALL fighters and ALL survivors year round ! We will not be celebrated for just one month ! #breastcancerawareness#cancersucks #mastectomy #expanders #melaninpoppin #breastcancer#breastimplantremoval – @nemosnaps Thanks for this amazing vision and creation.”

 

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Would you believe this was me a year ago?!? Well it is…It took a lot for me to post this but did you notice that smile?! I want to tell you that this was not the most beautiful journey I don’t look like this anymore but you have to embrace the struggle !!… I was stage 3A, HER2+, taking the chemo drugs (taxotere , herceptin, perjeta, and carboplatin) through chemotherapy I did 6 rounds every 3 weeks and I was sick all the time, I couldn’t keep food down, the nausea was unbearable, not to mention the medicine makes you feel insane and crazy !! My face broke out in open sores from all the medicine ..I cried everyday for months because I couldn’t stand to look at myself and how ugly I looked! Make sure you tell your breast cancer survivor she is beautiful if she a female ! Males you are handsome because they get breast cancer too ! Don’t let this part in your journey get you down it is only temporary ! God will always see you through ! BEFORE & AFTER 💕 big shouts to @jefferyk_ on the camera and @iamkayponds for the hair ! Please tag my MUA 😍 #cancersucks #breastcancerawarness #breastcancer

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FIRST OF ALL … My name is Jessica Geneva Florence. I am now 24 years old, and I survived , better yet SLAYED breast cancer! 💕 Death to this silent monster!!! I am finally putting you to rest. Today I had my last treatment and it feels so amazing to reach the finish line !! When I was diagnosed at the age of 22, I never thought I would ever feel like the same woman I was before I lost the only thing I knew, made me a woman. To the freedom and liberation I feel is like no other .You constantly battle that feeling of being pretty and hideous as if you’re the monster who killed the only you you knew. Big shouts to @ihartericka because it is most definitely a lonely personal battle..she inspires me to not be afraid to get out there and love again , and most importantly to love who I am , what I’ve endured, and who I will be come. October has come to an end yet we feel this is the only time to bring awareness and support breast cancer. We will honor ALL fighters and ALL survivors year round ! We will not be celebrated for just one month ! #breastcancerawareness #nemosnaps #cancersucks #mastectomy #expanders #melaninpoppin #breastcancer #breastimplantremoval 📷- @nemosnaps Thanks for this amazing vision and creation ❤️

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Anok Yai, a sophomore at Plymouth State University has signed a  modelling contract days after her photo went viral online.

The stunning model last weekend attended the historically Black university’s homecoming festivities when she was spotted and photographed by Stephen Hall who was taking photos of stylish attendees.

After snapping a photo of Yai, Hall posted the photo to his Instagram account with the  caption:

“Saw her right at the end of Yardfest. Stunning @anokyai”

Surprisingly, Anok on Tuesday, signed a major modelling contract with Next Models and she is so excited about it.

In an interview with The Boston Globe, she talked about how she had never thought the photo could go viral but had experienced something entirely different from her imaginations.  After receiving over 13,000 likes, the photo however ended up going viral.

In her words:

“My phone just started vibrating rapidly for a long, long time. At first, I honestly thought someone made a meme of me or something.”

We have the post with the announcement below:

 

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From @instagram #sensation to the world of global top modeling, @nextmodels is pleased to announce that we now represent @anokyai globally! #anokyai #nextmodels #global. 📷 of pic on the left is @thesunk

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Michelle Obama, Former First Lady of United State said at the first Obama Foundation international summit which held on Wednesday, the 1st of November that parents were the ones who created gender inequality by raising their children differently.

She was of the opinion that men are raised to be babies and protected by women , who are brought up to be strong.

The First Lady also asserted that that men are ‘entitled and self-righteous’ because women protect them too much.

The couple’s plans to invite civic leaders to Chicago for a summit was primarily in order for them to exchange ideas and plan ways to solve some of the world’s common problems.

The former president said the summit would bring “hundreds of leaders from all around the world for a hands-on exchange of ideas.” and this  is exactly what happened.

Here are some interesting things Michelle said in her chat.

 1. On her parents helping her to grow beyond racism

“My parents helped us to grow. They were raised in the Jim Crow period but they encouraged us to rise above being black.”

2. On her marriage to Barrack

Michelle asserted that she and her husband make a powerful team and work so well together because he operates with his head while she operates with her heart.

3. On the cause of gender strife in the world

It’s like the problem in the world today is we love our boys, and we raise our girls,’

4. On how men are raised

‘We raise them to be strong, and sometimes we take care not to hurt men – and I think we pay for that a little bit.

5. On how people think girls should be perfect

‘Are we protecting our men too much so they feel a little entitled and self-righteous sometimes? But, that’s kind of on us too as women and mothers, as we nurture men and push girls to be perfect.’

6. On women befriending women

“Y’all should get you some friends,” “And talk to each other, because that’s the other thing [women] do — we straighten each other out on some things, our girlfriends.”

7. On raising children

“We have to raise our children to be compassionate and that is not different with sexes. Our view is that parents should encourage their kids to be responsible”

 

 

 

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Tonto Dikeh is sure ready to kick out hunger in conjunction with The Kokun Foundation though she also has her own foundation.

The Tonto Dikeh Foundation is a non governmental organisation founded by the popular Talented African actress which focuses on giving support to young girls who has been either raped, molested or assaulted.

Kokun foundation who shared the photos wrote:

Beautiful Thursday morning with Our Special People! Today was an amazing day because we have enough food.. Our daily mission is simple, to put food in table of our hungry neighbours and everyone struggling with hunger. Lets Do more than talk because Promises will not end hunger and Let’s ensure that know family or anyone around us goes hungry….. #share Happiness. # End Hunger #Food is Right For Everyone… With @tontolet

 

 

 

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