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Erepade Isiayei is a Nigerian resident of Germany and a highly accomplished professional dedicated to positively impacting society. As the founder of the Erepade International Children Empowerment Foundation, an esteemed non-governmental organization (NGO), she has demonstrated an unwavering commitment to enhancing educational opportunities in Africa.

With a lifelong pursuit of knowledge, Erepade has consistently embraced the role of a student. Presently, she holds the position of International Marketing Manager in a cutting-edge Hi-Tech company in Germany, where she leverages her expertise to contribute to the advancement of dental healthcare in Nigeria.

Beyond her professional achievements, Erepade is an inspiring social change agent, driven by her deep-rooted passions for social entrepreneurship, refugee support, and promoting girl child education. Her extensive volunteer experience spanning over 7 years has seen her actively engaged in local and international NGOs, dedicating her efforts to community development projects to empower children, youth, and women.

Erepade Isiayei’s multifaceted background and unwavering dedication to philanthropy exemplify her as a transformative force, poised to shape a brighter future for individuals and communities alike. In this interview with Esther Ijewere, she shares her inspiring story.

Childhood Influence

Everything that I am doing now is a reflection of my upbringing. Being the child of two amazing teachers I had to learn from an early age to be a role model.

Seeing my father’s generosity to the less privileged inspired me from an early age to become a giver and that validates the bible verse that says “Train up a child in the way it should go – and when it is old it will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6).

My upbringing in Nigeria, coupled with the loss of my parents and the responsibility of being part of a large family, has shaped me into a determined and adaptable individual. It has prepared me to face life’s challenges head-on and strive for success in my current pursuits.

The inspiration behind Erepade International Children Empowerment Foundation

My inspiration to start the Erepade International Children Empowerment Foundation can be traced back to the values instilled in me by my parents, particularly her father’s humanitarian work and dedication to education. Growing up in a household where humility and education were emphasized, I witnessed firsthand the transformative power of education and the impact it had on individuals and communities. My father’s commitment to sponsoring scholarships out of his pocket and supporting his students in various ways left a lasting impression on me.

Secondly, due to the wide-spreading notion of “who school help”  in Nigeria and the negative effects it was been having on children and young people, I decided to come up with Erepade International Children Empowerment Foundation to promote education and entrepreneurial projects and to encourage young people to realize that education is still the key to having a competitive advantage on the world stage. So my motivation for starting the foundation stems more or less from a genuine desire to give back, inspired by my father’s humanitarianism and my own belief in being the change I want to see.

The journey so far

It hasn’t been easy for sure. I had to face issues with sponsorships, problems with project ideas and mobilization, validating the authenticity of some beneficiaries, coping with personal family issues, and focusing on work and studies.

Since starting the Erepade International Children Empowerment Foundation, the journey has been both challenging and rewarding. Establishing and running an organization dedicated to children’s education and empowerment comes with its own set of hurdles, but the impact it has made on the lives of children has been truly fulfilling.

Challenges

Some challenges I’ve had were about supporting young girls who give up in the long run or drop out of school due to teenage pregnancy. I also faced situations where children I was sponsoring were picked up by relatives in the middle of the project.

Some other challenges include; securing consistent and sustainable funding, creating awareness and outreach, collaborating with other organizations, government agencies, and educational institutions, monitoring and evaluation, volunteering, etc.

How my work has inspired other women

Through my work at the Children empowerment foundation, I have had the privilege of inspiring and empowering other women around me in various ways.

My projects have inspired other women to go to school and become independent and have also been a reason for a few of them to see the need to organize their projects to support the less privileged in their little ways. I have the case of a young woman, Toyin Bolarinwa, who amazed me with her food project in Delta State after I supported her some time ago.

Other projects and activities

I’m actively volunteering for old people and people with disabilities. I was able to complete my first book, which is in publication.

Recently I had a project to support students suffering from dyscalculia because I am also a victim of it. The highlight of my projects is: God is using me as an instrument to support a young lady to get out of a legal procedure and I’m looking forward to seeing her back to university with my other beneficiaries who are more like children to me.

What I enjoy most about my job

As the founder of the Erepade International Children Empowerment Foundation, several aspects of my job bring me immense joy and fulfillment. Here are a few things I enjoy most; I enjoy seeing the results and the success stories of my beneficiaries. It makes me feel like a mother with so many amazing daughters. I’m excited in 2023 I will have my first two graduates from the Delta State University Abraka, and Ignatius Ajuru.

 Impacting lives positively, Empowering Others, creating sustainable change

In summary, what I enjoy most about my job is the ability to make a meaningful impact on children’s lives, empower individuals and communities, create sustainable change, collaborate with a passionate team, experience personal growth, and inspire others along the way. These aspects collectively make my job fulfilling and worthwhile.

3 women who inspire me and Why

Michelle Obama, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, Nse Ikpe Etim

And I would like to add Cynthia Adaeze Chinule because she didn’t just inspire me as a woman but she was more like an angel sent from heaven to put me back on track. She was an orphan who lost her father quite early, got into university but had no money for tuition, got the MTN scholarship, graduated with a first class in mathematics, went on to get a lot of prestigious fellowships worldwide, was featured on BBC, built a toilet for a secondary school in rivers state, founder of Maths Afrique and is still doing so many amazing things. Cynthia has taught me there are no excuses for failure in life and academics.

Advice for parents who don’t have time for their children

If I could say one thing to parents who don’t have time for their children, it would be this: prioritize quality time and meaningful connections with your children, for it is an investment that will shape their lives and your relationship with them.

Children thrive when they receive love, attention, and guidance from their parents. While it’s understandable that life can be busy and demanding, it’s crucial to carve out dedicated time to be present and engaged with your children.

Prioritizing time for your children may require some adjustments in your routines, schedules, or commitments. It’s a conscious choice to invest in the well-being and happiness of your children. The benefits of building a strong and loving relationship with your children will far outweigh any sacrifices or adjustments made along the way.

So, make the most of the time you have with your children, treasure these precious moments, and let them know they are a priority in your life.

How we can support children living in abusive homes

Supporting children living in abusive homes is of utmost importance to ensure their safety and well-being. Some actions can be taken to help such as;

recognizing the Signs, creating a safe environment, reporting suspected abuse to relevant authorities, offering emotional support, seeking professional assistance, raising awareness about child abuse and so on.  The safety and well-being of every child should always be the top priority.

Being a Woman of Rubies

 I’m a woman who strives to empower and inspire others to become the best version of themselves. I would say I’m a good example of what Abraham Lincoln meant when he said “Think not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country”.

To a young person who is on the verge of giving up

Don’t give up. Even in the face of challenges, remember that you have the strength and resilience to overcome them. God has already bestowed on you solutions to every problem you are facing. Just look inside yourself, and you will find the answers you seek.

 How do I stay connected with my beneficiaries despite living in different countries

It’s important to stay connected and communicate directly with my beneficiaries but it’s quite difficult so I try to adapt and be flexible in finding the most effective means of staying connected based on the available resources, technological capabilities, and the specific needs of the beneficiaries. By maintaining open lines of communication, being responsive, and showing a genuine interest in their progress, I have been able to foster a strong and enduring connection despite the physical distance.

 

Parenthood is a journey filled with joy, challenges, and countless questions. From sleepless nights to potty training, every stage brings its own set of hurdles. Thankfully, there are experts like Temi Olajide who are dedicated to providing parents with the knowledge and support they need to navigate these challenges successfully. As a Certified Child Sleep and Potty Training Consultant, as well as a Child Psychologist, Temi is revolutionizing the way parents approach child rearing in Nigeria and beyond.

Meet Temi Olajide

Temi Olajide is a trailblazer in the field of child psychology and parenting. She proudly holds the title of Nigeria’s first certified child sleep consultant and is the Founder and Lead Strategist at Mummyclinic Global Services, a groundbreaking organization established in December 2017. Mummyclinic is an online platform that offers practical strategies and result-driven solutions for the everyday challenges of raising children.

Temi’s Journey

Temi’s journey to becoming a renowned child sleep and potty training consultant began with her own experiences as a mother. Faced with the difficulties of juggling the demands of life and motherhood, she recognized the need for comprehensive guidance tailored to the digital age. Determined to find solutions, Temi delved into the world of child psychology, equipping herself with the knowledge and expertise needed to help other mothers facing similar struggles.

Mummyclinic Global Services

Mummyclinic Global Services is more than just a sleep training platform for children in West Africa. It serves as a lifeline for mothers, providing them with the necessary tools to successfully navigate the demands of modern-day parenting. Through personalized consultations, online resources, and a supportive community, Temi and her team empower mothers to combine the requirements of life and motherhood effectively.

Impacting Lives

Since its establishment, Mummyclinic Global Services has made a profound impact on the lives of countless mothers and their children. Within the first year alone, Temi successfully worked with over 1500 mothers, guiding them through the challenges of child rearing and ensuring their little ones received adequate sleep and effective potty training. Her approach is holistic, taking into account the unique circumstances and needs of each family.

Expertise and Accomplishments

Temi Olajide’s qualifications extend beyond her certification in Child Psychology, Potty Training, and Child Sleep Behavior. She holds a B.Sc. in Chemistry, a certification in Introductory Journalism from the London College of Media and Journalism, and a Makeup Artistry and Aesthetic Spa certification. Her diverse skill set enables her to offer a well-rounded approach to parenting, considering both the emotional and practical aspects of child-rearing.

Wi-Fi Kids and Analog Parents

In addition to her consulting work, Temi is the author of the highly acclaimed book “Wi-Fi Kids and Analog Parents.” This comprehensive guide equips parents with the knowledge and tools necessary to raise well-rounded children in the digital age. Drawing from her expertise and personal experiences, Temi provides valuable insights and practical strategies that help parents strike a balance between technology and essential life skills.

Temi Olajide’s journey from being a concerned mother to becoming a leading figure in child psychology and parenting is an inspiring one. Through her organization, Mummyclinic Global Services, she has transformed the lives of numerous mothers and children, offering guidance and support in the complex world of child-rearing. Her dedication, expertise, and commitment to empowering parents in the digital age have solidified her status as a trusted authority in the field. With Temi’s guidance, parents can confidently navigate the challenges of raising children while ensuring their well-being and success in today’s ever-changing world.

Connect with Temi Olajide

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In a spectacular display of culinary prowess and sheer determination, Hilda Baci, the 27-year-old Nigerian TV producer, actress, and head cook at MyFoodbyHilda, has shattered records by cooking for an astonishing 100 hours and 45 minutes. Hilda’s remarkable achievement in the cook-a-thon has left the culinary world astounded and inspired.

Hilda Baci Guinness Record
Hilda Baci- Guinness World Record Holder

The cook-a-thon, which commenced on May 11 and concluded on May 14, captivated audiences through a live-streamed show on various social media platforms. Hilda’s relentless dedication and unwavering focus were on full display as she masterfully prepared an extensive repertoire of dishes during this marathon event.

Hilda’s triumph is the culmination of years of passion, hard work, and preparation. Since embarking on her culinary journey, she has honed her skills, perfected her techniques, and embraced creativity in the kitchen. Her unwavering commitment to her craft, combined with her unwavering determination, has propelled her to unprecedented heights.

Breaking records was not the sole purpose of Hilda’s cook-a-thon. She also aimed to shine a spotlight on the rich culinary heritage of Nigeria and Africa as a whole. Each dish she meticulously crafted carried the essence of tradition, culture, and the diverse flavors that make African cuisine truly unique. Through her cooking, Hilda aimed to share the stories, traditions, and vibrant spirit of the continent.

Breaking Boundaries

Hilda’s groundbreaking achievement also serves as an inspiration to countless young individuals around the world. By pushing the boundaries of what is perceived as possible, she demonstrates the extraordinary strength and resilience that lies within each of us. Hilda’s triumph reminds us that with dedication, perseverance, and a clear vision, we can surpass even our wildest dreams.

The previous Guinness World Record for the longest cooking marathon stood at 87 hours, 45 minutes, and 00 seconds. Hilda’s monumental feat of cooking for over 100 hours is an incredible milestone that redefines culinary boundaries and sets a new standard for culinary excellence.

Putting Lagos on the Map

The cook-a-thon took place at Amore Garden, Lekki, Lagos, providing a vibrant and energetic atmosphere for participants and spectators alike. As Hilda tirelessly cooked her way to victory, guests had the opportunity to witness her extraordinary talent firsthand, immersing themselves in the world of flavors, aromas, and culinary delight.

Hilda Baci’s extraordinary achievement in the cook-a-thon is not only a personal triumph but a celebration of culinary artistry, perseverance, and the indomitable spirit. Through her remarkable accomplishment, she has solidified her place as a true culinary trailblazer, inspiring aspiring chefs and enthusiasts worldwide.

Lessons from Hilda Baci’s Record-Breaking Feat

As we celebrate Hilda’s incredible feat, let us also reflect on our own aspirations and the limitless possibilities that lie ahead. Hilda’s record-breaking achievement reminds us that no dream is too audacious and no goal too ambitious. With passion, dedication, and an unwavering belief in ourselves, we can overcome any obstacle and achieve greatness.

Hilda Baci
Hilda Baci and her Mom

Join us in applauding Hilda Baci for her exceptional talent, determination, and relentless pursuit of excellence. Her monumental success in the cook-a-thon marks a new chapter in the world of culinary accomplishments and establishes her as a true icon in the realm of gastronomy. Hilda’s legacy will continue to inspire generations of chefs, and her name will forever be etched in the annals of culinary history.

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Meet the amazing woman who inspired Hilda Baci to break the Guinness World Record for the longest cooking time by an individual. Her name is Lata Tondon, a talented chef hailing from India. Lata cooked for an astonishing 87 hours and 45 minutes, and she had been the only woman to ever hold the record before Hilda came along and changed the narrative.

Chef Lata’s Culinary Skills

Lata Tondon’s culinary skills have not gone unnoticed. She holds a multitude of national and international awards, including recognition from the India Book of Records, the Asia Book of Records, the Indo-China Book of Records, the Vietnam Book of Records, the Laos Book of Records, and the Nepal Book of Records, to name just a few. Among her many accolades, she was awarded the prestigious title of International Indian Chef of the Year in 2018.

Chef Lata Tondon

Her Guinness World Record Journey

During her record-breaking feat, Chef Lata cooked an impressive amount of food, totalling over 1,600 kg. This included 400 vada pavs, 250 sandwiches, and other local delicacies, all prepared over four days. The event attracted over 20,000 visitors, including children from orphanages, blind schools, and members of old-age homes. It was a heartwarming occasion that brought joy and nourishment to many.

Chef Lata’s culinary journey has been enriched by learning from renowned chefs such as Gordon Ramsey and Jamie Oliver, among others. Her commitment to her craft and her relentless pursuit of excellence have been truly inspiring. In recognition of her extraordinary achievement, Chef Lata Tondon was honoured with a Ph.D. degree from the World Record University in London, further solidifying her place as a trailblazer in the culinary world.

Chef Lata Tondon
Chef Lata Tondon – First Guinness World Record Holder for longest cooking time

Chef Lata Tondon Passion for Cooking

When asked about her passion for cooking, Chef Lata revealed that she had been fascinated with the art since childhood. She expressed her gratitude for having a supportive family and friends who helped nurture her passion and turn it into a successful profession. It is through their unwavering support that she was able to achieve remarkable milestones and inspire others to follow their dreams.

Lata Tondon

In conclusion, we celebrate Chef Lata Tondon for her exceptional talent and determination. She has not only broken records but also touched the lives of thousands through her culinary endeavours. Her dedication to her craft and her ability to bring joy to others through food makes her a true inspiration. As she continues to pave the way for aspiring chefs around the world, Chef Lata Tondon remains a shining example of what can be achieved when passion, skill, and perseverance intertwine.

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I could see him. His tiny nose, mouth, eyes, and teeny-weeny forehead. That’s a living, breathing human inside of me. He was just five months old and I could see him clearly with this 3D scan. They told me he’ll be handsome and tall. I laughed amidst my drying tears. We went back to the doctor’s office to discuss the details of the scan. And that was where they broke the news to me.

“We found something unusual in his lungs. They may be cysts. We are not sure but it could be dangerous. Let’s watch it for a few weeks but consider aborting this baby if it’s something serious,” the doctor said.

That word, ‘abortion’, rang like a bell in my head. I wasn’t sure I heard the Mandarin-speaking nurse so I said, “Shenme?” (Meaning ‘what’ in Mandarin). My precious doctor, without any hesitation, went ahead to explain the whole thing again and asked me if I was sure I wanted to keep this baby. My lips said, “Yes, of course”, but in my mind, I was screaming, “Bia, are you people normal at all? I just saw my baby’s face for the first time and here you are asking silly questions.”

Mothers day

He’s not even a fetus anymore. Why on earth would I want to abort my baby at this point? She obviously couldn’t read my mind as she went ahead to suggest that I talked over the whole situation with my husband before making any decisions. I was confused. My “confuse“ was also confused because this was a woman so reluctant about motherhood that it took her 5 years, Yes, 5 years after getting married to get pregnant. Believe it or not, the Fear of Motherhood is real.

The Fear of motherhood

I grew up in a typical middle-class Igbo family in the Eastern part of Nigeria. I loved Enugu. I still do. The serene, peaceful, family-friendly ‘come-and-retire-here’ vibe of the city was enchanting. No hustling, bustling, and annoying traffic like in the big cities. The people were mostly traders or civil servants working for the government like my mom. My mom was a teacher and she taught pretty much all her life.

I love teachers. I remember mimicking my mom a lot as a child but as I grew up, I had no desire to be like my mom. I truly love my mom but I didn’t exactly want her life. I wanted something more and I felt like the realities and demands of raising children stole her dreams and ambitions. I looked and I could see traces of this narrative all around me.

Aunties, cousins, neighbors, and friends. It’s as if the journey into motherhood was full of sacrifice and compromise and that scared the hell out of me. It looked like the moment you start having children, that’s the end—it’s over. You have to spend the rest of your life raising them primarily. I know people have different notions and even fears but this was it for me. I was the scared motherhood would lead me to oblivion and so I stalled and masked my fears with the fact that my husband had daunting school work as a medical student and he had to finish medical school first. The truth is that motherhood is not a pause on your dreams. There’s no experience like becoming a mother. It is a door opener, a destiny elevator, a purpose propeller, a mind shifter, and a pathfinder. For me, becoming a mother opened up my life.

Ugonne Ann Okonkwo

Despite all the drama that came with birthing my first child, Zite arrived safely into this world in July, 2019. Because of the complications of having him, I spent 18 months in maternity leave. It was a disruption that i didn’t know i needed until it happened. I got the opportunity to truly step back, evaluate my life and figure out what I truly wanted. That was the season I stepped into life as a visionary woman. I started a YouTube channel, wrote a book and launched it (currently working on my second book), hosted webinars and bootcamps, started a podcast, coached young women and mothers, volunteered, and worked on amazing projects with some of my mentors. Motherhood became my trigger and a game changer.

I’m sharing my story to remind a woman out here that motherhood is a miracle. Instead of thinking of this season of your life as a bad disruption, start to look at it as an enormous opportunity. Motherhood is an opportunity to practice a run-through of a deeply spiritual reality. It’s like a dress rehearsal to fulfilling purpose in grand style.

On this special mothers day, I want you to see motherhood with new eyes and be enamored by its sheer brilliance. Celebrate every kind of mother – the working mom, the stay-at-home mom, the single mom, the diaspora mom, the mom in business, the nursing mom, the career mom, the surrogate mom, the professional mom, the spiritual mom, and the waiting mom. Take some time to celebrate yourself as a mother today.

Happy Mother’s Day!

My Bio

Ugonne Ann Okonkwo is a Nigerian-born writer, educator, coach, and the author of the book,

“The Birthing: How to partner with God for your children, your vision and your Nation”

In less than 18 months after having her first child, Ugonne went from a slow, confused, and overwhelmed mother to a multidimensional visionary woman who is birthing and launching different expressions of her vision as the Lord enables her.

She is on a mission to raise visionary mothers- young women who are partnering with God to birth his vision and purpose for their lives per season.

Ugonne is the creator of the “Ugonne Ann” YouTube channel and the host of the birthing visions podcast, a show dedicated to helping visionaries find and birth their God-given visions.

When she’s not writing, speaking, or teaching, Ugonne enjoys reading a thought-provoking book and catching up on a Nigerian web series. She lives with the love of her life, Dr, Isaac and their sons Zite and Nate, in Shenyang, China where she teaches English as a second language to the most adorable Chinese preschoolers.

You can connect with her through her website- www.ugonneann.com or find her on Instagram and Twitter at @ugonneann

We celebrate the remarkable achievement of Nkechi Ahanor Wilson, who was recently awarded the Excellence Service Award at the Remarkable Mothers Award (RMA) Gala 2023. In this post, we will highlight her work in empowering women and her achievements in the business world that led to this recognition. Join us as we celebrate Nkechi Ahanor Wilson’s outstanding contributions to society.

Nkechi Ahanor Wilson receiving her

Meet Nkechi Ahanor Wilson

The Remarkable Mothers Award Gala 2023 honored Nkechi Ahanor Wilson as an excellent service award recipient. This well-deserved recognition and impressive business achievements are due to her commitment to empowering women and promoting gender equality.

As the founder of Shoreline Pacific International, Nkechi has demonstrated her exceptional leadership skills and expertise in business consulting. Her company has assisted numerous businesses in expanding their operations, improving their strategies, and achieving their goals. However, Nkechi’s contributions extend beyond the corporate sphere, as she has been committed to empowering women through various initiatives.

Nkechi Ahanor Wilson’s work in empowering women

Nkechi mentors several women in business, helping them navigate the challenges of entrepreneurship and providing them with guidance and support. And has been actively empowering women in her community and beyond. Her philanthropic work has also promoted education and economic empowerment for women in underserved communities.

As a business consultant, Nkechi has helped numerous women entrepreneurs and professionals succeed in their careers. She has also been actively involved in women’s organizations and events, mentoring and advocating for women’s rights. She has worked tirelessly to support and uplift women, providing them the tools and resources to succeed personally and professionally.

In addition to her work in business consulting, Nkechi has also been involved in various initiatives to empower women. She has organized and participated in events that allow women to connect, share their experiences, and learn from each other.

Overall, Nkechi’s dedication to empowering women has significantly impacted the lives of many, and she continues to inspire women everywhere.

Remarkable Mothers Award recognition

The Remarkable Mothers Award is a prestigious recognition that celebrates women who have made significant contributions to their communities and excelled in their work fields while balancing motherhood. The award recognizes mothers dedicated to making a positive impact in the world while also being outstanding mothers.

Nkechi Ahanor Wilson is a force to be reckoned with, and her dedication to empowering women everywhere has earned her the remarkable mothers award. This recognition is well-deserved, as Nkechi has worked tirelessly to create a safe space for women to connect, learn, and grow.

Nkechi Ahanor Wilson
Nkechi with her friends at the event

Receiving the Excellence Service Award at the Remarkable Mothers Award Gala is evidence of Nkechi Ahanor Wilson’s hard work, dedication, and commitment to excellence. Her passion for making a difference in the world while balancing her roles as a mother and business owner makes her a remarkable mother deserving this recognition.

Nkechi Ahanor Wilson’s achievements in business and women’s empowerment are genuinely remarkable. Her dedication to supporting and uplifting women in her community and beyond is inspiring. Her success as the owner of Shoreline Pacific International is a testament to her hard work and expertise in business consulting.

We congratulate Nkechi Ahanor Wilson on this well-deserved award and wish her continued success in all her endeavors. Her achievements inspire other women, especially mothers, to pursue their dreams and positively impact their communities and industries.

Bukola Ajilore is a Canadian businesswoman using her God-given talent and platforms to encourage other women to dare to be different. Popularly known as “Unstoppable Bukola”, she is a passionate Christian leader, successful businesswoman, and franchise owner based in Canada.

The “Agege Bread” Franchise Owner

Bukola owns the franchise of Grey Matlock Bakery in Ottawa. A Canadian-based business established in 2018 by Adewale Rabiu. The bakery provides a home away from home taste in Canada for all African Caribbean in Ontario, this provides the opportunity to enjoy quality, fresh and home taste traditional Agege bread and birthday cakes at an affordable price.

The Christian Leader and Women’s Advocate

Bukola Ajilore is a passionate Christian leader with a focus on women’s ministry and relationships. She has served several congregations in Canada, Nigeria and Ghana for over 20 years, empowering youth and women to reach their goals in ministry, homes and careers.

Billionaires Partners

Her passion for prayer, marriage and relationships lead her to found Billionaires Partners- a women online prayer platform gathering women across North America weekly to pray over their homes, ministries and careers.

Grey Matlock Bakery
Bukola Ajilore | Founder- Wivesgist

Bukola Ajilore’s Wivesgist

A certified relationship and marriage counsellor, she is also the convener of Wivesgist– a leading wisdom hub for wives and wives-to-be. They hold spiritual re-awakening women monthly events bringing together women across the globe to share wisdom nuggets for their homes, ministries and careers.

Personal life

Unstoppable Bukola is married to her best friend Rotimi and they live with their two teenage daughters in Ottawa, Canada

Bukola’s Advice For Young Couples

They should allow God to lead them and not be led by pressure from anyone or anything. They should know their partner and be ready to be teachable. They should understand that marriage is a journey and not a sprint. Every season has its lesson. They should also surround themselves with the right people and listen to them.

They should learn from people (mistakes and success stories) and be prayerful because marriage is spiritual. They should be ready to leave their father and mother (the familiar) and cleave to their spouse. They should be discerning and allow God. They should also be friends.

 

Hilda Baci: The Nigerian Chef on a Mission to Break Records

In the world of culinary accomplishments, there are chefs who push the boundaries and set new standards. Hilda Baci, a 27-year-old Nigerian TV producer, actress, and head cook at FoodbyHilda, is one such trailblazer. With her sights set on breaking the Guinness World Record for the longest cooking marathon, Hilda is on a mission to make history.

The cook-a-thon kicked off on May 11 and will continue until May 14, featuring a captivating live-streamed show on various social media channels. During this extraordinary event, Hilda plans to showcase her culinary prowess by preparing over 250 recipes, captivating viewers with her culinary skills and creativity.

For Hilda, the journey to this cook-a-thon started five years ago. It has been one of her biggest aspirations, and she is overjoyed to have taken the bold step to embark on this remarkable adventure. The preparations for this marathon have been meticulous, both physically and mentally, as she geared up to take on this formidable challenge.

Beyond breaking a record, Hilda sees this cook-a-thon as an opportunity to share positive stories from Africa through the meals she creates. Each dish will carry with it a taste of the rich heritage, diverse cultures, and vibrant flavors that the continent has to offer. Through her culinary expertise, Hilda aims to showcase the beauty and creativity that emerge from African kitchens, providing a platform to promote the region’s culinary talent.

Hilda also hopes that her record-breaking attempt will inspire and empower young people around the world. With the right platform and support, she believes that young individuals can exhibit remarkable strength and achieve extraordinary feats. By challenging herself and pursuing her dreams, Hilda sets an example for others to follow their passions and push beyond perceived limitations.

The current Guinness World Record for the longest cooking marathon is held by Lata Tondon, who spent an impressive 87 hours, 45 minutes, and 00 seconds cooking in Rewa, India, in 2019. Hilda is determined to surpass this record, showcasing her dedication, resilience, and unwavering commitment to her craft.

The cook-a-thon will take place at Amore Garden, located in Lekki, Lagos, Nigeria. As the event unfolds, guests will have the opportunity to witness Hilda’s culinary prowess firsthand and partake in various side attractions. The atmosphere promises to be electric, with an air of excitement and anticipation permeating throughout the venue.

Hilda Baci is not just a chef; she is a visionary, a trailblazer, and an inspiration to all. Her journey to break the Guinness World Record for the longest cooking marathon represents more than a culinary feat. It symbolizes the endless possibilities that lie within each of us when we dare to dream big and push beyond our limits.

Join Hilda on this exhilarating adventure as she strives to make history, redefine culinary boundaries, and share the rich tapestry of African cuisine with the world. Show your support for this remarkable young chef, and let us witness the power of passion, determination, and the indomitable spirit of Hilda Baci as she leaves an indelible mark on the culinary world.

Hilda Baci

Reaching out to Guinness

The Guinness World Records website is open to anyone from any country; there’s even a section for kids. After Nowe got on board, we went back to the website, filled out the form and submitted it for approval. I applied a couple of times before they approved because it’s similar to applying for a job or school admission; acceptance isn’t automatic.

They eventually emailed us the guidelines and set up my dashboard. After my cook-a-Thon, I’ll have to send them video evidence. Their team will assess and then update my dashboard to say I’d either broken the record or failed.

The recipes for the cook-a-thon

I’ll prepare about 80 recipes, but they’ll be repetitive. I could make Jollof six times in 24 hours. 80% of the recipes will be Nigerian cuisine. I’ll be making many different types of soups, porridge, rice and pasta. It’ll be a public event that people can RSVP to attend and eat as much as they can.

Hilda Baci’s love for cooking

It’s something I’ve always enjoyed doing. The first meal I ever cooked myself was Jollof spaghetti when I was in Primary Four. It was so nice, my mum asked me to make it again. But I goofed. I was seven years old, and it was too much pressure.

Cooking was never my ambition, but it followed me. I’ve always been the best cook in any space. I made the best-fried rice in my Home Economics class in senior secondary school. And in university, my schoolmates would pay me to cook, then take the food to their boyfriends, pretending they made it themselves.

Venue of the cook-a-thon

If you are in Lagos, kindly go to “The Amore Gardens” where the event is taking place to cheer her on! There is also free food!

Update: Hilda won the cook-a-thon by cooking for 100 hours and 45mins

Source: Zikoko and Bellanaija

 

Pamela Anoliefo immigrated with her family to Canada 5 years ago with a burning passion to effect positive change and prove herself. With over fifteen years of experience as a result–oriented Release Train Engineer, Scrum Master and Project Manager with significant expertise working with Waterfall, Hybrid, Agile and Scaled Agile teams, aiding transformation within organizations transitioning from traditional Project Management to Agile, coaching and mentoring newly transitioned Scrum teams. She has a successful track record of executing diverse Fintech, Retail, and Financial Services Industries project portfolios.

Redluxe Consulting

She is the founder and lead trainer at Redluxe Consulting, a full-service training company specializing in Scrum Master training. Redluxe training programs are designed to equip participants with the knowledge, skills, and tools they need to become proficient Scrum Masters, Product Owners, or team members and leaders within their organizations.

Pamele Anoliefo

Pamela is committed to creating a community of Agile practitioners who share a passion for collaboration, innovation, and continuous learning and are committed to positively impacting the world.

Her training programs target immigrants who are new to Canada, requiring training and mentorship to relaunch their careers in Canada. Considering her struggles to land a technology role when she first moved, Pamela provides tailored services to her students using her lived experiences as an immigrant.

Throughout her career Pamela has been a very active volunteer in her community, she was elected to the university council as one of forty councillors at Queen’s University Kingston, Ontario.

The council serves as both an advisory and ambassadorial body to the University as a whole and is responsible for the election of the Chancellor. In addition to having her training company, Pamela has provided free professional training to hundreds of new immigrants to help them land technology roles, and achieve career success and empowerment. Most recently, during international women’s Day in 2023, she ran a campaign to award a free 6-week scrum training mentorship and one-year job coaching to a lucky female immigrant who just moved to Canada.

Watch: How To Start a Career In Scrum- Pamela Anoliefo

Pamela continues to be passionate about raising the next generation of technology leaders while promoting workplace inclusion and diversity while fostering a culture of collaboration, innovation, and continuous learning.

Speaking on the inspiration behind her Redluxe Consulting, the highly sought-after trainer had this to say;

“Most immigrants move to Canada and struggle to find meaningful work that matches their skill sets, therefore seeing this gap, I began to mentor and coach newcomers to Canada to help them land roles in Scrum and Business Analysis. And the more I worked with them, the more I saw how much difference it made in their confidence level and also their ability to land jobs.

Given this success, a lot of my previous mentors and friends urged me to consider starting my consulting firm to extend the impact and scope of my services to empower more people to get into technology even with no prior experience.

As a trainer and coach, I know that empowering people with the necessary skills to start a new career goes a long way in empowering them financially, which in turn makes a difference in their families and the economy as a whole”

Speaking further on what she loves about her job, the Scrum Master said; “As a Scrum Master and Release Train Engineer, I am a servant leader, which means I help other people succeed and this brings me satisfaction seeing how high performing my teams are and the cool products they launch that address customers’ needs or solve a customer’s pain point.

Most importantly, my role provides work-life balance, it is a high-paying technology role and so it checks all the boxes.”

Pamela Anoliefo | Lead Trainer- Redluxe Consulting

Pamela hopes her sector will get more BIPOC  agile professionals into the role, as  there is still a gap in the number of people of colour represented in the agile project management field.’

Connect with Pamela

Phone number: +16472196489

Email: info@redluxeconsulting.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redluxeconsulting/

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Introduction

Women in finance are a force to be reckoned with, breaking through barriers and shattering glass ceilings in an industry long dominated by men. One such woman is Tokunboh Ishmael, a trailblazer in finance with a career spanning over two decades.

Ishmael has made a name for herself in private equity, investment banking, and economic development and is recognized as one of the most influential women in Africa’s financial sector. In this article, we will look closer at Ishmael’s impressive career journey, highlighting her accomplishments, challenges, and insights that can inspire and empower women in finance and beyond.

Early Life and Education

Tokunboh Ishmael was born in Lagos, Nigeria, in 1968. She attended the prestigious Queen’s College, Lagos, for her secondary education and later studied economics at the London School of Economics (LSE). After completing her undergraduate degree, Ishmael earned a Master of Business Administration (MBA) from Harvard Business School in 1994. Her education at these highly regarded institutions gave her a strong foundation for her future career in finance and investment.

First steps In finance: Internships and entry-level positions

After completing her education, Tokunboh Ishmael took her first steps into finance through internships and entry-level positions. She began her career as an investment banker at Salomon Brothers in New York and later worked as a consultant at McKinsey & Company in London.

Milestones

The rise to prominence of Tokunboh Ishmael in the finance industry has been nothing short of remarkable. With a career spanning several decades, Ishmael has amassed an impressive list of achievements and milestones that have cemented her reputation as a leading figure in finance.

One of her key achievements was leading the team that advised on selling a Nigerian oil block for $1.3 billion, one of the most significant transactions in Africa at the time. Additionally, she co-founded Alitheia Identity, a private equity fund focused on investing in women-owned or led businesses in Africa.

Through her innovative ideas and dedication, Ishmael has become a prominent figure in the finance industry and a role model for aspiring women in business. From her early beginnings as an intern and entry-level employee to her current position as a highly respected venture capitalist, Ishmael’s journey has been marked by hard work, determination, and a passion for excellence.

Challenges

Tokunboh Ishmael faced several challenges as a woman in finance, particularly in a field that has historically been male-dominated. Women in finance have often faced biases and discrimination in the workplace, including unequal pay and limited opportunities for advancement.

Additionally, they often lack support and mentorship, making breaking through the industry’s proverbial “glass ceiling” difficult. Despite these challenges, Tokunboh Ishmael persevered and blazed a trail for other women in finance, using her experiences to inspire and empower others.

Here are some challenges that women in finance may face:

  • Gender bias and discrimination in the Workplace
  • Lack of female role models and mentors
  • Difficulty balancing work and family responsibilities
  • Unequal pay and opportunities for career advancement compared to male colleagues
  • Stereotypes and assumptions about women’s abilities in finance
  • Fewer networking opportunities compared to male colleagues
  • Lack of diversity in leadership positions within the finance industry
  • Pressure to conform to male-dominated workplace culture.

Philanthropic Ventures: Giving back to the community

Tokunboh Ishmael knows the importance of philanthropy to impact society positively, and she is an excellent example. Through various philanthropic endeavors, she has given back to the community. Her work in this area is a testament to her dedication to improving the world.

Furthermore, throughout her career, Tokunboh Ishmael has been involved in various philanthropic ventures, including supporting education, health, and entrepreneurship initiatives. Ishmael has also been active in promoting gender equality and empowering women in finance through mentorship programs and speaking engagements. Her commitment to making a positive impact on society serves as an inspiration to many.

Future goals and plans and career development

As a highly accomplished professional in the finance industry, Tokunboh Ishmael continues to strive for excellence and has set her sights on future career goals. She has expressed her desire to increase women’s financial representation and mentor the next generation of leaders. Tokunboh has also mentioned her interest in pursuing more board roles and investing in technology-driven businesses.

In addition to her career aspirations, Tokunboh is passionate about positively impacting the world. She plans to continue her philanthropic ventures and use her platform to empower women and youth through education and entrepreneurship.

With her drive, experience, and dedication, there is no doubt that Tokunboh Ishmael will continue to make significant contributions to the finance industry and beyond.

Advice for aspiring women in finance 

As a successful woman in finance, Tokunboh Ishmael has gained valuable experience and insights throughout her career. She is a true trailblazer who has overcome challenges and achieved remarkable success in her field. Here are some lessons learned and advice from Tokunboh that can inspire and guide aspiring women in finance:

  1. Believe in Yourself: One of the most critical lessons Tokunboh has learned is to believe in yourself and your abilities. Self-confidence is essential to success in any career, but it is vital in finance, where women are still underrepresented.
  2. Persevere Through Challenges: Tokunboh has faced many challenges in her career, but she did not let them discourage her. Instead, she persevered and used each challenge as an opportunity to learn and grow.
  3. Find Mentors and Role Models: Mentors and role models are crucial for career development. They can provide valuable guidance, advice, and support, especially for women in finance who may face unique challenges.
  4. Be Open to New Opportunities: Tokunboh advises aspiring women in finance to be open to new opportunities and experiences. You never know where a unique opportunity may lead or what you may learn from it.
  5. Give Back to the Community: Tokunboh believes in the importance of giving back to the community, and she has been involved in various philanthropic ventures throughout her career. Aspiring women in finance can also find ways to use their skills and expertise to impact the world positively.

Tokunboh Ishmael’s career journey is a shining example for women in finance. Her valuable lessons and advice can inspire and guide aspiring women to achieve success in this dynamic and rewarding field.

Tokunboh Ishmael’s Impact 

Tokunboh Ishmael’s Impact on the Finance Industry in Africa is a topic that highlights the contributions and achievements of Tokunboh Ishmael in shaping the finance industry on the African continent. From her early career in finance to her rise to prominence, Tokunboh has left an indelible mark on the industry through her dedication to creating investment opportunities and supporting entrepreneurship.

Her impact has been felt in various sectors, including private equity, venture capital, and impact investing. Tokunboh Ishmael played several roles in transforming the finance industry in Africa. She co-founded and served as the Managing Director of Alitheia Capital, a leading private equity fund focused on investing in high-growth businesses that empower women and their communities.

Additionally, she served on the boards of several financial institutions and organizations, including the Nigerian Sovereign Investment Authority and the African Venture Capital Association. Through her leadership and dedication, Ishmael has significantly impacted the finance industry in Africa.

Conclusion

In conclusion, Tokunboh Ishmael is an accomplished woman in finance who has significantly impacted Africa’s finance industry. From her early beginnings in finance to rising to prominence and giving back to the community through philanthropic ventures, she has faced and overcome numerous challenges.

Her advice and lessons learned offer valuable insight for aspiring women in finance, and her career continues to inspire and transform the industry. With her visionary leadership and impressive track record, Ishmael will remain a prominent figure in the finance world for years.